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I have been dating this guy for close to three months now. At first, we would talk and chat late at night but all of a sudden, he told me about his younger brother who just came back from school. Since then, he doesn't take or return my calls when he's home. He visits my place often but wouldn't want me to visit his. I have complained about his attitude but he has refused to change. I'm thinking of calling it a quit. Your candid advice please.

You are the side chick

Does his younger brother return have anything to do with the relationship?

Dear, don't force anything. Whoever doesn't love you must not be forced to do it. It's a red flag for a turbulent relationship

My dear, your man is simply not making you a priority and that's a sign to call it quits.

Do you know where he lives?

Na wa o,all this vagina people self,aunty na side chicken u be o

lilije:
I have been dating this guy for close to three months now. At first, we would talk and chat late at night but all of a sudden, he told me about his younger brother who just came back from school. Since then, he doesn't take or return my calls when he's home. He visits my place often but wouldn't want me to visit his. I have complained about his attitude but he has refused to change. I'm thinking of calling it a quit. Your candid advice please.

Come and visit me ,am not married..we will vote buhari together again

Has he banged u? Dude is married

You are a big MUMU Side chick He is married

side chick spotted.

He doesn't want to corrupt his brother. Maybe his brother look up to him and mimmicks everything he does, he doesn't want him to start girlfriend something now. But seriously, all of you need to grow up.

The "brother" is the main girlfriend but don't worry, she will soon go back so that you guys can continue with your fuccklationship.

Main babe dey around,you are the assistant babe.or maybe he is married and wifey is around

assistant girlfriend spotted

You are just boring.

I'm so surprised that such things do happen to women as well...
You must have done something that got him really annoyed..

Well,that bf of yours na my kind of guy..The last shiit I'll ever take from any woman is bearing her rubbish behaviors

I go just leave you for the relationship so that make only dey date yourself until you go realise say I don waka leave you

Somebody's giving you this lamba in this day and time?

Eyah.

doggedfighter:
Do you know where he lives?

Yes, visited only once. He prefers coming over

Nonexistent:
The "brother" is the main girlfriend but don't worry, she will soon go back so that you guys can continue with your fuccklationship.

No sex yet.

dingbang:
You are just boring.

Did I force you to comment?

lilije:
Yes, visited only once. He prefers coming over

And you are sure he's not a married man?

Sailorsoldier1:
Has he banged u? Dude is married

Nothing like banging

lilije:
No sex yet.

Then you have nothing to lose and he has nothing to gain. He may be innocent of my allegation after all. You may want to give him benefit of doubts. I can't advise you because I neither date nor love anyone, sorry.

doggedfighter:
And you are sure he's not a married man?

I'm suspicious of this too

Instead of you to be supportive you’re busy looking for ways to stress the innocent young man. Send him a text an apologise for your intrusive behaviour.

Thank me later.

lilije:
I'm suspicious of this too

Don’t listen to negativity. He is not married. He’s just stressed because you’re stressing him.

lilije:
I'm suspicious of this too

You don't know his close friends or just friends?

You may need to ask them some questions .

you are in love with married man

AfroKnight:
Don’t listen to negativity. He is not married. He’s just stressed because you’re stressing him.

Stressing him you said?

This is a guy that did not show much care after telling him I lost my elder sister. The news of my sister's death was broken to me a Thursday, I called him that Thursday evening after telling him about what happened earlier that day but he didn't take my calls. I was down just needed someone to console me since I wasn't home but he wouldn't take his calls.

In fact, I don break up finish

doggedfighter:
You don't know his close friends or just friends?

You may need to ask them some questions .

We are just getting to know each other and he visits me often. I have not met with any of his friends before except one and it's by accident.

lilije:
Stressing him you said?

This is a guy that did not show much care after telling him I lost my elder sister. The news of my sister's death was broken to me a Thursday, I called him that Thursday evening after telling him about what happened earlier that day but he didn't take my calls. I was down just needed someone to console me since I wasn't home but he wouldn't take his calls.

In fact, I don break up finish

OMG I was just messing with you.

I’m Sorry about your sister. May you find strength to bear this loss.

He should be there for you in these trying times, as a friend. No excuse