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You have to call it quit o, any man or lady who talks to his/her parents anyhow will eventually receive the wrath of God if they don't repent, that's not a good attitude, she's paying good for evil, for her mum to single handedly raise them up after the death of their dad should make them love their mother the more and not to give her headache, and the Bible says we should Obey our parents for this is right.

MasterRahl:
Well, this is the first time I'm seeing this side of her, that's why I brought the matter here.

Bros, look before you leap because she will do worst to your mum....just continue to observe her behaviour then you will know whether she is good enough to be a wife.

Skmoda360:
Bros, look before you leap because she will do worst to your mum....just continue to observe her behaviour then you will know whether she is good enough to be a wife.

Thank you Sir. Will do as advised.

mechanics:
You have to call it quit o, any man or lady who talks to his/her parents anyhow will eventually receive the wrath of God if they don't repent, that's not a good attitude, she's paying good for evil, for her mum to single handedly raise them up after the death of their dad should make them love their mother the more and not to give her headache, and the Bible says we should Obey our parents for this is right.

Thanks bro. Advice received!

MasterRahl:
Thanks bro. Advice received!

You welcome sir.

Heistman:
U ppl will not kill me ..u mean u banned her from your side fr 2 months same way den dey ban ppl from coming to stadium

Yes na. Since e too hard for her to tell her mummy sorry. Make she stay her side before they will say that she started insulting her mum because has a man's house to run to. We dey avoid trouble these days baba

MasterRahl:
Yes na. Since e too hard for her to tell her mummy sorry. Make she stay her side before they will say that she started insulting her mum because has a man's house to run to. We dey avoid trouble these days baba

lol..na Tru sha u get point .she ghas fix up her relationship with her mum first..it's very important

Having same issue with a strong head gf, though I don't normally take it up on her but recently I've been giving her hot hot.

As a man you need to stand your ground on a decision you put for your wife or gf else you will become a sissy.

There is more to this, my observation as a private school teacher is that an average parent of this "android generation" will rather prefer his/her children have their ways unchecked and when the repercussions are coming in, he/she starts to play "blame game" and solicit unnecessary and unwarranted sympathy.
That woman, one way or the other had partly failed as a mother in raising the girls to be useful to themselves and bring peace of mind to her as she grows old.
Another thing is that the mother may have embarrassing secretes that the girls can't live with, notwithstanding, your mother will always be your mother no matter what.
However, this is an indication of a bad Omen, I mean your own biological mother is not safe especially with your girlfriend.
My thought though.

Israflor:
There is more to this, my observation as a private school teacher is that an average parent of this "android generation" will rather prefer his/her children have their ways unchecked and when the repercussions are coming in, he/she starts to play "blame game" and solicit unnecessary and unwarranted sympathy.
That woman, one way or the other had partly failed as a mother in raising the girls to be useful to themselves and bring peace of mind to her as she grows old.
Another thing is that the mother may have embarrassing secretes that the girls can't live with, notwithstanding, your mother will always be your mother no matter what.
However, this is an indication of a bad Omen, I mean your own biological mother is not safe especially with your girlfriend.
My thought though.

Thank you for this detailed information. Your experience as a teacher lends more credence to this. Teachers relate with the parents as well as with the kids so you guys really know much about parental upbringing. I will observe from a distance and see what she grows up into. Let me assume it is the usual adolescence madness.

OsuIgboIpob:
Lol!

Barred for two months
This one dey form demigod
I no blame you, na the girl I blame.

Well, it's a lowlifer situation, what else would anyone except?

If you're a man, I pity you. If you're a woman, I pity your vagina.

With what you just wrote, you have a long way to go in life. I won't say more than this to avoid arguing with you.

iLegendd:
If you're a man, I pity you. If you're a woman, I pity your vagina.

With what you just wrote, you have a long way to go in life. I won't say more than this to avoid arguing with you.

Lol
See person wey still dey survive on pocket money.
Oh low doh.

OsuIgboIpob:
Lol
See person wey still dey survive on pocket money.
Oh low doh.

Okay.

MasterRahl:
Good morning Nairalanders.
There is this girl I've been dating for over two years. When she comes to my house, she's as respectful as a woman can be.
She cleans everywhere, cooks, does her best. She has a twin sister.

One day, according to the story I heard, the mum called the sister and asked her to clean up the house. But she murmured and refused. The mom started shouting and saying angry words, and my GF supported her sister against their own mother.

The sister then said that she can always present herself as a good girl when she is out there in the public.

Her mum then made a statement. She said that her any woman who puts on a bad attitude when she is with her family, and then puts on a good attitude when she steps out of the house will be exposed sooner or later.

Her mum really respects me and she called me to complain about the attitude of her daughters. She was so heartbroken that she spoke to me on phone for 37 minutes. She cried the whole time. She's a widow and she brought up these twin daughters alone since their dad died.

I then called my girlfriend and told her that she is restricted from coming to my place for two months for the insults she gave her mum. Babe flared up and said that I should have heard her own side of the story. Lol. She said that my relationship with her doesn't involve anyone including her mum.

She insisted that I should have heard her own side of the story first before judging. I said okay. Sorry Nne, cos that's what she wanted.

I then told her again to go and apologize to her mum. The tears of a mother can cause a great catastrophe in a child's life.

This morning, I called again to find out if she has apologized. The young woman said that she will do so when she feels like.

People of Nairaland, I am not a sissy guy. I recognize red flags in a relationship. This girl appears to have a heart of stone. If she can't apologize to her own mum, then it is a great red flag indeed.

Some children behave very well in the open, or in a man's house, but when they get back to their own family, their true color comes out. If I wasn't close to the mother, perhaps I would never have known that she is like this.

I think when dating a woman, or a guy, one should try to relate with other members of the person's family so that you may know some things about that person that you're dating.

I'm thinking of ending this relationship. A girl in her 20s who finds it hard to tell her mum sorry is a great danger indeed.

I need your opinion my people.

. And ur still thinking of ending the relationship Better end that relationboat

MasterRahl:
Good morning Nairalanders.
There is this girl I've been dating for over two years. When she comes to my house, she's as respectful as a woman can be.
She cleans everywhere, cooks, does her best. She has a twin sister.

One day, according to the story I heard, the mum called the sister and asked her to clean up the house. But she murmured and refused. The mom started shouting and saying angry words, and my GF supported her sister against their own mother.

The sister then said that she can always present herself as a good girl when she is out there in the public.

Her mum then made a statement. She said that her any woman who puts on a bad attitude when she is with her family, and then puts on a good attitude when she steps out of the house will be exposed sooner or later.

Her mum really respects me and she called me to complain about the attitude of her daughters. She was so heartbroken that she spoke to me on phone for 37 minutes. She cried the whole time. She's a widow and she brought up these twin daughters alone since their dad died.

I then called my girlfriend and told her that she is restricted from coming to my place for two months for the insults she gave her mum. Babe flared up and said that I should have heard her own side of the story. Lol. She said that my relationship with her doesn't involve anyone including her mum.

She insisted that I should have heard her own side of the story first before judging. I said okay. Sorry Nne, cos that's what she wanted.

I then told her again to go and apologize to her mum. The tears of a mother can cause a great catastrophe in a child's life.

This morning, I called again to find out if she has apologized. The young woman said that she will do so when she feels like.

People of Nairaland, I am not a sissy guy. I recognize red flags in a relationship. This girl appears to have a heart of stone. If she can't apologize to her own mum, then it is a great red flag indeed.

Some children behave very well in the open, or in a man's house, but when they get back to their own family, their true color comes out. If I wasn't close to the mother, perhaps I would never have known that she is like this.

I think when dating a woman, or a guy, one should try to relate with other members of the person's family so that you may know some things about that person that you're dating.

I'm thinking of ending this relationship. A girl in her 20s who finds it hard to tell her mum sorry is a great danger indeed.

I need your opinion my people.

That's a big red flag'

Ditch her now!

You already know it's a red flag. Don't use your hands and bring problem to your life o.

SavageResponse:
That's a big red flag'

Ditch her now!

Advice received bro. Thank you.

ojun50:
Most girls are like this

Why not call her one on one talk some sense into her before thinking of ending the relationship.

bro, someone that's in her 20s, you still want to "talk sense into her", LOl, people, especially ADULTS, don't change. You can only change a kid, not an adult, always remember this!

daben1:
bro, someone that's in her 20s, you still want to "talk sense into her", LOl, people, especially ADULTS, don't change. You can only change a kid, not an adult, always remember this!

Thank you bro. You spoke my mind. In fact, it is easy to talk sense into an adult male than an adult female. And u know say na from that 20-25 years wey head dey really hot our youths. Nothing wey u tell dem wey Dem go gree

BestAccessories:
First comment after a long time.

If she has no regards for her mother, she has no regards for anyone including YOU and your family.

If she can do it to her mother, the woman who carried her for nine month in the womb, labour to earn money to feed and train her in school.

NO ONE, I REPEAT NO ONE will be excluded from such treatment in her life.

If you don't believe me, do something you know she didn't like or that will likely hurt her feelings (a forgiveable offence oooo - I am not suggesting you cheat on her ooo) and see how she treats you.

A word is enough for the wise.

run

Ningen:
What was her upbringing like?
Was she maltreated as a child growing up?

Is she rude to strangers and other people??
How does she treat her relatives and friends?

Lots of people have toxic relationship with their parents but they are really nice to other people.

Reason because their childhood was hell.
So don't make a decision without an inquiry.

You have a strong point here