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Name One Thing Your Dad Did To You That's Still Paining You Till Today by TeamLeader(m): 4:56pm On May 10, 2020
This thought came to my mind and am still mad.

When I small about 13, pulse do come out of my left ear. That shit always gave me low self esteem back then during my sec school days because of the bad odour. So one day, a man came around our house that he can remove the bacteria or insect or whatever he called it that time I was so so very happy that day ehn. Then all of a sudden my dad just insisted that I should go and collect something from my mom which the distance was about a mile away that he will delay the man till I come back.
I quickly and hurriedly carried bicycle and enter road with full speed. Na God save me that day I for get accident and when I finally came back they said the man has gone.

That day ehn I cried no be small. Till today that tin still de pain me but the ear later healed on its own.

Continue to rest in peace Dad but that tin pain me.

Share yours if you had one. Let's have fun.

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Re: Name One Thing Your Dad Did To You That's Still Paining You Till Today by Prodigee: 4:58pm On May 10, 2020
When I was still in the world then. Years back I brought one fine babe say make I run her package and shingba her for my place. Na one Saturday like that and my old man usually goes out to go hangout with his friend. As him see me with this babe, na him he no go out again o. Throughout that day him just dey form busy with one thing or the other for house. I later discharge the babe sha without hitting. If I remember that time, e still dey pain me till today. angry

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Re: Name One Thing Your Dad Did To You That's Still Paining You Till Today by sLentlover7778(m): 5:01pm On May 10, 2020
Nothing!!!! The man is extraordinary, I owe him alot.

grin grin grin
Re: Name One Thing Your Dad Did To You That's Still Paining You Till Today by funshint(m): 5:09pm On May 10, 2020
When I was young my dad used to compare me and my other siblings to other peoples' children. That made me feel as if other children were better than me and this contributed to my Low Self Esteem(LSE) later in life. Now this is a real struggle for me because it affects my confidence especially when I'm with people or trying to do something unique. Though it's very painful because I feel I'd have turned out much better earlier in life. It's not easy but I forgive him as I try to take every step to overcome this.

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Re: Name One Thing Your Dad Did To You That's Still Paining You Till Today by Gofwane(m): 5:11pm On May 10, 2020
He almost chopped my index finger for 'shifting' his one Naira. I mean that Herbert Marculay coin that is currently of no value

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Re: Name One Thing Your Dad Did To You That's Still Paining You Till Today by TeamLeader(m): 5:13pm On May 10, 2020
Prodigee:
When I was still in the world then. Years back I brought one fine babe say make I run her package and shingba her for my place. Na one Saturday like that and my old man usually goes out to go hangout with his friend. As him see me with this babe, na him he no go out again o. Throughout that day him just dey form busy with one thing or the other for house. I later discharge the babe sha without hitting. If I remember that time, e still dey pain me till today. angry



lmao.... Your dad spoil your market

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Re: Name One Thing Your Dad Did To You That's Still Paining You Till Today by Aplaudez(m): 5:14pm On May 10, 2020
The man died 2003 on top woman matter, onto say he be womaniser, he went to swear at a shrine behind my mum, I'll never forgive him, I've never forget once tasted fatherly love, but thank God for where I am today!

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Re: Name One Thing Your Dad Did To You That's Still Paining You Till Today by TeamLeader(m): 5:14pm On May 10, 2020
funshint:
When I was young my dad used to compare me and my other siblings to other peoples' children. That made me feel as if other children were better than me and this contributed to my Low Self Esteem(LSE) later in life. Now this is a real struggle for me because it affects my confidence especially when I'm with people or trying to do something unique. Though it's very painful because I feel I'd have turned out much better earlier in life. It's not easy but I forgive him as I try to take every step to overcome this.



u hmm thats life bro. Those experiences are meant for you to be strong.

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Re: Name One Thing Your Dad Did To You That's Still Paining You Till Today by TeamLeader(m): 5:16pm On May 10, 2020
Gofwane:
He almost chopped my index finger for 'shifting' his one Naira. I mean that Herbert Marculay coin that is currently of no value


lmaooo Shifting master!!

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Re: Name One Thing Your Dad Did To You That's Still Paining You Till Today by MoneyMindset(m): 5:16pm On May 10, 2020
Prodigee:
When I was still in the world then. Years back I brought one fine babe say make I run her package and shingba her for my place. Na one Saturday like that and my old man usually goes out to go hangout with his friend. As him see me with this babe, na him he no go out again o. Throughout that day him just dey form busy with one thing or the other for house. I later discharge the babe sha without hitting. If I remember that time, e still dey pain me till today. angry
Be like say the man play that kind go, your a true son of your father

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Re: Name One Thing Your Dad Did To You That's Still Paining You Till Today by TeamLeader(m): 5:18pm On May 10, 2020
Aplaudez:
The man died 2003 on top woman matter, onto say he be womaniser, he went to swear at a shrine behind my mum, I'll never forgive him, I've never forget once tasted fatherly love, but thank God for where I am today!


He is a boss! but abeg forgive and free your mind. its funny sha.
Re: Name One Thing Your Dad Did To You That's Still Paining You Till Today by Aplaudez(m): 5:24pm On May 10, 2020
TeamLeader:



He is a boss! but abeg forgive and free your mind. its funny sha.

This isn't funny bro, it's still very fresh in my memory, it's really affecting my self esteem and trust building with people!

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Re: Name One Thing Your Dad Did To You That's Still Paining You Till Today by Chrisemeka1(m): 5:35pm On May 10, 2020
He campaigned and voted for Buhari... Despite my warning cus I was not legible to vote then.

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Re: Name One Thing Your Dad Did To You That's Still Paining You Till Today by Jayboi(m): 5:39pm On May 10, 2020
I probably deserved every beating I got because its not a common thing. If the man just enter the front entrance and we hear the footsteps....men....everybody go don disappear enter room.

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Re: Name One Thing Your Dad Did To You That's Still Paining You Till Today by Fidelismaria: 5:40pm On May 10, 2020

cry

beating the hell out of me cause I lost his cap







Re: Name One Thing Your Dad Did To You That's Still Paining You Till Today by Gofwane(m): 5:44pm On May 10, 2020
TeamLeader:



lmaooo Shifting master!!
I was just a young shifter not a stealer grin

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Re: Name One Thing Your Dad Did To You That's Still Paining You Till Today by illicit(m): 5:53pm On May 10, 2020
He died
Re: Name One Thing Your Dad Did To You That's Still Paining You Till Today by DanDeeBoss(m): 6:00pm On May 10, 2020
Beat the hell out of me for something I never did.... undecided....he later realized sha( my mom apologized on his behalf) grin

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Re: Name One Thing Your Dad Did To You That's Still Paining You Till Today by TeamLeader(m): 6:18pm On May 10, 2020
Jayboi:
I probably deserved every beating I got because its not a common thing. If the man just enter the front entrance and we hear the footsteps....men....everybody go don disappear enter room.



lol in be soldier ni
Re: Name One Thing Your Dad Did To You That's Still Paining You Till Today by TeamLeader(m): 6:19pm On May 10, 2020
Fidelismaria:
cry
beating the hell out of me cause I lost his cap







that wan nor suppose pain you na because na you offend am
Re: Name One Thing Your Dad Did To You That's Still Paining You Till Today by Coolcalmcollect(m): 6:35pm On May 10, 2020
aside feeding me and paying my fees which are ofcourse his responsibility for fucking and cumming raw....I never did enjoy any special privileges....he never introduced me nor recommended for a federal job placement even tho he was a director and he helped over 10 other people's kids, his excuse was nobody helped me, so I shouldn't help you. God over five cars sitting idle at home, but I not even allowed to warm them.....lol omo congratulations to those who have father's jare.

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Re: Name One Thing Your Dad Did To You That's Still Paining You Till Today by argent412(f): 8:27pm On May 10, 2020
one thing I will never do is to marry a military officer. God....my dad was something else. know day this man don't give me and my siblings punishment to do. it was hell. but I still love him. his my best friend.
Re: Name One Thing Your Dad Did To You That's Still Paining You Till Today by Raalsalghul: 8:33pm On May 10, 2020
Meeting/marrying my mum and giving birth to me.

If I had the power of time travel for just one day, I would go back in time and prevent them from dating: at least that way I don't exist. It's better like that!

And before you judge, know that you don't know my story.
Re: Name One Thing Your Dad Did To You That's Still Paining You Till Today by Raalsalghul: 8:36pm On May 10, 2020
Chrisemeka1:
He campaigned and voted for Buhari... Despite my warning cus I was not legible to vote then.

Re: Name One Thing Your Dad Did To You That's Still Paining You Till Today by thatsleepboy1: 8:42pm On May 10, 2020
Many things. Although he's still alive, I wish him good luck and changes. But he can't undo his mistakes and he can't win me to himself.
Re: Name One Thing Your Dad Did To You That's Still Paining You Till Today by UniqueQueen12(f): 8:44pm On May 10, 2020
None at all. He has never raise his hands on me or did something bad right from my childhood till adulthood. so loving and understanding sweet dad. Always there for us. Love you plenty dad

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Re: Name One Thing Your Dad Did To You That's Still Paining You Till Today by Nobody: 8:45pm On May 10, 2020
My own na on top land issue o. My papa dey build one of him crib.come hook for one side. Come say make I borrow am( knowing that money was gone for life, and my elder get money pass me wells) I still give am. You sabi say the man still get mind tell me say that house na my bros go inherit am. Based on senior level.
No be say na bad decision o. But the thing vex me.

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Re: Name One Thing Your Dad Did To You That's Still Paining You Till Today by UniqueQueen12(f): 8:45pm On May 10, 2020
Raalsalghul:
Meeting/marrying my mum and giving birth to me.

If I had the power of time travel for just one day, I would go back in time and prevent them from dating: at least that way I don't exist. It's better like that!

And before you judge, know that you don't know my story.
Hmmmm
Re: Name One Thing Your Dad Did To You That's Still Paining You Till Today by nizzy153(m): 8:53pm On May 10, 2020
He was rich enough and always spend his money helping people outside.. I never feel any fatherly love for once.. E dey always pain me
Zornes123:
My own na on top land issue o. My papa dey build one of him crib.come hook for one side. Come say make I borrow am( knowing that money was gone for life, and my elder get money pass me wells) I still give am. You sabi say the man still get mind tell me say that house na my bros go inherit am. Based on senior level.
No be say na bad decision o. But the thing vex me.
Zornes123:
My own na on top land issue o. My papa dey build one of him crib.come hook for one side. Come say make I borrow am( knowing that money was gone for life, and my elder get money pass me wells) I still give am. You sabi say the man still get mind tell me say that house na my bros go inherit am. Based on senior level.
No be say na bad decision o. But the thing vex me.
Re: Name One Thing Your Dad Did To You That's Still Paining You Till Today by chii8(f): 8:58pm On May 10, 2020
Because I couldn't kill a rat running around in our house that day,my Papa now said and I quote"so you can not kill that small rat, that's how you will have problem in your husband's house when they find out that you can't kill common rat", I cried that ehnn, meanwhile I was still very young but I didn't forget those words.Fastforward to like 15years later when my now husband proposed, I jeje told him that I can't kill a rat, hope he wouldn't mind?na so the guy started laughing, I shame no be small...

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Re: Name One Thing Your Dad Did To You That's Still Paining You Till Today by Nobody: 9:02pm On May 10, 2020
Raalsalghul:
Meeting/marrying my mum and giving birth to me.

If I had the power of time travel for just one day, I would go back in time and prevent them from dating: at least that way I don't exist. It's better like that!

And before you judge, know that you don't know my story.
thats why the thread was created.. To share the story..
Re: Name One Thing Your Dad Did To You That's Still Paining You Till Today by emmaodet: 9:02pm On May 10, 2020
Raalsalghul:
Meeting/marrying my mum and giving birth to me.

If I had the power of time travel for just one day, I would go back in time and prevent them from dating: at least that way I don't exist. It's better like that!

And before you judge, know that you don't know my story.

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmm
Brother, care to share?

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