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Ybaby:
She seems like a nice girl but that I make my own money is advertisement for them.... I need a ladder boys. Awon can I borrow 500k from you till end of the month, they will set thier head in between their hands and wait for her to ask them what is wrong and it will be 350k to clear container on the high sea.

@ceeci6 be careful o

There are good men and you seem to be level headed. Hide your money biko... before white atiku boys arrive

You wan spoil format abi?

Ceeci6:
Thank you for this, I appreciate ur kind advice

Hahahahahaha
Cc Ybaby just in case you missed it

Fabuloski:
This is not necessary.

Na them? because I gave an opinion contrary to yours? That's alarming.

Now back to your points, pregnancy and the likes is really not the bone of contention here. Moreover, I never said the wife is paying any bill. However, as a logical person you should always factor in when things go south or your made an investment that is taking a long time to pick up, what will be the back up plan? what better back up plan can you get other than your better half?

For the single father aspect, I really don't understand the correlation but anyways, for you not to be a single father includes you choosing the right wife, which is why you need to know your net worth among other things.

However, if the single father you are talking about is in case the wife dies, isn't that more of a real for the couple's worth to be known in case the husband dies too?

NA THEM!

ANYWAY
1 Timothy 5:8 ESV / 147 helpful votes
But if anyone does not provide for his relatives, and especially for members of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever.

2 Thessalonians 3:10 ESV / 91 helpful votes
For even when we were with you, we would give you this command: If anyone is not willing to work, let him not eat.

Genesis 2:15 ESV / 65 helpful votes
The Lord God took the man and put him in the garden of Eden to work it and keep it.

Colossians 3:23 ESV / 41 helpful votes
Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord and not for men,

1 Thessalonians 4:11-12 ESV / 35 helpful votes
And to aspire to live quietly, and to mind your own affairs, and to work with your hands, as we instructed you, so that you may walk properly before outsiders and be dependent on no one.

Romans 12:19 ESV / 35 helpful votes
Beloved, never avenge yourselves, but leave it to the wrath of God, for it is written, “Vengeance is mine, I will repay, says the Lord.”

Proverbs 10:4 ESV / 31 helpful votes
A slack hand causes poverty, but the hand of the diligent makes rich.

2 Thessalonians 3:7-9 ESV / 30 helpful votes
For you yourselves know how you ought to imitate us, because we were not idle when we were with you, nor did we eat anyone's bread without paying for it, but with toil and labor we worked night and day, that we might not be a burden to any of you. It was not because we do not have that right, but to give you in ourselves an example to imitate.

Proverbs 22:29 ESV / 28 helpful votes
Do you see a man skillful in his work? He will stand before kings; he will not stand before obscure men.

2 Thessalonians 3:12 ESV / 24 helpful votes
Now such persons we command and encourage in the Lord Jesus Christ to do their work quietly and to earn their own living.

Ephesians 4:28 ESV / 23 helpful votes
Let the thief no longer steal, but rather let him labor, doing honest work with his own hands, so that he may have something to share with anyone in need.

Proverbs 20:4 ESV / 23 helpful votes
The sluggard does not plow in the autumn; he will seek at harvest and have nothing.

Acts 18:3 ESV / 22 helpful votes
And because he was of the same trade he stayed with them and worked, for they were tentmakers by trade.

1 Timothy 5:1-25 ESV / 21 helpful votes
Do not rebuke an older man but encourage him as you would a father, younger men as brothers, older women as mothers, younger women as sisters, in all purity. Honor widows who are truly widows. But if a widow has children or grandchildren, let them first learn to show godliness to their own household and to make some return to their parents, for this is pleasing in the sight of God. She who is truly a widow, left all alone, has set her hope on God and continues in supplications and prayers night and day, ...

Proverbs 18:9 ESV / 19 helpful votes
Whoever is slack in his work is a brother to him who destroys.

John 5:17 ESV / 18 helpful votes Helpful Not Helpful
But Jesus answered them, “My Father is working until now, and I am working.”

Fabuloski:
This is not necessary.

Na them? because I gave an opinion contrary to yours? That's alarming.

Now back to your points, pregnancy and the likes is really not the bone of contention here. Moreover, I never said the wife is paying any bill. However, as a logical person you should always factor in when things go south or your made an investment that is taking a long time to pick up, what will be the back up plan? what better back up plan can you get other than your better half?

For the single father aspect, I really don't understand the correlation but anyways, for you not to be a single father includes you choosing the right wife, which is why you need to know your net worth among other things.

However, if the single father you are talking about is in case the wife dies, isn't that more of a real for the couple's worth to be known in case the husband dies too?

WOMAN
The Punishment of Mankind
16To the woman He said: “I will sharply increase your pain in childbirth; in pain you will bring forth children. Your desire will be for your husband, and he will rule over you.”

MAN
17And to Adam He said: “Because you have listened to the voice of your wife and have eaten from the tree of which I commanded you not to eat, cursed is the ground because of you; through toil you will eat [/b]of it all the days of your life

[b]You are to toil to eat not ask a woman to eat. Abi will you endure labour pain

I understand you perfectly, my innocent sef was just trying to point out that am not looking for who will carry my bukata, .. Am not otedola daughter o mbok, any man that has decided to settle down should be ready to provide for his family to a certain level, then the wife can also support.. No one needs a liability in their lives

Ybaby:
She seems like a nice girl but that I make my own money is advertisement for them.... I need a ladder boys. Awon can I borrow 500k from you till end of the month, they will set thier head in between their hands and wait for her to ask them what is wrong and it will be 350k to clear container on the high sea.

@ceeci6 be careful o

There are good men and you seem to be level headed. Hide your money biko... before white atiku boys arrive

Ceeci6:
hello my Darling sister, I didn't open 3 thread within a day, I actually opened them at a time , its my choice to post where ever I feel its appropriate, thank you for ur observation, secondly, you don't know me, and cannot conclude anything about me, why not learn to read and pass next time, if a matter doesn't concern you, instead of giving unsolicited advice women are always the enemy of themselves.. Have a blessed weekend fellow woman like me.... Advicer general

you have a good sense of humor

Ybaby:
NA THEM!

ANYWAY
1 Timothy 5:8 ESV / 147 helpful votes
But if anyone does not provide for his relatives, and especially for members of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever.

2 Thessalonians 3:10 ESV / 91 helpful votes
For even when we were with you, we would give you this command: If anyone is not willing to work, let him not eat.

Genesis 2:15 ESV / 65 helpful votes
The Lord God took the man and put him in the garden of Eden to work it and keep it.

Colossians 3:23 ESV / 41 helpful votes
Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord and not for men,

1 Thessalonians 4:11-12 ESV / 35 helpful votes
And to aspire to live quietly, and to mind your own affairs, and to work with your hands, as we instructed you, so that you may walk properly before outsiders and be dependent on no one.

Romans 12:19 ESV / 35 helpful votes
Beloved, never avenge yourselves, but leave it to the wrath of God, for it is written, “Vengeance is mine, I will repay, says the Lord.”

Proverbs 10:4 ESV / 31 helpful votes
A slack hand causes poverty, but the hand of the diligent makes rich.

2 Thessalonians 3:7-9 ESV / 30 helpful votes
For you yourselves know how you ought to imitate us, because we were not idle when we were with you, nor did we eat anyone's bread without paying for it, but with toil and labor we worked night and day, that we might not be a burden to any of you. It was not because we do not have that right, but to give you in ourselves an example to imitate.

Proverbs 22:29 ESV / 28 helpful votes
Do you see a man skillful in his work? He will stand before kings; he will not stand before obscure men.

2 Thessalonians 3:12 ESV / 24 helpful votes
Now such persons we command and encourage in the Lord Jesus Christ to do their work quietly and to earn their own living.

Ephesians 4:28 ESV / 23 helpful votes
Let the thief no longer steal, but rather let him labor, doing honest work with his own hands, so that he may have something to share with anyone in need.

Proverbs 20:4 ESV / 23 helpful votes
The sluggard does not plow in the autumn; he will seek at harvest and have nothing.

Acts 18:3 ESV / 22 helpful votes
And because he was of the same trade he stayed with them and worked, for they were tentmakers by trade.

1 Timothy 5:1-25 ESV / 21 helpful votes
Do not rebuke an older man but encourage him as you would a father, younger men as brothers, older women as mothers, younger women as sisters, in all purity. Honor widows who are truly widows. But if a widow has children or grandchildren, let them first learn to show godliness to their own household and to make some return to their parents, for this is pleasing in the sight of God. She who is truly a widow, left all alone, has set her hope on God and continues in supplications and prayers night and day, ...

Proverbs 18:9 ESV / 19 helpful votes
Whoever is slack in his work is a brother to him who destroys.

John 5:17 ESV / 18 helpful votes Helpful Not Helpful
But Jesus answered them, “My Father is working until now, and I am working.”

wow, the verses, the number and : really made this very difficult to read.

Anyways, I don't really make reference to Bible that was written 2020 plus years ago. I am working on the reality of today's affairs.

Labour pain? Don't do this to me, IVF is already common now. People don't do natural birth anyone whereas some go through it because they just want to experience it.

Ceeci6:
I understand you perfectly, my innocent sef was just trying to point out that am not looking for who will carry my bukata, .. Am not otedola daughter o mbok, any man that has decided to settle down should be ready to provide for his family to a certain level, then the wife can also support.. No one needs a liability in their lives

I get you.

Look for a man to carry your bukata as you will carry his seed and his name. You are worth being provided for and good men want to provide for their woman.
By all means have your own business, job and funds but look for a provider man.

Look through all the threads opened by married women on NL it is about husbands who don't want to provide.

Be smart and choose wisely. I wish you well.

Fabuloski:
wow, the verses, the number and : really made this very difficult to read.

Anyways, I don't really make reference to Bible that was written 2020 plus years ago. I am working on the reality of today's affairs.

Labour pain? Don't do this to me, IVF is already common now. People don't do natural birth anyone whereas some go through it because they just want to experience it.

Abi the last time you pushed out a baby you used IVF to push the baby from which hole? Anuus or your ear hole

IVF is not labour by the way and it is expensive .... do you have IVF money?

Bible is 2000 years old .... wisdom is ageless. In this time we have men with blokos just like you who carry all the bills without a woman's help or child's hawking.

No tag me again abeg. It is the Poster I am concerned about. I wish you find your ladder. Good luck!

Yeah I get you, thank you

Ybaby:
I get you.

Look for a man to carry your bukata as you will carry his seed and his name. You are worth being provided for and good men want to provide for their woman.
By all means have your own business, job and funds but look for a provider man.

Look through all the threads opened by married women on NL it is about husbands who don't want to provide.

Be smart and choose wisely. I wish you well.

Thank you

Chapter1vs6:
you have a good sense of humor

Ybaby:
Abi the last time you pushed out a baby you used IVF to push the baby from which hole? Anuus or your ear hole

IVF is not labour by the way and it is expensive .... do you have IVF money?

Bible is 2000 years old .... wisdom is ageless. In this time we have men with blokos just like you who carry all the bills without a woman's help or child's hawking.

No tag me again abeg. It is the Poster I am concerned about. I wish you find your ladder. Good luck!

You don't have to be rude to make your point and I never said IVF is labour.

I have laid my point respectfully, I expected at least the same from you.

Anyways, do have a great week.

Fabuloski:
You don't have to be rude to make your point and I never said IVF is labour.

I have laid my point respectfully, I expected at least the same from you.

Anyways, do have a great week.

Where did I insult you??

I pointed out that what you need is another man like you not a female (someone to pick up your slack) but I did not insult you.

Why bring up IVF when I spoke about labour?

You come across as manipulative and painting what is not. I understand you need someone to pay the rent with you that is a flat mate not a wife.

Have a great life and good luck in finding a woman built/ strong like a man to help you

SweetCunt97:
Be mindful of broke ass leeches who come in with stupid story of being a contractor or interior designer or concrete sellers o. You need someone with a stable flow of income. If he doesn't wake up and heads to work, then Bleep it.. Unless he's a programmer or web developer.

Like me

crackkhaus:
Lol, you and I know you have never been normal.

Normal is boring.

Theconglomerate:
Uplifting them to where exactly?
Don't you think that matters?
I know the word uplift can be very generic but shouldn't stop us from making basic analogies.
I know moving a homeless man into a one room,dark,porous apartment in Ajegunle can be considered as "uplift" but is also not something to gloat about.
There are basic standards everyone understands.

Who puts out a yardstick and decides what does not count as upliftment? Whether 100k for a work tool to help a man earn a living or millions, upliftment is upliftment. Narrow-minded much.