Lol this should be an entertaining thread, I really hope it reaches its potential. Have you ever had a girl trying to change you from being a bad boy to a good boy before? Did she succeed? Ladies did you ever try to change a guy from being a bad boy to a good guy? What was your experience like?
My own story is, when I was younger I had dozens of girls that tried everything possible to make me a church boy. They kept trying so bad for me to be like all those holy holy guys but the more they tried the worse I got. At 17 I had tattoos all over my body, I was the only person in my church then using an iPhone, I was very attractive and proud. I was a ladies man and a very bad boy, all my friends in church smoked weed and we would look so good while being very rebellious. All the girls in my church had a crush on me and my friends and I swear it was the best time of my life. I'm quite old and very normal now, that was in the past and NO girl ever succeeded in making me a good boy.
Lol, please share your stories

Lol they can't succeed cus what attracted them in the first place was ur badboy lifestyle which they enjoyed. If you had changed, they would have left you cus you would have been boring to them

Oluromantic:
Lol they can't succeed cus what attracted them in the first place was ur badboy lifestyle which they enjoyed. If you had changed, they would have left you cus you would have been boring to them

Lol fish brain people

Girls, you said it yourself. No woman worth her salt will waste her time trying to reform a manchild.

we all know how it ALWAYS ends up for these women...



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Yes
But they end up getting bleeped

When they say girls are attracted to bad boys, I seriously wonder.

I can’t see a guy that fits into that description and be attracted....tattoos, earrings, big shoes, jewelry; or some form of notoriety. When a person like that even tries to make advances towards me, I feel very unhappy and insulted.

It always end in tears

Because they can...women are the rulers of men heart, they don't realise the power they have

Apart from the time Amaka said I should stop touching her butty that it's God's temple, I don't think I got something like that

I hate to admit this, but girls love 'Bad' boys.. I mean, why try to change someone when there are millions of other guys out there.. why try to change something you fell inlove with

I'm guilty of this too... He had the body , looks, voice, smile chai, I knew he did weed(something I was totally against) but the weak side of me was already tripping

Later found out that dude was clueless about where his life was headed, I tried to help but at some point he couldn't handle the pressure.. weakling

My eyes clear sharp sharp and I Japaaa.. I don't need confusion in my life, end of story.

Bad boys are exciting- it is getting everything you want. the stability of a good boy and the excitement of a bad boy ( by the way boys do it too---Dont turn a ho into a house wife, I want a lady in the street but a freak in the bed)

To make matters worse, they now love making romance books and movies over these such topics.

Finally, its a co-dependent thing. You only feel worth when you suffer then create a work of art. Instead of valuing yourself as precious and demanding precious treatment, this feeds into insecurity that says the only way you're good enough is if he changes for you.

Please swipe left

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Its spiritual

PrimadonnaO:
When they say girls are attracted to bad boys, I seriously wonder.

I can’t see a guy that fits into that description and be attracted....tattoos, earrings, big shoes, jewelry; or some form of notoriety. When a person like that even tries to make advances towards me, I feel very unhappy and insulted.

what of the one that handle u roughly in bed, it is one of the qualities of a bad boy too, if u know u know

XhosaNostra:
Girls, you said it yourself. No woman worth her salt will waste her time trying to reform a manchild.

But the woman was once in a girl who also fantasized about changing bad boys, but along the line discovered she couldn't possibly reform the 'manchild' after she has been severely beaten and given the best of her youth to the reformation project.

I think they initially see themselves as transformers

Because they believe every man is the same.


You don't have to listen to me tho.

I am just a yaba left escapee with Daddy issues.

It's simple.
Let's go down memory lane for 10 seconds shall we?

You're a 4, maybe 5 year old boy, all you want to do is play, run around, cause as much trouble
as you want, build sand castles and igloos, destroy stuffed animals here and there. However,
your friend who is about the same age as you are is playing with her Barbie doll and having a
tea party. WTF? How is that even fun? Yet she seems to be having fun in her own way.

Girls are hardwired to care for things, becoming emotional about things. 'Bad Boys' or what you
call them are like this 4 year old, they live with reckless abandon, they don't care about anything.
It's like some ying-yang thing you know.

Another angle is, as a 'bad boy'(I f.cking hate using this word BTW), you are unattainable. Humans
want what they can't get. She knows you have tons of women to pick from(reflecting from your behaviour)
and for some reason, she's trying to own you(because she likes you) this inturn causes her to justify your
actions hoping you'll change for the better. Just like when you like a girl and you can't see the flaws in her?
Something like that? You'll get the point.




















Read this too, it's unimportant.

Good boys ain’t fun, and bad boys ain’t good

Mstick:

I am just a yaba left escapee with Daddy issues.

The fact that you've pathetically decided to add this line to all your recent posts, only shows that this epic comment really pained you

freecocoahubby:



Lmao! You dey mind am

Mstick is a well known yabaleft escapee with severe daddy issues who hides under the cloak of "feminism", spending hours ranting in the family section like a mad dog!

She only regurgitated that stupiid post in a desperate attempt at garnering 'likes' ... funniest part is the simpleton actually thought her usual cohorts will join the bandwagon to hurl insults at OP.. but unfortunately only ended up exposing how idiotic and frustrated she is right on the front page.. smh

Yes it did, I actually slit my wrists.


Oh sorry I've not seen this one, darn I guess I need to add feminist and mad dog then.

*Kanye shrug*

I am a yaba left escapee with Daddy issues.

wisdomiskey:


The fact that you've pathetically decided to add this line to all your recent posts, only shows that this epic comment really pained you

Mstick:
Yes it did, I actually slit my wrists.


Oh sorry I've not seen this one, darn I guess I need to add feminist and mad dog then.

*Kanye shrug*

I am a yaba left escapee with Daddy issues.

So you actually went on google, searched for "daddy issues memes", downloaded one (or perhaps several), and then saved them on your phone just to be able to post them on Nairaland?? Hahahahaha.

To think you lost your child 2 months ago due to neglect, yet have energy for all this.

It's pathetic really

Actually I did, you know how it is. Oh I am sure you can't relate since your parents just celebrated their diamond anniversary.

I know! Right?! Nairaland is like an oxygen to me that's why I neglected my child and it died.

Guess what? I was on nairaland while the so called child died so I can be able to reply your mentions isn't it grand?

Believe me it gets worst, but like my nairaland therapists would say....


Just download another Daddy issues meme from Google in memory of the "child" I lost two months ago! Buhahahaha.
I am a yaba left escapee with Daddy issues.

wisdomiskey:


So you actually went on google, searched for "daddy issues memes", downloaded one (or perhaps several), and then saved them on your phone just to be able to post them on Nairaland?? Hahahahaha.

To think you lost your child 2 months ago due to neglect, yet have energy for all this.

It's pathetic really

Me I prefer Bad girls o so I don't think it's only girls.

Yaaaaaaay! That's why we're here then isn't it?! Let's discuss dead kids.


You don't need to screenshot any posts, I am here not running away.


Do you want to know what the corpse for a child looks like? How they're buried? Whatever just ask away.


I am a yaba left escapee with Daddy issues.

wisdomiskey:
Enough said..

PrimadonnaO:
When they say girls are attracted to bad boys, I seriously wonder.

I can’t see a guy that fits into that description and be attracted....tattoos, earrings, big shoes, jewelry; or some form of notoriety. When a person like that even tries to make advances towards me, I feel very unhappy and insulted.

But 95% girls or ladies crazy for play boy% i have tried everything to reason y they easily go down for such character, ............ordinary advice lover boys will not offer, such character is also a bad boy though they are handsome