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excanny:
Never ever tell her u did this o.

If u want to quit her, just quit her jejely.

Or if you want to continue, just continue in silence.

southniyikaye:
whatever you say, I removed so many text messages. If I uploaded everything here, you won't call me fraud.
Go through my topics, then come back and call me a fraud

Sunmolar:
ok.when is the next chat coming?


you still love her 100%. maybe someone is already eating her fruits raw over there. how can you live with that?

Ishilove:
What I see here is a woman who has been made vulnerable by years of tough conditions, so much so that when a stranger comes to her with the promise of a better life, she falls. What i see here is a woman desperate for a lifeline, anything to take away the hardship of her present living conditions. She is dissatisfied with the poverty of her circumstances but on a level, though she still loves her husband (I can sense this), she is tired of hardship.

Southniyikaye, na condition make crayfish bend. While I don't support the fuckery, I am objectively commenting based on the information you have provided. You will not get back the love and respect of your wife as long as you are not able to provide for your family. The Bible says a man who cannot provide for his family is worse than an infidel.

It takes a very rare and special kind of woman to stick with her man through thick and thin, and I am sorry to say that madam is not one. You need to take back control of your family. What I am reading here can be remedied. You just need to get your shit_ together.

southniyikaye:
if so many men know what their wives and girlfriend does behind them, suicide will be much. Every body is just living normal, like someone said, she is yours when she is with you.
Only God knows the faithful

Ishilove:
What I see here is a woman who has been made vulnerable by years of tough conditions, so much so that when a stranger comes to her with the promise of a better life, she falls. What i see here is a woman desperate for a lifeline, anything to take away the hardship of her present living conditions. She is dissatisfied with the poverty of her circumstances but on a level, though she still loves her husband (I can sense this), she is tired of hardship.

Southniyikaye, na condition make crayfish bend. While I don't support the fuckery, I am objectively commenting based on the information you have provided. You will not get back the love and respect of your wife as long as you are not able to provide for your family. The Bible says a man who cannot provide for his family is worse than an infidel.

It takes a very rare and special kind of woman to stick with her man through thick and thin, and I am sorry to say that madam is not one. You need to take back control of your family. What I am reading here can be remedied. You just need to get your shit_ together.

southniyikaye:
quit her ke? The new guy will disappear without traces.

Sunmolar:
your wife says she loves you no more & you claim you still love her 100%.


you try.

excanny:
Obviously, the OP's esteem don diminish so bad that anything goes for him.

I know what most men will do in a case like this but he's handicapped cos he too needs to truly understand himself first.

excanny:
Obviously, the OP's esteem don diminish so bad that anything goes for him.

I know what most men will do in a case like this but he's handicapped cos he too needs to truly understand himself first.

Atiku:
Na you kill your marriage. Mumu man

Mystery9:
How him take mumu, Oga go sleep.

Mariangeles:
Reading through the chats, I just felt sorry for you @op

You might think you're fooling your wife, but the truth of the matter is you're living in fantasy.
You're delusional.
You craved her attention so bad, you created a character to live out your fantasies, fooling yourself.
I strongly advise that you wake up from the illusion and deal with the matter at hand.
For how long is the charade going to continue? As long as you enjoy it? Even knowing it's fake?
With all sincerity, I feel sorry for you.

southniyikaye:
you still don't understand, it was a guy that opened a thread sometimes and said if you want to know your wife, opened a new account and chat her.
Maybe madeinchezen or something.
Sincerely, am happy this happened. Do you think I will leave her? All those things she hates, I will stop them, all those things she likes, I will start doing them. That's the plan.
I always know that if I know what I need to know about her and changed, I will enjoy her
I even just called her now and she talked normal

Atiku:
Who will love a lazy, lousy, dirty fat man?

Imagine all the people she turned down because of him.. They will be doing so well now

southniyikaye:
Well, I know my stand now,all I need do is focus on my life, make money, diet, have a good shape and all.
Funny enough, the guy's pics I used, the guy is not even as handsome as I am.
But he comes from an extremely rich family that has lots of Rolls-Royce, g-wagons, Bentleys and he stays in park view ikoyi.
His father's cars was seized sometimes ago by customs.
Have given enough clue. Already.
mufasa....okeowo
Hmmmm this life Sha.

excanny:
Women are not supposed to see men as a means to escape poverty.

She should be hardworking enough to raise her own kids with or without a man.

southniyikaye:
lol, I was prepared for something like this a long time., got thick skin already just wanna confirm my suspicion.believe me, though it hurts but let's see who loose at the end of the day

southniyikaye:
So my egungun finally enter express when I opened a new Facebook using a super rich dude's profile. Got some of his nice pics, added some cool, rich and random guys and girls on Facebook, when. I had about 100 friends, then I sent a request to my wife and she accepted.
Well last year I had financial problems so she has to go stay with her mom while I went to hide my head somewhere.
I know so many things about her which she doesn't know I knew about so I used that to cajole her and she fall yakata in just two days.
Brodas and siztas, my eyes saw my ears.
Someone I have known, sacrificed my eight years for, was now sounding like someone am just meeting for the very first time.
Things have begged her to tell me for years, she just spilled it out for a new guy she barely knew. She said some truth and lied about some things when it comes to her family matters.
Abeg make una just read for una self o.
POVERTY IS A BASTARD.
called her this morning that I had a dream, she was even already giving me attitudes on phone.
Told her I saw her, my kids and her entire family traveling out but they left me behind and I was crying. My wife said, well I don't know o. I don't understand your dream.

Mumu me was even having a hard on chatting with my wife. I was always eager to chat her online and she was so happy chatting me too.
The last time she gave me a real chat was months ago and it was for 5mins but he chatted the rich me for more than 11hrs straight.
I had opened a thread some months ago here about how I want to become a better man for her.
Well she said some things that I love, things like,
I don't cheat on her
I am hardworking
I didn't chase her away,
I didn't maltreat her.
The one that sweet me pass that I have always asked her and she never gave me an answer for was.
.
Toor as I am speaking to you like this, I am weak and not thinking straight.
Eight years and I was married to myself thinking I married my better half.

Well, concerning me being fat, hunger and discipline has eradicated that. As for me being dirty, I fabricate machines and I can't leave my uniform in my work place. So I come home like that to shower.
As for littering everywhere with my clothes, she no lie and have learnt to put my things in order.
So many things have changed about me she can't even imagine. The last time we saw was beginning of January and so many things about me have changed since then.

Abeg, I know there are some people on this forum that making millions is like ABC to them, pls help my career, show me ways am begging..
I Don try yahoo, he no work, tried ritual/blood money, still didn't work.
I opened lots of thread documenting my life and am tired of documenting, make una help my life abeg. Pls edakun.
Ishilove
Scientists
Pocahontas
J111333
Excanny
Dawnomike
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I am so weak right now fa, legally married ni naw.

Ybaby:
Unserious man

You are gathering info instead of money.

Your in -laws are using their pension to feed your wife and kids .... you are forming sharp guy.

ok

Ybaby:
See bro!

Make I no lie you Olowo ma gba Iyawo ole ni (ole is not necessarily lazy but no money)

Leave Gbola matter first. You have genius mind to create FB page and retarget your wife so you can do mini importation, ecommerce, you can sell on Instagram, you can sponsored posts ....so much you can do.

That your gbola will only lead to more children.

Your brain is working - go to Idumota and do baranda ...hustle like crazy ....forget that 8 years.

If a real rich man come she will drop you o....she needs to pay school fees and buy make up.

Hurry!

NiceMen:
Because of you, I go create post on mini importation for the man. I hate it when women use this fork men up..

Spanishmilf:
do u really need a job??

Spanishmilf:
do u really need a job??

NiceMen:
Because of you, I go create post on mini importation for the man. I hate it when women use this fork men up..