MrBrownJay1:
you are not ready for marriage if the only attraction you have towards your future wife is her big backside.... remember, all the physical attributes you may fancy right now, by the time you mount her daily for a few months/year, then you will finally get tired of it and see that backside for what it really is....aka a useless shiit box!

just enjoy the big bootay and be done with it in due time, do NOT waste your life marrying this woman.

as they say:

Jackofall:
I have always been very attracted to women with big ass, I just can't help it. I don't know why I'm like that, I just love it.

So there is this girl I have known for long, she has big ass and we both like each other. Although there are some things about her that I don't like, she isn't intellectual, and she is religious (she is like a pastor in her church).

I know physical attraction shouldn't be the only thing I should love out for in a woman, but all the ladies I have dated, the ones I enjoyed most are those with either big ass or big boobs

Am I making a mistake? Will I regret it in future if I marry a woman because of her big ass?

Teaveapoet:
I am reading this post and am laughing � and I am trying not to believe this is true.
Haa, don't play with fire ooh. Marriage is not bread and butter, It can be frustrating at times when you can provide, and misunderstanding can happen if you're not mature to handle some intelligent conversation but getting married because of a physical attribute is a no-no. with time that buttock will not be attractive anymore... That innocent-looking church girl will turn Margaret Thatcher For the sake of your sanity. I repeat don't try it. And for the sake of your own family, don't marry because of physical features.

Jackofall:
I have always been very attracted to women with big ass, I just can't help it. I don't know why I'm like that, I just love it.

So there is this girl I have known for long, she has big ass and we both like each other. Although there are some things about her that I don't like, she isn't intellectual, and she is religious (she is like a pastor in her church).
You will die, cos your brother will kill you just sleep with your wife, your landlord will kill you,arm robbers will kill you.
I know physical attraction shouldn't be the only thing I should love out for in a woman, but all the ladies I have dated, the ones I enjoyed most are those with either big ass or big boobs

Am I making a mistake? Will I regret it in future if I marry a woman because of her big ass?

Channah1:
I didn't want to contribute to this useless topic but seeing what a responsible married man commented down there about his wife. I decided to chip in this.

Now, majority of you who clamour for big bum fail to realize that they get bigger and out of shape with time. Even the small sized ones will also get bigger with time. Look at Rihanna. Just after one and she's looking this big; to think she used to look petit before now.
So if you're judging a woman by shape and size, then you're getting it all wrong because all that will change and very quickly before you know it.

My worry in this kind of thing is, it's the slim and short guys that always want the big butt women. Forgetting that it will get to a time you won't be able to satisfy her any longer as she'll become too thick for your tiny, short or slim frame. Una no dey pity una self.

A little secret here.. a big butt lady once disclosed to my elder sister that they prefer men that are muscular and strong with big gbola. Not even an average size o because it doesn't satisfy them and since then, I've been observing girls with big butt are usually selective and particular about a mans P size. So if you know you're not that strong with the right size, don't even deceive yourself because she may not even agree to marry you and if does out of desperation, she'll cheat on you without remorse. Na me tell you.

Anyways, go for it if that is all marriage is to you. However, I think you need counseling from mature and experienced people on what marriage is truly about.

Jackofall:


Sorry óò , but there are so many things you said that doesn't make sense. So because a woman is big, means she cant be satisfied by a slim man? Doesn't make sense.

Also, you talked about a big butt lady that told your sister that she prefers strong and muscular men with big gbola. So it's ok for women to want men cos of their physical attributes but it's not ok for a man to. How does that make any sense to you?

I don't even know why I'm replying you.

Richy4:
I double checked to see if I was at the wrong section or if it was still family section..
However,U are not making a mistake.. Go ahead and may the gods be with you

Jackofall:
I have always been very attracted to women with big ass, I just can't help it. I don't know why I'm like that, I just love it.

So there is this girl I have known for long, she has big ass and we both like each other. Although there are some things about her that I don't like, she isn't intellectual, and she is religious (she is like a pastor in her church).

I know physical attraction shouldn't be the only thing I should love out for in a woman, but all the ladies I have dated, the ones I enjoyed most are those with either big ass or big boobs

Am I making a mistake? Will I regret it in future if I marry a woman because of her big ass?

teegurl2:
Dear OP


Marry her please. But ensure that she has all the other qualities you desire in a wife.

If you like women with big behinds please don't go and marry flat ass woman o because you will never be satisfied no matter how good she is of a person. You will still be stealing glances at other women while y'all out together and she would always feel like she's not enough.

I remember meeting two different guys that told me they preferred dark skinned ladies. Meanwhile I am light skinned, but they kept pressing me to date them.

I thought about it and felt it didn't make sense. Am not their spec.

Guess who these guys are married to, today? Dark skinned ladies. Just like they had always wanted.

Women can still manage even if it's not their spec, but men.....let him just find another lady that's a spec and ticks the boxes after marriage, unless he's God fearing, he ll go after her.

Men marry your spec please.

Jackofall:


Sorry óò , but there are so many things you said that doesn't make sense. So because a woman is big, means she cant be satisfied by a slim man? Doesn't make sense.

Also, you talked about a big butt lady that told your sister that she prefers strong and muscular men with big gbola. So it's ok for women to want men cos of their physical attributes but it's not ok for a man to. How does that make any sense to you?

I don't even know why I'm replying you.

Channah1:
I didn't want to contribute to this useless topic but seeing what a responsible married man commented down there about his wife. I decided to chip in this.

Now, majority of you who clamour for big bum fail to realize that they get bigger and out of shape with time. Even the small sized ones will also get bigger with time. Look at Rihanna. Just after one and she's looking this big; to think she used to look petit before now.
So if you're judging a woman by shape and size, then you're getting it all wrong because all that will change and very quickly before you know it.

My worry in this kind of thing is, it's the slim and short guys that always want the big butt women. Forgetting that it will get to a time you won't be able to satisfy her any longer as she'll become too thick for your tiny, short or slim frame. Una no dey pity una self.

A little secret here.. a big butt lady once disclosed to my elder sister that they prefer men that are muscular and strong with big gbola. Not even an average size o because it doesn't satisfy them and since then, I've been observing girls with big butt are usually selective and particular about a mans P size. So if you know you're not that strong with the right size, don't even deceive yourself because she may not even agree to marry you and if does out of desperation, she'll cheat on you without remorse. Na me tell you.

Anyways, go for it if that is all marriage is to you. However, I think you need counseling from mature and experienced people on what marriage is truly about.

UyaiIncomparabl:


Seven blessings to you.

I don't understand why people underrate physical attraction. I don't. I even don't take men who tell me they don't have a spec seriously (anything goes). Everyone should have a choice of a spec that makes them shudder at a glance.

I remember one time I was talking to a guy who liked me. He loved chubby girls, but I am not chubby. He said he could compromise and that he loved my intelligence/beauty and that these virtues will cover up for the lack of chubbiness. I laughed and told him that I wasn't interested and that physical attraction is very important like food. Today, he's married to a chubby woman (his choice).

One thing I won't do is compromise on physical attraction. It's VERY important to me. Yes, character is important but physical attraction is as well VERY important. For example, I am attracted to dark-skinned men. I have no business being with a light-skinned man because I know there won't be any attraction in the first place.

Mostly, men who compromise saying character first usually cheat later on. I wonder why people trivialize physical attraction.

UyaiIncomparabl:


Seven blessings to you.

I don't understand why people underrate physical attraction. I don't. I even don't take men who tell me they don't have a spec seriously (anything goes). Everyone should have a choice of a spec that makes them shudder at a glance.

I remember one time I was talking to a guy who liked me. He loved chubby girls, but I am not chubby. He said he could compromise and that he loved my intelligence/beauty and that these virtues will cover up for the lack of chubbiness. I laughed and told him that I wasn't interested and that physical attraction is very important like food. Today, he's married to a chubby woman (his choice).

One thing I won't do is compromise on physical attraction. It's VERY important to me. Yes, character is important but physical attraction is as well VERY important. For example, I am attracted to dark-skinned men. I have no business being with a light-skinned man because I know there won't be any attraction in the first place.

Mostly, men who compromise saying character first usually cheat later on. I wonder why people trivialize physical attraction.

Greatdand007:


Wow you so fineeeeeee

Jackofall:


God bless you. You are making sense, you just spoke my mind

Jackofall:


So I should marry a woman because of other deeper attributes like her personality, her values, her beliefs etc. So after marrying her, I can be seeing other women with big ass and probably cheat on my wife because she doesn't have big ass.

UyaiIncomparabl:


Seven blessings to you.

I don't understand why people underrate physical attraction. I don't. I even don't take men who tell me they don't have a spec seriously (anything goes). Everyone should have a choice of a spec that makes them shudder at a glance.

I remember one time I was talking to a guy who liked me. He loved chubby girls, but I am not chubby. He said he could compromise and that he loved my intelligence/beauty and that these virtues will cover up for the lack of chubbiness. I laughed and told him that I wasn't interested and that physical attraction is very important like food. Today, he's married to a chubby woman (his choice).

One thing I won't do is compromise on physical attraction. It's VERY important to me. Yes, character is important but physical attraction is as well VERY important. For example, I am attracted to dark-skinned men. I have no business being with a light-skinned man because I know there won't be any attraction in the first place.

Mostly, men who compromise saying character first usually cheat later on. So, I wonder why people trivialize physical attraction.