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Guys ur thought on this, my guy and his girl have been together on a relationship for the past two years now, infact ever they've been dating, two years now they've been staying together. unfortunately this guy has been on one menial job to another just for both of them to survive, he didn't complete his university education because of some setbacks. Thus, the gal in question could be so demanding almost every time not minding the unemployed status of this guy. Though they really love each other.

Right now how they're both surviving is that those facebook admirers and other guys around who are willing to put any cash just for the gal to sleep with them, the gal scam them and collect money from them and that's what they have been doing just to survive.
It's worrisome hearing that my gal is seeing some sort of man at an eatery let alone allowing her to be seeing men.
And I keep on asking myself to what point could this gal in question maintain this without going afterwards and be sleeping with this guys.
As I know there's a point a man will shower a woman love and financial favour and the gal might loosened it irrespective if she's in a serious relationship or not, cos some could be funny, and I see that really happening soon .
I can't even imagine that in my relationship, a relationship as serious as mine. psychologically it will disturb me let alone granting her permission to meet them in an eatery, what happens after then no one knows, one will still argue that she's not having sex with them but who knows.
Pals my fears is that I see this my guy's gal leaving my guy for a richer guy with time If he continues permitting her do this cheating will be inevitable in her part her, and I don't know how to advise him without putting pressure on him or making him feel bad.

K

Dat is prostitution..anyhow u guys want to put it.not after using her for his selfish gains,will abandon her someday for some girl..she sleeps with those men.the guy don turn her into a mobile brothel.

It won't end well obviously, tell your friend to get a grip.

the dude is dating an undercover olosho who hasnt met PROPER CLIENT yet...

Zeal0000007:
Guys ur thought on this, my guy and his girl have been together on a relationship for the past two years now, infact ever they've been dating, two years now they've been staying together. unfortunately this guy has been on one menial job to another just for both of them to survive, he didn't complete his university education because of some setbacks. Thus, the gal in question could be so demanding almost every time not minding the unemployed status of this guy. Though they really love each other.

Right now how they're both surviving is that those facebook admirers and other guys around who are willing to put any cash just for the gal to sleep with them, the gal scam them and collect money from them and that's what they have been doing just to survive.
It's worrisome hearing that my gal is seeing some sort of man at an eatery let alone allowing her to be seeing men.
And I keep on asking myself to what point could this gal in question maintain this without going afterwards and be sleeping with this guys.
As I know there's a point a man will shower a woman love and financial favour and the gal might loosened it irrespective if she's in a serious relationship or not, cos some could be funny, and I see that really happening soon .
I can't even imagine that in my relationship, a relationship as serious as mine. psychologically it will disturb me let alone granting her permission to meet them in an eatery, what happens after then no one knows, one will still argue that she's not having sex with them but who knows.
Pals my fears is that I see this my guy's gal leaving my guy for a richer guy with time If he continues permitting her do this cheating will be inevitable in her part her, and I don't know how to advise him without putting pressure on him or making him feel bad.

the girl in question is already cheating.
take it or leave it

Both

Plenty wahala for dead body.