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Ok, am not one to bore you with the details.
Keeping it short and simple.


They've been married for 3 years now,life happened and the man lost his job at the second year of marriage.


T'was suppose to be a struggle all through that year, till the man got a job, but his wife mysteriously provided for the family.



Getting into the 3rd year of marriage, the husband got a job, better than the one he lost.


Me think it's getting too long now, well he got to find out that, it was his wife ex that was bank rolling his home when he was jobless.


Me question here is, was it okey for the wife to collect money from her ex, without telling the husband even though they could had manage.


P.s they're childless.

He should warn the wife and let go whatever that has happened

Sometimes we get hurt by trying to know too much and finding some answers

He should just let go, If he want to keep his home o, and have peace

For my place,if she collect the money use am cook for me...na death be dat....very bad.

Okafor's law is always constant in this equation.
There is no way that woman can say she was not forked by her ex while he was giving her money on several occasions.
I advice all married men to always pray against hard times & life turbulences because shiit can make even a good wife to run out of options.

donbachi:
For my place,if she collect the money use am cook for me...na death be dat....very bad.

Na lie

donbachi:
For my place,if she collect the money use am cook for me...na death be dat....very bad.

In this 21st century.
Where is that exactly ?

ojun50:
Na lie

na ur place?

It's not okay.
She made a 'selfish’ decision.
And she traded her 'marriage' as collateral.

If she wasn't married, that would have been different.

I try to keep my communication with my married exes to hi, hello, how are you and family, ok, bye.

Because after God, fear women.

Onyinye ekwnsu.... Devil wants to Divide that lovely family...

It’s called refunding..

EdEdEddy:
Ok, am not one to bore you with the details.
Keeping it short and simple.


They've been married for 3 years now,life happened and the man lost his job at the second year of marriage.


T'was suppose to be a struggle all through that year, till the man got a job, but his wife mysteriously provided for the family.



Getting into the 3rd year of marriage, the husband got a job, better than the one he lost.


Me think it's getting too long now, well he got to find out that, it was his wife ex that was bank rolling his home when he was jobless.


Me question here is, was it okey for the wife to collect money from her ex, without telling the husband even though they could had manage.


P.s they're childless.

It is wrong especially when your spouse is not aware.

Don't stoop so low.

Not all ex are that bad, you guys were not meant to be together. Ex can help

It is okay if it is not done in secret

I do tell people, tell your spouse everything
It's better he/she hear it from your than from third party