Please pardon me for posting this here. I would have posted it in health section but the last one I posted there didn't get much satifisfactory response. I wanna believe we have some specialist here who can be of help.

Just to be double sure, I've heard it over and again that if a girl is celibate for a long time say 5 to 6 years before getting pregnant that she'll have some birth complications because the cervix has contrasted so much due to lack of sexual activities. How true is this?

Does celibacy tighen the cervix?

I also read somewhere that a lady fainted due to severe pains from sex on her wedding cos she was celibate for a long time after. And a doctor said its because she was sexually active before going celibate, that if she was a virgin it wouldn't have tightened so much.

Now, How true is this too? Like after being sexually active briefly then you go into celibacy for a very long time? And if its true, how or what can one do to prevent such scenario ( fainting) and the pains. Any dilating drugs or remedy.

Please a kind hearted doc should give suggestions or help clear the above.
Thanks.

Any help, ideas

No celibacy does not cause complications at birth. However untreated STDs can damage the fallopian tubes and the cervix which can cause fertility issues. If the fallopian tube is affected, then it is possible to get something called an ectopic pregnancy, which is a pregnancy outside the womb (A potentially life-threatening condition).

It's possible that she had an untreated STD which can cause chronic pelvic inflammatory disease, there will always be pain during intercourse with this condition unless it is treated. She should go for STD tests and she should see a gynecologist so they can do ultrasound scans on her reproductive system.

MelaninSkinGirl:
No celibacy does not cause complications at birth. However untreated STDs can damage the fallopian tubes and the cervix. It's possible that she had an untreated STD which can cause chronic pelvic inflammatory disease, there will always be pain during intercourse with this condition unless it is treated. She should go for STD tests and she should see a gynecologist so they can do ultrasound scans on her reproductive system.

Nope the Lady that fainted didn't have any STDs. She was not sexually active for a Long time and so on her wedding night she fainted from excruciating pains and injury sustained as her hubby was trying to ..... Break her again.

Thanks for the heads up though.

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We get it that you are celibate and not a hõe.

Lalasticlala

Martinez39s:
We get it that you are celibate and not a hõe.

This is a serious matter na.

Eulalia:
Please pardon me for posting this here. I would have posted it in health section but the last one I posted there didn't get much satifisfactory response. I wanna believe we have some specialist here who can be of help.

Just to be double sure, I've heard it over and again that if a girl is celibate for a long time say 5 to 6 years before getting pregnant that she'll have some birth complications because the cervix has contrasted so much due to lack of sexual activities. How true is this?

Does celibacy tighen the cervix?

I also read somewhere that a lady fainted due to severe pains from sex on her wedding cos she was celibate for a long time after. And a doctor said its because she was sexually active before going celibate, that if she was a virgin it wouldn't have tightened so much.

Now, How true is this too? Like after being sexually active briefly then you go into celibacy for a very long time? And if its true, how or what can one do to prevent such scenario ( fainting) and the pains. Any dilating drugs or remedy.

Please a kind hearted doc should give suggestions or help clear the above.
Thanks.

No, its not true. If she had an untreated STD, or previous infections, thats another ball game.

funmisticqueen2:
No, its not true. If she had an untreated STD, or previous infections, thats another ball game.

Nope. She never had such.
Thanks dear.

Eulalia:



Nope the Lady that fainted didn't have any STDs. She was not sexually active for a Long time and so on her wedding night she fainted from excruciating pains and injury sustained as her hubby was trying to ..... Break her again.

Thanks for the heads up though.

that's like secondary virginity. She'll be fine. For sex to be painful for her. Was she raped?

Didn't her husband use pre-intimacy, was she aroused before penetratioN? Is she a spiri koko christian sister? Is she a victim of female genital cutting?

funmisticqueen2:
that's like secondary virginity. She'll be fine. For sex to be painful for her. Was she raped?

Didn't her husband use pre-intimacy, was she aroused before penetratioN? Is she a spiri koko christian sister? Is she a victim of female genital cutting?

She wasn't raped. It was with her husband on her wedding night.
Yeah, she's an SU.
No genital mutilation.

I think its a case of secondary virginity.

Eulalia:


She wasn't raped. It was with her husband on her wedding night.
Yeah, she's an SU.
No genital mutilation.

I think its a case of secondary virginity.

SU couples always have 'challenges' on their wedding night. I am tired of counselling many cases.

Pls give her some mills and boon, or harlequin romance novel to read. When it gets to the sexual scenes, let her imagine herself and her husband acting out the scene. This will build chemistry and enable her enjoy sex.


The secret to painless sex is to be mentally prepared for it.

•She should relax and come from the place of her husband loves her and doesn't want to harm her.

•She should tell herself that sex is enjoyable, with the man she chose. After being celibate, she better enjoy the sweet fruit of the her efforts.

•She should start to see her husband in a sexual light, as a sexually attractive man. Like in the romance novels.

She should communicate with him to be gentle with her and take things slowly.

I wish the couple good luck.

funmisticqueen2:
SU couples always have 'challenges' on their wedding night. I am tired of counselling many cases.

Pls give her some mills and boon, or harlequin romance novel to read. When it gets to the sexual scenes, let her imagine herself and her husband acting out the scene. This will build chemistry and enable her enjoy sex.


The secret to painless sex is to be mentally prepared for it.

•She should relax and come from the place of her husband loves her and doesn't want to harm her.

•She should tell herself that sex is enjoyable, with the man she chose.

•She should start to see her husband in a sexual light, as a sexually attractive man. Like in the romance novels.

She should communicate with him to be gentle with her and take things slowly.

I wish the couple good luck.

Ok. Thank you. I think the couple have gone past this stage now cos they now have kids. So I guess this tips will be more useful to us the up and coming SUs .

Thanks.

Are lubricants safe and advisable?
I really appreciate.

Eulalia:


Ok. Thank you. I think the couple have gone past this stage now cos they now have kids. So I guess this tips will be more useful to us the up and coming SUs .

Thanks.

Are lubricants safe and advisable?
I really appreciate.

yes they are, however, pls don't use oils. They aren't good. Good lubricant, or water helps.


But then an aroused mind and body might not need lubricants

No it doesn't.

funmisticqueen2:
yes they are, however, pls don't use oils. They aren't good. Good lubricant, or water helps.


But then an aroused mind and body might not need lubricants

Wow really? Oils are not good? Hm. Ok. I guess water is the way to go then since its natural.

Thanks a bunch dear.

rosy1992:
No it doesn't.

Okie's dearie.
Thanks.

Eulalia:
Please pardon me for posting this here. I would have posted it in health section but the last one I posted there didn't get much satifisfactory response. I wanna believe we have some specialist here who can be of help.

Just to be double sure, I've heard it over and again that if a girl is celibate for a long time say 5 to 6 years before getting pregnant that she'll have some birth complications because the cervix has contrasted so much due to lack of sexual activities. How true is this?

Does celibacy tighen the cervix?

I also read somewhere that a lady fainted due to severe pains from sex on her wedding cos she was celibate for a long time after. And a doctor said its because she was sexually active before going celibate, that if she was a virgin it wouldn't have tightened so much.

Now, How true is this too? Like after being sexually active briefly then you go into celibacy for a very long time? And if its true, how or what can one do to prevent such scenario ( fainting) and the pains. Any dilating drugs or remedy.

Please a kind hearted doc should give suggestions or help clear the above.
Thanks.

My Eulalia, don't mind those superstitious beliefs!!

No

I seriously doubt it! Fvck no
But 5-6 years
Who condemned her to celibacy? If I stay 3 months without smashing I go just kpai
Because semen go don dey comot from my nostrils

Damnnnnn niggarrr

Hell no
The elasticity of a woman's body can not be over emphasized

A woman's body can accept anything
It hardly exceeds its elastic limit

Reading

Your question is based on hearsay. There are women who are are naturally very tight even when they are very sexually active.

Never seen or heard of a female Celibate

Did Virgin Mary have complications?

you just need excuse and validation to start fvcking up and down six years before your marriage so that you can tell your husband you only wanted to slack the kpekus for easy child birth

.

Are you the right person for Ade?

Retired from active service and began active service..... Definitely there must be slight pains and complications...

Okay


E be like say you don miss Preek

Now you're just looking for an excuse to go back to knacking