Not at all unless there is underground pathology likes not well treated PID, abnormal pelvis, etc. Pregnant n labour is a physiological program events

Eulalia:



Nope the Lady that fainted didn't have any STDs. She was not sexually active for a Long time and so on her wedding night she fainted from excruciating pains and injury sustained as her hubby was trying to ..... Break her again.

Thanks for the heads up though.

Long abstinence from sex and over age virginity do cause painful intercourse.

Let me briefly explain using Freudian theory.
1. Before a lady will abstain herself from sex for long time, there must an event that necessitated it. First, it can be trauma from bad sexual activities e.g. rape, etc. Secondly, phobia for sex as a result of failed relationships that emotionally affected her psyche.

These events may lead her to abstain from sex for long time. When she eventually gets married, she may think that the problem is over. Unfortunately the problem has graduated to VAGINISMUS. that is what she experienced on that day. This is very serious health complications.

VAGINISMUS is involuntary spasm of vagina's muscle preventing successful insertion of penis into vagina, resulting to painful sexual intercourse and in some cases wounding of vagina wall.

shugabasbn:
Not at all unless there is underground pathology likes not well treated PID, abnormal pelvis, etc. Pregnant n labour is a physiological program events

Ok.
Thanks.

galantjoe:


Long abstinence from sex and over age virginity do cause painful intercourse.

Let me briefly explain using Freudian theory.
1. Before a lady will abstain herself from sex for long time, there must an event that necessitated it. First, it can be trauma from bad sexual activities e.g. rape, etc. Secondly, phobia for sex as a result of failed relationships that emotionally affected her psyche.

These events may lead her to abstain from sex for long time. When she eventually gets married, she may think that the problem is over. Unfortunately the problem has graduated to VAGINISMUS. that is what she experienced on that day. This is very serious health complications.

VAGINISMUS is involuntary spasm of vagina's muscle preventing successful insertion of penis into vagina, resulting to painful sexual intercourse and in some cases wounding of vagina wall.

Ha! Jeeez
What if it was not as a result of any of those cases you mentioned? Maybe a personal decision. Will it still cause vaginismus?

Exc2000:



Did Virgin Mary have complications?

you just need excuse and validation to start fvcking up and down six year before your marriage so that you can tell your husband you only wante d to slack the kpekus for easy child birth

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Watch your tongue mad man.most you use that particular name to make reference? With all the olodhos name littered left right n centre onuku......

sizer07:



Watch your tongue mad man.most you use that particular name to make reference? With all the olodhos name littered left right n centre onuku......

cant seem to string any meaningful thing from this balderdash you wrote up there.. why not give the phone to the most educated person in your house to help you type what you want to say

Eulalia:


Wow really? Oils are not good? Hm. Ok. I guess water is the way to go then since its natural.

Thanks a bunch dear.

Don't just use ordinary water. It can get heated up easily due to friction from thrusting. What I think he meant was water based lubricants, not oil based like vaseline.

Cheers!!!

fieryy:
Op, no johr

Kindly reply my mail.

Themaths:

Don't just use ordinary water. It can get heated up easily due to friction from thrusting. What I think he meant was water based lubricants, not oil based like vaseline.

Cheers!!!

O ho... My God. Thank you.

Eulalia:



Ha! Jeeez
What if it was not as a result of any of those cases you mentioned? Maybe a personal decision. Will it still cause vaginismus?

No.

In that case, she will likely engage in masturbation which is alternative sexual intercourse. Because it lubricate the cervix and vagina.

For case of vaginismus, the spasm will allow no object inside vagina.

Tonysmith4sure:


Guy you burst my brain I tell you. Which kin tin be dis? Just 3 months? You must be a bad m*therfu*ker

haba 3 Months is much bro, there are niqqas that smash every day na
I be confirmed saint for some niqqas side

Eulalia:
Please pardon me for posting this here. I would have posted it in health section but the last one I posted there didn't get much satifisfactory response. I wanna believe we have some specialist here who can be of help.

Just to be double sure, I've heard it over and again that if a girl is celibate for a long time say 5 to 6 years before getting pregnant that she'll have some birth complications because the cervix has contrasted so much due to lack of sexual activities. How true is this?

Does celibacy tighen the cervix?

I also read somewhere that a lady fainted due to severe pains from sex on her wedding cos she was celibate for a long time after. And a doctor said its because she was sexually active before going celibate, that if she was a virgin it wouldn't have tightened so much.

Now, How true is this too? Like after being sexually active briefly then you go into celibacy for a very long time? And if its true, how or what can one do to prevent such scenario ( fainting) and the pains. Any dilating drugs or remedy.

Please a kind hearted doc should give suggestions or help clear the above.
Thanks.

i am no doctor. But you please be reasonable.
What you have heard, or what you have been told are lies from the pit of hell itself! My God!!
it might be boys that are peddling such outlandish lies. NO!! Celibacy does not cause birth complications, celibacy does not tighten the vagina!!
Just like when i was growing up, some older guys then, were spreading lies that husbands don't like virgin wives, so if you are a virgin your husband would not like you because you won't be sweet or that you don't have the experience to satisfy him. And so many girls believed that nonsense.

Be reasonable.

Please, i'm sure you have a doctor in your family or a friend ask him directly.

Eulalia:



Nope the Lady that fainted didn't have any STDs. She was not sexually active for a Long time and so on her wedding night she fainted from excruciating pains and injury sustained as her hubby was trying to ..... Break her again.

Thanks for the heads up though.

break her again? once the hymen is broken it can't be broken again.

Eulalia:


What I mean by "complications" here is the case of small or tight cervix which is common with this kind of situation. At least I have married friends who told me doctors always sound it to them to engage in it often to help ease delivery. So many reasons why I'm asking.

I suspect the confusion is in the word celibate: what the doctors are encouraging is intimacy during pregnancy.

"Does abstaining from sex during pregnancy reduce complications?"
appears to be different from
"Does abstaining from sex for years before pregnancy reduce complications"?

In the first, the conclusion appears to be all over the place ranging from "Sexual intercourse at term is not associated with ripening of the cervix and does not hasten labor.", to "Reported sexual intercourse at term was associated with earlier onset of labor and reduced requirement for labor induction at 41 weeks."
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4341500/#A16465R5

In the second, I am unaware of documented evidence that connects abstinence with complications at childbirth.


So in conclusion: in most articles about childbirth complications, rarely does sexual activity feature in the top ten reasons for why there are, or why there are no complications.

The highest factors appear to be:
- infections and diseases (including cancer)
- high blood pressure, epilepsy, anemia, diabetes
- being pregnant at age 35 or older, and at a young age
- eating disorder like anorexia
- smoking cigarettes, using illegal drugs, drinking alcohol

However my advice is: relax, reduce your stress levels, eat healthy, take your vitamins, make love with your partner during pregnancy.

Ye

Eulalia:


Already on it 5 years and still counting. Duh!

5years wow!!
What made you to become celibate or why did you become celibate?

cerpvad:
Female vagina is 'a use it or lose it' device. If you abstain from sex for a long time, your vagina will be drying up gradually and the walls will close up eventually. The experience on of my friends had with an SU sister he married has taught me a great lesson. The sister had not had sex for more than twenty years. After wedding, it took my friend about three weeks to have penetrative sex with her. She got pregnant and was delivered by Cs. Up till now my friend is complaining badly because the sister is very poor in bed.

Whats the meaning of SU?

BecaciaBarbie:

Liesssss!!!! I was deflowered on my wedding night, it was really painful but after 2 months the pain disappeared, though I think my body is still trying to adjust to this.

Didn't your husband stimulate you enough?

Eulalia:


Wow really? Oils are not good? Hm. Ok. I guess water is the way to go then since its natural.

Thanks a bunch dear.

Water is NOT a good lubricant. Buy KY jelly from the pharmacist. Oldies will also recommend Shea butter (Ori in Yoruba) excellent antibacterial oil based lubricant.

angelfallz:


Whats the meaning of SU?

It's an old word that literarily mean "Scripture Union" but applied as a derogatory/classification of very serious commited Christian.

angelfallz:


Whats the meaning of SU?

It's an old word that literarily mean "Scripture Union" but applied as a derogatory/classification of very serious and commited Christian.

shadeyinka:

It's an old word that literarily mean "Scripture Union" but applied as a derogatory/classification of very serious and commited Christian.

Thank you

professore:

Kindly reply my mail.

Whatever you want to tell me can surely be discussed here too... Right?

Eulalia:
Please pardon me for posting this here. I would have posted it in health section but the last one I posted there didn't get much satifisfactory response. I wanna believe we have some specialist here who can be of help.

Just to be double sure, I've heard it over and again that if a girl is celibate for a long time say 5 to 6 years before getting pregnant that she'll have some birth complications because the cervix has contrasted so much due to lack of sexual activities. How true is this?

Does celibacy tighen the cervix?

I also read somewhere that a lady fainted due to severe pains from sex on her wedding cos she was celibate for a long time after. And a doctor said its because she was sexually active before going celibate, that if she was a virgin it wouldn't have tightened so much.

Now, How true is this too? Like after being sexually active briefly then you go into celibacy for a very long time? And if its true, how or what can one do to prevent such scenario ( fainting) and the pains. Any dilating drugs or remedy.

Please a kind hearted doc should give suggestions or help clear the above.
Thanks.

. A path that is walked always is smother than a path that is not walked regularly or a path that has been abandoned. When a lady is still a virgin till about 34 or 35 the deflowering process may be painful as well as their childbirth .It is because of the contraction of the cervix as a result of irregular or non sexual activity..This however does not apply to everybody.... The solution is if there is a late marriage there must an ample time for pre-intimacy which helps lubricating the female genital for copulation. This will reduce the pain if it comes.When the lady is pregnant she must have sex on a regular basis with her husband so that her delivery will be easy..Abstinence from sex before marriage is not a problem as every sexual crisis can be controlled and managed depending on the understanding and orientation of the spouses .

If op is a celibate, I will give her a special gift. You can hardly find a celibate lady in this kind of environment expect the so-called artificial celibacy.

Hardly can you find a celibate lady on this forum. I dare any lady to speak up that she is a celibate.

Eulalia:
Please pardon me for posting this here. I would have posted it in health section but the last one I posted there didn't get much satifisfactory response. I wanna believe we have some specialist here who can be of help.

Just to be double sure, I've heard it over and again that if a girl is celibate for a long time say 5 to 6 years before getting pregnant that she'll have some birth complications because the cervix has contrasted so much due to lack of sexual activities. How true is this?

Does celibacy tighen the cervix?

I also read somewhere that a lady fainted due to severe pains from sex on her wedding cos she was celibate for a long time after. And a doctor said its because she was sexually active before going celibate, that if she was a virgin it wouldn't have tightened so much.

Now, How true is this too? Like after being sexually active briefly then you go into celibacy for a very long time? And if its true, how or what can one do to prevent such scenario ( fainting) and the pains. Any dilating drugs or remedy.

Please a kind hearted doc should give suggestions or help clear the above.
Thanks.

A path that is walked always is smother than a path that is not walked regularly or a path that has been abandoned. When a lady is still a virgin till about 34 or 35 the deflowering process may be painful as well as their childbirth .It is because of the contraction of the cervix as a result of irregular or non sexual activity..This however does not apply to everybody.... The solution is if there is a late marriage there must an ample time for pre-intimacy which helps lubricating the female genital for copulation. This will reduce the pain if it comes.When the lady is pregnant she must have sex on a regular basis with her husband so that her delivery will be easy..Abstinence from sex before marriage is not a problem as every sexual crisis can be controlled and managed depending on the understanding and orientation of the spouses .

Eulalia:
Please pardon me for posting this here. I would have posted it in health section but the last one I posted there didn't get much satifisfactory response. I wanna believe we have some specialist here who can be of help.

Just to be double sure, I've heard it over and again that if a girl is celibate for a long time say 5 to 6 years before getting pregnant that she'll have some birth complications because the cervix has contrasted so much due to lack of sexual activities. How true is this?

Does celibacy tighen the cervix?

I also read somewhere that a lady fainted due to severe pains from sex on her wedding cos she was celibate for a long time after. And a doctor said its because she was sexually active before going celibate, that if she was a virgin it wouldn't have tightened so much.

Now, How true is this too? Like after being sexually active briefly then you go into celibacy for a very long time? And if its true, how or what can one do to prevent such scenario ( fainting) and the pains. Any dilating drugs or remedy.

Please a kind hearted doc should give suggestions or help clear the above.
Thanks.

. A path that is walked always is smother than a path that is not walked regularly or a path that has been abandoned. When a lady is still a virgin till about 34 or 35 the deflowering process may be painful as well as their childbirth .It is because of the contraction of the cervix as a result of irregular or non sexual activity..This however does not apply to everybody.... The solution is if there is a late marriage there must an ample time for pre-intimacy which helps lubricating the female genital for copulation. This will reduce the pain if it comes.When the lady is pregnant she must have sex on a regular basis with her husband so that her delivery will be easy..Abstinence from sex before marriage is not a problem as every sexual crisis can be controlled and managed depending on the understanding and orientation of the spouses .

No that's fallacy... People do stay virgin till marriage and yet birth their baby without complications... That's a whole different case not a matter of celibacy

Eulalia:


Ok. Thank you. I think the couple have gone past this stage now cos they now have kids. So I guess this tips will be more useful to us the up and coming SUs .

Thanks.

Are lubricants safe and advisable?
I really appreciate.

Please what's SU?

Eulalia:
Please pardon me for posting this here. I would have posted it in health section but the last one I posted there didn't get much satifisfactory response. I wanna believe we have some specialist here who can be of help.

Just to be double sure, I've heard it over and again that if a girl is celibate for a long time say 5 to 6 years before getting pregnant that she'll have some birth complications because the cervix has contrasted so much due to lack of sexual activities. How true is this?

Does celibacy tighen the cervix?

I also read somewhere that a lady fainted due to severe pains from sex on her wedding cos she was celibate for a long time after. And a doctor said its because she was sexually active before going celibate, that if she was a virgin it wouldn't have tightened so much.

Now, How true is this too? Like after being sexually active briefly then you go into celibacy for a very long time? And if its true, how or what can one do to prevent such scenario ( fainting) and the pains. Any dilating drugs or remedy.

Please a kind hearted doc should give suggestions or help clear the above.
Thanks.

I don't know where you got this wrong information that is playing on your head

The virgin is elastic by nature and remains whatever you do with it and whatever condition you left it to he

Celibacy has no effect on child bearing but if you doubt

Resume sex for about six months before getting pregnant

Eulalia:


Nope. She never had such.
Thanks dear.

The way u defending dis lady, n u no everything abt d issue.....Are u sure DAT u r not d lady

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr

Hell no
The elasticity of a woman's body can not be over emphasized

A woman's body can accept anything
It hardly exceeds its elastic limit

Hooke's law will definitely be disobeyed. lol