Hello fellow nairalanders pls forgive my typos
I am 18yrs and ever since I became self conscious and started noticing the stares of females it's been a night mare for me.Am not gay but it's too much,I enter a place first girl sees me then the next like chain reaction.I am easily sexually assaulted in the keke,by family members etc(not rape,just gropping)
I really need HELP on how to control it.

Joseph the dreamer

As in? Are you a guy or a girl

that was why lagbaja is using mask

I think you're imagining things

Semperty:
Joseph the dreamer

chatinent:
I need help understanding you, bro.

Tadeknkeepcalm:
As in? Are you a guy or a girl

adefajosekayo:
that was why lagbaja is using mask

winosport:
I think you're imagining things

What do you guys expect? something sensible

when you guys saw I just clocked 18 y'all should have just waka pass jeje

this young child is just craving for attention

Pope20Davy:
Hello fellow nairalanders pls forgive my typos
I am 18yrs and ever since I became self conscious and started noticing the stares of females it's been a night mare for me.Am not gay but it's too much,I enter a place first girl sees me then the next like chain reaction.I am easily sexually assaulted in the keke,by family members etc(not rape,just gropping)
I really need HELP on how to control it.

It is a psychological state you are in.
YOUR MIND THINKS SEX 60-75% OF THE DAY

You are ever so conscious of "your problem"

Guy relax, you are becoming an adult.... NO ONE SHOULD TELL YOU WHAT TO THINK, that choice is solely yours BUT here is what I will tell you.

THINKING OF SEX TOO MUCH will make you masturbate, make the wrong choices in a partner, get heart broken faster, ruin your chances at a whole lot of productive things in LIFE.

I believe you are a very creative person who thinks in pictures and your imagination is WILD and WIDE. So what you need is DELIBERATELY take charge of your mind.

Give yourself to PRODUCTIVE THINGS, Like business, inventions, serving GOD, crazily profitable ideas, solve major societal problems.... My dear young man... at your age these things will seem HARD and BORING but allow me to take you to the future... You see, the ladies you will get attracted to right now, are not looking for someone like you so it will be a waste giving yourself to them just because opportunities presented itself. Take a step back and see how the UGLY RICH MEN are the ones with the most beautiful wives, even the ugly fat-bellied have the finest ladies in most of our churches call them DADDY... What does that teach you, MONEY&POWER make ALL LADIES FEEL MORE SECURE AROUND YOU.


Go for gold bro, if you want to always be ahead and relevant go for what your age-mates are not going for... Learn rare seasoned skills that will put you 10 years ahead of your peers, Learn what real assets are and do not make the mistake of assuming people who love you now will always love you, so always LOOK OUT FOR YOURSELF FIRST.

Here are the distractions you will have to battle with for the next 10-15 years
LADIES
PARTIES/CLUBS
TRENDY FASHION
TRENDY MUSIC
LATEST GADGETS
WELL MEANING FAMILY MEMBERS WHO WANT TO "protect" YOU FROM YOUR GREATNESS

If you can overcome these things politely, your future will be SWEEEEEEETTTTT forever.

Boys in that age category mostly have excessive tendency of self importance, like mummy's pet syndrome. Its secondary school imagination, stop romancing it! When you leave that stage, harsh reality sets in, you will definitely slap yourself.

18 years?? Na secondary school fine boy dey do you messi and ronaldo.

Pope20Davy:
Hello fellow nairalanders pls forgive my typos
I am 18yrs and ever since I became self conscious and started noticing the stares of females it's been a night mare for me.Am not gay but it's too much,I enter a place first girl sees me then the next like chain reaction.I am easily sexually assaulted in the keke,by family members etc(not rape,just gropping)
I really need HELP on how to control it.

brother na conji dey worry you

Pope20Davy:
Hello fellow nairalanders pls forgive my typos
I am 18yrs and ever since I became self conscious and started noticing the stares of females it's been a night mare for me.Am not gay but it's too much,I enter a place first girl sees me then the next like chain reaction.I am easily sexually assaulted in the keke,by family members etc(not rape,just gropping)
I really need HELP on how to control it.

Return the phone to your mom

Ignore dem...open up to ur parents.Puberty alert

Pope20Davy:
Hello fellow nairalanders pls forgive my typos
I am 18yrs and ever since I became self conscious and started noticing the stares of females it's been a night mare for me.Am not gay but it's too much,I enter a place first girl sees me then the next like chain reaction.I am easily sexually assaulted in the keke,by family members etc(not rape,just gropping)
I really need HELP on how to control it.

tripplephi:



It is a psychological state you are in.
YOUR MIND THINKS SEX 60-75% OF THE DAY

You are ever so conscious of "your problem"

Guy relax, you are becoming an adult.... NO ONE SHOULD TELL YOU WHAT TO THINK, that choice is solely yours BUT here is what I will tell you.

THINKING OF SEX TOO MUCH will make you masturbate, make the wrong choices in a partner, get heart broken faster, ruin your chances at a whole lot of productive things in LIFE.

I believe you are a very creative person who thinks in pictures and your imagination is WILD and WIDE. So what you need is DELIBERATELY take charge of your mind.

Give yourself to PRODUCTIVE THINGS, Like business, inventions, serving GOD, crazily profitable ideas, solve major societal problems.... My dear young man... at your age these things will seem HARD and BORING but allow me to take you to the future... You see, the ladies you will get attracted to right now, are not looking for someone like you so it will be a waste giving yourself to them just because opportunities presented itself. Take a step back and see how the UGLY RICH MEN are the ones with the most beautiful wives, even the ugly fat-bellied have the finest ladies in most of our churches call them DADDY... What does that teach you, MONEY&POWER make ALL LADIES FEEL MORE SECURE AROUND YOU.


Go for gold bro, if you want to always be ahead and relevant go for what your age-mates are not going for... Learn rare seasoned skills that will put you 10 years ahead of your peers, Learn what real assets are and do not make the mistake of assuming people who love you now will always love you, so always LOOK OUT FOR YOURSELF FIRST.

Here are the distractions you will have to battle with for the next 10-15 years
LADIES
PARTIES/CLUBS
TRENDY FASHION
TRENDY MUSIC
LATEST GADGETS
WELL MEANING FAMILY MEMBERS WHO WANT TO "protect" YOU FROM YOUR GREATNESS

If you can overcome these things politely, your future will be SWEEEEEEETTTTT forever.

Thanks

theTransporter:


Return the phone to your mom

winosport:
I think you're imagining things

I wish, you've haven't seen me face to face that's why,no be savy I over fine but...

Semperty:
Joseph the dreamer

Thanks.joseph actually achieved his dreams,u de nairalanders de do unnecessary trolling

chatinent:
I need help understanding you, bro.

I don't know how to explain it more than what I've said,it's really complicated

Seems Like Nairaland now needs age verification

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