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STRANGE REASON MARRIAGES HAVE ENDED by Ulunne777(op): 10:32pm On May 29, 2020*

My Cousins wife woke up sometime in their 4th mth In marriage and told the husband she wasn't interested anymore. He thought it was a joke until he came back from work to meet an empty house.Several parties has gone to her family home to entreat her but she remains adamant. She maintains her husband my coz didn't do anything to her.

Why allow the marriage? So many questions. No fight, no quarrel no strife and definitely not arranged.very young working class couple

I remember because 2day would have been their 3rd marriage anniversary.

What could be her reasons?

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Re: STRANGE REASON MARRIAGES HAVE ENDED by PrimadonnaO(f): 10:42pm On May 29, 2020

No idea.

Y’all should just let her be.

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Re: STRANGE REASON MARRIAGES HAVE ENDED by Ningen(m): 10:43pm On May 29, 2020

Impotence??

She wanted someone to dominate her world. All women want that in a man & your cousin failed.

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Re: STRANGE REASON MARRIAGES HAVE ENDED by thorpido(m): 10:54pm On May 29, 2020

You sure she doesn't have mental issues?

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Re: STRANGE REASON MARRIAGES HAVE ENDED by Ulunne777(op): 11:08pm On May 29, 2020

thorpido:
You sure she doesn't have mental issues?

None that we know of.

Re: STRANGE REASON MARRIAGES HAVE ENDED by Ulunne777(op): 11:09pm On May 29, 2020

PrimadonnaO:
No idea.

Y’all should just let her be.

We have let her be already even though a little surprise from her could bring my cousin back. It's still lyk a movie to Him.

Re: STRANGE REASON MARRIAGES HAVE ENDED by NoLotty7(m): 11:09pm On May 29, 2020

she may have felt choked during the marriage or no feeling for your cousin,arrangee marriage,your cousin lied before the marriage, etc.

Re: STRANGE REASON MARRIAGES HAVE ENDED by Ulunne777(op): 11:15pm On May 29, 2020

NoLotty7:
she may have felt choked during the marriage or no feeling for your cousin,arrangee marriage,your cousin lied before the marriage, etc.

She could have Atleast siad what it was. If she couldn't to her husband or his family what of her own parents?

Re: STRANGE REASON MARRIAGES HAVE ENDED by thorpido(m): 11:19pm On May 29, 2020

Ulunne777:
None that we know of.

Hmm,did they really date?
The lady must be dealing with some personal demons.

Re: STRANGE REASON MARRIAGES HAVE ENDED by NoLotty7(m): 11:30pm On May 29, 2020

Ulunne777:
She could have Atleast siad what it was. If she couldn't to her husband or his family what of her own parents?

Let her be for now.

Re: STRANGE REASON MARRIAGES HAVE ENDED by Nobody: 11:55pm On May 29, 2020

PrimadonnaO:
No idea.

Y’all should just let her be.

Go and complete the story in your diary.... cheesy

Did the babe sleep over at the guy’s place? cheesy

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Re: STRANGE REASON MARRIAGES HAVE ENDED by CAPSLOCKED: 12:15am On May 30, 2020

PEOPLE COME AND GO. FEELINGS GROW AND DIE.
PEOPLE ARE NOT PROPERTIES THAT CAN BE BOUGHT AND KEPT. IF THEY'RE NO LONGER INTERESTED IN YOU FOR NO REASON, YOU LET THEM BE BECAUSE IT'S LIFE. WE HAVE TO DEAL WITH IT AND LIVE WITH WHAT WE CAN.

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Re: STRANGE REASON MARRIAGES HAVE ENDED by CAPSLOCKED: 12:17am On May 30, 2020

Plead:
Go and complete the story in your diary....

Did the babe sleep over at the guy’s place?

THAT PERSON HAS HAD 7 FIANCES. LET'S NOT EVEN COUNT BOYFRIENDS, BUT SUCH A PERSON CAN ENTERTAIN DIVORCE 15 TIMES AND STILL NOT BE REASONABLE IN LIFE.

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Re: STRANGE REASON MARRIAGES HAVE ENDED by crackkhaus: 12:36am On May 30, 2020

Ulunne777:
My Cousins wife woke up sometime in their 4th mth In marriage and told the husband she wasn't interested anymore. He thought it was a joke until he came back from work to meet an empty house.Several parties has gone to her family home to entreat her but she remains adamant. She maintains her husband my coz didn't do anything to her.

Why allow the marriage? So many questions. No fight, no quarrel no strife and definitely not arranged.very young working class couple

I remember because 2day would have been their 3rd marriage anniversary.

What could be her reasons?

I can only imagine two:

1. She received one of those "visions" from a prophet.
2. There was/is another man fvcking her.

It's either one of the two, I assure you of this... lipsrsealed

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Re: STRANGE REASON MARRIAGES HAVE ENDED by cococandy(f): 12:47am On May 30, 2020

If she truly truly didn’t tell her husband why she quit the marriage, that’s messed up.
Don’t care what her excuse is. You can’t leave someone with whom you have no issues and not give them a reason. Messed up

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Re: STRANGE REASON MARRIAGES HAVE ENDED by LadySarah: 1:20am On May 30, 2020

Maybe the penile size surprised her if it was a no before sex marriage.
You can't tell such thing to your ex let alone his family.

Maybe just maybe.

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Re: STRANGE REASON MARRIAGES HAVE ENDED by Mdmelijah: 1:53am On May 30, 2020

CAPSLOCKED:
THAT PERSON HAS HAD 7 FIANCES. LET'S NOT EVEN COUNT BOYFRIENDS, BUT SUCH A PERSON CAN ENTERTAIN DIVORCE 15 TIMES AND STILL NOT BE REASONABLE IN LIFE.

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Re: STRANGE REASON MARRIAGES HAVE ENDED by bjprodint(f): 6:02am On May 30, 2020

4 months into the marriage?3 years anniversary? it is well

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Re: STRANGE REASON MARRIAGES HAVE ENDED by PrimadonnaO(f): 7:33am On May 30, 2020

Plead:
Go and complete the story in your diary....

Did the babe sleep over at the guy’s place?

Lol. Okay. I’m going to update.

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Re: STRANGE REASON MARRIAGES HAVE ENDED by Nobody: 8:11am On May 30, 2020

Marriage is not for everyone. Having kids is not for everyone. Being rich and ambitious is not for everyone.
I respect people who know what they genuinely want and don't bow to societal pressures.

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Re: STRANGE REASON MARRIAGES HAVE ENDED by Ulunne777(op): 9:47am On May 30, 2020

Gaggi:
Marriage is not for everyone. Having kids is not for everyone. Being rich and ambitious is not for everyone.
I respect people who know what they genuinely want and don't bow to societal pressures.

But she should have bowed out before the wedding. I was privy to everything that happened before their wedding and I'm very sure she wasn't forced from our endoo. My Uncle and his wife doesn't have that time.

He allows his children to make their choice and that was how my coz brought her home.

I just feel so bad when I see him. He has lost weight a great deal.
Atleast giving reasons might give him some sort of closure not leaving everyone high n dry.

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Re: STRANGE REASON MARRIAGES HAVE ENDED by gman55(m): 10:45am On May 30, 2020

This might seem strange but between them they know better.
Have you asked your cousin whether he has been able to dispense his conjugar responsibility to her?
What the mental state of the lady?

Re: STRANGE REASON MARRIAGES HAVE ENDED by Biglittlelois(f): 12:49pm On May 30, 2020

gman55:
This might seem strange but between them they know better.
Have you asked your cousin whether he has been able to dispense his conjugal responsibility to her?
What the mental state of the lady?

This may be the main reason, or he may have a deficiency down there she feels she can't cope with for a lifetime.

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Re: STRANGE REASON MARRIAGES HAVE ENDED by eyinjuege: 12:56pm On May 30, 2020

Nobody on here can know the true reasons.
Your cousin probably will know better than strangers on the internet.
So go and press him further

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Re: STRANGE REASON MARRIAGES HAVE ENDED by ecolime(m): 1:05pm On May 30, 2020

How do you expect us to know?

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Re: STRANGE REASON MARRIAGES HAVE ENDED by Vyolet(f): 1:11pm On May 30, 2020

This story sounds familiar.
My uncle's wife left him unannounced, she dropped their son with someone at the park and called my uncle to come and pick the boy and she is gone for good. Till today, my uncle didn't understand her motive and the girl also said nothing happened,It's been four years.

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Re: STRANGE REASON MARRIAGES HAVE ENDED by LordKO(m): 1:45pm On May 30, 2020*

One feasible reason is that your cousin married a quasi-/fully financially emancipated egoistic/self-interest woman who didn't have altruistic interest in him. So, the object of attraction that made her to accept his hand in marriage became unappealing/unpleasing to her after having a dose of it therefore the reason why she jumped the fence.

For an egoist, loyalty ends where an object of attraction that stands as a bond becomes unappealing to her/him - it's even worse if she's one with little or full financial means.

For a person of strong ethical leanings/sane person who values marriage where the couple and offspring will always be mutually happy and have mutual peace of mind, one of the worst kind of persons to enter into a marriage contract with is an egoist who's financially emancipated/who becomes financially emancipated in the cause of the marriage - one who doesn't have altruistic interest in you.

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Re: STRANGE REASON MARRIAGES HAVE ENDED by Nobody: 2:05pm On May 30, 2020

Ulunne777:
But she should have bowed out before the wedding. I was privy to everything that happened before their wedding and I'm very sure she wasn't forced from our endoo. My Uncle and his wife doesn't have that time.

He allows his children to make their choice and that was how my coz brought her home.

I just feel so bad when I see him. He has lost weight a great deal.
Atleast giving reasons might give him some sort of closure not leaving everyone high n dry.

Leaving without a reason is heartless, i don't support that. At least give room for closure.

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Re: STRANGE REASON MARRIAGES HAVE ENDED by veave(f): 2:09pm On May 30, 2020

She might be an obanje.
Or your uncle has obanje.

I've heard stories of people getting married and someone is beating them every night and warning them to leave their said spouse alone.

Both of them know what the real problem is just remove your mind from their issues

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Re: STRANGE REASON MARRIAGES HAVE ENDED by Drfernandez(m): 3:54pm On May 30, 2020

PrimadonnaO:
No idea.

Y’all should just let her be.

Really?

Re: STRANGE REASON MARRIAGES HAVE ENDED by LilMissFavvy(f): 4:08pm On May 30, 2020

A woman cannot just leave for no reason, the reason she left might be very private, it could be a problem the man has, and she does not want to open up to avoid embarrassing him.

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