Hey fellas! Please advice sincerely as appropriate:....

She's 24 years old, Yoruba, Muslim from Osun State.... He's 45 years old, Christian from Southern Kaduna. He's divorced and has two kids... And okay financially and behaviour wise. A P.hd holder.... He has proposed and she has accepted

But, he is a perfectionist and gets easily irritated.
Should she go ahead with the marriage or call it quits??
Sincere opinions please
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Since she is not you, It is not your buisness

tobechi74:
Since she is not you, It is not your buisness

Wetin be your own? She asked me to post it, so advice or bounce

Run away from a 45 year old perfectionist except you are 'perfectly' patient o

Expect this " he is a perfectionist and gets easily irritated"
I have people who believe they are perfect Let the little girl think twice, she is too young for that kind wahala

This is a father and daughter relationship cum marriage not to talk of him being a perfectionist. What does she think she will achieve in such a Union?

crazygod:
Run away from a 45 year old perfectionist except you are 'perfectly' patient o

Exactly

Otherwise, he'll easily be complaining in the marriage, and two years of hearing his complains every two days, you'll become tired of it and start feeling choked up.

Please marry who can be tolerant and patient, and understanding.

Someone that even when you make little mistakes, he can overlook them or correct nicely, if the situation comes to that.

This man will choke you.

I won't allow my Sister Marry a Divorced man whose wife is still alive..

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Righteousness89:
I won't allow my Sister Marry a Divorced man whose wife is still alive..

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BUT YOU SUPPORT TR.UMP who is an expert in divorce . He cheated on his nursing wife with an IndecentStar who came on national TV to describe his penis as mushroom shaped . YOU SAID WE SHOULD FAST FOR HIM. LOL. HYPOCRITE . STOP SPAMMING THREADS.

ethicallyright:
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BUT YOU SUPPORT TRUMP AND SAID WE SHOULD FAST FOR HIM. LOL. HYPOCRITE . STOP SPAMMING THREADS.

I support and Love President Trump fully bro!

No Apologies!

Please tell the lady to leave that man. He'll always use her young age to exploit her.

I don't know if there's a difference between being a perfectionist and a narcissist but I do know if you're not the type willing to kowtow to their every whims, if you've not developed the mental/emotional muscles to tolerate their personality, you must run as fast as your legs can carry you.
If she's getting married because the man in question is a PhD holder and financially stable, I'd say that isn't even the first criterion to a long-lasting marriage(don't take this one serious. I'm not married. lol)
Peace of mind comes first and regardless of his personality, if she can cope and find peace in matrimony with him she should have at it

Akposb:
This is a father and daughter relationship cum marriage not to talk of him being a perfectionist. What does she think she will achieve in such a Union?

Lmfao

Righteousness89:


I support and Love President Trump fully bro!

No Apologies!

Doesn’t that make you a hypocrite? You wouldn’t advise your sister to marry a divorcee whose wife is still alive but you’re gung ho about a man that married TWO women while his exes are still alive and also cheated on them all.

The ‘religious’ right have ceded any moral ground with their support of Trump.

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doitforyou:

Doesn’t that make you a hypocrite? You wouldn’t advise your sister to marry a divorcee whose wife is still alive but you’re gung ho about a man that married TWO women while his exes still alive and cheated on them all.

The ‘religious right have ceded any moral ground with their support of Trump.

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You just rant on wat you don't know!

Righteousness89:
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You just rant on wat you don't know!

Really? What I don’t know is public records.

Ivanna and Marla Maples are still alive.

rockstarB:
Please tell the lady to leave that man. He'll always use her young age to exploit her.

Hmmmm

Chemist009:
Hey fellas! Please advice sincerely as appropriate:....

She's 24 years old, Yoruba, Muslim from Osun State.... He's 45 years old, Christian from Southern Kaduna. He's divorced and has two kids... And okay financially and behaviour wise. A P.hd holder.... He has proposed and she has accepted

But, he is a perfectionist and gets easily irritated.
Should she go ahead with the marriage or call it quits??
Sincere opinions please
Admin please take to front page

Untrained street girl fuccking his father's mate. Go nah, follow him to Kaduna and let El-Rufai people use you for pepper soup and suya. Which Yoruba guy will even marry a girl he has seen fuccking her father's friends and mates?

The child above me, obviously knows nothing and will learn the hard way, with time and karma.
Now, Kaduna and Plateau men are generally cool headed, but this matter of perfectionist get belle. Don’t start what you aren’t sure you’ll finish. But if you can, all the best.

chiddyok:
The child above me, obviously knows nothing and will learn the hard way, with time and karma.
Now, Kaduna and Plateau men are generally cool headed, but this matter of perfectionist get belle. Don’t start what you aren’t sure you’ll finish. But if you can, all the best.

I beg, let her go, good riddance to bad rubbish. A child that is fucckking her father's age mates and friends, is that one a child? Such as child should be sacrificed to the gods. Let her go to Kaduna, El-Rufai and his blood sucking brothers are waiting to use her for suya.

Why did he divorce or I actually think,why did the former wife leave him?

StreetFight:


I beg, let her go, good riddance to bad rubbish. A child that is fucckking her father's age mates and friends, is that one a child? Such as child should be sacrificed to the gods. Let her go to Kaduna, El-Rufai and his blood sucking brothers are waiting to use her for suya.

Like I said, you are a child. You’ll learn don’t worry.

A young 24years old woman getting married to a 45years old divorcee with 2kids. Not a good match. She will regret the marriage because there will be no form of friendship. I know she is after his money but can she cope being unhappy for the rest of her life?

Like some of the people above me already said, this is a father-daughter kind of relationship. My mom is older than my sister with twenty years.

Personally, I don't understand how people relate with folks that are more than ten years older than them. Except for relatives, I don't see how I'll relate with someone far older than me. You don't belong to the same generation for God sake. The oldest of my friends is seven years older than me and I always address him as Mr.

Everything is just wrong with this your relationship

Different religions
Different generations
Different languages/cultural backgrounds
Different academic level
Different marital status
Everything is just different.

Girls get mind oooo.

How can you be fvcking someone old enough to be your father?

This same girl will call someone to help her kill a rat in her room, not knowing that a 24years old girl fvcking a 45years old man is the height of bravery.

I fear 9ja girls abeg

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There seems to be a consensus in opinions.... Quite a big decision!

24kmagic:


Like some of the people above me already said, this is a father-daughter kind of relationship. My mom is older than my sister with twenty years.

Personally, I don't understand how people relate with folks that are more than ten years older than them. Except for relatives, I don't see how I'll relate with someone far older than me. You don't belong to the same generation for God sake. The oldest of my friends is seven years older than me and I always address him as Mr.

Everything is just wrong with this your relationship

Different religions
Different generations
Different languages/cultural backgrounds
Different academic level
Different marital status
Everything is just different.

Girls get mind oooo.

How can you be fvcking someone old enough to be your father?

This same girl will call someone to help her kill a rat in her room, not knowing that a 24years old girl fvcking a 45years old man is the height of bravery.

I fear 9ja girls abeg

A number of girls will fvck a forefather if good money can come from it.

Please if she will hear ooo
Has she find out why he divorced his wife?
Why is he with the two kids?
Be grateful you know he is a perfectionist because you can hardly cope or please him, he will expect you to be perfect 24/7, 367 days without making a single mistake. Even do any mistake the body language form him, spoken words may hurt you so much. Its all your decision think carefully if you can cope then the choice is yours

24yrs fresh Muslim girl with 45yrs old 'Christian' divorcee/ single Dad.


May she find what she is looking for.

Ase.

Chemist009:
Hey fellas! Please advice sincerely as appropriate:....

She's 24 years old, Yoruba, Muslim from Osun State.... He's 45 years old, Christian from Southern Kaduna. He's divorced and has two kids... And okay financially and behaviour wise. A P.hd holder.... He has proposed and she has accepted

But, he is a perfectionist and gets easily irritated.
Should she go ahead with the marriage or call it quits??
Sincere opinions please
Admin please take to front page

What does she want? At 24 she is old enough to know if she can spend the rest of her life with him. There are certain things in life no one can do for another.

The incompatibilities + warning signs should be a concern to her.

What do you mean by easily irritated?
Kindly give examples and let's see what we have to work with