blogger10:


So you have a choice between a one night stand and having a commitmend girlfriend and you chose what again?

5k everytime you wanna have sex is not better than countless sex with a well converted girl. And it takes 2 weeks... What's 3 months? When a girl could friend zone you even at first sight!

Committed kwa, who committed help. She's only your girlfriend when she's around you. Secondly, who needs that much sex. Once every two weeks and I am satisfied, occasionally once a week. I am more interested in my own future than I am in what's between any girl's legs. Spending 5k every month for a girl is reasonable especially when you take into account that some girlfriends eat more than that in one outing. It's not that difficult to understand, it's simple Mathematics.

jorion:


Committed kwa, who committed help. She's only your girlfriend when she's around you. Secondly, who needs that much sex. Once every two weeks and I am satisfied, occasionally once a week. I am more interested in my own future than I am in what's between any girl's legs. Spending 5k every month for a girl is reasonable especially when you take into account that some girlfriends eat more than that in one outing. It's not that difficult to understand, it's simple Mathematics.

Whether once a year or every day, it's always better when you don't have to pay for it.
If you go out with a girl and buy stuff you don't normally get for yourself just in bid to impress, then that's on you.
The person who invests more in the interaction stands to lose the greatest, it's that simple.

blogger10:


Whether once a year or every day, it's always better when you don't have to pay for it.
If you go out with a girl and buy stuff you don't normally get for yourself just in bid to impress, then that's on you.
The person who invests more in the interaction stands to lose the greatest, it's that simple.

I have already told you that one way or another, you will pay for it. It's not probable, it's certain. Whether you want to add the junk package of continuous texting, trying to impress her, insecurities, going on outing etc. That's all up to you. But with regards to the need of having an exclusive girlfriend, you better get a cute puppy. Only a dog will stick around you for better or for worse. As for me, my time is very important

jorion:


I have already told you that one way or another, you will pay for it. It's not probable, it's certain. Whether you want to add the junk package of continuous texting, trying to impress her, insecurities, going on outing etc. That's all up to you. But with regards to the need of having an exclusive girlfriend, you better get a cute puppy. Only a dog will stick around you for better or for worse. As for me, my time is very important

Lol.! There's nothing to pay for. We all enjoy sex. Back and forth texting establishes bonds - we text our family and friends, too. Be real, no need to impress and nobody's free of insecurities, it's okay to have vulnerabilities.
Who said anything about exclusivity, I have lots of girlfriends.

blogger10:


Lol.! There's nothing to pay for. We all enjoy sex. Back and forth texting establishes bonds - we text our family and friends, too. Be real, no need to impress and nobody's free of insecurities, it's okay to have vulnerabilities.
Who said anything about exclusivity, I have lots of girlfriends.

Bonds are over rated and being vulnerable and emotional is never a good thing. It usually ends up in poor judgement of people and character. Lot of girlfriends!!!! You have way too much free time on your hands.

jorion:


Bonds are over rated and being vulnerable and emotional is never a good thing. It usually ends up in poor judgement of people and character. Lot of girlfriends!!!! You have way too much free time on your hands.

You can say that again when you're planning on having a family, or running a business. No one's an island.
I never mentioned "emotional". You can have vulnerabilities and not be run by them... awareness is key here and you can laugh about them. I don't like frightening dogs and I don't hide it.
Well truly, time is a factor here. But meeting once or twice a week for 2 weeks usually seals the deal... Unless for something more serious. Once I met a girl who made understand her sexlife was in shambles... I helped her fix that and we dated for 2 years.

blogger10:


You can say that again when you're planning on having a family, or running a business. No one's an island.
I never mentioned "emotional". You can have vulnerabilities and not be run by them... awareness is key here and you can laugh about them. I don't like frightening dogs and I don't hide it.
Well truly, time is a factor here. But meeting once or twice a week for 2 weeks usually seals the deal... Unless for something more serious. Once I met a girl who made understand her sexlife was in shambles... I helped her fix that and we dated for 2 years.

You are all over the place. How do you even focus.

blogger10:


If paying for sex sounds reasonable to you, then carry on.
But in Jay Z's words, 'wanna know what's better than spending your money on a stripper? Credit!'.

Alright...
Play is over...
Now run along.

blogger10:


If paying for sex sounds reasonable to you, then carry on.
But in Jay Z's words, 'wanna know what's better than spending your money on a stripper? Credit!'.

Shut up... Rather spend money another tin Dan gf... She is only ur gf when she is with u..


Even most gf are coded runz girl... Most runs babe I met have serious bf...

Who wants a lady dt can't offer anytin except sex? How is she different from a goddamn gold digger

jorion:


You are all over the place. How do you even focus.

I focus just fine. When I'm engaged and I have the time, I like to leave no stone unturned.

DenreleDave:



Shut up... Rather spend money another tin Dan gf... She is only ur gf when she is with u..


Even most gf are coded runz girl... Most runs babe I met have serious bf...

Who wants a lady dt can't offer anytin except sex? How is she different from a goddamn gold digger

So what's your point?... Never pay for what you can get for free has been my message here. Who asked you to spend on any gf?

blogger10:


I focus just fine. When I'm engaged and I have the time, I like to leave no stone unturned.

Well, if you say so.

blogger10:


So what's your point?... Never pay for what you can get for free has been my message here. Who asked you to spend on any gf?

I already told you that no one gets sex for free. Even in the UK where you have like girls looking for guys to bang in the club houses, you still have to buy her at least a drink and the good stuff are like 5 pounds or more.

jorion:


I already told you that no one gets sex for free. Even in the UK where you have like girls looking for guys to bang in the club houses, you still have to buy her at least a drink and the good stuff are like 5 pounds or more.

Did they ask you to buy them drinks?...and even if they did, you could ask them to buy you one instead.

blogger10:


Did they ask you to buy them drinks?...and even if they did, you could ask them to buy you one instead.

do you know what Yoruba's call "Agidi" ( strong head) , u get am. Trust me, this is not an insult, like a mini complement, There is no free sex anywhere, one party will always pay, one party have to part with something, the mere fact u did not spend on your so called " girlfriend " to access her " headquarters " today doesn't mean such will repeat itself tomorrow. I understand your point, you are trying to say why pay for what you can get free, but you have forgotten that service is different from favour, the chances that o.p getting laid with his money is higher than you waiting for free sex because your partner might not show up.

blogger10:


Did they ask you to buy them drinks?...and even if they did, you could ask them to buy you one instead.

Guy, I tire for you. You wan dyk yet you no wan buy drink. Na wa for you o.

Nnamdipapakanu:


I really thought abt this.. One reason I don't Wana do overnight again. I love sex and except my Jonny go soft, I don't get tire..

I may get tired n rest for like 5 mins b4 u no, I Don gather strength again but I DEy fear,

What if I die ontop woman, hell straight..

I know it a sin but to stop it is damn hard for me

May Jesus help us

jorion:


I have already told you that one way or another, you will pay for it. It's not probable, it's certain. Whether you want to add the junk package of continuous texting, trying to impress her, insecurities, going on outing etc. That's all up to you. But with regards to the need of having an exclusive girlfriend, you better get a cute puppy. Only a dog will stick around you for better or for worse. As for me, my time is very important

Not that I am a fan of paying, but you are wise. Not many people will understand this.

realestate99:

do you know what Yoruba's call "Agidi" ( strong head) , u get am. Trust me, this is not an insult, like a mini complement, There is no free sex anywhere, one party will always pay, one party have to part with something, the mere fact u did not spend on your so called " girlfriend " to access her " headquarters " today doesn't mean such will repeat itself tomorrow. I understand your point, you are trying to say why pay for what you can get free, but you have forgotten that service is different from favour, the chances that o.p getting laid with his money is higher than you waiting for free sex because your partner might not show up.

Yeah I agree with you on your 'mini compliment.' I don't buy into the idea that sex is a form of service... There are a million other valuable services that amount can bring me.

So, I always make sure I discourage that 'pay for sex' ideology in women that guys like you have imparted in them. In fact, I even turn the tables and have buying stuff for me. Think of gigolos... THEY get paid

jorion:


Guy, I tire for you. You wan dyk yet you no wan buy drink. Na wa for you o.

Why are you so eager to spend? I doubt you spend so freely on your guys.

blogger10:


Yeah I agree with you on your 'mini compliment.' I don't buy into the idea that sex is a form of service... There are a million other valuable services that amount can bring me.

So, I always make sure I discourage that 'pay for sex' ideology in women that guys like you have imparted in them. In fact, I even turn the tables and have buying stuff for me. Think of gigolos... THEY get paid

you still do not get it, you do not tell a man how to spend his money, so you expect him to give olosho "hand outs" before getting laid? you are just stretching this unnecessarily, there are many things you have spent money on and other people will think it is a waste and for you, that thing served its purpose very well. I do not use money to lure girls to get laid but I do not have problem with guys doing it. life is easy. Some guys patronise olosho just because they are not cut for all this unnecessary attitudes some ladies display, and by the way it is their cash, when you reach a certain level of financial freedom, money would be your slave, till then you might be seeing little money as big things.

blogger10:


Why are you so eager to spend? I doubt you spend so freely on your guys.

Eager ko spend ni, my name na spendy. Abi all those films wey you dey watch wey the guy go me random girl for bar, come ask her, can I buy you a drink. You think say na joke? Even the time you are killing trying to woo a girl is money on its own

realestate99:

you still do not get it, you do not tell a man how to spend his money, so you expect him to give olosho "hand outs" before getting laid? you are just stretching this unnecessarily, there are many things you have spent money on and other people will think it is a waste and for you, that thing served its purpose very well. I do not use money to lure girls to get laid but I do not have problem with guys doing it. life is easy. Some guys patronise olosho just because they are not cut for all this unnecessary attitudes some ladies display, and by the way it is their cash, when you reach a certain level of financial freedom, money would be your slave, till then you might be seeing little money as big things.

@ bolded, well some of these things boils down to maturity. A man must learn how to handle a woman without necessarily reaching for his pocket each time she's being unreasonable...like asking for money before sex.

So yes, better to spend that time - not wooing her, but in courtship, where you introduce her into your world. Think about it like setting up a framework on which the relationship will seed out from. You never know who she might be to you tomorrow... Could be your business partner, your wife, whatever.. wouldn't want to encourage her to be a ho would you?

jorion:


Eager ko spend ni, my name na spendy. Abi all those films wey you dey watch wey the guy go me random girl for bar, come ask her, can I buy you a drink. You think say na joke? Even the time you are killing trying to woo a girl is money on its own

Well, I think they just say that to break the ice.. there are better ways to do that.

Besides I don't take anything I see in movies seriously.
Time spent on building relationships with people (women or men) cannot be a waste.

blogger10:


Well, I think they just say that to break the ice.. there are better ways to do that.

Besides I don't take anything I see in movies seriously.
Time spent on building relationships with people (women or men) cannot be a waste.

I just dey look you. Continue spending your time. Be like say you dey chop belleful everyday.

jorion:


I just dey look you. Continue spending your time. Be like say you dey chop belleful everyday.

You no chop belleful before you carry money dash olosho? Lol. Abeg no gimme laugh, make barber no give my beard another shape.

blogger10:


@ bolded, well some of these things boils down to maturity. A man must learn how to handle a woman without necessarily reaching for your pocket each she's being unreasonable...like asking fo money before sex.

So yes, better to spend that time - not wooing her, but in courtship, where you introduce her into your world. Think about it like setting up a framework on which the relationship will seed out from. You never know who she might be to you tomorrow... Could be your business partner, your wife, whatever.. wouldn't want to encourage her to be a ho would you?

yal, I understand, but you should know that the premise of this whole thing is a man that wants to answer "call of nature " by visiting an olosho, you should know that it is just meant to to satisfy a temporary urge, it is nothing serious. even your so called girlfriend can't guarantee you sex every time you come calling, many factors dictate that. The basic summary is people should spend their money on what makes them happy. We are in no position to question O.P on how he manage his resources, personally, so far he got what he craved for, the money is well spent, like I said earlier this life is very easy if one does not complicate it for himself.

realestate99:

yal, I understand, but you should know that the premise of this whole thing is a man that wants to answer "call of nature " by visiting an olosho, you should know that it is just meant to to satisfy a temporary urge, it is nothing serious. even your so called girlfriend can't guarantee you sex every time you come calling, many factors dictate that. The basic summary is people should spend their money on what makes them happy. We are in no position to question O.P on how he manage his resources, personally, so far he got what he craved for, the money is well spent, like I said earlier this life is very easy if one does not complicate it for himself.

It's not really about sex per say. I understand he wants to spend his money how he wants, but he got a very bad deal and lost 5k for something so cheap... Because his uncontrollable urges made him believe it was worth it. Believe me deep insides - after the act, he regrets it. Needless to say, relationships built on money are baseless.
Also, if your girl can't be there for you when you need her...you can always next her. Girls do this with guys all the time.

blogger10:


It's not really about sex per say. I understand he wants to spend his money how he wants, but he got a very bad deal lost 5k for something so cheap...his uncontrollable urges made him believe it was worth more. Needless to say, relationships built on money are baseless.

lol!!! seems you are not really conversant about the sex industry here, I can put it to you that the girl he is getting for 5k is just an average one, some people pay 20k, 50k some 100k for these ladies, everything in life is levels, some ladies might even call police to arrest you if you offer them 5k, but someone that can comfortably throw 100k on a lady for sex can actually afford it and their choices shouldn't be questioned, the word "right thing" is relative. N.B I am in no way supporting flashing cash to get ladies, it is just that I respect people's decisions on certain things, and this is one of them.

realestate99:

lol!!! seems you are not really conversant about the sex industry here, I can put it to you that the girl he is getting for 5k is just an average one, some people pay 20k, 50k some 100k for these ladies, everything in life is levels, some ladies might even call police to arrest you if you offer them 5k, but someone that can comfortably throw 100k on a lady for sex can actually afford it and their choices shouldn't be questioned, the word "right thing" is relative. N.B I am in no way supporting flashing cash to get ladies, it is just that I respect people's decisions on certain things, and this is one of them.

I sure am...why do you think I speak of it?
Is that not why dumb actresses are offered roles? After bargaining with sex and then they throw shitty acting in our faces because the director thought her acting would be as good as her punny.

I always make sure to discourage such notion in women and even turn the tables around whenever I can. This is a very recent trend and it can be curtailed because it wasn't this rampant during our father's time.

Look, no amount is ever enough for these type of woman and they can clean bank accounts in seconds... They've been known to wreck even billionaires!! Let's not even talk about the very unfortunate ones that end up marrying them.

Know this, even if you get your money easily, spending it lavishly on something so cheap, is gonna guarantee it won't last long.