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Rozz:
seriously I don't take any of them serious again

some people do actually because of their obviously hatred for men and anything that looks or resemble a man.

maynia:
What's your aim now?

Aim??! Just proffering simple explanation and perspective... What's the point of your query?!

Nooil:
Well, that's were the confusion is. It was not a penetration. He was a virgin, so he did it between my laps.

The Fūck?
As in, He forcefully insert his Penis in between your laps?
So, since your vagina is unaccessible, he forcefully put your laps together and stick his penis in between? I don't get it.
You're right. It confusing.

Your friend was in the house, you did not wake her up to inform her what the guy wanted to do. You went to upstairs, he followed you. You left there and came downstairs and he followed you. There were other people in the house, you didn't shout, you didn't bang there doors. Her friend sleeping, was she dead at the point all these was going on? Why didn't she report the issue of the rape to anyone in the house as at when it happened. How did she get the cloths she wore home, after her trouser was torn. Hell NO. I believe she was the one who consented to the sex and that should not be rape.

Nooil:
Lol. I'll actually be the famous one, so stop with the nonsense.

That's even better when you are famous yourself because it will even be much more easier for you and your legion of emotional and irrational sympathizers then to bring down the whole Twitter and Facebook with your nonsense CONFUSED RAPE stories!

Nonsense.

I pity most naija young girls they don't think productively,,now that government seems to give ear to the rape issues.

You see oloshos coming up to give fake stories to punish guys or exes they have issues with,,before you know they will turn this movement to a joke and it gets abandoned becos the polity is heated and almost overwhelmed.

The real victims will not be heard then becos of these irresponsible oloshos that go about sexually harrasing men by their shitty dress code,make up, attitude,plus wat dey smoke and drink.

How they come out trying to make people believe that they were raped or molested make me think that is either they are daft or they have lost touch with reality,meanwhile they initiated every idea of intimacy but you see them trying to turn the table around,i pity men that are tools in the hands of these Jezebel's.

Nooil:
Exactly. But the struggle did feel like rape. What if he wasn't a virgin?

My point exactly... Even indecent touching of a fellow person or without mutual consent is criminal.

Thanks for sharing. But why do you go around wearing small clothes? This surely gives the beasts more of a chance.

Hmm
from wot i read in dis write-up, no element of truth in it.
just to blackmail d guy,my opinion though.
So wot apen to those ladies dat also raped guys.
can we mention dere name also.
#SayNoToRape

Chidonc:
It's obvious the story is a hoax, a house full of people, he raped you and you couldn't shout.

Fatoyinbo wey dem talk say e enter person house were en sister dey downstairs come rape person nkọ? People believed that, why can't they believe this one?

rockstarB:
Women need to know the difference between rape and emotionally manipulative sex. The kind of sex you have to beg or plead to have with anyone isn't rape.
He manipulated you, you eventually consented kinda sex isnt rape please.
You can tag it whatever but it isnt rape.


My post isnt related to the OP

#saynotorape

Don't be unfortunate and let the devil use you. Olodo go and read and learn about consent and rape. What you've explained above is RAPE by coercion. Coerced rape by using intimidation and manipulation to make a girl say YES AGAINST HER OWN WILL. She said NO earlier so why push on? Go and read and stop being a rape apologist and enabler.

My post isn't related to Peruzzi's scandal but the gibberish you typed up there.

bluefilm:
That's even better when you are famous yourself because it will even be much more easier for you then to bring down the whole Twitter and Facebook with your nonsense CONFUSED RAPE stories!

Nonsense.

Lol, I'll really love to do that. The idiot that is liking your comments should come out and tell me his problem.

Nooil:
It was a struggle, but something said, just see what this guy wants to do, and when he did it, I felt pity for him. Why deceive yourself saying you're a virgin, and you go about forcing yourself in people's laps. He wouldn't have dared to penetrate though, I would have killed him.

Firstly, don’t ever visit that guy alone, even if you’ve forgiven him, don’t stay in an isolated place with him.

if he wasn’t lucky at first he might be the next time. Don’t give him that joy.

Then if you’ve forgiven him, text him and let him know that if he tries it with another girl, it would be considered rape. As long as there was a struggle.

And for your sake, don’t ever let anything tell you to just see what this guy wants to do, some crazy guys would take that as a cue you want them.. jokingly tell him to wait that you want to tease him and run for your life.

Grandmeister:
Fatoyinbo wey dem talk say e enter person house were en sister dey downstairs come rape person nkọ? People believed that, why can't they believe this one?

From her narration, it was around midnight and the house filled. Her voice would have been loins enough to wake at least half the occupants of the house, I didn't even buy that fatoyin story also, seems it's more of love gone south.

Guy

Any of this "yeyerity" that has #rape attached to his name should not be made ambassador of any product

Angelfrost:
Facts??! What facts exactly??!... A video of the incident??! Pictures??! Voice or tape recording??! Credible witness accounts??!...

Other than the very word of the accuser against the accused, where do you get backing facts??!

so if tolu wakes up one morning and tweets OBi raped her, obi is automatically guilty because the word of the accuser is final? . We need Christ in this country seriously.

rockstarB:
Women need to know the difference between rape and emotionally manipulative sex. The kind of sex you have to beg or plead to have with anyone isn't rape.
He manipulated you, you eventually consented kinda sex isnt rape please.
You can tag it whatever but it isnt rape.


My post isnt related to the OP

#saynotorape

Na only one question I get to ask her, Peruzzi cover her mouth when he dey bang her, couldn't she have shouted. Some of this women are as guilty as the men involved in this rape cases. What were you doing in Lagos without your parents consent, why did you go to a man's house you don't even know oh wait because he is Peruzzi I see. I noticed one similarities about rape cases, anyone who tells you they were raped 8 years ago 10 years 20 years is guilty as the accused you know why, because an innocent person will never keep quiet to a thing as barbaric as rape for even a sec she will be shouting shouting even if she can't she would immediately report to the police and no one should say enh she feels ashamed if she feels ashamed to report the case immediately she should just forget it and move on, no come out 20 years later again to rectify a mistake you could have done 20 years ago it's just customized stupidy on your part. Even 4 years old dey talk say person touch her private part immediately. It's like a Yahoo boy who got robbed, to go police station go hard am because he go reason am say I'm a thief also so na we we

We don't know which one to trust this days, even runs girls dey claim been raped, Boyfriend promises his girlfriend marriage and fail, the girl go begin cry for rape, I don tell my Diccck say if Im no respect itself with all this girls na cutlass I go use cut am before im put me for trouble

sexylassie2:
Na wa.

Let's thread carefully in this waters of rape accusations everywhere.

You cant just accuse someone of rape without evidence, in the court na evidence, alibi and consistency be the koko.

If you sleep with a guy and he breaks your heart and you get angry even though he has move on, my dear, no be rape.

Wonders, So you fit comment like dis

Every woman now they claim rape victim, and na so them go dey rape una they go, as una no one gree get sense, una go enter twitter they open breast, show pussy, they fined people comment and compliment, after 2 to 3 years one go just come out say davido rape am, 2face rape am, don jazy rape am, then the rest go come remember when obasanjo and buhari rape them, stupid set of ladies, way no wan work, but to open leg hang for window they shout baby harder , give it to me, baby you are not a man, na God go punish all of una, don't quote me back oo, am not filling fine today, coro still they Lagos.

Ok

Nuel4:
I always laugh whenever I see boys saying no means no etc. That's hypocrisy. Girls were told never to immediately accept a guy on a date, to be his girlfriend or have sex. Girls believed if you make sexual move and they agree immediately they will be considered cheap so they were told to always say no, stop etc it's the guy's duty to try and convince her into agreeing to sex. This has been the norm since the dawn of time. Girls liked it because they could form hard to get or guilt trap the guy afterwards. 99% of ladies reading this have told a guy to stop when they wanted him to continue and would mock the guy if he actually stopped. This led to a serious confusion, a young boy out there wouldn't know if a girl telling him to stop actually means he should stop or is telling him to try harder. This has hurt both boy and girls the mixed messages make it difficult for young boys to actually know when the girls truly want them to stop.

For generations, the notion that with women no means no and no means yes, yes means maybe maybe means try harder and try harder means yes etc was all over the place and women never fought against it they loved it because it made them look complicated which ended up confusing men.
You cannot teach people no means no and no means yes and yes means no and expect them not to be confused.

The truth is this, if we follow the line of no means no then every single man in the world who has ever had sex will be in jail. Even majority of girlfriends told their boyfriends no on the first attempt. It was a normal thing.


I'm not talking about the normal rape we all know about, as in forcefully penetrate a ladies intimidating her with dangerous weapons or a group of people holding her her forcefully having sex with her.

Not trying to pointlessly dissent from your well written argument, but I still beg to differ...

I have had so many trysts with a lot of ladies since teenage, I have never felt the need to continue once I noticed the slightest hesitation from the lady, least of all when she clearly voiced her negation. It mattered none if I later came off as a fool to her.

Come to even think of it, before I thought about laying hands sexually on a lady, who is not a wh*re I paid for, I would be clearly certain we are both on the same sexual frequency or that the feeling is highly mutual.

Maybe some guys need new or better orientation on this lawful and safe principle especially with this dangerous trend!!!

Busch:
Firstly, don’t ever visit that guy alone, even if you’ve forgiven him, don’t stay in an isolated place with him.

if he wasn’t lucky at first he might be the next time. Don’t give him that joy.

Then if you’ve forgiven him, text him and let him know that if he tries it with another girl, it would be considered rape. As long as there was a struggle.

And for your sake, don’t ever let anything tell you to just see what this guy wants to do, some crazy guys would take that as a cue you want them.. jokingly tell him to wait that you want to tease him and run for your life.

Yeah, thank you for the tip. The reason I relaxed in the struggle was that it helped me the first time someone tried to do it.

We were struggling, and I realized the more I struggle, the stronger his grip was on my hands. So, I relaxed, like I had given up. The unfortunate being then thought I had become weak, and then tried to commence with putting his mouth on my boobs. It took a flip second for me to throw him down and put my hand on his neck. I almost choked him to death, until he started pleading.

If you're not being gang-raped, I see no reason why a man should easily have his way with you. I'd rather die than let that happen.

Seems this Peruzzi of a person is dysfunctional.

allandutch:
The Fūck?
As in, He forcefully insert his Penis in between your laps?
So, since your vagina is unaccessible, he forcefully put your laps together and stick his penis in between? I don't get it.
You're right. It confusing.

Lol

Nuel4:
I always laugh whenever I see boys saying no means no etc. That's hypocrisy. Girls were told never to immediately accept a guy on a date, to be his girlfriend or have sex. Girls believed if you make sexual move and they agree immediately they will be considered cheap so they were told to always say no, stop etc it's the guy's duty to try and convince her into agreeing to sex. This has been the norm since the dawn of time. Girls liked it because they could form hard to get or guilt trap the guy afterwards. 99% of ladies reading this have told a guy to stop when they wanted him to continue and would mock the guy if he actually stopped. This led to a serious confusion, a young boy out there wouldn't know if a girl telling him to stop actually means he should stop or is telling him to try harder. This has hurt both boy and girls the mixed messages make it difficult for young boys to actually know when the girls truly want them to stop.

For generations, the notion that with women no means no and no means yes, yes means maybe maybe means try harder and try harder means yes etc was all over the place and women never fought against it they loved it because it made them look complicated which ended up confusing men.
You cannot teach people no means no and no means yes and yes means no and expect them not to be confused.

The truth is this, if we follow the line of no means no then every single man in the world who has ever had sex will be in jail. Even majority of girlfriends told their boyfriends no on the first attempt. It was a normal thing.


I'm not talking about the normal rape we all know about, as in forcefully penetrate a ladies intimidating her with dangerous weapons or a group of people holding her her forcefully having sex with her.

You have a good point

But in all honesty, when a woman tells me no, i take a walk.

Her pussy is not gold.

My name, honour, and pride is worth more than a pussy

I dont beg a lady to have sex with her. She is not doing me a favour. So, when i ask for it, once u say no, i walk.

If she laughs at me later, who cares. My self esteem is not dependent on a lady's opinion of me

Your friend was in the house, you did not wake her up to inform her what the guy wanted to do. You went to upstairs, he followed you. You left there and came downstairs and he followed you. There were other people in the house, you didn't shout, you didn't bang their doors. Her friend sleeping, was she dead at the point all these was going on? Why didn't she report the issue of the rape to anyone in the house as at when it happened. How did she get the cloths she wore home, after her trouser was torn. Hell NO. I believe she was the one who consented to the sex and that should not be rape.
The guy can sue her to court.

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Nooil:
Lol. I don't even know whether my own was rape. I'm still confused.

That's because you are a man

Nooil:
Lol. I don't even know whether my own was rape. I'm still confused.

Rape has a very clear definition.

If you are confused about it, then it probably wasn't rape.

Nooil:
Lol. I don't even know whether my own was rape. I'm still confused.

You are joking right? Because there's nothing confusing in rape and rape allegations

And that stupid one should be tracked and sue
You don't remember the month and date u were raped?? Like WTF
If you are raped, you will even remember the time, trust me