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Blackking98:
so if tolu wakes up one morning and tweets OBi raped her, obi is automatically guilty because the word of the accuser is final? . We need Christ in this country seriously.

bolaayenimo:
Some of these ladies will be lying about being raped now to blackmail others. #saynotorape

Chidonc:
It's obvious the story is a hoax, a house full of people, he raped you and you couldn't shout.

Angelfrost:
Not trying to pointlessly dissent from your well written argument, but I still beg to differ...

I have had so many trysts with a lot of ladies since teenage, I have never felt the need to continue once I noticed the slightest hesitation from the lady, least of all when she clearly voiced her negation. It mattered none if I later came off as a fool to her.

Come to even think of it, before I thought about laying hands sexually on a lady, who is not a wh*re I paid for, I would be clearly certain we are both on the same sexual frequency or that the feeling is highly mutual.

Maybe some guys need new or better orientation on this lawful and safe principle especially with this dangerous trend!!!

Nooil:
Yeah, thank you for the tip. The reason I relaxed in the struggle was that it helped me the first time someone tried to do it.

We were struggling, and I realized the more I struggle, the stronger his grip was on my hands. So, I relaxed, like I had given up. The unfortunate being then thought I had become weak, and then tried to commence with putting his mouth on my boobs. It took a flip second for me to throw him down and put my hand on his neck. I almost choked him to death, until he started pleading.

If you're not being gang-raped, I see no reason why a man should easily have his way with you. I'd rather die than let that happen.

Nuel4:
I always laugh whenever I see boys saying no means no etc. That's hypocrisy. Girls were told never to immediately accept a guy on a date, to be his girlfriend or have sex. Girls believed if you make sexual move and they agree immediately they will be considered cheap so they were told to always say no, stop etc it's the guy's duty to try and convince her into agreeing to sex. This has been the norm since the dawn of time. Girls liked it because they could form hard to get or guilt trap the guy afterwards. 99% of ladies reading this have told a guy to stop when they wanted him to continue and would mock the guy if he actually stopped. This led to a serious confusion, a young boy out there wouldn't know if a girl telling him to stop actually means he should stop or is telling him to try harder. This has hurt both boy and girls the mixed messages make it difficult for young boys to actually know when the girls truly want them to stop.

For generations, the notion that with women no means no and no means yes, yes means maybe maybe means try harder and try harder means yes etc was all over the place and women never fought against it they loved it because it made them look complicated which ended up confusing men.
You cannot teach people no means no and no means yes and yes means no and expect them not to be confused.

The truth is this, if we follow the line of no means no then every single man in the world who has ever had sex will be in jail. Even majority of girlfriends told their boyfriends no on the first attempt. It was a normal thing.


I'm not talking about the normal rape we all know about, as in forcefully penetrate a ladies intimidating her with dangerous weapons or a group of people holding her her forcefully having sex with her.

Mr7gWIRELESS:
That's because you are a man

Nooil:
Yeah, thank you for the tip. The reason I relaxed in the struggle was that it helped me the first time someone tried to do it.

We were struggling, and I realized the more I struggle, the stronger his grip was on my hands. So, I relaxed, like I had given up. The unfortunate being then thought I had become weak, and then tried to commence with putting his mouth on my boobs. It took a flip second for me to throw him down and put my hand on his neck. I almost choked him to death, until he started pleading.

If you're not being gang-raped, I see no reason why a man should easily have his way with you. I'd rather die than let that happen.

rockstarB:
Women need to know the difference between rape and emotionally manipulative sex. The kind of sex you have to beg or plead to have with anyone isn't rape.
He manipulated you, you eventually consented kinda sex isnt rape please.
You can tag it whatever but it isnt rape.


My post isnt related to the OP

Apparently NO no longer means NO.
OK.

#saynotorape

Nooil:

Busch:
Am Glad you’re smart and strong.

Just makes sure you let any guy you role with know you’re rape sensitive, that way they won’t try shit with you.

Stay safe.

Angelfrost:
Honestly, it is a very sad and terrible situation...

When you calmly and wisely choose to take the fifth in the glaring absence of evidence, many will term you the insulting tag of 'Rape Apologist'!!!

Anyway, this is why a victim (Male or Female) should endeavor to quickly go for medical exam and documentation, before proceeding to law enforcement...

We truly need salvation... And, we all have to take heed to ourselves!!! We have to be careful of one another!!!

Discombulator:
This is why they don't take rape victims seriously, because girls are addicted to chasing clouts,this idiots will falsely accuse anybody to gain attention thereby in the process denying those that really have a case a chance at justice

wunaESQ:
why dis girls no de accuse poor,broke and ordinary guys of rape..??

Kez11:
Trash...

The girl wants to use the window of #saynotorape# to trend, yet she can't fabricate a sound story.


#saynotorape#

Tboy1419:
Every woman now they claim rape victim, and na so them go dey rape una they go, as una no one gree get sense, una go enter twitter they open breast, show pussy, they fined people comment and compliment, after 2 to 3 years one go just come out say davido rape am, 2face rape am, don jazy rape am, then the rest go come remember when obasanjo and buhari rape them, stupid set of ladies, way no wan work, but to open leg hang for window they shout baby harder , give it to me, baby you are not a man, na God go punish all of una, don't quote me back oo, am not filling fine today, coro still they Lagos.

Kingscee:
We don't know which one to trust this days, even runs girls dey claim been raped, Boyfriend promises his girlfriend marriage and fail, the girl go begin cry for rape, I don tell my Diccck say if Im no respect itself with all this girls na cutlass I go use cut am before im put me for trouble

KulKid:
Na only one question I get to ask her, Peruzzi cover her mouth when he dey bang her, couldn't she have shouted. Some of this women are as guilty as the men involved in this rape cases. What were you doing in Lagos without your parents consent, why did you go to a man's house you don't even know oh wait because he is Peruzzi I see. I noticed one similarities about rape cases, anyone who tells you they were raped 8 years ago 10 years 20 years is guilty as the accused you know why, because an innocent person will never keep quiet to a thing as barbaric as rape for even a sec she will be shouting shouting even if she can't she would immediately report to the police and no one should say enh she feels ashamed if she feels ashamed to report the case immediately she should just forget it and move on, no come out 20 years later again to rectify a mistake you could have done 20 years ago it's just customized stupidy on your part. Even 4 years old dey talk say person touch her private part immediately. It's like a Yahoo boy who got robbed, to go police station go hard am because he go reason am say I'm a thief also so na we we

bukatyne:
@Bold:

You need to update your dictionary:

Now, a girl in the bold can claim to be raped if when you start thrusting, she says no and you don't stop.

There has to be consent per time of the act.

TripleOh7:
Seems this Peruzzi of a person is dysfunctional.

Angelfrost:
True... But, that's the part I referred to in the aspect of "being on the same frequency"!!!... If she has a last minute change of mind at the peak of ecstasy, then a guy has to man up, grit his teeth, and go dip his erection in ice!!!

Sigh... At the end of it all, it takes serious self control to back out when walls spring up, and self control is the hallmark of manhood and maturity...

In any case, this is why we religiously preach abstinence!!!

EzzyCarter:
I have no sympathy for mo'fckers who rape ladies and end up giving men a bad name. Anyone found guilty deserves to rot in jail. At the same time, it's quite appalling some ladies are using this opportunity to falsely accuse some guys of rape just to trend or make a name.
Sister, you guys fecked mutually and he ended up dumping your sorry ass so you feel soiling his name beyond repair would make you even , right? It's not your fault, it's the warped legal system we run in Nigeria I'll blame. If the punishment a lady gets for falsely accusing a guy was the same one a guy who is indeed found guilty of rape gets, a lot of Nigerian girls will have sense. Coz at the end of the day, the psychological trauma a raped lady goes through would be similar to that of an innocent guy falsely accused of rape(imagine the pain and depression). You've just succeeded in "Raping" a reputation he has built for years and soiling his family name for life. But then, they know those they can try it with. Try that with me and I'll be damned if you don't spend a sizeable amount of your youthful years behind bars .

To the women planning to use this opportunity to get a payback on a guy for any reason, Karma is a b*tch. I'm sure you'd still be alive when one girl from nowhere will rise up and falsely accuse your son of rape and wreck his reputation & life and of course the whole world would tag you as the woman who brought up a rapist so you'd end up having a taste of your own pill poison.

bukatyne:
@Bold and healthy common sense boundaries.

That is part of the solution in addition to training boys and girls on comportment, decency and self-control.

wizod:
I don't believe some of this rape stories.
Believe dem at your own peril.
My ex once told she got disvirgined through rape and have not had sex since after d incident which was about 3yrs. When i climbed on top of her and insert my holy thing, it was as if i inserted a broom stick in a big bowl, an amateur as she claims to be raised her two legs up like a dog d owner is caressing his stomach. God punish d devil. Girls can lie no be small. Don't believe not until you have d real evidence at hand.

Angelfrost:
Not trying to pointlessly dissent from your well written argument, but I still beg to differ...

I have had so many trysts with a lot of ladies since teenage, I have never felt the need to continue once I noticed the slightest hesitation from the lady, least of all when she clearly voiced her negation. It mattered none if I later came off as a fool to her.

Come to even think of it, before I thought about laying hands sexually on a lady, who is not a wh*re I paid for, I would be clearly certain we are both on the same sexual frequency or that the feeling is highly mutual.

Maybe some guys need new or better orientation on this lawful and safe principle especially with this dangerous trend!!!

Angelfrost:
Yes ma...

Honestly, we need to train our kids and youths better, especially males.

Primary and secondary schools should do better sex education, and continuously warn against all forms of sexual assaults...

I sense we are not doing enough as parents, teachers, counselors, clergy, and society!!!