… Condemns rape of Uniben student, speaks to men.


Daughter of Nigeria Vice President, Kiki Osinbajo has condemned with great grievance the rape and murder of a 22year old University of Benin student, Uwavera Omozuwa in Benin.

Kiki, who has been one of the most vibrant, charismatic advocate of gender rights, in a statement which she posted few hours ago on her Instagram timeline, had spotlighted some of the misconceptions on the right and consent of the female gender at all levels.

According to Kiki Osinbajo, she described the situation as an extensive problem, stressing that those who think otherwise are a major part of the problem. In her statement, she expressed displeasure at the reactions on social media on the issues about sexual abuse and rape. She noted that the reactions are enough to explain why the bizarre inhuman behaviour keeps happening.

The Skincare expert, CEO of @glamdafrica and @konyinskincare, Kiki Osinbajo, had bitterly opposed the blames placed on victims or survivors, stating that, they are irrelevant and insignificant. She noted that “what a woman wears”, “why she is at a particular location or place” and other excuses, are not enough reasons to justify any form of sexual abuse been thrown at her.

In the statement posted and addressed to men, Kiki highlights her perception and she writes, “No is not shakara, no means no; whatever a woman is wearing or not wearing gives you no right; the fact that she is your wife or girlfriend doesn’t give you a free pass, consent must be given; at any point a woman can withdraw; lead by examples, respect women and let your sons see that women are to be respected and not objectified; everyone has the right to have a choice and other notable advice which she addressed to men.

On the other hand, she advised women to stop feeling like sexual abuse was their individual faults or a taboo which shouldn’t be talked about, because of how the society would judge or see them as damaged. Kiki encouraged them to speak up.

She also advised women to stop giving excuses for their sons, she encouraged them to raise their sons by instilling the same values as instilled in their daughters. She therefore called on women to stop shaming victims or accusing them of lying. Kiki concluded saying that “you are a mother, you are to offer listening ear, offer counsel and not condemn victims”, she added.


Kiki is making efforts to monumentally engage the monolithic national campaign on the rights of women, especially in areas of sexual abuse and assault. Her proactive interventions and advocacy will continue to create awareness to support campaigns and expositions on the bizarre and inhuman conduct. She has continued to lend her voice through presentations and encouragement speeches at notable international and national conferences on human trafficking and sexual abuse.
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2020/06/kiki-osinbajo-advocates-right-of-female-gender-at-all-level/

Hmm

The presidency has spoken.

Okada drop me here!

Kiki my crush

Now I'll just say a thing or two about rape issues making waves round the clock.

I had a brief chat with a female and she's taking it to a whole new level.
My point is rape should be condemned on all fronts and for your information boys also get raped. Just because one occurs frequently than the other doesn't make the other the lesser evil.

If a man goes out to steal and is caught what is done to him? Compare that to a female and see the fundamental, glaring imbalance. No be for our eye news of woman wey go steal for shop twice yet she wasn't killed. Most times women get preferential treatment for everything.

When the actor of pirates of the Caribbean was complaining bout domestic violence no one believed him till his wife dealt with him seriously and he was subsequently rushed to the hospital.

CCTV footage gve her away, I'm pretty sure she also raped him aswell cos no man would align with an opposing devillish female and agree sex without consent.

Condemn everything about rape not just making it a one sided affair.
Because malaria kills more than Lassa fever doesn't make Lassa all d less important

Protect our young,old, vulnerable boys and girls
Say no to rape of all Gender.
Stop being biased.
Stope rape
Don't take rape accusations as a weapon for defamation or revenge

I'm out

Moderators, Please do something about this damnyhop, that is spamming this platform with nudes.

It's annoying.

Till i see more women clamoring for jobs like truck driving, mining, sewage disposal, nepa, cement molding, vulcanizer, or even changing their own tire. Nonsense set of people

OK....

*IN AFRICA YOU CAN GRADUATE AND STAY UNEMPLOYED UNTIL YOU FORGET THE COURSE YOU STUDIED���*

I think she's in a better position to do that based on connection but then some things are bigger than her father and the nation...

....okay

All hands must be on deck... Whether man or woman, Rape is demonic and the most painful part is the trauma the victim goes through all the days of his or her life... A woman brought me to this world so I won't just watch and let them be molested...We are all one before God almighty.

God bless Our Women.... Say no to rape....

This is so insightful from our VPs' daughter !

long time Kiki

I love this gal. It's official.

Why you come dey hide your face naw, abi you no look beautiful like your daddy ni?

Nigerian girls can be unpredictable at times


God help nigerian men

This guys have started this porn again. We can't open nairaland around kids.Seun do something please

Na this kind thing she go fit bare her fangs and raise her useless "voice"....As for the thousands of people getting mauled by terrorists & herdsmen in the country, the insecurity in the nation, the general hunger getting a grip of millions of Nigerians, she go mute..

God go punish all of una

I hope Kiki is not just seeking attention.
This is a serious matter that requires genuine human feelings.

Btw,
Lala,,, don't you notice that one candidate of Yabaleft, with moniker Damnyhuop, has just found his way to NL? Who allowed him in?

Chidexter:
Now I'll just say a thing or two about this rape issues making waves round the clock.

I had a brief chat with a female and she's taking it to a whole new level.
My point is rape should be condemned on all fronts and for your information boys also get raped. Just because one occurs frequently than the other doesn't make the other the lesser evil.

If a man goes out to steal and is caught what is done to him? Compare that to a female and see the fundamental, glaring imbalance. No be for our eye news of woman wey go steal for shop twice yet she wasn't killed. Most times women get preferential treatment for everything.

When the actor of pirates of the Caribbean was complaining bout domestic violence no one believed him till his wife dealt with him seriously and he was subsequently rushed to the hospital.

CCTV footage gve her away, I'm pretty sure she also raped him aswell cos no man would align with an opposing devillish female and agree sex without consent.

Condemn everything about rape not just making it a one sided affair.
Because malaria kills more than Lassa fever doesn't make Lassa all d less important

Protect our young,old, vulnerable boys and girls
Say no to rape of all Gender.
Stop being biased.
Stope rape
Don't take rape accusations as a weapon for defamation or revenge

I'm out

I dey hate nonsense, the focus right now is what is done to three females and more, that is why everyone is coming out to condemn female rape, no one is biased, no one is saying one is greater than the other, you are obviously pained cos what is trending is women rape, it is not a gender competition, it is an awareness, it is not a one sided affair, stop spilling sentiments when there is none, if you hate the women rape awareness going on, it's better to shut the fvck up than spill the rubbish you typed up there.

I was on a whatsapp group last year and a girl asked if anyone stay in Ibadan, that she wanted to do some things in there and no money for hotel then a guy told her to come over and stay, he would accommodate her. She went and spent two days only to come back to the whatsapp group to say the guy couldn't even cross the pillow she so much said it that the guys were irritated belitting the guy. we guys had to tell the guy that he did the good thing but some were he wasn't man enough. But whether predictable or not see the best is get a good girlfriend , love her and care about her. Most people that rape are those who just want to taste random girls.



I think Men should share their expriences too. Rape is a no to both Gender. But raping and killing is alarming . Southern Kaduna People are dying what is wrong with our nation, Bandits are taking over.

Equal rights won't stop a rapist.