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Unless the woman is raped to death, some men will not believe her. How sad. How pathetic.

rockstarB:
Women need to know the difference between rape and emotionally manipulative sex. The kind of sex you have to beg or plead to have with anyone isn't rape.
He manipulated you, you eventually consented kinda sex isnt rape please.
You can tag it whatever but it isnt rape.


My post isnt related to the OP

#saynotorape

Thank you, wise lady. If a guy tries to initiate sex and the girl as usual do shakara and she later gives in after manipulations, the girl may now later come out to say she was raped too.

I don't support rape or violence against women. But this is the wicked world we have found ourselves. I have refused to join any anti-rape or anti-violence-against-women campaign because men and women alike face problems differently in this life.

Women give men another man's semen/child, women kill their husbands to run away with a lover, women financially extort men. The list goes on and on, just as women face domestic violence, rape etc. How many campaigns against these things will we do?

But whenever it is the rape of a woman and violence against a woman, there will be too much attention. The world is overflowing with horrible things happening everyday to men and women alike done by one of the gender against the other. And none can be said to be more serious than the other.

cococandy:
Is that really his page or a dummy page?

Either way why won’t a person feel comfortable enough to post this when he knows that nothing dey happen.

It's really scary to see the way the mind of an average Nigerian man works.

It honestly baffles me.

TripleOh7:
It's really scary to see the way the mind of an average Nigerian man works.

It honestly baffles me.

You see their type on NL too pretending to be trolls meanwhile they mean every word of it

This story is bullshit abeg!

#SAY NO TO RAPE

Everybody is now jumping on the rape bandwagon..

cococandy:
You see their type on NL too pretending to be trolls meanwhile they mean every word of it

Most of them are either juvenile delinquents or kids in adult bodies.

Best to ignore them totally.

As much as I hate rapists with a passion and advocate for life sentences for them this story is odd. The accuser remembers other minor details yet cant remember the month and date of the rape. I find that odd. Giving a precise date could definitely coincide with one that Peruzi was out of the country or have a strong defense.

Nuel4:
I always laugh whenever I see boys saying no means no etc. That's hypocrisy. Girls were told never to immediately accept a guy on a date, to be his girlfriend or have sex. Girls believed if you make sexual move and they agree immediately they will be considered cheap so they were told to always say no, stop etc it's the guy's duty to try and convince her into agreeing to sex. This has been the norm since the dawn of time. Girls liked it because they could form hard to get or guilt trap the guy afterwards. 99% of ladies reading this have told a guy to stop when they wanted him to continue and would mock the guy if he actually stopped. This led to a serious confusion, a young boy out there wouldn't know if a girl telling him to stop actually means he should stop or is telling him to try harder. This has hurt both boy and girls the mixed messages make it difficult for young boys to actually know when the girls truly want them to stop.

For generations, the notion that with women no means no and no means yes, yes means maybe maybe means try harder and try harder means yes etc was all over the place and women never fought against it they loved it because it made them look complicated which ended up confusing men.
You cannot teach people no means no and no means yes and yes means no and expect them not to be confused.

The truth is this, if we follow the line of no means no then every single man in the world who has ever had sex will be in jail. Even majority of girlfriends told their boyfriends no on the first attempt. It was a normal thing.


I'm not talking about the normal rape we all know about, as in forcefully penetrate a ladies intimidating her with dangerous weapons or a group of people holding her her forcefully having sex with her.

Is there a way I can like this a million time(s)?

bukatyne:
@Bold:

You need to update your dictionary:

Now, a girl in the bold can claim to be raped if when you start thrusting, she says no and you don't stop.

There has to be consent per time of the act.

I'd like some clarification on the bolded.
Thanks.

Nuel4:
I always laugh whenever I see boys saying no means no etc. That's hypocrisy. Girls were told never to immediately accept a guy on a date, to be his girlfriend or have sex. Girls believed if you make sexual move and they agree immediately they will be considered cheap so they were told to always say no, stop etc it's the guy's duty to try and convince her into agreeing to sex. This has been the norm since the dawn of time. Girls liked it because they could form hard to get or guilt trap the guy afterwards. 99% of ladies reading this have told a guy to stop when they wanted him to continue and would mock the guy if he actually stopped. This led to a serious confusion, a young boy out there wouldn't know if a girl telling him to stop actually means he should stop or is telling him to try harder. This has hurt both boy and girls the mixed messages make it difficult for young boys to actually know when the girls truly want them to stop.

For generations, the notion that with women no means no and no means yes, yes means maybe maybe means try harder and try harder means yes etc was all over the place and women never fought against it they loved it because it made them look complicated which ended up confusing men.
You cannot teach people no means no and no means yes and yes means no and expect them not to be confused.

The truth is this, if we follow the line of no means no then every single man in the world who has ever had sex will be in jail. Even majority of girlfriends told their boyfriends no on the first attempt. It was a normal thing.


I'm not talking about the normal rape we all know about, as in forcefully penetrate a ladies intimidating her with dangerous weapons or a group of people holding her her forcefully having sex with her.

op you really hit the nail on the head. Some time it's confusing.if it's the coarsing to bed a girlfriend most men have done it.

adeoba2008:
Why would you follow a friend to his boyfriend house and sleep over. Alainironu. ode.

it happens, I hv done it b4 and wasn’t raped ? My friend and boyfriend hv had sex in my presence in the night and still wasn’t rapedl