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Getting My Child From Wedlock Affair by Nobody:
Am blacking out this thread, it is not helpful. Just blame and criticism. Ndi ala
Re: Getting My Child From Wedlock Affair by chatinent: 8:43pm On Jun 03, 2020
There's nothing like 'matured minds bla bla.' Why'd you impregnate sb you don't want to marry!
Re: Getting My Child From Wedlock Affair by Righteousness89(m): 8:45pm On Jun 03, 2020
You can't Marry but u can give her belle!

Bro, if the Family Refuses , they have a right to!

You can't eat your cake and have it!
Re: Getting My Child From Wedlock Affair by holocron: 8:50pm On Jun 03, 2020
No chance. The child will remain with the mother till adulthood. However you may be given the right for him to identify you as the biological father. Your best bet is to maintain the best of terms with your girl and her family, if not they will indoctrinate and brainwash the child such that if you finally get in touch with him after 18 years or so it will be worse than relating to a total stranger if not an enemy. All in all, its a bad market. The best advice for you is to forget that episode, move on and get a child from another woman anytime you are ready for it.
Re: Getting My Child From Wedlock Affair by Nobody: 9:05pm On Jun 03, 2020
If I can't get the child, I may marry the girl, collect my child, and divorce her.
Re: Getting My Child From Wedlock Affair by Authoreety: 9:11pm On Jun 03, 2020
LawBreaker:
If I can't get the child, I may marry the girl, collect my child, and divorce her.
Hmmm, sounds like a nice idea, but u may not live to tell the remaining part of the story
Re: Getting My Child From Wedlock Affair by ibkayee(f): 9:15pm On Jun 03, 2020
LawBreaker:
If I can't get the child, I may marry the girl, collect my child, and divorce her.
Lol
Re: Getting My Child From Wedlock Affair by jahlove4jah: 9:18pm On Jun 03, 2020
Authoreety:
Hmmm, sounds like a nice idea, but u may not live to tell the remaining part of the story
Don't complicate your life. If you don't want to marry her sincerely. Do what the poster up there said. Maintain a healthy relationship and wait for the boy to turn to adult. Make sure he bears your name at birth and file the birth certificate or have a copy. Provide child's support via bank payment. You may need them to convince your boy of your fatherly support should they try to brainwash him. But don't go about impregnating whom you won't marry.
Re: Getting My Child From Wedlock Affair by Oluneutral: 9:19pm On Jun 03, 2020
LawBreaker:
If I can't get the child, I may marry the girl, collect my child, and divorce her.
I saw your last thread before this one, where you're asking if you can take your child (yet unborn o) to an ophanage home because you believe claiming your child back from your girlfriend when he's of age will be complicated. And now this, you seems to be very selfish and as well acting your username.


After you've settled the family because you don't want to marry their daughter, you now want to change it for them after discovering that the baby is a boy. I'm sure you wouldn't have said this if the scan had shown that the baby is a girl. You're wicked! Even more wicked after saying you'll deceive the girl into marriage, collect your boy and divorce her later. Hhhmm..... Human heart is indeed desperately wicked.


You can't marry her but you can impregnate her. I just hope our girls will be learning from all this and learn to close their legs until marriage.



I'm definitely showing my daughter this thread to see what some guys have in plan for easy-to-deceive girls.
Re: Getting My Child From Wedlock Affair by Oluneutral: 9:26pm On Jun 03, 2020
LawBreaker:
Guys, I impregnated this girl. They are a family of all girls. The scan turns out to be a male. The family claimed the child and said I should settle their daughter and go my way if I am not ready to marry her. Guys, I can't marry the lady so I settled but I want my child. I am planning to go to court, do I have any chance. Matured talks only.
You're indeed a lawbreaker!
Re: Getting My Child From Wedlock Affair by Kobojunkie: 10:23pm On Jun 03, 2020
Authoreety:
Hmmm, sounds like a nice idea, but u may not live to tell the remaining part of the story
ROFLMAO!
grin cheesy grin cheesy grin cheesy grin cheesy grin
Re: Getting My Child From Wedlock Affair by FlordFlorez(m): 10:44pm On Jun 03, 2020
Mr lawbreaker indeed. Why dont u wants to marry the lady? Is the reason hard to tell?
Re: Getting My Child From Wedlock Affair by Vyzz: 10:45pm On Jun 03, 2020
Just go and make money
Like crazy money.
Ur son will be the one to come to u,
No matter the type of soap the used to brainwash him
Re: Getting My Child From Wedlock Affair by Nobody: 5:16am On Jun 04, 2020
FlordFlorez:
Mr lawbreaker indeed. Why dont u wants to marry the lady? Is the reason hard to tell?
My brother is a long story.
Re: Getting My Child From Wedlock Affair by cococandy(f): 5:33am On Jun 04, 2020
Are you a professional impregnator?

https://www.nairaland.com/5892861/taking-baby-motherless-home

You want to take your daughter to a motherless babies’ home even though the mom wanted to keep her until she turned 5 and you refused.
Now you’re looking for how to claim a son too.
So you can put him in fatherless babies home too?

If your stories are true and you’re not just a troll looking for reactions, please change.
Re: Getting My Child From Wedlock Affair by Bola146(f): 5:40am On Jun 04, 2020
Authoreety:
Hmmm, sounds like a nice idea, but u may not live to tell the remaining part of the story
Exactly.. Lobatan.
Re: Getting My Child From Wedlock Affair by Nobody: 6:35am On Jun 04, 2020
what a man you are
Re: Getting My Child From Wedlock Affair by FlordFlorez(m): 7:37am On Jun 04, 2020
LawBreaker:
My brother is a long story.
Im ready to read the long story. Or u could summary it.
Re: Getting My Child From Wedlock Affair by Foodqueen(f): 8:48am On Jun 04, 2020
Sperm donor sighted.

How many women u impregnate ganganhuh
Re: Getting My Child From Wedlock Affair by Ishilove: 8:51am On Jun 04, 2020
cococandy:
Are you a professional impregnator?

https://www.nairaland.com/5892861/taking-baby-motherless-home

You want to take your daughter to a motherless babies’ home even though the mom wanted to keep her until she turned 5 and you refused.
Now you’re looking for how to claim a son too.
So you can put him in fatherless babies home too?

If your stories are true and you’re not just a troll looking for reactions, please change.
Shooting his very agile sperm upandan is his hobby
Re: Getting My Child From Wedlock Affair by Righteousness89(m): 8:53am On Jun 04, 2020
LawBreaker:
If I can't get the child, I may marry the girl, collect my child, and divorce her.
You will Shocked by what will come on you!

This World is a Mystery oooo!
Re: Getting My Child From Wedlock Affair by Ybaby: 8:59am On Jun 04, 2020
LawBreaker:
If I can't get the child, I may marry the girl, collect my child, and divorce her.
grin grin
Confam crook.

That child is her EGG.... let that family dice you small as you dey find trouble. If you are not ready to.marry - donot penetrate
Re: Getting My Child From Wedlock Affair by joseph1832(m): 9:26am On Jun 04, 2020
LawBreaker:
Guys, I impregnated this girl. They are a family of all girls. The scan turns out to be a male. The family claimed the child and said I should settle their daughter and go my way if I am not ready to marry her. Guys, I can't marry the lady so I settled but I want my child. I am planning to go to court, do I have any chance. Matured talks only.
what does the bolded mean? Like how did you 'settle' her?
Re: Getting My Child From Wedlock Affair by Nobody: 9:34am On Jun 04, 2020
joseph1832:
what does the bolded mean? Like how did you 'settle' her?
Money, they asked for 500k and I gave them 400k
Re: Getting My Child From Wedlock Affair by Nobody: 9:46am On Jun 04, 2020
You can blame and criticize me. I am not a Saint. I am a sex addict and it has led me into two unwanted pregnancies almost at the same time. Though I did do series of abortion. But these two, they refused to do. I have really tried to curtail myself but I can't help myself. This is not the kind of life I chose, but I can't help myself. The two pregnancies have really thought me a lesson, so I now use CD and stopped keeping series of girls. I pray God forgives me cuz I have turn a new leaf. I have bend down and seriously looking for a wife to marry.
Re: Getting My Child From Wedlock Affair by trekkie: 9:58am On Jun 04, 2020
Oluneutral:
I saw your last thread before this one, where you're asking if you can take your child (yet unborn o) to an ophanage home because you believe claiming your child back from your girlfriend when he's of age will be complicated. And now this, you seems to be very selfish and as well acting your username.


After you've settled the family because you don't want to marry their daughter, you now want to change it for them after discovering that the baby is a boy. I'm sure you wouldn't have said this if the scan had shown that the baby is a girl. You're wicked! Even more wicked after saying you'll deceive the girl into marriage, collect your boy and divorce her later. Hhhmm..... Human heart is indeed desperately wicked.


You can't marry her but you can impregnate her. I just hope our girls will be learning from all this and learn to close their legs until marriage.



I'm definitely showing my daughter this thread to see what some guys have in plan for easy-to-deceive girls.
Gbam!
Re: Getting My Child From Wedlock Affair by Saintmary(f): 10:19am On Jun 04, 2020
LawBreaker:
You can blame and criticize me. I am not a Saint. I am a sex addict and it has led me into two unwanted pregnancies almost at the same time. Though I did do series of abortion. But these two, they refused to do. I have really tried to curtail myself but I can't help myself. This is not the kind of life I chose, but I can't help myself. The two pregnancies have really thought me a lesson, so I now use CD and stopped keeping series of girls. I pray God forgives me cuz I have turn a new leaf. I have bend down and seriously looking for a wife to marry.
Much as you want your child, you don't seem to be mentally or psychologically capable of raising a child.
Do him a favor and stay away.
Re: Getting My Child From Wedlock Affair by Eketem: 10:54am On Jun 04, 2020
While you are a silly person you have a right to your child but not full custody. Speak with a lawyer if you intend being a responsible parent
Re: Getting My Child From Wedlock Affair by austine4real(m): 11:02am On Jun 04, 2020
This one is strong





Eleyi gidigan



I say this one is strong



Eleyi gidigan

Re: Getting My Child From Wedlock Affair by Boss13: 11:49am On Jun 04, 2020
Unfortunately a lot of people have this notion that sex is fun. Actually, sex is for procreation and if this message was mainstream, only matured people will engage in sex.
Re: Getting My Child From Wedlock Affair by faithfull18(f): 2:48pm On Jun 04, 2020
@ OPhuh The heart of man is desperately wicked, Kai.
Re: Getting My Child From Wedlock Affair by Nephilim: 2:59pm On Jun 04, 2020
LawBreaker:
Guys, I impregnated this girl. They are a family of all girls. The scan turns out to be a male. The family claimed the child and said I should settle their daughter and go my way if I am not ready to marry her. Guys, I can't marry the lady so I settled but I want my child. I am planning to go to court, do I have any chance. Matured talks only.


You can blame and criticize me. I am not a Saint. I am a sex addict and it has led me into two unwanted pregnancies almost at the same time. Though I did do series of abortion. But these two, they refused to do. I have really tried to curtail myself but I can't help myself. This is not the kind of life I chose, but I can't help myself. The two pregnancies have really thought me a lesson, so I now use CD and stopped keeping series of girls. I pray God forgives me cuz I have turn a new leaf. I have bend down and seriously looking for a wife to marry. I didn't rape any of these girls, I told them my mind. I told them I don't need marriage that I only need sex. I was plain with them. At times I do push them away but they keep coming back to me. But cuz I couldn't control myself and there are at times I hold the urge and I can't control anymore, I will just fall. I have already made the mistakes but I have learnt my lessons, but I know I will not impregnate any girl again unless she is my wife.
bastard! You can't help ursef but you are enjoying it!! And then you go after another pušsy and blast it with sperm and opt in for abortion and on and on you continue, do you think that's life! That's such a low irresponsible life.
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