Exc2000:



who doesnt know the tribalistic nature of some Ibo family.... see what Peter of P Square faced

he dey their body.. shioorr


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amiibaby:
Just unlove him period

Rozz:
even my mom is against inter tribal marriages,for me I see no big deal in it

Ourkitchenpalm:
It's just lack of understanding...

I'm Ibo but married to a Yeruba girl...

My colleagues then in UBA PLC we're against it...

My friends we're against it...

My pastor and brethren we're against it...

My own people in the village said I was too young to get married...

I even have to buy 406 Peugeot full option for my daddy to appears them.

I ignored them because:

1.The day my Manager told us that they're bringing a female staff for the branch(As I heard, for years no female staff in that branch). I just heard a voice: "that's your wife"...

2. I have been a virgin(no girl relationship). My younger ones even had girl friends in secondary schools...

NB: I never knew her tribe, age, color, height etc but I do know one thing... my wife will report in the next five working days...

When she resumed, I didn't like her...because she wore Jezebel materials...and I said: how could God gave me this kind of girl to marry ( Lagos girl that has opened eye finish). I thought she would dress like a deeper lifer.

Anytime my supervisor goes on leave, I do take over as the next in command. I always torment her life with my authority. So that, she would in turn hate me too. She was too patient. The more I command her the more she likes and respects me more than other staff members..
It took me about one year and six months before I proposed to her... she immediately resigned and we got married.

Today, she's more holy than me...We have 3 kids.

No man has the right to detect whom the fellow man marries ....Unless they're still feeding him.

Pattypatt:
Pele hanty. Try and marry from your tribe and save yourself the trouble.

Tajbol4splend:
A lady whose name goes by Adeolar shares what the tribal difference has cost her in finally hooking up with her man, I can't imagine in 2020, 21st century that we still have men whose love lives are controlled by their parents and that we still have parents who preside over the love lives of the children, it is so lugubrious.

MOnkeyBabe:
wRonG

StubbornGENIUS:
Sis. Rozz,will you marry a fulani muslim?

donbachi:
What his parents did is wrong.and him allowing his parents make such a decision for him,may bring matrimonial disaster to him in future..but,since it ended like this.pick up ur broken self and move on.maybe GOD just saved u from some kinda near future tears and regrets.

StubbornGENIUS:
Who's wrong here:mum or rozz?

Lightangel64:


Its better to run those mothers can be witches and ruin that marriage. My mums friend that got married when the guys parents were not in support, na soso fibroids, miscarriage, and ovarian problems, till she was never able to birth again, now she is frustrated

LexngtonSteele:
She should be happy nah

Why would you want to marry someone who would steal your dress and run at the first sign of trouble ?

Nnaabros:
"I really love him, but I don't know why I love him"

You don't love him, you just want to be married. Move on.

Ourkitchenpalm:
It's just lack of understanding...

I'm Ibo but married to a Yeruba girl...

My colleagues then in UBA PLC we're against it...

My friends we're against it...

My pastor and brethren we're against it...

My own people in the village said I was too young to get married...

I even have to buy 406 Peugeot full option for my daddy to appears them.

I ignored them because:

1.The day my Manager told us that they're bringing a female staff for the branch(As I heard, for years no female staff in that branch). I just heard a voice: "that's your wife"...

2. I have been a virgin(no girl relationship). My younger ones even had girl friends in secondary schools...

NB: I never knew her tribe, age, color, height etc but I do know one thing... my wife will report in the next five working days...

When she resumed, I didn't like her...because she wore Jezebel materials...and I said: how could God gave me this kind of girl to marry ( Lagos girl that has opened eye finish). I thought she would dress like a deeper lifer.

Anytime my supervisor goes on leave, I do take over as the next in command. I always torment her life with my authority. So that, she would in turn hate me too. She was too patient. The more I command her the more she likes and respects me more than other staff members..
It took me about one year and six months before I proposed to her... she immediately resigned and we got married.

Today, she's more holy than me...We have 3 kids.

No man has the right to detect whom the fellow man marries ....Unless they're still feeding him.

Sonfethopia:


You don't need a reason to love some one. If he loves him cos he's Hansome may be something happen like fire , god forbid he looose he fine face shes gone. But wen u love someone for no reason men that is everlasting.

Finnese001:




they don't want to marry from their tribe, always rushing Igbo men like housefly rushing shit. And she even get mouth to yarn

shameless modafukers

Ijawwomaninoyo:


Why you no abuse Chioma and snowwhite for being 4th baby mamas to Yoruba men with children from 3 women already.
You people need help, if you are not condemning your women for having female children, you are against potential daughters in law. A thread was here last month where even an Ebonyi man was rejected. Shame!

Wolgrace:


I know what am talking about.. Those who fake it will be revealed by his/her persistence admiration of the tradition by an event or circumstances. Tradition has a force who speak for it. From the story, we see the guy's family are deeply rooted, dictated and directed by tradition, not God..

Its good you escaped the trap of tradition to follow God's will. Shalom

Seetto:
Somebody said, you should unlove him and move on with your life, I don't blame the son I blame the parent for listening to fake albino lamurdi cownu on ipob fm...


We have good, hard-working and wonderful Ibos doing their business legitimately everywhere in the country, unlike the scammer lamurdi cownu who has equally brainwashed some online micreants on nairaland..

Ego2:
wondering when all this tribal issue will come to an end... same happened to me. A relationship of two years and few months gone like that cause his Mum doesn't want an igbo lady for her only son, forgetting that I am from both sides.... SMH.

Goodmarlian:


You are a fool for mentioning Nnamdi kanu don't worry he will soon achieve his goal in life which is BiAfra and you wouldn't hear him again.

RTSC:
If igbo men list the things they have seen from tribalistic Yoruba parents, you would be shocked.

I read the thread and saw one igbo man complaining that the mother of his Yoruba fiancee called her in his presence and asked her if she know what she is doing by dating an igbo.

The illiterate mother didn't know the guy hears Yoruba.

MOnkeyBabe:
wRonG

Tajbol4splend:
A lady whose name goes by Adeolar shares what the tribal difference has cost her in finally hooking up with her man, I can't imagine in 2020, 21st century that we still have men whose love lives are controlled by their parents and that we still have parents who preside over the love lives of the children, it is so lugubrious.

Finnese001:




they don't want to marry from their tribe, always rushing Igbo men like housefly rushing shit. And she even get mouth to yarn

shameless modafukers

Keketu:
hi good morning please pm me thanks

MOnkeyBabe:
inSiGhtfUl

MOnkeyBabe:
TAke heaRt DeaR. JuSt Remember someone has Always Got your Back. That's me.
If he's available you can still fiGht for what you want, BeCause that's a GooD CAUSe

amiibaby:
Just unlove him period