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stanliwise:
oga rest abeg na person wey be theif be theif. Learn to date responsible girls. And you yourself be responsible

SweetCunt97:
I go need extra sheet and biro to answer this ur jamb question

Princesslee:
I met this guy on Facebook may 2017 and we started dating November 2017 without seeing each other, I school in Unijos while He works in Lagos and He promised me that distance will not be a barrier but the truth is that the relationship has always not been Rossy.
We always have issues and it's always as a result of not seeing each other like for instance we saw each other Just once last year and same for now this year. I always beg him to allow me come visiting and when it's time He comes with an excuse so it was becoming too much and making feel like am desperate and as a result of that I flared up and insults him.
The past 6 weeks has really been hell, I always calls and he never pick up but always return the call after some hours. And He barely called whenever He is at home. It's either he is on his way to work or coming back or going to buy something and feels He should tell my Good night.
Exactly two weeks ago He called me around 11am and the truth is that I wasn't feeling too well and after we finish talking I didn't hear from him until around 5pm then I called twice and He didn't pick up. He later called around 9pm and I asked him why didn't pick up nor returned my call anymore and He said he was not having airtime and strated complaining how I responded to his call that morning. I tried explaining to him that I was sick and He started shouting saying if I can not manage that I should walk out of the relationship and He asked me to call back if I wished and ended the call.
To summarize everything I tried calling for like countless times and he didn't pickup, I sent a text that am sick and he replied sorry. Since then He has been showing his true self and I was scared the relationship might end, I sent him a text saying am missing him and he replied that we will talk the next day. I called the next day but His phone was switched off and after sometime connected, He requested I gave him some time that He will call me back but He didn't so I called again and He immediately sent me a text reminiscing me that I once insulted last year March and He has taken enough from me that He needs some space.
I swear with my life that I truly love this guy to a fault and I have already told every members of my family and friends about him. I most times post his picture on my social media page and everyone knows about him already. I really don't know what to do anymore. Please I need advice. Thanks so much and so sorry for the long post.

Rosunkeye:
Madam you are dating a married man

Zeal0000007:
my dear I'm sorry to say this and I feel ur pains, when we love someone even to their fault and the person does not reciprocate it's worrisome and painful but the truth must be told. I think he's into someone else may be very committed to the person. so ur calls irritates and it's disturbing him, because if u truly love someone you will always want to hear from the person 24/7. If he's serious about you he'll always be the one to be calling you irrespective of the hour,u will always know, so I'll advise u put ur self together and try and move on. such is life, I wish you the best.

Princesslee:
I met this guy on Facebook may 2017 and we started dating November 2017 without seeing each other, I school in Unijos while He works in Lagos and He promised me that distance will not be a barrier but the truth is that the relationship has always not been Rossy.
We always have issues and it's always as a result of not seeing each other like for instance we saw each other Just once last year and same for now this year. I always beg him to allow me come visiting and when it's time He comes with an excuse so it was becoming too much and making feel like am desperate and as a result of that I flared up and insults him.
The past 6 weeks has really been hell, I always calls and he never pick up but always return the call after some hours. And He barely called whenever He is at home. It's either he is on his way to work or coming back or going to buy something and feels He should tell my Good night.
Exactly two weeks ago He called me around 11am and the truth is that I wasn't feeling too well and after we finish talking I didn't hear from him until around 5pm then I called twice and He didn't pick up. He later called around 9pm and I asked him why didn't pick up nor returned my call anymore and He said he was not having airtime and strated complaining how I responded to his call that morning. I tried explaining to him that I was sick and He started shouting saying if I can not manage that I should walk out of the relationship and He asked me to call back if I wished and ended the call.
To summarize everything I tried calling for like countless times and he didn't pickup, I sent a text that am sick and he replied sorry. Since then He has been showing his true self and I was scared the relationship might end, I sent him a text saying am missing him and he replied that we will talk the next day. I called the next day but His phone was switched off and after sometime connected, He requested I gave him some time that He will call me back but He didn't so I called again and He immediately sent me a text reminiscing me that I once insulted last year March and He has taken enough from me that He needs some space.
I swear with my life that I truly love this guy to a fault and I have already told every members of my family and friends about him. I most times post his picture on my social media page and everyone knows about him already. I really don't know what to do anymore. Please I need advice. Thanks so much and so sorry for the long post.

themaestro08:
You don't respect him if you do you wouldn't have insulted him. He has my support and full backing. He shouldn't be in a place where he is treated like trash when he can be treasured elsewhere.

Leave the poor guy alone

Benitam:
Hmmmmm... Thank you for this your post, I just started seeing a guy that seemed to be nice initially, he calls at least once a day in the first 3weeks but after that it's been like once in 3days. I do call him also but I just decided to stop to see if he'll change. From your post, I can conclude he's really not into me..

Princesslee:
Yes I know and I have apologised wholeheartedly. There are times He insulted me too.

themaestro08:
You guys should be calling each other when needed, it doesn't have to be always one person. If its a one way street then its a toxic relationship.

Benitam:
I only stopped when I noticed I was the one calling more. Even to reply my messages sef is war..

themaestro08:
I suggest you hold a face-to-face discussion regarding the viability of the relationship so as to know where you stand. It will also give you a hint of whether you are on the same page or not.

Benitam:
The rmelationship is just about 6weeks old. I might come off as desperate if I ask, don't you think?

Benitam:
I only stopped when I noticed I was the one calling more. Even to reply my messages sef is war..

Justbehave:
Simps can never disappoint. SMH.

themaestro08:
"The earlier you solved a problem the better"
". A stitch in time saves nine"
" A stumble may prevent a fall"

Meditate on these proverbs.

11Anonymous:
Everybody no be the same sha. Like me, I can't be calling a girl every day, I can be doing once in 4 days. Not that I don't love her, I start to miss her much after 4 days, Lol. Also I don't like short calls, we should talk for long during each call. So I can't be spending ₦4h everyday, that will be ₦12,000 every month on calling a girl. She be investment? Lol

Not replying chats along with not calling means he's not interested in you

Since I don't call everyday, I long to chat with her everyday. Very important.

11Anonymous:
So I can't be spending ₦4h everyday, that will be ₦12,000 every month on calling a girl. She be investment? Lol

dingbang:
Let me see your face if you fine...

Zeal0000007:
my dear I'm sorry to say this and I feel ur pains, when we love someone even to their fault and the person does not reciprocate it's worrisome and painful but the truth must be told. I think he's into someone else may be very committed to the person. so ur calls irritates and it's disturbing him, because if u truly love someone you will always want to hear from the person 24/7. If he's serious about you he'll always be the one to be calling you irrespective of the hour,u will always know, so I'll advise u put ur self together and try and move on. such is life, I wish you the best.

Princesslee:
I met this guy on Facebook may 2017 and we started dating November 2017 without seeing each other, I school in Unijos while He works in Lagos and He promised me that distance will not be a barrier but the truth is that the relationship has always not been Rossy.
We always have issues and it's always as a result of not seeing each other like for instance we saw each other Just once last year and same for now this year. I always beg him to allow me come visiting and when it's time He comes with an excuse so it was becoming too much and making feel like am desperate and as a result of that I flared up and insults him.
The past 6 weeks has really been hell, I always calls and he never pick up but always return the call after some hours. And He barely called whenever He is at home. It's either he is on his way to work or coming back or going to buy something and feels He should tell my Good night.
Exactly two weeks ago He called me around 11am and the truth is that I wasn't feeling too well and after we finish talking I didn't hear from him until around 5pm then I called twice and He didn't pick up. He later called around 9pm and I asked him why didn't pick up nor returned my call anymore and He said he was not having airtime and strated complaining how I responded to his call that morning. I tried explaining to him that I was sick and He started shouting saying if I can not manage that I should walk out of the relationship and He asked me to call back if I wished and ended the call.
To summarize everything I tried calling for like countless times and he didn't pickup, I sent a text that am sick and he replied sorry. Since then He has been showing his true self and I was scared the relationship might end, I sent him a text saying am missing him and he replied that we will talk the next day. I called the next day but His phone was switched off and after sometime connected, He requested I gave him some time that He will call me back but He didn't so I called again and He immediately sent me a text reminiscing me that I once insulted last year March and He has taken enough from me that He needs some space.
I swear with my life that I truly love this guy to a fault and I have already told every members of my family and friends about him. I most times post his picture on my social media page and everyone knows about him already. I really don't know what to do anymore. Please I need advice. Thanks so much and so sorry for the long post.

DrFunmisticGlow:
you are dating yourself.
Disengage