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Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by hustla(m): 4:29pm On Jun 14, 2020
adewumiopeyemi:
Just look at me begging a girl of 30years to date me and she is doing yanga imagine ��


She probably is seeing someone else

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Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by Bbbwings: 4:29pm On Jun 14, 2020
Prettyvirginia:


Bikokwa. Your wife will need the balls. Don't bet it on frivolities

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Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by NnaNna4(m): 4:30pm On Jun 14, 2020
First arrangee. Came back for Xmas and we finally met. He said if I agree before the end of the week we will marry. I refused, Oga wedded another woman end of the week. I marvel at women grin. You marry someone you are meeting for the first time in less than 3 days.

2nd Arrangee. Suddenly realized he was getting old. I was 19 and just got admission he was 34.There was nothing he didn't promise me even a car. My plans in life didn't have him in it. Will be disturbing me with midnight calls. #1 of his money I didn't see, an importer at that with so many shops. He doesn't give girls money lyk he said.His mum on meeting me for the first time told me if I won't marry him I shouldn't waste his time and money. I left him quick quick.
When I refused and left for school, he dated another girl that he paid for her school fee for 4 yrs including project and clearance then the girl absconded. I was on my way home from school when he met me on the road after 5 yrs to narrate the whole story and started begging me again.you and your mother should Eat your money. Nonsense

3rd was hellish. My lecturer. This man begged me at every opportunity until my course mates started laughing at us. He informed even his colleagues and they joined in begging me. He was in his 40s while I was in my early 20s.

After I went out with him on a lecturers insistence, he was gulping okra soup ND telling me he can't stay a day without eating it. We drove over to his house where he claimed he wanted to pick something. This man inserted porn for meoo and started caressing me as his gbola has risen. God saved me that day. Anuofia..

One week later he called me that our wedding cards was out. See me see wahala, I had to inform my bf and parents. It was war. Laslas he started threatening me with my results in final yr. My lecturer friends had to warn him.

Almost a decade later, he isn't married yet which is his business anyway.

[4th one that I was recommended to. On our first meeting the fool was squirming in his seat and when he could finally muster courage to talk had the guts to ask me if I was ready to bear children. I then asked him if that was all a wife means to him. Idiot. No introductions whatsoever.

They are plenty oo. Ulunne is a wife material oo. E NO get wetin I no see[/quote]

Oya your picture before ...let me see this proud ulunne

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Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by ednut1(m): 4:30pm On Jun 14, 2020
merahki:



Someone wanted to be with you that much (even if she was desperate about it) and you call her “idiot lady”?
This is so mean.
Wow.
wanted marriage not me. Didn't even know me as it was our second date
Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by dalass(f): 4:30pm On Jun 14, 2020
Mykel51:


Someone you haven't met, look at how you are insulting him... Nawa !

Read his quote... Annoying! kiss

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Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by xynerise: 4:31pm On Jun 14, 2020
grin

They will want you to get them pregnant grin

She be like " Can't you just make a mistake for once"? grin grin grin

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Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by fairheart(m): 4:31pm On Jun 14, 2020
Prettyvirginia:
OK. Thanks hun. Just that I don't see myself marrying while still in school.

I will reflect deeply on your advice. Nice Sunday to you


Darling, I am glad you know what you want! Don't rush into any man, especially because you're pretty--and physical beauty draws men to women. But I have a warning for you: If you know you're not ready for marriage until after studies, keep to it. Do not let any man lure you into sexual activities that will degrade your spiritual and emotional worth (these two component of us play a role while during selection of partner and in marriage).

I have been digging deep into why beautiful women go past 30 and still single? Why? One of the key reasons is that, they engage in "wasteful sexual activities" in their 20s. Some women do so and easily find a good man, but most don't! There's always implications!
I am not saying you should've been virgin if you are not; but do your best to keep yourself clean and whole. If you must have a boyfriend, do and make sure he's not the type who go from ladies to ladies; guys like this are parasites, infesting women and degrading their wholeness & worth.

I know you mean well for yourself and it appear you are not one of those unserious girls who would eat anything thrown at them. God will help you in your endeavour and grant your desires. I wish you the best!

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Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by zedegit: 4:31pm On Jun 14, 2020
Blackmann001:
Mine is different ooo... Just to date her, sh took me to a lab for HIV, hypatitis, blood sugar, genotype and other STDs....

Guyz line up for this lady door all kneeling for her attention. Instead of shakara wey I dey read here by the guy, I am being hopeful sh says yes sef...... Sh dates me alone ooo... But rivals of docs, pharmacist, working abroad, etc full road....

Na me dey even remind her of us and settling down, sh is 26 ND very pricy cuz sh did her own job on time.. Intelligent, beutiful, tall, speaks fine, works hard both domestically and at work place. Earns enough.

Na God hand we dey for her matter!

Thanks for not toeing same line. A guy will rush not walk to the altar if he finds that one woman that gives him peace and love to last a lifetime.

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Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by boyjo: 4:32pm On Jun 14, 2020
sassysure:

Really shocked cheesy

I didn't know o.

There is nothing to gloat over on any single man or woman.

Nah, of course there's nothing to gloat about.

But for this Nairaland?
You dare not be single after saying no to such number of men.
You for hear am!

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Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by Nobody: 4:32pm On Jun 14, 2020
Joshmuch:
The Creator gave to everyone their time, how one uses it matter. The 27 upwards didn't jump there from 18. From 18 to 26, they were too fine to be tied down by one man. After They are wrinkled, now they want any man. Kole werk. Make hay while the sun is blasting.
I tell you my man!!! Although some are blameless for not being married at 30. But if you look around it's mostly cos these girls see fantasies on social media and will not settle for less.

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Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by adewumiopeyemi(m): 4:33pm On Jun 14, 2020
And why must you conclude like that you haven’t see me before this is a faceless forum you don’t just have to conclude like that
I will rather fight for love other than beg for love that is the fact
dalass:


You thought she will just fall just because you think she's old and should be desperate to date you? Beg some more.... She must have seen through your begging... Did you prostrate? grin grin grin

Awww come on! Let me guess...You must be shirt, fugly and low bank account type looking for a beautiful, rich and above 30 to take advantage of... Na wa for you oh... Radarada
Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by Nobody: 4:33pm On Jun 14, 2020
ProphetofOdin:


Yes. it was a terrible experience and she even tried to trap me with a pregnancy. But I was just not ready for all that.
But you're ready to eat the KPOMO of her KPEKUS
Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by Nobody: 4:34pm On Jun 14, 2020
Raydos:
Well I have no experience, But my Sister Is going through this right now, She was a Very pretty girl back then in School to the extent almost every guy want a piece of her, But she turned them all down!!

There was even one brilliant guy that really loved her so much that He even went as far as Writing Exam for her, Imagine taking that risk for a lady?? He doesn't even care if he get caught and get rusticated! He loved .y sister so much

But upon all these, My sister still turned him down, The reason For this is not farfetched, She was a very Pretty girl and she feel she can settle down anytime she want, She think guys will always want her cos of there pretty face!!

Fast forward to 7 years later, She's not Yet married now, Depression Has finished her, She couldn't celebrate her 34th birthday last year, instead she just Stay indoors and cry all day!!

I really feel bad seeing her cry, It moved me to tears, She's isn't as attractive As she was when she was 25!!
women need to cash out of the game when they are young. God will heal every broken heart, her husband is on the way trust me.

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Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by Nobody: 4:34pm On Jun 14, 2020
Kizzygentle:

Guy construct your narrative very well. It's just so confusing and time wasting.


funny enough, what are you insinuating? I what's there to be confuse, it quite understandable re-read it or leave it.
Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by boyjo: 4:34pm On Jun 14, 2020
dalass:

...and low bank account type looking for a beautiful, rich and above 30 to take advantage of... Na wa for you oh... Radarada
Chai!

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Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by Blackmann001: 4:34pm On Jun 14, 2020
fairheart:
Do you want to marry her? Will you?

Yes na... In abt 2 years time... Pepper never rest!

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Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by Nobody: 4:35pm On Jun 14, 2020
And he would get to discover 15 years letter at the US embassy.

AfroKnight:


Chai!

Your first born would have been another man’s child. Shît!!!

This is how men end up raising other people’s kids, only to find out the truth at the embassy.

She stayed in your home, ate your food, collected your money and gifts and still tried to trap you in a marriage with the child of another man.

That was cruel of her.
Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by bizhop01: 4:35pm On Jun 14, 2020
Rozz:
liers everywhere as if they are not the same persons pestering ladies with marriage up and down.Pls let me breath mtcheww
Keep on deceiving your self

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Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by Tesvin: 4:35pm On Jun 14, 2020
boyjo:


You don't know what you did.
You just shamed Musa234.

He was waiting to gloat over your single statusgrin

He wanted to turn her into a laughing stalk grin grin grin
Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by Openbusiness: 4:35pm On Jun 14, 2020
zuby4real10:

go broke and see the real monster in them[/b]
Words on marble. Like say I be Dangote now, I for hammer you N100m for this statement alone. You're a woke man. Really woke! Go broke and they will turn to demons. Almost 98% of them. Until you're broke, you can never know the real character of these girls forming gf or wife. Woman problem ehn, very soon men won't marry again, na baby daddy format go full town. Women have finally succeeded in wrecking the institution of marriage. Na God go judge dem

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Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by Joshmuch: 4:36pm On Jun 14, 2020
DominusPrime:

I tell you my man!!! Although some are blameless for not being married at 30. But if you look around it's mostly cos these girls see fantasies on social media and will not settle for less.
Nobody want to settle for less. Social media na set up! It is no fucking reality. Girls should know that they bring far too little to the table to be building castles in the air. If wishes are horses, Almajiris will ride.

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Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by adewumiopeyemi(m): 4:36pm On Jun 14, 2020
I wil move on. But I no she wil come begging I wount chat her up or even call her but she wil know something is missing in her life
I wil make sure I disconnect any way for me to. Come closer to me
hustla:



She probably is seeing someone else
Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by Enugupikin: 4:39pm On Jun 14, 2020
Ulunne777:
First arrangee. Came back for Xmas and we finally met. He said if I agree before the end of the week we will marry. I refused, Oga wedded another woman end of the week. I marvel at women grin. You marry someone you are meeting for the first time in less than 3 days.

2nd Arrangee. Suddenly realized he was getting old. I was 19 and just got admission he was 34.There was nothing he didn't promise me even a car. My plans in life didn't have him in it. Will be disturbing me with midnight calls. #1 of his money I didn't see, an importer at that with so many shops. He doesn't give girls money lyk he said.His mum on meeting me for the first time told me if I won't marry him I shouldn't waste his time and money. I left him quick quick.
When I refused and left for school, he dated another girl that he paid for her school fee for 4 yrs including project and clearance then the girl absconded. I was on my way home from school when he met me on the road after 5 yrs to narrate the whole story and started begging me again.you and your mother should Eat your money. Nonsense

3rd was hellish. My lecturer. This man begged me at every opportunity until my course mates started laughing at us. He informed even his colleagues and they joined in begging me. He was in his 40s while I was in my early 20s.

After I went out with him on a lecturers insistence, he was gulping okra soup ND telling me he can't stay a day without eating it. We drove over to his house where he claimed he wanted to pick something. This man inserted porn for meoo and started caressing me as his gbola has risen. God saved me that day. Anuofia..

One week later he called me that our wedding cards was out. See me see wahala, I had to inform my bf and parents. It was war. Laslas he started threatening me with my results in final yr. My lecturer friends had to warn him.

Almost a decade later, he isn't married yet which is his business anyway.

4th one that I was recommended to. On our first meeting the fool was squirming in his seat and when he could finally muster courage to talk had the guts to ask me if I was ready to bear children. I then asked him if that was all a wife means to him. Idiot. No introductions whatsoever.

They are plenty oo. Ulunne is a wife material oo. E NO get wetin I no see
Even though your story was lengthy u wrote it in a way it can easily be enjoyed..
So are you married now? tongue

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Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by dalass(f): 4:39pm On Jun 14, 2020
adewumiopeyemi:
And why must you conclude like that you haven’t see me before this is a faceless forum you don’t just have to conclude like that
I will rather fight for love other than beg for love that is the fact

You typed that you begged her and because she was 30... You had to mention her age..like wtf! I'm not surprised she refused you....

I got your description Ba? grin grin

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Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by Donwoosky: 4:39pm On Jun 14, 2020
Babe asked me few days ago if I would like make she born picking for me before we get married... for my mind I say see this one o e be like say you wan make I leave you jaa be that sad

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Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by pedi(m): 4:40pm On Jun 14, 2020
Mine revise was the case I was telling her let get married this December she refuse that till next year mind she was the one sayin December but she suddenly change her mind, that till next year, now again she don't want to hear anything about marriage again, I was ready to the extend I paid for cow already, eny way I told her I will never talk about marriage again, whatever happens she should know she cause it. Problably she feels am not financially stable to take care of her need.

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Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by Nobody: 4:40pm On Jun 14, 2020
Joshmuch:
Nobody want to settle for less. Social media na set up! It is no fucking reality. Girls should know that they bring far too little to the table to be building castles in the air. If wishes are horses, Almajiris will ride.
Well said sir
Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by Decimus: 4:41pm On Jun 14, 2020
dalass:


Mature mind and best comment here so far....

Not these Bleep boys... When guys too get older, no sane girl will take you serious anymore cause they'd think something is wrong with you that you've been single for so long.... Many are on a long thing....... grin

The kind curse some guys don collect on a chop and clean mouth mission with blatant lies is still worrying them till tomorrow...

Why do most of you ladies always put YImu or Yinmu infront of that YIM?
Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by boyjo: 4:42pm On Jun 14, 2020
Tesvin:


He wanted to turn her into a laughing stalk grin grin grin
Hahahaha... rotflgrin
As in ehn, she just carry burst people bubble for this thread lol

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Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by Nobody: 4:43pm On Jun 14, 2020
bonnyhope:


You have already fallen for that cooked up story of hers just to give women credit
C'mon man, mind your business.

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