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A Sister Needs Advise Urgently by Nairalandhero(op):
The day I will never forget in my life
Please I need advice from my fellow members. I'm a young girl of 22 years old, I got married on January 2019, by God's grace I gave birth on March 2020. My mum who is in her early 40s, though still looks very young and vibrant came for Omugwo as supposed.

After about one month and few days, she was suppose to go back to the village, my hubby suggested she should stay at least another one mother since there was lock down, I hurriedly accepted not knowing that everything has its own reason. Since last week, my mum has been sick, I personally thought it was malaria, I bought malaria drugs for her to no avail, so I decided to take her to the hospital, after several tests, it was found out that my mother is four weeks pregnant. Terrible! Not just being pregnant but my hubby is responsible for the pregnancy. I became absolutely mad. They are pleading for me to keep it secret, so that she will abort the baby before going to meet my daddy at village. What should I do?

Should I tell my Dad?

Should I quit the marriage?

Can I ever forgive both of them?

My heart is bursting into pieces
Re: A Sister Needs Advise Urgently by Oluromantic: 3:34pm On Jun 15, 2020
Dem don ease lockdown op, Dem never resume for your work? This is 3.30 in the afternoon. It's too sunny for copy and paste.
Re: A Sister Needs Advise Urgently by Finnese001: 3:35pm On Jun 15, 2020
One month and six weeks undecided


Ayam not understanding





But seriously, is this story for real huh
Re: A Sister Needs Advise Urgently by CokeBar(f): 3:35pm On Jun 15, 2020
What madness is this please?

On a lighter mood, your step sister/brother is also your step son/daughter AND also your child's step sibling is also her/his step aunty/uncle. Great family line.

About forgiving? I don't know... you alone know if you'd be able to completely get over this hurt... I don't even want to imagine it sef.

But please donot cover anything at all... tell your family... let them know

But... if you know that you Dad may not be able to handle it, don't kill the old man cause trust me this news is devastating.
Re: A Sister Needs Advise Urgently by McBrooklyn(m): 3:36pm On Jun 15, 2020
sad Jesus said "Use your Head"...
Re: A Sister Needs Advise Urgently by Nobody: 3:36pm On Jun 15, 2020
Are you the husband or the wife or the mother-in-law? grin
Re: A Sister Needs Advise Urgently by StPete: 3:37pm On Jun 15, 2020
sad

What else is there to stay and do in the marriage?
Re: A Sister Needs Advise Urgently by callmeRichie(m): 3:37pm On Jun 15, 2020
shebi u love your mother?? undecided let your hubby take her as his second wife nah, so you would be SENIOR WIFE to your MOTHER and STEP MOTHER to your INCOMING brother or sister grin

Be asking 1 rhetorical question there undecided
Re: A Sister Needs Advise Urgently by Anyahuruagu: 3:40pm On Jun 15, 2020
See me see wahala dey o
Re: A Sister Needs Advise Urgently by Nairalandhero(op): 3:46pm On Jun 15, 2020
Nnaabros:
Are you the husband or the wife or the mother-in-law? grin
the wife
Re: A Sister Needs Advise Urgently by Goldenkrezi: 3:47pm On Jun 15, 2020
OP abeg reason ur post wella na..
One month and six weeks.. den anoda 1 month for her to stay
Dats give or take 14weeks..
Still trying to figure out the authenticity of ur post huh huh
Re: A Sister Needs Advise Urgently by Nairalandhero(op): 3:53pm On Jun 15, 2020
Goldenkrezi:
OP abeg reason ur post wella na..

One month and six weeks.. den anoda 1 month for her to stay

Dats give or take 14weeks..

Still trying to figure out the authenticity of ur post huh huh
after one month and few days precisely
Re: A Sister Needs Advise Urgently by Goldenkrezi: 4:28pm On Jun 15, 2020
Hmmmnnn... ok
Re: A Sister Needs Advise Urgently by Nobody: 4:57pm On Jun 15, 2020
You won't believe I keep reading bullshit since morning angry
Re: A Sister Needs Advise Urgently by Expresswriter: 6:44pm On Jun 15, 2020
Too bad.
Re: A Sister Needs Advise Urgently by Nobody: 6:48pm On Jun 15, 2020
What is it with the new trend of Fake Stories in this forum these days? huh huh huh huh

What's really happening huh

I can't tell the real from fake anymore. Making one lose interest in this forum
Re: A Sister Needs Advise Urgently by SweetCunt97(f): 6:50pm On Jun 15, 2020
True story or fake one?

Quite unbelievable
Re: A Sister Needs Advise Urgently by ashewoboy(m): 7:05pm On Jun 15, 2020
this story is a pseudo.
if it's true then E. B things is the author.
Re: A Sister Needs Advise Urgently by 21cents: 7:11pm On Jun 15, 2020
ashewoboy:
this story is a pseudo.
if it's true then E. B things is the author.
mad O
Re: A Sister Needs Advise Urgently by Chenko001(m): 7:21pm On Jun 15, 2020
CONGRATULATIONS HONEY, PACK YOUR BAGS CUS YOU KNOW WHAT, YOU ARE GOING FOR OMUGWO. ���� JUST THAT IT WILL BE FROM THE CITY TO THE VILLAGE RATHER THAN FROM THE VILLAGE TO THE CITY
Re: A Sister Needs Advise Urgently by merieam16(f): 8:02pm On Jun 15, 2020
Nairalandhero:
the wife
with a male moniker abi? kontinu
Re: A Sister Needs Advise Urgently by SmileDance(f): 8:09pm On Jun 15, 2020
He or she even had time to describe how young and vibrant the mother is.
Re: A Sister Needs Advise Urgently by Nairalandhero(op): 8:26pm On Jun 15, 2020
merieam16:
with a male moniker abi? kontinu
how do you mean
Re: A Sister Needs Advise Urgently by AfroKnight: 9:23pm On Jun 15, 2020
Na wa
Re: A Sister Needs Advise Urgently by ukaface(f): 10:03pm On Jun 15, 2020
This one pass me o
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