Vikkygeee:
I created this account lately to search for something here so I figured I'd just throw this out and maintain my anonymity.
I am 30years old and I'm the first born of my family I've got 2 siblings, one male and female.
My sister just finished her education in Ukraine and she is working in am hospital in lagos she's a medical doctor and she's just 25.
My sister is a very attractive girl and she has always had tons of male admirers ,some guys even go to the extent of befriending me just to get in touch with my sister,but the problem is she just doesn't like to mingle or even hangout with guys except they are just her friends.
Growing up I thought it was because of the brotherly advice I gave her about men so I wasn't worried, at 16 she went to Ukraine and came back 7 years later.
When she came back I notice there is always this Ukrainian girl that calls her like everytime daily and they talk for hours, I thought they were just bffs until I used her laptop when data ran out of mine one day and just happen to see her chats and what I saw was suprising, their chat dated for years and i saw pictures of them together on dates, vacations, bed,kissing, cuddling ,heck I even found some explicit picture the girl sent her ,but for the sake of privacy I didn't check it out.
The problem now Is that our parents are disciplinarian and I don't ever want them to find out because it will lead to a big trouble between them.
Some days ago I showed at my sister's apartment and I sat her down and asked her if she's gay or not,she replied without even hesitating that she is truly gay and she wouldn't live her life otherwise, hearing this I just left without saying anything and went to my house,she even called me a couple times to explain but I didn't pick up.
After pondering about this issue I decided to speak to her because I love her so much as she is our last born,i called her to come and meet me at home,she came and i spoke to her at length about the situation on ground and I made her understand that Nigeria doesn't support those kind of things,my sister replied me that she's engaged to that ukranian and she is going to marry her irrespective of what it'll cost her.
Knowing my little sister she's an extremely determined human being, anything she says she'll do, she'll do it even if she'll suffer though it.i don't want to lose her so I've given her my support and told her I'll find a way to solve this issue.
The problem now is that a friend of mine advised me to tell our parents so that everything will scatter and she won't have a choice,to tell the truth that was what I planned on doing before, or she goes back to Ukraine this year and marry that girl then they'll do artificial insemination to bear a child that way we'll have something to show to our parents that'll signify she's married and later on we'll let the cat out of the bag.
Please mature people should help me chip in and give me some advice abeg.

O. P dont listen to those mumu advice this nlders Lesbian are given you to support her, they are Lesbian as soon as they saw the thread they flocked in....

Reset your little sis brain




Am an atheist but homosexuality have no place in this earth now or later they will be haunted to extinction......

Prechgold1180:

Na you come be the fool now. Nonsense!

Vikkygeee:
I created this account lately to search for something here so I figured I'd just throw this out and maintain my anonymity.
I am 30years old and I'm the first born of my family I've got 2 siblings, one male and female.
My sister just finished her education in Ukraine and she is working in am hospital in lagos she's a medical doctor and she's just 25.
My sister is a very attractive girl and she has always had tons of male admirers ,some guys even go to the extent of befriending me just to get in touch with my sister,but the problem is she just doesn't like to mingle or even hangout with guys except they are just her friends.
Growing up I thought it was because of the brotherly advice I gave her about men so I wasn't worried, at 16 she went to Ukraine and came back 7 years later.
When she came back I notice there is always this Ukrainian girl that calls her like everytime daily and they talk for hours, I thought they were just bffs until I used her laptop when data ran out of mine one day and just happen to see her chats and what I saw was suprising, their chat dated for years and i saw pictures of them together on dates, vacations, bed,kissing, cuddling ,heck I even found some explicit picture the girl sent her ,but for the sake of privacy I didn't check it out.
The problem now Is that our parents are disciplinarian and I don't ever want them to find out because it will lead to a big trouble between them.
Some days ago I showed at my sister's apartment and I sat her down and asked her if she's gay or not,she replied without even hesitating that she is truly gay and she wouldn't live her life otherwise, hearing this I just left without saying anything and went to my house,she even called me a couple times to explain but I didn't pick up.
After pondering about this issue I decided to speak to her because I love her so much as she is our last born,i called her to come and meet me at home,she came and i spoke to her at length about the situation on ground and I made her understand that Nigeria doesn't support those kind of things,my sister replied me that she's engaged to that ukranian and she is going to marry her irrespective of what it'll cost her.
Knowing my little sister she's an extremely determined human being, anything she says she'll do, she'll do it even if she'll suffer though it.i don't want to lose her so I've given her my support and told her I'll find a way to solve this issue.
The problem now is that a friend of mine advised me to tell our parents so that everything will scatter and she won't have a choice,to tell the truth that was what I planned on doing before, or she goes back to Ukraine this year and marry that girl then they'll do artificial insemination to bear a child that way we'll have something to show to our parents that'll signify she's married and later on we'll let the cat out of the bag.
Please mature people should help me chip in and give me some advice abeg.

What can i say?

Even Buhari is shocked

Pray 4 her. There is nothing god cannot do

Liposure:
Pray 4 her. There is nothing god cannot do

..
Except make an amputee regrow a limb..

I will say it is better to keep silent... although she loves you for she tells you the truth. Keep on to your best cos your motion will surely lead to positive result. Please don’t forget to always pray for her.

Nigerians and copy copy Sha.

In a country where there are bad roads, epileptic power supply, and unjustified killings. Some people feel LGBT is the biggest problem we are facing. They only acknowledge a problem until the West says this is indeed a problem. No sense of morality. People that are easily swayed by Netflix and Disney propaganda.


LGBT people, what's your take on incest and pedophilia, and bestiality?
Shebi you don't choose who you fall in love with and your love is not hurting anyone.

Since you have no sense of morality on your own, in 10,20 years when they legalize these in the "sane" west, you will dogmatically come and push for their legalization.

Vikkygeee:
LostAddict
makydebbie:

Watch how the above people will start throwing the word "ignorance" up and down. These leftist always think they're smart and it's quite the contrary.

OP. I hope you don't follow the trash some people call advice. 99% of them will not want such for any of their relative.

Here's the thing, it best to inform your parent. They will know how to handle the situation maturely. They are her parent so they will know the best way to handle it.

She might have made up her mind, yes but still, she might change. Orientation can be changed

Here in Nigeria, na jail o

Silentgroper:
First off. I'll advise you allow her relocate out of this country cause she cant be gay in this country.

then other can follow

She's already an ukranian, she's going as soon as flight resumes

EarthFireH2o:


Hey you really need to calm down there... you're even going ahead to make plans for them already, lols, it's cute though,
But thing is you've still got to sit her down and talk to her, I'm not talking bout telling her off bout being gay, you just have to let her understand things, let her know the journey might not be smooth and savvy as she might be having in her thoughts, and I think you should try to get to know the other lady who she's dating try setting up on how to get to know her and her plans, don't doesnt seem like your sister is living in her own infatuation, try to understand the other person and get to know if they have same goals of wanting to be together forever even through the thick and thin that life would push to them, I'm sure you should be able to detect if she's not being straight forward with you, so have the talk with your sis, get her to understand that your family might not approve of her sexual orientation, but then you'll sure find a way to get them to understand and accept her, pledge your support to her and get to know yer thoughts also, try to understand her quite well,
I wish you all the very best bro
But I must warn you
It wont be easy to achieve all of these

I understand you bro ,they're adults and a relationship of 7 years that involves the parents of the girl is pretty serious enough, moreover they are engaged.

gregyboy:



O. P dont listen to those mumu advice this nlders Lesbian are given you to support her, they are Lesbian as soon as they saa the thread they flocked in....

Reset your little sis brain


Homosexuality is demonic

Thanks for your advice but I don't see it that way ,it's their body and it's their choice.

Tadeknkeepcalm:
Nigerians and copy copy Sha.

In a country where there are bad roads, epileptic power supply, and unjustified killings. Some people feel LGBT is the biggest problem we are facing. They only acknowledge a problem until the West says this is indeed a problem. No sense of morality. People that are easily swayed by Netflix and Disney propaganda.


LGBT people, what's your take on incest and pedophilia, and bestiality?
Shebi you don't choose who you fall in love with and your love is not hurting anyone.

Since you have no sense of morality on your own, in 10,20 years when they legalize these in the "sane" west, you will dogmatically come and push for their legalization.

Vikkygeee:
LostAddict
makydebbie:

Watch how the above people will start throwing the word "ignorance" up and down. These leftist always think their smart and it's quite the contrary.

The funny part is someone like you will be running head over heels to get American or UK Visa o,you're a bloody hypocrite,your country that does not support gay people is one of the most underdeveloped place on earth and you still dont see the foolishness in your thoughts.
You're giving yourself headaches over what another person chose to do with his or her body

TheRareGem1:
OP. I hope you don't follow the trash some people call advice. 99% of them will not want such for any of their relative.

Here's the thing, it best to inform your parent. They will know how to handle the situation maturely. They are her parent so they will know the best way to handle it.

She might have made up her mind, yes but still, she might change. Orientation can be changed

Here in Nigeria, na jail o

Thanks She's going back to her country so that won't be a problem.

Vikkygeee:

Thanks for your advice but I don't see it that way ,it's their body and it's their choice.

Wtf are you saying, wtf wtf..........your children oneday will be influenced by your sis we will read the story here

Bro..... You can take the horse to the water but you can't make him drink it.
What you told her in her teenage years about men most likely steered her away from men period. Going to live abroad...in a country where Blacks are scarce and not respected....during the exploring relationships with men years of her life only made matters worse. When sexual desires got the better of her no doubt she will turn to her mates...females for satisfaction. I believe her situation then has a lot to do with her present position. If she listened to you back then... she will listen to you again. My advice is to let her know she has her life to live.... her choice to be a lesbian but you do not agree with it.... but you will not condemn her for it. Take some responsibility for her choice because of the "fear men" lecture you gave her. Assure her that you will always have her back as long as blood is thicker than water. Let her know your greatest worry is your parents.... whatever is hidden in the dark must come to light..... they will not be able to cope with such news.... they would not be able to survive the news that their pride and joy will bring them shame.... you can manage... but not them. Ask her to reconsider the marriage.... put it off for a few years or after the passing of your parents....so at least they can live out their last days in joy and not sorrow. Admit that you know you are asking for too much... but you are pleading for the sake of your parents. In time... you can guide her to develop closer friendships with men and hopefully... nature takes its course.
Bear in mind... she knows only one side of the coin... things can turn around super fast if she knows the other side. Seen that at my work place. Whatever you have to say... say in a friendly tone... not as big brother.

i will advise you to tell your parents about it. just tell them so that your conscience will be free and if she refuse to change that is her problem

Carloslehder:

The funny part is someone like you will be running head over heels to get American or UK Visa o,you're a bloody hypocrite,your country that does not support gay people is one of the most underdeveloped place on earth and you still dont see the foolishness in your thoughts.
You're giving yourself headaches over what another person chose to do with his or her body

Bros, answer the question, what's your opinion on bestiality, incest and pedophilia? Are you going to keep this same energy then?

God forbid I hustle for Western countries. Middle eastern countries are more developed though and they do not support it. Just fact checking.

Friendly advice, cut down on Twitter and Netflix, they are just superimposing an illogical world to you. It's complete indoctrination. "Hypocrite" "ignorant" leftist go-to feel-good words.

The o. P is the one that's is a Lesbian she is passing the message indirectly....

To her felliw nairaland LGBT community

Prechgold1180:

lol why u con remove the comment na.
Naira land is a forum for yabbing so you're free.
Me self dey yab and insult oh and there's a bastard like that following me and reporting me to mods and I simply don't give a fucck

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Ebenezer2O2O:
lol why u con remove the comment na.
Naira land is a forum for yabbing so you're free.
Me self dey yab and insult oh and there's a bastard like that following me and reporting me to mods and I simply don't give a fucck

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shatap

We’re creative-writing again?

Tadeknkeepcalm:
Nigerians and copy copy Sha.

In a country where there are bad roads, epileptic power supply, and unjustified killings. Some people feel LGBT is the biggest problem we are facing. They only acknowledge a problem until the West says this is indeed a problem. No sense of morality. People that are easily swayed by Netflix and Disney propaganda.


LGBT people, what's your take on incest and pedophilia, and bestiality?
Shebi you don't choose who you fall in love with and your love is not hurting anyone.

Since you have no sense of morality on your own, in 10,20 years when they legalize these in the "sane" west, you will dogmatically come and push for their legalization.

Vikkygeee:
LostAddict
makydebbie:

Watch how the above people will start throwing the word "ignorance" up and down. These leftist always think they're smart and it's quite the contrary.

I can't use the word ignorant for someone like you, a dimwit would fit better.

If having no sense of moral means letting people live by whatever decision they make or beliefs they hold then yes, I lack every sense of morality.

If being PRO LGBTQ and supporting their rights then once again I lack every moral standards.

Do have a nice day and I wish you good luck in changing your country.

gregyboy:




Wtf are you saying, wtf wtf..........your children oneday will be influenced by your sis we will read the story here

How is that your problem exactly

she neva meet guy like me wey go knack am orijo prick for dat yeye yansh

LostAddict:


I can't use the word ignorant for someone like you, a dimwit would fit better.

If having no sense of moral means letting people live by whatever decision they make or beliefs they hold then yes, I lack every sense of morality.

If being PRO LGBTQ and supporting their rights then once again I lack every moral standards.

Do have a nice day and I wish you good luck in changing your country.

I could hear the sad music in the background from that your moving speech. (Feels like I'm watching a disney movie)


But you still refused to answer my question. Does your answer remain the same Mr. Smartypants?

Prechgold1180:

you are very daft

makydebbie:


Especially religious people. Set of hypocrites.

maybe.


Happy birthday. have responsible fun

You see the funniest thing with 90% of the people in support of homosexuality is they wont want their kids to end up like them..

@OP...its a very difficult place you find yourself..the reason you are more concerned about your kid sis is because you love her so much, you have dont your bit by advising her and talking to her maturely. You need to sit her down again over lunch or dinner and tell her the negative effect it will bring to your parents and family in general, use emotional blackmail if possible and if she refuses to see reasons then I advise you inform your parents cos they have a right to know since she claims to have the right to be whatever she deems fit.

In conclusion, everything is not spiritual even if i still believe being gay is demonic. Its really painful though the only alternative is if she could like a guy and fall in love which is near impossible sha.

Tadeknkeepcalm:

Bros, answer the question, what's your opinion on bestiality, incest and pedophilia? Are you going to keep this same energy then?

God forbid I hustle for Western countries. Middle eastern countries are more developed though and they do not support it. Just fact checking.

Friendly advice, cut down on Twitter and Netflix, they are just superimposing an illogical world to you. It's complete indoctrination. "Hypocrite" "ignorant" leftist go-to feel-good words.

Exactly!
They'll be telling you how they have no control of their sexuality.if na like that everything should go.rapist pedophiles should have a fields day too.

you cant do nada to change her, just accept her the way she is. You aint even got no choice. Keep praying sha but I aint never seen a situation where the gay was ever prayed away.

Ekwutox:


Gay is the general term used for all homosexuals but to be more specific, the op would have used lesbian.

the op can use wateva she likes, if you gonna give her an advice give her if you are not get out