Prechgold1180:
oga in naija u v to b specific

see how person just embarrass himself still come back dey talk so na u be fool

gregyboy:



O. P dont listen to those mumu advice this nlders Lesbian are given you to support her, they are Lesbian as soon as they saw the thread they flocked in....

Reset your little sis brain


Homosexuality is demonic


Am an atheist but homosexuality have no place in this earth now or later they will be haunted to extinction......

u are an atheist but u said its demonic abeg do u even know what atheist means

Tadeknkeepcalm:

Bros, answer the question, what's your opinion on bestiality, incest and pedophilia? Are you going to keep this same energy then?

God forbid I hustle for Western countries. Middle eastern countries are more developed though and they do not support it. Just fact checking.

Friendly advice, cut down on Twitter and Netflix, they are just superimposing an illogical world to you. It's complete indoctrination. "Hypocrite" "ignorant" leftist go-to feel-good words.

see somebody na Netflix and Twitter u dey fight also there difference between LGBT and those u mentioned
1.beastiality(animals can't give consent to humans so is wrong)
2.pedo(children aren't old enough to give consent is wrong)
LGBT(if 2 aduls give themselves consent to do what they want to each other what IS ur own)
And this east u are running to no be Dubai apart from a few places racism plenty there

Kingkun69:
u are an atheist but u said its demonic abeg do u even know what atheist means

Gay

kiddkash:

maybe.


Happy birthday. have responsible fun

You can't tell me the kind of fun to have.
Thank you for the birthday wish.

Kingkun69:
see somebody na Netflix and Twitter u dey fight also there difference between LGBT and those u mentioned
1.beastiality(animals can't give consent to humans so is wrong)
2.pedo(children aren't old enough to give consent is wrong)
LGBT(if 2 aduls give themselves consent to do what they want to each other what IS ur own)
And this east u are running to no be Dubai apart from a few places racism plenty there

You conveniently left out incest.
Children aren't old enough to give consent, but they are old enough to change sexes, can't you see that such ideology is flawed and inconsistent? Of course they are not part of LGBT, at least for now, but soon when they say it is, what will be your opinion? Would you take it hook, line and sinker as you have the rest?
And I'm quite sure you didn't have this mentality prior to your "exposure" to those media, before they decided for you.

Give me her number or mail I'll Council her

See as useless gay ppl don hijack d thread...Op I no get long advice fr u plus I don't even Kno how u go do am ..but please find a way to kick that gayness off her life ,anyhow , anyway u can even if it means she go stop talking to u..one day she go come back around and thank u..please do it fr ur parents atleast,u no even pity them atall..nawa fr u o

makydebbie:

You can't tell me the kind of fun to have.
Thank you for the birthday wish.

Happy birthday dear.

All the best to you.
Wishing you the best and good things of life.You will celebrate many more birthdays.Have an amazing birthday celebration and enjoy your day.

obonujoker:


If you support gays, then stop going to church and calling yourself a Christian then...

If you support Muslims and support people going to mosque rather than church, stop calling yourself Christian and stop going to church

shilenji:
the op can use wateva she likes, if you gonna give her an advice give her if you are not get out

Who's this lunatic?

TrollKiller:
Bring her to my house.

My gbola will reset her brain with hard knacks back to back with my 9 inch rod

Seriously, you know nothing about human sexuality. Hope no offense? There are books on the said subject and Google is free

Ekwutox:


STOP THAT

Just let him wallow in his ignorance. These are the kind of people that advocate for corrective rape for gays

Ladyhippolyta88:


Happy birthday dear.

All the best to you.
Wishing you the best and good things of life.You will celebrate many more birthdays.Have an amazing birthday celebration and enjoy your day.

Thank you baby girl.

Ekwutox:


Who's this lunatic?

you should have read what I wrote first before I modified the post,you probably would have committed suicide now.

Vikkygeee:
I created this account lately to search for something here so I figured I'd just throw this out and maintain my anonymity.
I am 30years old and I'm the first born of my family I've got 2 siblings, one male and female.
My sister just finished her education in Ukraine and she is working in am hospital in lagos she's a medical doctor and she's just 25.
My sister is a very attractive girl and she has always had tons of male admirers ,some guys even go to the extent of befriending me just to get in touch with my sister,but the problem is she just doesn't like to mingle or even hangout with guys except they are just her friends.
Growing up I thought it was because of the brotherly advice I gave her about men so I wasn't worried, at 16 she went to Ukraine and came back 7 years later.
When she came back I notice there is always this Ukrainian girl that calls her like everytime daily and they talk for hours, I thought they were just bffs until I used her laptop when data ran out of mine one day and just happen to see her chats and what I saw was suprising, their chat dated for years and i saw pictures of them together on dates, vacations, bed,kissing, cuddling ,heck I even found some explicit picture the girl sent her ,but for the sake of privacy I didn't check it out.
The problem now Is that our parents are disciplinarian and I don't ever want them to find out because it will lead to a big trouble between them.
Some days ago I showed at my sister's apartment and I sat her down and asked her if she's gay or not,she replied without even hesitating that she is truly gay and she wouldn't live her life otherwise, hearing this I just left without saying anything and went to my house,she even called me a couple times to explain but I didn't pick up.
After pondering about this issue I decided to speak to her because I love her so much as she is our last born,i called her to come and meet me at home,she came and i spoke to her at length about the situation on ground and I made her understand that Nigeria doesn't support those kind of things,my sister replied me that she's engaged to that ukranian and she is going to marry her irrespective of what it'll cost her.
Knowing my little sister she's an extremely determined human being, anything she says she'll do, she'll do it even if she'll suffer though it.i don't want to lose her so I've given her my support and told her I'll find a way to solve this issue.
The problem now is that a friend of mine advised me to tell our parents so that everything will scatter and she won't have a choice,to tell the truth that was what I planned on doing before, or she goes back to Ukraine this year and marry that girl then they'll do artificial insemination to bear a child that way we'll have something to show to our parents that'll signify she's married and later on we'll let the cat out of the bag.
Please mature people should help me chip in and give me some advice abeg.

Is it a coincidence that she came out this month? She was just like "screw it, i'm gonna be true to myself in this month of pride". This is pride month, the LGBT+ month to celebrate who they are.
As par your decision. There's one rule the LGBT+ community and even allies never break, you don't and never out someone. It's not your place to do so, all you can do is encourage her to come out but you have no right to out her, never. The only reason one has to out someone is when the said person is living a double life or on the DL (downlow), when the gay person is married or in a relationship with a straight person, He's covering up his sexuality using the person as a beard thereby hurting the person's feelings when shit blows up, that's the only reason to out someone and this is not the case. All you need to do now is support and encourage her to come out to your parents because they have a right to the truth but it shouldn't be from you

... That's what you get by sending your child abroad alone at a very young age... Children shloud be guarded.....

Yes, this doesn't mean there are no gays here in Niger, but difference is non of them here want to marry their partner.. They still prefer straight marriage....

And after the straight marriage, gradually the gayism washes away.. Many don't even get to marriage age B4 it washes away......

Well, una get money, me I no get. Mk una use una money find solution.. Lol

Ekwutox:


Gay is the general term used for all homosexuals but to be more specific, the op would have used lesbian.

homosexual is the broad term. Gay is guys lesbians is female bisexual both

Carloslehder:

;Dsorry o but I cant help but laugh at your ignorance,someone is engaged in a relationship that has been on for years and you're saying crap about telling her off like it's a habit.
Moreover I take it that you're a Muslim, only you extremists take everything with religion, there is nothing wrong with being gay or different

The fact that he associated sexual orientation to gender identity was it for me. How is being gay a gender... Lol

Unfortunately I will tell you the truth. It is not ok. Don't be a weak man, you are her elder brother. Like someone said, tell her off. It is not ok at all. What is this world turning to? Your parents will become a laughing stock and will be so ashamed of her. How can you give her your blessings without putting up a good fight? I know how my dad will be so persistent on issues until you will finally succumb, that's parenting. How can you just encourage that shit so easily? Even if you will finally support you are supposed to exhaust all options. I'm so disappointed. What are our generation of men turning to? We r too weak unlike the days of our fathers. Don't let anyone tell you that it is ok because it is not. You love her so you have her support. Even Ukrainians are not completely open to homosexuality. This is wrong. Biblically and morally

Vikkygeee:
I created this account lately to search for something here so I figured I'd just throw this out and maintain my anonymity.
I am 30years old and I'm the first born of my family I've got 2 siblings, one male and female.
My sister just finished her education in Ukraine and she is working in am hospital in lagos she's a medical doctor and she's just 25.
My sister is a very attractive girl and she has always had tons of male admirers ,some guys even go to the extent of befriending me just to get in touch with my sister,but the problem is she just doesn't like to mingle or even hangout with guys except they are just her friends.
Growing up I thought it was because of the brotherly advice I gave her about men so I wasn't worried, at 16 she went to Ukraine and came back 7 years later.
When she came back I notice there is always this Ukrainian girl that calls her like everytime daily and they talk for hours, I thought they were just bffs until I used her laptop when data ran out of mine one day and just happen to see her chats and what I saw was suprising, their chat dated for years and i saw pictures of them together on dates, vacations, bed,kissing, cuddling ,heck I even found some explicit picture the girl sent her ,but for the sake of privacy I didn't check it out.
The problem now Is that our parents are disciplinarian and I don't ever want them to find out because it will lead to a big trouble between them.
Some days ago I showed at my sister's apartment and I sat her down and asked her if she's gay or not,she replied without even hesitating that she is truly gay and she wouldn't live her life otherwise, hearing this I just left without saying anything and went to my house,she even called me a couple times to explain but I didn't pick up.
After pondering about this issue I decided to speak to her because I love her so much as she is our last born,i called her to come and meet me at home,she came and i spoke to her at length about the situation on ground and I made her understand that Nigeria doesn't support those kind of things,my sister replied me that she's engaged to that ukranian and she is going to marry her irrespective of what it'll cost her.
Knowing my little sister she's an extremely determined human being, anything she says she'll do, she'll do it even if she'll suffer though it.i don't want to lose her so I've given her my support and told her I'll find a way to solve this issue.
The problem now is that a friend of mine advised me to tell our parents so that everything will scatter and she won't have a choice,to tell the truth that was what I planned on doing before, or she goes back to Ukraine this year and marry that girl then they'll do artificial insemination to bear a child that way we'll have something to show to our parents that'll signify she's married and later on we'll let the cat out of the bag.
Please mature people should help me chip in and give me some advice abeg.

Dont tell your parents you will ruin her, and i dont think it will change her mind it will only make her hate you.
She is 25 a grown adult she knows the consequences religiously, leave her to her life and pray for her

gregyboy:



O. P dont listen to those mumu advice this nlders Lesbian are given you to support her, they are Lesbian as soon as they saw the thread they flocked in....

Reset your little sis brain


Homosexuality is demonic


Am an atheist but homosexuality have no place in this earth now or later they will be haunted to extinction......

You are an athiest i thoughy you didnt care about religion so why hate homo

Tadeknkeepcalm:
Nigerians and copy copy Sha.

In a country where there are bad roads, epileptic power supply, and unjustified killings. Some people feel LGBT is the biggest problem we are facing. They only acknowledge a problem until the West says this is indeed a problem. No sense of morality. People that are easily swayed by Netflix and Disney propaganda.


LGBT people, what's your take on incest and pedophilia, and bestiality?
Shebi you don't choose who you fall in love with and your love is not hurting anyone.

Since you have no sense of morality on your own, in 10,20 years when they legalize these in the "sane" west, you will dogmatically come and push for their legalization.

Vikkygeee:
LostAddict
makydebbie:

Watch how the above people will start throwing the word "ignorance" up and down. These leftist always think they're smart and it's quite the contrary.

Gay, incest are same it concerns no one so we should leave them alone and stop trying to kill them.
Bestality is rape cause the animal didnt consent

Prechgold1180:

Illiterate

OP, you're a good man. We do the best for the people we love and hate to see them miserable.

The situation at hand is very serious indeed. Coming from our background, many of us do not understand things like this and we would rather have nothing to do with it. It can't be easy for whoever finds themselves in the fore front of it.

I just want to point out that if you do not tell your parents about this and go ahead with your support, they may never forgive you. Yes, your intentions were noble but the act unforgivable. While it is not ideal that you do the telling, encourage your sister to come out to them.

There are reasons she avoids telling them, maybe fear of rejection, fear for their safety/health. But we all must carry our own cross. If she won't tell them, how long does she intend to keep them in the dark? Yes it's her life but do your parents not deserve an insight? At least give them a chance to fight or concede. You might be surprised. And if no, maybe your sister can have a rethink. I'm not saying anything ... some people do change their orientation, some don't. All the best, OP.

Ekwutox:


Gay is the general term used for all homosexuals but to be more specific, the op would have used lesbian.

it doesn't matter what he used Eisenstein, OP is right

makydebbie:


A queen I Stan.

That Ukraine girl is her happiness. You've lived your life at 30 let her live hers and be happy. If she commits suicide based on the stupid decision you're about to make I hope you feel better about it.

What's wrong with being gay?
Live and let people live.

Nobody should quote me telling me shit. I'm an LGBT Ally and don't even bring religion to this talk.

when she gets older and realise how she wasted her youth doing gay stuff, won't she commit suicide? These so-called woke generation sef. I pity you all

callmeRichie:
OP, the problem started with your thread title...

Richard, stop making a fool of yourself

hashtagged:


You are an athiest i thoughy you didnt care about religion so why hate homo

My comments is not base on religion but rather on naturality..... Homosexuality is unatural to all living things we atheist believe on

And soon we will get rid of them, before they inflict this sickness on our children, i cant raise.my child next to a deformed human called gays they will one way be influenced which i will sue them for

makydebbie:

You can't tell me the kind of fun to have.
Thank you for the birthday wish.

the responsible fun. I meant because of coronavirus. avoiding large crowd
but I'm sure you know what you're doing

chigoizie7:
Nawa ooh. Op this matter tire me.

One woman here advised us that if we have children, at 14years that we should ask them who their boyfriends or girlfriends are. If they are gay, we should send them to naija as minors and then use African hands and methods to reset their brains or correct it before they turn 18 because by then we can’t do anything as the government of this place legalized it. That auntie that told us this is regretting because her only son is gay, one of her daughters is gay as well.

I believe that some of them can be changed. I changed one as a corper that year, I don’t know if she is still straight at the moment, but she told me that she hasn’t been with a lady ever since( 4years ago).one sweet beautiful girl.

Vikkygeee, going by this advice, it may be too late for your sister, but there is hope! Are you ready to follow my advice?

Tell your parents now! At least they are still alive and can salvage the situation.

I can bet you, they would not send her back to Ukraine until she gets married in Nigeria and starts a family. Chances of her maintaining a gay relationship with the Ukraine girl will be very low.

Now you may say she could have gay friends in Nigeria. The good news is, she will have a very hard time hiding that from the family and it can be easily stopped.

Don't for one moment think you are making your sister happy by supporting her gay relationship. You know women have fish brains and cannot think for themselves, that is where YOU (big brother) comes in.

Stop her from making a decision she would regret in her old age.

You missed the opportunity to guide her when she was sent to Ukraine. Do not make that same mistake again.

Vikkygeee:

Thank you very much for this, this is exactly what I'm thinking, I think we're just going to let them find out in future, knowing how much they love her they won't have a choice and the only person they'll blame for everything is me for not telling them.and I'm fine taking the blame if it means we get to keep her in the family. Heck I have started reading about artificial insemination sef

I guess my advice has gone to the bin.

Posterity will judge that I tried