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boyjo:
Guy, I rebuke you!

pocohantas:
I would have. At some point, Anslem04 bores me too and I tell him bye.

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I have told you Arsenate, if you think you are up to think, enter set. Stop all this weakling move, standing by the sidelines to talk shit like the re***** you are.

i heard that ..

millionboi:
hear advice madam

U are not a man but a women.

Bible say my ppl perish bcoz thy lack knowledge(not knowing how dat tin works)Jesus is using us to talk to u now.

OK sir

wintersnow:
There's always a way
I've set everything in motion already..just watch everything gradually unfold

Hmmm. Bold

Blackmoran:
guy how do you know? Na tiv babe

e clear. Na dem

millionboi:
u mean a lady used jazz on u?

Yea bro but she didn't succeed with her plans, she only ended up having a baby for me. I'll be 28 by aug this yr and the lady in question will be 30 by nov

WORDWORLD:
Just as men kept whinning on that thread that asked ladies to tell their experience with married men who wowed while pretending to be single.

It was a massive turn up by female folks on NL not because it was directed mainly to them but because it was a subject matter very common to them and as such stories were just flowing.

But as far as this thread, without being gender biased open to all. YOU LADIES DON'T HAVE STORIES TO TELL ON THIS THREAD BECAUSE MEN NO CARRY MARRIAGE FOR HEAD LIKE UNA TO THE POINT OF BEING SO DESPERATE LIKE MOST OF YOU END UP BECOMING

pocohantas post=90701330:
Uncle, no give me headache abeg. Time for this kind chuchuchu done pass. Byebye

Lol

This hanty never ceases to amaze me.
You've been pontificating all over the thread even against the flow of people's experiences, telling us how men are the desperate ones after the turn '33'.

Wordworld presents you with a similar thread where women, even you, have the most experiences and willing to bare it all and suddenly you of all people that can argue for pages nonstop do not have the time ehn? �

Saucecode and Wordworld you guys did a good job but using logic on an emotional being usually doesn't work out fine

OneChanceTaxi:
Lol

This hanty never ceases to amaze me.
You've been pontificating all over the thread even against the flow of people's experiences, telling us how men are the desperate ones after the turn '33'.

Wordworld presents you with a similar thread where women, even you, have the most experiences and willing to bare it all and suddenly you of all people that can argue for pages nonstop do not have the time ehn? �

Saucecode and Wordworld you guys did a good job but using logic on an emotional being usually doesn't work out fine

The things I did to you all egos in the past lives on. A baby girl has moved on and y’all still nursing the wounds. Sorry dear, no strength to argue with una again...

pocohantas:
The things I did to you all egos in the past lives on. A baby girl has moved on and y’all still nursing the wounds. Sorry dear, no strength to argue with una again...

My dear, as for us, we are always on the move, achieving goals and setting records.

We ain't nursing any wound we are only ;Dcatching our fun with a baby girl who has been stuck for to long . Glad to hear you have finally moved on. Our efforts in constantly pushing you is no waste at all.

ALWAYS EXTEND OUR GREETINGS TO YOUR..........

Modified: Pocohantas and your always gisting us about your new job is as well interesting. Keep it up since nobody else has got a job except you on NL always excited to tell us stories. What did you eat this morning pocohantas?

WORDWORLD:
My dear, as for us, we are always on the move, achieving goals and setting records.

We ain't nursing any wound we are only ;Dcatching our fun with a baby girl who has been stuck for to long . Glad to hear you have finally moved on. Our efforts in constantly pushing you is no waste at all.

ALWAYS EXTEND OUR GREETINGS TO YOUR..........

Modified: Pocohantas and your always gisting us about your new job is as well interesting. Keep it up since nobody else has got a job except you on NL always excited to tell us stories because it has never happened to you before. What did you eat this morning pocohantas?

I have been on the move, you guys thought your smear campaign could stop anything.

Nah, don’t act like you are happy I am not as miserable as you guys wish I am. Thanks for letting me know the posts that hurts deep.

Baby girl for life.

pocohantas:
The things I did to you all egos in the past lives on. A baby girl has moved on and y’all still nursing the wounds. Sorry dear, no strength to argue with una again...

q


Speaking of wounds ... hope you've bought ur pampers 4 the month

anslem04:
q


Speaking of wounds ... hope you've bought ur pampers 4 the month

Anslem, everyone thinks you are slow. Arsenate thinks you are without wits and an easy prey.

You should work on that, then come back for return match.

pocohantas:
[b]Baby girl for life. ;[/b]D

pocohantas:
Lmao.

Proud evening newspaper for LIFE!

SEE CONFUSION LMAO.

WORDWORLD:




SEE CONFUSION WITH THE BOLDED LMAO.

There is no confusion. Except that you are confusing yourself. Still a baby girl for life.

pocohantas:
There is no confusion. Except that you are confusing yourself. Still a baby girl for life.

We are also proud of you

pocohantas:
Proud evening newspaper for LIFE!

WORDWORLD:


We are also proud of you

If I tell you Byebye now, something like Arsenate will say it is because you have wits than Anslem04. But what sensible/different thing have any of you said?

pocohantas:
If I tell you Byebye now, something like Arsenate will say it is because you have wits than Anslem04. But what sensible/different thing have any of you said?

And you keep responding to our insensibility which shows you are actually SENSIBLE.

You should have kept your mouth shut but no. The reason being that you enjoy the way we troll you even more than the way we enjoy trolling you.

Its been fun!

pocohantas:
Anslem, everyone thinks you are slow. Arsenate thinks you are without wits and an easy prey.

You should work on that, then come back for return match.

maa blame mi ! i never knew live was a race track, tell all the usain bolts in here hell has no closing hr, besides i enjoy cumming late.
here is what a friend thinks of you likewise

sassysure:
[s]U want to marry me
I am a married woman of course.

Just wanted to let you guys know it ain't easy on babes too. In dormitory, I was nicknamed one guys name because he couldn't give up. Till I went to uni.

He is one of my cousin's friend. Took my picture( don't know if its with his permission) from his house and enlarged. Hung in his sitting room.
When he finally got the message that I don't want to marry him, he went for another person. It was around Easter break and I came home from school, was jisting with a nebor when I saw a convoy of cars,asked and was told it's the guy. This guy still stopped, walked up to where me and the elderly woman were. Thank goodness for that woman. She deflected what would have hung me finally. I saw this guy with the wife drove pass me the next day, he stopped and came out to greet me. I have to involve the head of his family. I sneak in to my village towards late evening, use apiam way and enter my house through the backyard. Stay with my mum without coming out till I leave. All because of men. They will be at the compound with the elders and I will jump fence from the back and disappear straight to my mum's hometown.

Girls get it worst. They will ruin your reputation. They will go to beer parlour and make u the topic of discussion.
A babe almost blinded me with very long cane simply because her so called boyfriend wanted to marry me. His dad mandated him to marry me. Have never met the guy. Actually bypassed him on his way to my house to see me
He don't know me either. It wasn't easy for me at all. Some babes get guys who want to befriend them, I get suitors. Had few,very few guys who want to befriend me and all were outside my state.

Some will stalk you.

So when u guys are busy making it look like babes are all over you, know that your brothers are killing themselves over other women. They spent money, they can go to any length.

The way men aggressively pursued me actually had a very negative effect on me toward men cos it was suffocating and too clingy. Yeah, at a point my mummy got worried cos I never responded positively to any.

You want to know about what women pass through in the hands of men, u will never find it here, go to hair salon or campus and you will be shocked to see the level men( not boys) with money and class will go to have a babe answer his name.[/s]

I've seen ur comments and feel its audio. U re jst fantasizing. Even Juliet Ibrahim nor dey get dis kian attention. Pls shift ur lies to anoda section.

Na only you be the girl for the Nigeria

WORDWORLD:
And you keep responding to our insensibility which shows you are actually SENSIBLE.

You should have kept your mouth shut but no. The reason being that you enjoy the way we troll you even more than the way we enjoy trolling you.

Its been fun!

They want to be ignored?
Quit the reverse psychology dear. I ignore when I want and summon you all when I want. Just like dogs, y’all turnup when I blow my whistle.

Anslem04 being the most loyal.

anslem04:
maa blame mi ! i never knew live was a race track, tell all the usain bolts in here hell has no closing hr, besides i enjoy cumming late.
here is what a friend thinks of you likewise

I swear I couldn’t read this.

No jokes! What you talking about?

pocohantas:
They want to be ignored?
Quit the reverse psychology dear. I ignore when I want and summon you all when I want. Just like dogs, y’all turnup when I blow my whistle.

Anslem04 being the most loyal.

Our ears are always anxious to hear your whistle. Be sure that we will never turn you down. It is always fun playing with you.

Ulunne777:
First arrangee. Came back for Xmas and we finally met. He said if I agree before the end of the week we will marry. I refused, Oga wedded another woman end of the week. I marvel at women . You marry someone you are meeting for the first time in less than 3 days.

2nd Arrangee. Suddenly realized he was getting old. I was 19 and just got admission he was 34.There was nothing he didn't promise me even a car. My plans in life didn't have him in it. Will be disturbing me with midnight calls. #1 of his money I didn't see, an importer at that with so many shops. He doesn't give girls money lyk he said.His mum on meeting me for the first time told me if I won't marry him I shouldn't waste his time and money. I left him quick quick.
When I refused and left for school, he dated another girl that he paid for her school fee for 4 yrs including project and clearance then the girl absconded. I was on my way home from school when he met me on the road after 5 yrs to narrate the whole story and started begging me again.you and your mother should Eat your money. Nonsense

3rd was hellish. My lecturer. This man begged me at every opportunity until my course mates started laughing at us. He informed even his colleagues and they joined in begging me. He was in his 40s while I was in my early 20s.

After I went out with him on a lecturers insistence, he was gulping okra soup ND telling me he can't stay a day without eating it. We drove over to his house where he claimed he wanted to pick something. This man inserted porn for meoo and started caressing me as his gbola has risen. God saved me that day. Anuofia..

One week later he called me that our wedding cards was out. See me see wahala, I had to inform my bf and parents. It was war. Laslas he started threatening me with my results in final yr. My lecturer friend and my Course adviser had to warn him.

Almost a decade later, he isn't married yet which is his business anyway.

4th one that I was recommended to. On our first meeting the fool was squirming in his seat and when he could finally muster courage to talk had the guts to ask me if I was ready to bear children. I then asked him if that was all a wife means to him. Idiot. No introductions whatsoever.

[s]They are plenty oo. For one man that esdapes a desperate woman, the woman has escaped 5x more. . E NO get wetin we no dey see.[/s]

Ps no pms. I already have 3 boys

The bolded statement is a fallacy!

Women are the real desperados. Come and see the way my immediate elder brother's girlfriend is pestering him for marriage.

That girl can clean the whole of our B close where our family house is situated here in festac jst to prove to my family she is a good girl.

WORDWORLD:
Our ears are always anxious to hear your whistle. Be sure that we will never turn you down. It is always fun playing with you.

Pets love playing with their masters. Quite understandable... After that, they return to their kernels. Tough love.

crismark:
The bolded statement is a fallacy!

Women are the real desperados. Come and see the way my immediate elder brother's girlfriend is pestering him for marriage.

That girl can clean the whole of our B close where our family house is situated here in festac jst to prove to my family she is a good girl.

And if she doesn’t clean, she is not wife material. The prototype for confusion is definitely a Nigerian man.

pocohantas:
I swear I couldn’t read this.

No jokes! What you talking about?

Eeyah !! so sorry about your eye problem, just got to know from a reliable source .. lets try images

pocohantas:
Pets love playing with their masters. Quite understandable... After that, they return to their kernels. Tough love.

Yes we do love playing with our mistress. THE FUN MUST NEVER STOP. Just whistle as usual and we will never turn you down.

Xj2020:
Yes. In my own case she deliberately got pregnant for me and I had no choice than to marry her thinking it was right thing to do. See my story below https://www.nairaland.com/5922955/how-cope-ill-mannered-housewife

If you are good you are good, and if you are bad you are bad. You might hide your bad side for a while. However, it is only a matter of time before everything would come out to the open. The Big Brother Show is a perfect example.
My story is that of a young chap that fell in love and got married to the women of his supposedly dream with kids. From day one till date, my beloved wife has been anything but a good housewife. She doesn't give me peace of mind. Always looking for ways to provoke me.
My wife isn't submissive. She is abusive and unappreciative of all I have done and have been doing for her and the children. This is even though the financial burden of the house has been mine 100% from the beginning to date. This is a woman that does not want to do any kind of work if it is not a government job. I have provided her with everything she asked for and even those things she didn't ask for. This woman has never lacked anything in my house to date
My beloved wife insults me in the presence of our kids. Mind you, I don't smoke, drink, and womanize. Neither have I laid my hands on her or intend on laying my hands on her. This is a woman I help with house chores like sweeping, washing the bathroom and toilets, and mobbing the house at my leisure time.
This woman has taken sides against in the time past when I had a misunderstanding with some persons outside. This woman isn't scared to insult my parents every time we have a misunderstanding. My mother-in-law isn't helping matter as she has continued to instigate her daughter against me.
I have finally decided to move out of the house for the now and see how things play out. If things don't improve, then I would have no choice than to seek divorce. Notwithstanding, the children would continue to be my responsibility.
Mature advice would be highly appreciated.

Any matured advice would be highly appreciated from the house.

It would interest the house to know that I am under 40 years old and a PhD. D holder in XXXXX in one of the foremost and most prestigious Federal University in Nigeria where I lectures. I have a First honours in XXXXXX in the same university. I was among the top three best graduating student in my Department and was adjudged best student in WASCE during my secondary school days; Best graduating student in my Department at the OND level before seeking and gaining direct entry admission into a Federal University; Won an award for best student at the 300 level in my Department that year. I was a committed member of Deeper Life despite coming from a Muslim. I still remember how my brother and I used to sneak out the house just for rehearsal that year. I was a member of the youth choir that year and I can still remember playing an active role in evangelizing and teaching search the scripture that year. I still remember going to music class that year and playing an active role in my school fellowship. Everything I am experiencing today is 100% my fault. How could I have fallen in love so blindly and got married to a member of a sect called "Grail Message: In the Light of the truth" without a comprehensive background check. Yes, she got pregnant for me outside wedlock which I take 100% responsibility for but still I shouldn't have allowed her cajoled and pushed me into marrying her talk less of having a court wedding. Do you know that this woman is holding on to the fact that she has children for me and that we did court wedding to do whatever she liked with full support from the mum. Do you know that this woman is very good at reporting everything that happens in my home to her mother? She wants a government job and nothing else. I tried my possible best to get her into my institution without success and she knows this. A woman that has never lack anything since we got married but has never been grateful for once in her life for all I have done to keep the home running. A woman that sees the family problem as solely my problem. I have been a member of Nairaland for years but decided to open this account to keep my identity private. I know for sure that if she happens to stumble on this thread she would definitely put 2+2 together to arrive at the conclusion that I am behind this thread. However, I do not care what she thinks or do anymore. I have already told her yesterday that I am through with her and I mean it. I still believe however that it isn't too late to change the narrative of my life. For all the guys’ out there forming 'I am in love' please and please open your eyes before you take that step to settle down with the woman of your dream as that lady could either make or mar you for life.

Bros!! U don't know me but dnt see am nt a child. I ve seen things in life.

I swear to you that I called off my marriage plans because of mere pre wedding shots. She was so keen on us taking pre wedding shots which was against my wish
N.B: i was only trying to test her and her extremely rich family on how they interfer in my decision making. Only the father was reasoning well. The mother and sibling was insisting on her own decision. Another thing is that we dated for a short period of time. I was happy going into marriage with her cos i thought i ve seen a rich family hereby having all the right connections but my dad(the wisest person i ve seen asked me to test her on how she respects my decision). My family are some how rich too but u can't her family to mine in terms of wealth.

Long story short She left my house with anger and promised not to call till am ready for pre wedding shots. Till date I ve never called even her parent(especially her mom) is still surprise and kills me daily calls. I jst had to tell her that its over between her daughter and I (everywhere scatter).

I am telling you my own story jst to tell u that it takes only a step(action or word) to end ur current and future problems.

Divorce that lady u call a wife no matter what it takes u ll only av to be paying her some amount monthly. Jst leave her and have your peace. Face all ur challenges today and leave happy tomorrow. Never relent in taking firm decisions.

Seems she is a nairalander as well.

anslem04:
Eeyah !! so sorry about your eye problem, just got to know from a reliable source .. lets try images

I need to eat dear, talk to you later. Join me...

pocohantas:
And if she doesn’t clean, she is not wife material. The prototype for confusion is definitely a Nigerian man.

Nope...Truth is in my family no one cares abt that. She cooks poor (not that poor sha) but my mum has never ever complained abt dis( my dad sef own worse cos ntn dey concern am except he detects a bad attitude problem). So u see my family is one of best u can marry from but dis girl keeps stressing herself.

My brother was even the person who told me she is pestering him for marriage

apokan200:
Mehnn there was this lady I was dating then when I was in 200l and she just dey collect my money she didn’t give me pussy Bleep mehnn for good one year Naso she broke up with me sha saying I only wanted sex although I know she was using me I just want to Bleep her once because I know she was seen this banker too then and that one was sure guy she was thinking she is gonna marry because her friend told me and I have seen then together too.but 4 years after I left uni we reconnected she came to my house and when she got in and realized I’m doing fine she started talking about marriage oo,she said she isn’t ready To waste her time Anymore that within 6 months We must to engagement omo she was so serious within 2 days she insisted I speak with her mum and me no send because I know say it’s time to get that Pussy wey she don use suffered me back then,nah so I Dey play along me self I was doing like nigga who is so ready for marriage,she got my dad number from my phone and started talking to my dad,mehnn my dad even said I should bring the lady home since we ain’t living in same state.within a week see Bleep every time like � after 2 weeks of intensive Bleep I just changed it for her,marriage ko wedding ni after niggas don do you anyhow and I was doing lover boy back then in uni you refused to let me in mehnn I collected my share of the p***y sha .

But oga stop feeling like u laugh last. Na left over pussy u get after many guys done useless it. U didn't get it while it was still fresh. If na me I will still feel pained.

zuby4real10:
But oga stop feeling like u laugh last. Na left over pussy u get after many guys done useless it. U didn't get it while it was still fresh. If na me I will still feel pained.

� No be lie bro but wetin man go do nah �