Righteousness89:
I don't agree

Righteousness89:
The Truth of Marriage Matters these days is that, People Marry on faulty foundations..

When Cash is the Reason you got married to Him or Her, and that Cash suddenly disappear you see problems..

When the Reason you marry a lady is because of her front or back, when those things relapse you begin to problems.

When you get married because of beauty or handsomeness and suddenly an accident occurs and that beauty suddenly turns ugly, you begin to see problems..


These are faulty foundations that could collapse homes.

My Advice to people is if you are not Divinely led to your Spouse, don't enter!!

Everyman/woman have their Divinely Ordained half, but many Miss it ..

Drfernandez:



Those against @GuyInTheMirror wish for a good woman, what do you have to say, since all of you say that a man who insists on having a woman with good behavior is asking for too much.

cochtrane:

Good behaviour is relative. You could have a woman of good behaviour who is a feminist. I don't that that features in OP's world. His problem isn't that he wants a woman of good behaviour; I think it is that he has his mind set on an image which does not good to him or to the woman he plans on meeting. More of that has a lot to do with the fact that he was raised in Nigeria and has assumed beliefs and methods that can't make him survived "in the abroad". He would function much better, were he permanently based in Nigeria, but I guess that's out of the question for him now.

Ariza:
Mtcheeewwwwww

Drfernandez:
I wonder what other meaningful compromise a woman who cannot tolerate a man who does not have money more than her or a man who can cheat on her can make for him.

On the male side, it is not a secret that a man will tolerate a woman who does not have money more than him and treats her well and may also tolerate her if she openly cheats on him.

So, will it be out of place to say that generally women are more selfish than men? If no, it will then be stupid and hypocritical for any woman to say that women are more considerate than men.

Those against @GuyInTheMirror wish for a good woman, what do you have to say, since all of you said that a man who insists on having a woman with good behavior is asking for too much.



Open invitation to the compromise crew:

I did not force him to compromise na

The Mirror guy has spent 32 good years in Nigeria, yet he couldn't find just one girl to marry. I'm not close to that, but I know I can find one or two ladies on my friend list to marry if I want to. But this guy has spent 32 years without compromise, and he no see anybody. We won't be wrong if we bundle him in the evening newspaper category

Oh, lest I forget, he now migrated to North Amelica. ... the land of milk and honey, the land where ladies are not leeches, the land where we men, strongly advise other men to marry from, yet Oga no see any lady to marry

Now he wants to come back to Nigeria and become a regular guy, maybe hawk gala or Ghana buns so he can find a good wife (remember he spent 32 years here as a regular guy oh)

Also note that throughout these years, he didn't compromise.

Well Well Well, I wished him good luck already.

There is no married man on earth (I stand to be corrected), that did not compromise in marriage. The same goes for the ladies.... Everybody get wetin he or she dey tolerate and endure for marriage.

So I'll support you on this. Let him come back home, hawk buns or drive Keke. He will find a lady that truly loves him through this

You're right bro

Drfernandez:



I know you and your type. A manipulated man like @izzou will always be praised by someone like you and your type but cannot tolerate his brokeness and accept his hand in relationship or marriage.

Drfernandez:
I wonder what other meaningful compromise a woman who cannot tolerate a man who does not have money more than her or a man who can cheat on her can make for him.

On the male side, it is not a secret that a man will tolerate a woman who does not have money more than him and treats her well and may also tolerate her if she openly cheats on him.

So, will it be out of place to say that generally women are more selfish than men? If no, it will then be stupid and hypocritical for any woman to say that women are more considerate than men.

Those against @GuyInTheMirror wish for a good woman, what do you have to say, since all of you said that a man who insists on having a woman with good behavior is asking for too much.



Open invitation to the compromise crew:


Creamychic
saucecode
pocohantas
GuyInTheMirror
annex1
izzou
Romangalactic
Ariza
cochtrane
Ishilove
cooooooks

izzou:


I did not force him to compromise na

The Mirror guy has spent 32 good years in Nigeria, yet he couldn't find just one girl to marry. I'm not close to that, but I know I can find one or two ladies on my friend list to marry if I want to. But this guy has spent 32 years without compromise, and he no see anybody. We won't be wrong if we bundle him in the evening newspaper category

Oh, lest I forget, he now migrated to North Amelica. ... the land of milk and honey, the land where ladies are not leeches, the land where we men, strongly advise other men to marry from, yet Oga no see any lady to marry

Now he wants to come back to Nigeria and become a regular guy, maybe hawk gala or Ghana buns so he can find a good wife (remember he spent 32 years here as a regular guy oh)

Also note that throughout these years, he didn't compromise.

Well Well Well, I wished him good luck already.

There is no married man on earth (I stand to be corrected), they did not compromise in marriage. The same goes for the ladies.... Everybody get wetin he or she dey tolerate and endure for marriage.

So I'll support you on this. Let him come back home, hawk buns or drive Keke. He will find a lady that truly loves him through this

You're right bro

Drfernandez:


You don't have a serious point. The guy didn't say he's looking for a saint, and compromise shouldn't be a one-way thing. Manipulation and compromise are two different things.

Sincerely, I'm trying to avoid quoting you. Maybe I'll try after this one

The MirrorGuy said he doesn't want to marry a lady above 30. This means that even if this lady is good, great, submissive, independent, and has all you would think of in a woman, Oga does not want

The MirrorGuy said he doesn't want to marry a lady over there, because of cultural differences, and how the law favours ladies should incase egungun enters the express. There are couples married for decades in North America. Not one, not two, not 1 million. Should we say these ones did not know about such laws? How come theirs is working, and Mazi mirror believes his will crash?

Then MirrorGuy said he doesn't trust those he meets on dating apps because they might be all lovey dovey once they know he is in the abroad. He has not even given instances of such. He can't even prove that concerning his own case. But he concluded because of what he read on his thread

Maybe I don't know the meaning of manipulation, but I don't see where anyone has tried to manipulate for 34 years.

All I see is a man that wants and wants and wants. It is very okay to want, but life is never like that. I wanted today to be Sunny, but it's raining heavily

Doctor, let's leave this matter. Mr Mirror is getting closer to 33. Before we go sleep wake up, him don reach 36. Time won't wait for him, nor me.

He can still decide to remain confused, or get up and see good ladies around that are very different from him.

I'm done. Won't quote you again, I promise

Have a nice life

Creamychic:
Lol...this is really funny because I don't know why I was tagged here, but let's see.

TheGuyInTheMirror claims to be perfect! What do you think about that? Is there any perfect being on this earth?

Also I think reply was perfect.

izzou:


He just needs attention

No point raised

izzou:


Sincerely, I'm trying to avoid quoting you. Maybe I'll try after this one

The MirrorGuy said he doesn't want to marry a lady above 30. This means that even if this lady is good, great, submissive, independent, and has all you would think of in a woman, Oga does not want

The MirrorGuy said he doesn't want to marry a lady over there, because of cultural differences, and how the law favours ladies should incase egungun enters the express. There are couples married for decades in North America. Not one, not two, not 1 million. Should we say these ones did not know about such laws? How come theirs is working, and Mazi mirror believes his will crash?

Then MirrorGuy said he doesn't trust those he meets on dating apps because they might be all lovey dovey once they know he is in the abroad. He has not even given instances of such. He can't even prove that concerning his own case. But he concluded because of what he read on his thread

Maybe I don't know the meaning of manipulation, but I don't see where anyone has tried to manipulate for 34 years.

All I see is a man that wants and wants and wants. It is very okay to want, but life is never like that. I wanted today to be Sunny, but it's raining heavily

Doctor, let's leave this matter. Mr Mirror is getting closer to 33. Before we go sleep wake up, him don reach 36. Time won't wait for him, nor me.

He can still decide to remain confused, or get up and see good ladies around that are very different from him.

I'm done. Won't quote you again, I promise

Have a nice life

saucecode:
Lol, everybody don dey preach compromise when it involves a guy. If only women can compromise on financial capacity of a man before dating or marrying him, we for take all this compromise sermons serious

Drfernandez:


Stop the hypocrisy. Since you want me to believe that age does not matter to you, can you marry a 100 years old woman who is good, great, bla bla bla. The fact that the MirrorGuy wants a woman below 30 does not mean that he wants a saint and it does not also mean that he cannot make a compromise.

Once more, for a selfish person, it is compromise when he or she is at a disadvantage and you tolerate him, but when the reserve is the case that same selfish person will see your wish for them to compromise as an act of manipulation from you. I fear who don't fear your type of man. You can call white black just to appear good before women. There is nothing wrong being good to women, but don't sell your conscience doing so.

izzou:


Can you show me where I said a lady shouldn't compromise when it involves man? Please show me

One reason why I avoid romance sections is because you all think everything is a gender war. The man is heading to 40 and he is worried, yet he shouldn't compromise because if it was women, they wouldn't compromise too abi?

The same compromise I suggested is what you still suggested oh, but I still didn't have to say it abi?

I'm happy you fear men like me. Please don't mention me when you create threads.
You definitely know those who enjoy such threads with you. I am not part of them. Just try as much as you can to mention me, abeg

Abeg

I use God name take beg you

Drfernandez:



My original post is still there, refer to it and answer me and stop bleating.

Ariza:
I was right after all, you are only here to cause trouble , to call out monikers and have people at loggerheads. You are the real definition of a small minded Bumpkin. Your profile says it all. Let's see

So because izzou decided to be sensible and be a complete opposite of the nuisance you are here, in your warped mind he is manipulated and broke. I wonder how you and your cohorts think. Very watery brain you've got there. Your thread makes no sense, you couldn't even at least present a debatable submission. But you are very good at throwing trantrums, so shameful for a self acclaimed 'happily" Married Man.

Don't bother to respond to this, I won't read let alone respond. Pathetic thing!

Creamychic:
Lol...this is really funny because I don't know why I was tagged here, but let's see.

TheGuyInTheMirror claims to be perfect! What do you think about that? Is there any perfect being on this earth?

Also I think izzou's reply was perfect.

Drfernandez:



"TheGuyInTheMirror claims to be perfect!" You know that is a lie.

Righteousness89:
The Ttruth of Mmarriage Mmatters these days is that, Ppeople Mmarry on faulty foundations..

When Ccash is the Rreason you got married to Hhim or Hher, and that Ccash suddenly disappear you see problems..

When the Rreason you marry a lady is because of her front or back, when those things relapse you begin to problems.

When you get married because of beauty or handsomeness and suddenly an accident occurs and that beauty suddenly turns ugly, you begin to see problems..


These are faulty foundations that could collapse homes.

My Aadvice to people is if you are not Ddivinely led to your Sspouse, don't enter!!

Everyman/woman have their Ddivinely Oordained half, but many Mmiss it ..

Ariza:
Every right thinking being knows that for people to work together not even in marriage, you have to overlook and let go of some things. In any human relationship, there must be compromise because we are all dynamic in nature. For two neighbours to live happily, they must compromise/tolerate, for business partners to work together, they must overlook some things, for friends to be together,they must blend. How much more someone you will probably spend your life with. The level of compromise is different in these relations but it is very important.
Every sensible knows that the longevity of whatever relationship you want to form determines how much or what you compromise. That's very logical.

Some of you have allowed this Men over Women issues you lots drag here turn you to very senseless lots. Nonsense! Please no one should ever mention me in such senseless debate ever again o.

Ariza:
This one Sha want to make his thread continue by force.


Ti opolo eniyan ba ti n yoro , ko kin soro daamo. Alafia fun eh ooo. Wa wa alright.

Drfernandez:
I wonder what meaningful compromise a badly behaved woman who cannot tolerate a man who does not have money more than her or a man who can cheat on her can make for a man, especially a man who is better than her in all theses aspects.

On the male side, it is not a secret that a man will tolerate a woman who does not have money more than him and treats her well and may also tolerate her if she openly cheats on him.

So, will it be out of place to say that generally women are more selfish than men? If no, it will then be stupid and hypocritical for any woman to say that women are more considerate than men.

Those against @GuyInTheMirror wish for a good woman, what do you have to say, since all of you said that a man who insists on having a woman with good behavior is asking for too much.



Open invitation to the compromise crew:


Creamychic
saucecode
pocohantas
GuyInTheMirror
annex1
izzou
Romangalactic
Ariza
cochtrane
Ishilove
cooooooks