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When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by Interesting15: 6:23am On Jun 21, 2020
Today, it is not uncommon to see women that are always complaining about how they keep meeting men who are only interested in their bodies. In fact, some women now thinks there are no responsible men out there that still have full control over themselves and don't fornicate or commit adultery (or other immoral acts)

If you are a single lady out there who has been dumped by several guys because of your no-sex-till-marriage stance, and you are now getting tired (or about to compromise), my message is meant to strengthen you not to settle for less, and not to allow any guy make you sin against God your Creator.

What God has instructed is that sexual pleasures should only be shared between a married man and his wife inside the safe circle of their marriage institution. So, if you have made a decision to honour Jesus with your life (and body) by adhering to His commandments, then you should not allow anyone make you feel sorry for your purity stance, and you should not allow anyone push you off the path of sexual purity.

Many ladies do ask, "why do I keep meeting men that want sex before marriage?".. The answer is simple: "You keep meeting men who are ungodly".

I can assure you that there are still lots of God-fearing men out there who themselves are honouring God with their bodies. When I say God-fearing men, I'm talking about men that have made Jesus Christ their Lord and Savior, and are serving God in spirit and in truth. These are the type of men you should associate with. Unlike the "bad boys" out there, a born again Christian won't regard you as a mere tool for bodily pleasure, but will even contribute to your growth in important areas. In fact, a sure way to enjoy your marriage is by marrying a genuine born again Christian, where the foundation of your home is built on Christ. Such a man, who himself is Christ's bride, will know how to please God by treating you as the queen you are meant to be

I see some ladies today living anyhow they want and will always say, 'I want a God-fearing man' (or will always complain that all the men coming to them are only irresponsible sex-chasers). Well, likes will always attract likes. A born again Christian will want to marry a child of God like himself, and won't go for a lady that lives anyhow (indulge in acts contrary to God's Will).

Therefore, to attract a God-fearing born again Christian, you must be a guniune child of God too (God won't give any of His true sons to just any kind of lady that will ruin his sonship). So, you must make Jesus Christ your Lord and Savior and start living a life devoid of sin and iniquity. Focus on serving God in spirit and in truth, and He knows how He will connect you with a responsible God-fearing man that will ensure you have a joyful marriage

Please, don't compromise your purity stance. I know you are getting older and many of your mates are already married. But listen to me, God is about to do something great in your life if you will continue holding to His Word. You are facing those temptation because the devil already sensed your greatness, and he is doing all he could to hinder you from being the great woman God has destined you to be.

Men that are disturbing you for sex are majorly agents of satan that were sent to ruin your life. Please, don't allow them. If you are currently in a sinful relationship where you and the guy are already indulging in immoral activities, quit the relationship immediately, and ask God for forgiveness.

This is a generation where God is raising women (especially young women) that He will grant great authority and power to enact great influence in various spheres and sectors, with the aim of bringing Glory to His Name and establishing the Kingdom of God on earth. Don't allow any randy guy hinder you from becoming the Queen you are destined to be. Worship God in spirit and in truth through Jesus Christ our Lord.

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Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by Interesting15: 6:23am On Jun 21, 2020
Listen to me all women out there. One of the core reasons why most randy men feel they have a right to using your body as pleasure satisfying tool, is because they think you don't have any other thing to bring to the table apart from your body. Hence, it is necessary to get yourself empowered. Now, talking about empowerment, I'm not just talking about financial empowerment (because there are still many 'rich' ladies out there who still present their bodies as an immoral pleasure-satisfying-tool ). I'm however talking about True and Divine Empowerment. The empowerment of the Spirit, Soul and Body. How can you experience this?

It's simply by having an eternal relationship and communion with God through Jesus Christ His Son. When you surrender your life to Christ in truth, that's when you can have dominion over everything God created (spiritually and physically).

You will get to discover your purpose (the role God wants you to play in life). And He will help bring up resources needed to live a quality and fulfilled life (discovering your talents, getting busy with your vision, etc). This is True and Divine Empowerment. Hence, GENUINELY give your life to Christ, and embrace Him as Lord and Savior. Simply call upon the Name of the LORD, and you will be saved.

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Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by Interesting15: 6:27am On Jun 21, 2020
Ladies, never forget this: "Don't allow any randy guy hinder you from becoming the Queen you are destined to be. Don't trade your royalty, dignity and destiny, on the bed of immorality."

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Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by chukwuibuipob: 6:31am On Jun 21, 2020
sad Pastor Joromi.So, it is good for dem to dey collect man pikin money,go on free shopping,,act unfaithful abi?

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Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by Nobody: 6:41am On Jun 21, 2020
Some ladies will not listen, not all men that approach you likes you, most are just after your body but it's painful how some ladies do get easily played by these randy men with herbally energized organs looking for people's daughter to devour, very painful.

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Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by orisa37: 6:59am On Jun 21, 2020
Interestingly, you must be Born Again to start your journey of ETERNAL LIFE.

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Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by Romanoff(f): 7:09am On Jun 21, 2020
Spot on OP.

This message is for Children of God. If it offends you, it is for obvious reasons.

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Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by BackllGodNaija: 7:20am On Jun 21, 2020
It's obvious they don't have any regard for you, so prove to them you're not that common. You might end up earning their regard...It's happened severally, even to some persons I know.

At the beginning they'd be mocking you...but later on, they'd begin to use you as an example to those who let them easily have their way...they use them but leave them because they wouldn't want to get married to such ones but to someone like you for obvious reasons.

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Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by Buliwyf: 7:21am On Jun 21, 2020
Rozz:
Some ladies will not listen, not all men that approach you likes you, most are just after your body but it's painful how some ladies do get easily played by these randy men with herbally energized organs looking for people's daughter to devour, very painful.

Sounds like you are talking from experience. Which one dem use for you? Shey na Opa Eyin abi na Burantashi? cheesy cheesy

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Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by Nobody: 7:24am On Jun 21, 2020
Rozz:
Some ladies will not listen, not all men that approach you likes you, most are just after your body but it's painful how some ladies do get easily played by these randy men with herbally energized organs looking for people's daughter to devour, very painful.
Fornicator

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Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by Nobody: 7:25am On Jun 21, 2020
Let's be realistic here,is sex not sweet?

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Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by orunto27: 8:28am On Jun 21, 2020
IT'S JUST LIKE THE YORUBAS AND THE FULANIS : Osinbajo AND BUHARI IN THIS DISPENSATION. IT'S A MISSION WITHOUT FOCUS..
Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by CODEIN: 8:34am On Jun 21, 2020
Romanoff:
Spot on OP.

This message is for Children of God. If it offends you, it is for obvious reasons.
Same children of God who wear outrageous dressing to church in the name of fashion. You all are sick and confused with all the codeine consumption in your head.

Evil country, no morals, no cultural values, everything god this everything god that, yet country is racing backward everyday.

Go on Instagram, what and who sells there, nigeria christians and muslims competing in senseless show off of skin, fashion and material. Your slave-approving and blood-loving gods of the bible and kran is confused and as confused you alll.

You all need start taking Sensediene

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Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by Adedotguy: 8:36am On Jun 21, 2020
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Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by Romanoff(f): 8:37am On Jun 21, 2020
CODEIN:

Same children of God who wear outrageous dressing to church in the name of fashion. You all are sick wit codeine in the head. Bad country, no morals, no cultural values, everything god this everything god that, yet country moving backward everyday. Go on Instagram, what and who sells there, nigeria christians and muslims competing in senseless show off of skin, fashion and material. Your slave-approving and blood-loving gods of the bible and kran is confused and as confused you alll.

And anyone who goes to church is a child of God abi?

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Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by CODEIN: 8:39am On Jun 21, 2020
comshots:
Let's be realistic here,is sex not sweet?
You dey mind them? Na for online and when together dem dey sabi show holy holy, but na dem do rubbish pass, commit the same sin they always preach against pass. All the brothels and olosho bars and all the bad morals that have corrupt this country no be christians and muslims bring am. All the corrupt politicians and looters for nigeria govt who dem be na babalawo dem be? no be xtian and mslim dem dey claim. Confused pipu wey codeine don scatter dem head. I dey tell dem to dey manage buy take Sensedeine small small but na lie, na so so codeine.

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Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by CODEIN: 8:45am On Jun 21, 2020
Romanoff:


And anyone who goes to church is a child of God abi?
U dey ask me? no be ur mumu xtians dey tok a say person wey no go church no be child of God, forgetting say Gods boku. Forgetting say God suppose dey everywhere but una private-jet buying pastors need una gather like the zombies you all are to come donate tithe, offering and speacial offering as usual, abi u men of devils want your men of god to go hungry?

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Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by Onyi22(f): 9:17am On Jun 21, 2020
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Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by sotall(m): 9:17am On Jun 21, 2020
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Relationship is meant to be about Love. Love is all about giving and sacrifice.

In relationship, both parties should do the giving and sacrifice.

Many ladies who carry the badge " no sex before marriage " unfortunately do not have anything to offer in the relationship but wants the guy to be doing the spending.

Its really rare to meet a Nigerian girl who takes his boyfriend for shopping and fun and do the spending. Almost all of them are wired to think it's a man's responsibility to take care of them.

In essence, if you are a born again and a broke girl, dont bother going into relationship if you wont give him sexual pleasure.


Stay in your father's house till you are ready for marriage. Then get married.

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Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by Damseq: 9:17am On Jun 21, 2020
Na problem be that ooo
Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by espn(m): 9:17am On Jun 21, 2020
Refuse him sex...Reject his money...dont ask him for money. Dont date him if you know you wont marry him...

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Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by Wolexdey(m): 9:17am On Jun 21, 2020
Well said
Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by joseph1832(m): 9:18am On Jun 21, 2020
Bullshit

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Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by AntiChristian: 9:18am On Jun 21, 2020
I prefer the pristine Islamic model of marriage!

No dating! No lonely meetings!

Just marriage!

Our country has been so sexualized that a lady's worth has been reduced to how sexy, hot or masked up she can appear!

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Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by noble71(m): 9:18am On Jun 21, 2020
shocked
Most men will treat you how you treat yourself.
If as a lady you carry yourself with dignity, PAY YOUR BILLS. No man will try nonsense with you.


Meanwhile BUY/SELL your ETHEREUM with us.

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Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by chukwuibuipob: 9:18am On Jun 21, 2020
Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by TreasureTayo(m): 9:19am On Jun 21, 2020
Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by omoadeleye(m): 9:19am On Jun 21, 2020
Lol

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Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by crafteck(m): 9:19am On Jun 21, 2020
It starts from just lust, thats the mental, psychological and biological reaction to opposite sex that brings attraction.

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Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by Nobody: 9:19am On Jun 21, 2020
Oga shut up. Adam was God-fearing till Eve came along. We all know how this ends... these temptresses won't rest till the God-fearing man is no longer God-fearing. Ask your pastor!

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Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by Dangrace01: 9:19am On Jun 21, 2020
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