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Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by Stillwater10: 12:03pm On Jun 21, 2020

yettymuse:
The only reason a man wants a woman is for sex and procreation......

...... Make sure you're not doing this for free!

STOP wasting your time! Time is money!!!

you are right to some extent. Men too should learn how to bargain and not over pay for a pussy not worth the amount

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Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by cooltola(m): 12:06pm On Jun 21, 2020

Do not be unequally yoked. Although deep down we all want to have sex, sex outside marriage is a sin. Why ? Because God does not approve it. Even though it is as unpopular as it sounds. God is the standard no matter how unpopular his commandment sounds. God wants the best for you. Although many points out the hypocrisy of Christians who engage in fornication , we are to keep God's commandment if you want to be the fisher of men. If you are a born again and you are still engaging in such behaviors, please stop, ask for forgiveness from God. Talk to your future spouse and avoid being alone in the same room to prevent temptation. If a man is pressuring you, stay on your ground. If he intends to marry you, then he can wait or if he cannot wait , then he can japa. Just don't wait till long or do a 1.5 years + waiting again if the passion is too hot. Wait till you get married and you can plenty of sex with your spouse without feeling guilty or remorse. Just wait and focus on God

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Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by VULCAN(m): 12:08pm On Jun 21, 2020

A lot of bitterness, hate and envy displayed here.

May the God that you don't believe in heal you!

CODEIN:
Same children of God who wear outrageous dressing to church in the name of fashion. You all are sick and confused with all the codeine consumption in your head.

Evil country, no morals, no cultural values, everything god this everything god that, yet country is racing backward everyday.

Go on Instagram, what and who sells there, nigeria christians and muslims competing in senseless show off of skin, fashion and material. Your slave-approving and blood-loving gods of the bible and kran is confused and as confused you alll.

You all need start taking Sensediene

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Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by Lexusgs430: 12:08pm On Jun 21, 2020

eby001:
I was actually looking forward to your reply.
My rule as always been: treat her like star, she would treat you like a fan

Electric fan or solar fan....... grin

Till she blow-job you away.......... tongue

Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by Stephenmoka4(m): 12:08pm On Jun 21, 2020

kokaneprodigy:
Lol GTFOH I’ve thought about it and didn’t feel uneasy.

Whatever

Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by Lexusgs430: 12:09pm On Jun 21, 2020

yettymuse:
The only reason a man wants a woman is for sex and procreation......

...... Make sure you're not doing this for free!

STOP wasting your time! Time is money!!!

Oya how much for TDB & ST.......... wink

Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by Stephenmoka4(m): 12:09pm On Jun 21, 2020

Rozz:
did I tell you i have any experience?work on your mindset

My bad, that part was kind of disturbing.

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Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by MyCelebRichList: 12:12pm On Jun 21, 2020

laugh unlimitedly here jare https://www.instagram.com/p/CBqqf5vAofR/

Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by Nobody: 12:14pm On Jun 21, 2020

PrimadonnaO:
I have a problem with transactional, even though I sort of get your drift.

Let’s not talk about who likes sex and who doesn’t. That’s not the by any means the bone of contention. The person you’re assuming likes sex more, did she tell you that? Did she say that because she likes sex she wants to be deceived into a relationship hinged on nothing else but fleeting sex? Is she the one who propositioned you?

Let’s just stop making excuses for bad behaviour. When you do a bad thing, own it with your chest, and not trying to paint it white.

Plus it would do everyone a world of good if people will be upfront and honest about their intentions.

Transactional does not have to be financial. Get your head around it everybody goes into a relationship to gain something even if it just companionship. Companionship is a benefit therefore transactional.

Bottom line most women fail to get their heads around is what is it they offer in a relationship!!! A lot of women are programmed that they have value as a woman and fail to realize that their value as a woman diminishes with time. For example, A 40 yr old woman cannot have the same type of value to a man looking to raise a family as a woman of 25. A man who has given a woman children but isn’t bring paying the bills has less value to the woman because she already has the children and what she needs is for him to now pay the bills.

Love is a drug, a cheap high than fades. No relationship sustains unless there is benefit for both parties and most woman would do well for themselves to understand that merely being a woman does not entitle you to a good relationship.

There must be value you add to a relationship whether man or woman or else you lose your value. The key is knowing what is your value. It could be sex it could be loyalty it could be financial it could be companionship. You must always know what your value is is what your partner values in you. If you think your value is beauty, money or sex and your partner does not value those things your relationship is doomed. I matter how many people call you queen or special.

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Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by TechSkill: 12:19pm On Jun 21, 2020

Buliwyf:
Sounds like you are talking from experience. Which one dem use for you? Shey na Opa Eyin abi na Burantashi?

dem don use shekpe, dongoyaro, okpa eyin.. wound the babe pussy grin

Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by Roycemadeit(m): 12:19pm On Jun 21, 2020

Rather than allow humans to enjoy sex, you tell young humans not to engage in sex until they are married. You have made it "wrong" for them to have sexual experiences before that time, and thus have created a taboo around what was intended to be one of life's most joyful celebrations. Of course, this is a taboo to which offspring will pay little attention—and for good reason: it is entirely unnatural to obey it.

Human beings desire to couple and copulate as soon as they feel the inner signal which says they are ready. This is human nature. Yet your thoughts about your own nature will have more to do with what they, as parents, have told you than about what you are feeling inside. Your children look to you to tell them what life is all about. So when they have their first urges to peek at each other, to play innocently with each other, to explore each other's "differences," they will look to you for signals
about this.
Is this part of their human nature "good"? Is it "bad"? Is it approved of? Is it to be stifled? Held back? Discouraged?

It is observed that what many parents have told their offspring about this part of their human nature has had its origin in all manner of things: what they were told; what their religion says; what their society thinks—everything except the natural order of things.

In the natural order of our species, sexuality is budding at anywhere from age 9 to age 14. From age 15 onward it is very much present and expressing in most human beings. Thus begins a race against time—with children stampeding toward the fullest release of their own joyful sexual energy, and parents stampeding to stop them.

Parents have needed all the assistance and all the alliances they could find in this struggle, since, as has been noted, they are asking their offspring to not do something that is every bit a part of their nature. So they have invented all manner of familial, cultural, religious, social, and economic pressures, restrictions, and limitations to justify their unnatural demands of their offspring. Children have thus grown to accept that their own sexuality is unnatural. How can anything that is "natural" be so shamed, so always-stopped, so controlled, held at bay, restrained, bridled, and denied?

What this has caused our society is confusion and not a little havoc—which is always the result of fooling around with nature. We have created sexual embarrassment, repression, and shame—which has led to sexual inhibition, dysfunction, and violence.

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Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by kelly72: 12:20pm On Jun 21, 2020

In the past, they will marry you only if you are a Christian
Later, it wasn't enough to be Christian
They will marry you only if you are a born again Christian
Later, it wasn't enough to be a born again Christian
They will marry you only if you are a genuine born again Christian
Later, it wasn't enough to be a genuine born again Christian
They will marry you only if you are really a genuine born again Christian
Later, it wasn't enough to be really a genuine born again Christian
They will marry you only if you are really really a genuine born again Christian
Later, it wasn't enough to be really really a genuine born again Christian
They will marry you only if you are really really a genuine borne again Christian who openly speaks in tongue,
has been recommended by daddy and mummy G.O. and puts a big Bible in front of your G Wagon's dashboard.

How far away the Nigerian "Christian" is from God

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Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by Nobody: 12:25pm On Jun 21, 2020

PrimadonnaO:
Plus it would do everyone a world of good if people will be upfront and honest about their intentions.

.

Nigerian Women tend to be the most dishonest ones in a relationship. Women tend to be the ones that tell big lies like “the child is yours”

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Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by Originalsly: 12:26pm On Jun 21, 2020

Women that keep meeting men who only want sex need to look in the mirror. It has to be something about the woman that sends the message to men that she is a sex object. Dress how you want to be addressed. I believe most times a man decides to go after a woman for sex depends on the way she is dressed. If she be born again or not dosen't matter.... if he be born again or not dosen't matter either. After all.... aren't these the same women that be having pastors preaching while fighting sexual temptations? Even if a woman is a prostitute...... if a woman dosen't show dignity.... men will always go after her for sex. Such women need to look in the mirror.

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Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by ghettochild(m): 12:26pm On Jun 21, 2020

After dem Don use toto finish, dem go say no sex before marriage...
Make dem go find such men in church ooo that's if dem go see am

Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by hardon1(m): 12:27pm On Jun 21, 2020*

comshots:
Let's be realistic here,is sex not sweet?

to be honest, sex is overrated

back to the topic, though i didn't read the content but one of the reasons in my pinion why men may come for a lady just for sex is dressing. if dressing is always sexually provocative and sexually enticing, men will want to fvck you even before wanting to know you.

that doesn't mean they wont want to fvck you if you dress well o, just that dressing well will make them want to meet and know you at first, in the process of trying to know you, they may come to like you and perhaps fall in love when they realise you have an excellent character. this will change their mindset of choping and running

but provocative and explicit dressing will put sex directly on their mind. they wouldn't want to know if you are bad or good or nice, comely, homely or courteous. they will just want to chuk in their dicck and go grin

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Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by Ekakamba: 12:28pm On Jun 21, 2020

Rozz:
Some ladies will not listen, not all men that approach you likes you, most are just after your body but it's painful how some ladies do get easily played by these randy men with herbally energized organs looking for people's daughter to devour, very painful.

Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by dangotesmummy: 12:39pm On Jun 21, 2020

chukwuibuipob:
Pastor Joromi.So, it is good for dem to dey collect man pikin money,go on free shopping,,act unfaithful abi?

if a woman is not going to have anything with any man I always advocate that they don't collect anything from the man so the man doesn't feel the lady owes her sex because there's some kind of funny entitlement mentality men have once they give you something or do something for you for free

Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by tunary(m): 12:44pm On Jun 21, 2020

Buliwyf:
Sounds like you are talking from experience. Which one dem use for you? Shey na Opa Eyin abi na Burantashi?

LOL it's like some guys dealt with her sugar factory seriously. them don do her strong thing

Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by Reference(m): 12:51pm On Jun 21, 2020

Switch the question round and ask why ladies donot seek sex from men as the first approach to marraige and there lies the answer, simple wisdom.

Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by bukatyne(f): 12:51pm On Jun 21, 2020

chukwuibuipob:
Pastor Joromi.So, it is good for dem to dey collect man pikin money,go on free shopping,,act unfaithful abi?

The ladies the OP refers to will not collect gifts from men they are not interested in.

Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by tunary(m): 12:51pm On Jun 21, 2020

Stephenmoka4:
Sorry for the bad experience and don't mind those guys trying to counter you to justify their deeds.
Seriously that bolded part is quite disturbing, did he hurt you with it.

It's obvious

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Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by bukatyne(f): 12:52pm On Jun 21, 2020

Romanoff:
Spot on OP.

This message is for Children of God. If it offends you, it is for obvious reasons.

@bold

Nice OP.

Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by CODEIN: 12:54pm On Jun 21, 2020

VULCAN:
A lot of bitterness, hate and envy displayed here.

May the God that you don't believe in heal you!

Lwkmd

Alomo Bitters (alcohol)

Product of Hate (trash metal)

HP Envy (laptop)

Only me.

May the Codeine allahu you see reason

Thank you

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Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by cooooooks(m): 12:59pm On Jun 21, 2020

How are the :

- divorce rates
- fulfilment rates
- spousal murder rates?

-

AntiChristian:
I prefer the pristine Islamic model of marriage!

No dating! No lonely meetings!

Just marriage!

Our country has been so sexualized that a lady's worth has been reduced to how sexy, hot or masked up she can appear!

Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by Karleb(m): 1:02pm On Jun 21, 2020

Interesting15:
Ladies, never forget this: "Don't allow any randy guy hinder you from becoming the Queen you are destined to be. Don't trade your royalty, dignity and destiny, on the bed of immorality."

So all ladies are destined to be queen? Like Elizabeth?

Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by Nobody: 1:03pm On Jun 21, 2020

see comments so far,codine,yahoo,brothel patroniser,drug addicted and perverted generation set of men everywhere.May God cleanse the world

Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by Nobody: 1:08pm On Jun 21, 2020

Rozz:
Some ladies will not listen, not all men that approach you likes you, most are just after your body but it's painful how some ladies do get easily played by these randy men with herbally energized organs looking for people's daughter to devour, very painful.

‘The worst thing to happen to a man na see finish’ - Erigga

You don see my Ashawo brothers finish for that thread. Chai! Don’t let us see your legs on that thread again grin

Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by Nobody: 1:12pm On Jun 21, 2020

0KNM:
‘The worst thing to happen to a man na see finish’ - Erigga

You don see my Ashawo brothers finish for that thread. Chai! Don’t let us see your legs on that thread again

how are you, did you attend service today,that your psalm91 on your arm should be a reminder.

Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by Nobody: 1:22pm On Jun 21, 2020

Rozz:
how are you, did you attend service today,that your psalm91 on your arm should be a reminder.

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Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by DeRay98(m): 1:28pm On Jun 21, 2020

Rozz:
Some ladies will not listen, not all men that approach you likes you, most are just after your body but it's painful how some ladies do get easily played by these randy men with herbally energized organs looking for people's daughter to devour, very painful.

What about slay queens who deliberately seduce men at any opportunity?
Married or single matured rich women who seduce young vulnerable men as toy boys?

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Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by ladyGKilaBCrueD(f): 1:28pm On Jun 21, 2020

this one that hasn't seen church in 5 years. shior

0KNM:

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