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Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by Nobody: 1:33pm On Jun 21, 2020
Rozz:
see comments so far,codine,yahoo,brothel patroniser,drug addicted and perverted generation set of men everywhere.May God cleanse the world
The problem is y’all ladies never take responsibility for your actions and inactions and that has always been your pitfall . You blame men for your woes. You want to claim feminist yet want to be pampered by men. They are telling y’all how to avoid men that will use u for just sex, how to create impression that will make men see you differently. Y’all will argue cos You just want to eat your cake and have it.
Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by Nobody: 1:35pm On Jun 21, 2020
ladyGKilaBCrueD:
this one that hasn't seen church in 5 years. shior
Liar! It’s just 4 years
Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by Gabkosh: 1:36pm On Jun 21, 2020
sotall:
lipsrsealed

Relationship is meant to be about Love. Love is all about giving and sacrifice.

In relationship, both parties should do the giving and sacrifice.

Many ladies who carry the badge " no sex before marriage " unfortunately do not have anything to offer in the relationship but wants the guy to be doing the spending.

Its really rare to meet a Nigerian girl who takes his boyfriend for shopping and fun and do the spending. Almost all of them are wired to think it's a man's responsibility to take care of them.

In essence, if you are a born again and a broke girl, dont bother going into relationship if you wont give him sexual pleasure.


Stay in your father's house till you are ready for marriage. Then get married.
My brother, they practise parasitic relationship wink
Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by BotafogoJunior(m): 1:37pm On Jun 21, 2020
isthatso:
Stop deceiving women that they are destined to be queens. How many queens can you have in one town, local government. If everybody is a queen then there’s nothing special about being a queen. If anything programming women to think they are queens is why many end up sad, bitter and alone. Because they never develop the personality or skills to make them attractive for anything other than sex. You haff finished talk.....i have always said these to people......being born with a pussy aint make you special,you are female like every female out there.

The biggest disservice done to women is telling them they are queens or special. They are not special and they are not queens. That is bullshit motivational pep talk that boots their egos in the short term but harms women in the long run. If you want to be special. Work hard at something g. There is no one who is special who hasn’t spent years perfecting a particular aspect of themselves. No one is special just for being born.
Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by professore(m): 1:38pm On Jun 21, 2020
Well said. God bless you mightily.
Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by Gabkosh: 1:39pm On Jun 21, 2020
noble71:
shocked
Most men will treat you how you treat yourself.
If as a lady you carry yourself with dignity, PAY YOUR BILLS. No man will try nonsense with you.


Meanwhile BUY/SELL your ETHEREUM with us.
How much do you sell your ethereum
Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by professore(m): 1:48pm On Jun 21, 2020
Rozz:
Some ladies will not listen, not all men that approach you likes you, most are just after your body but it's painful how some ladies do get easily played by these randy men with herbally energized organs looking for people's daughter to devour, very painful.
not all men that approach a lady likes her, Rozz I love you for this.
Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by ladyGKilaBCrueD(f): 1:54pm On Jun 21, 2020
mumu cheesy cheesy cheesy
0KNM:
Liar! It’s just 4 years
Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by Liposure: 1:57pm On Jun 21, 2020
AntiChristian:
I prefer the pristine Islamic model of marriage!

No dating! No lonely meetings!

Just marriage!

Our country has been so sexualized that a lady's worth has been reduced to how sexy, hot or masked up she can appear!
god bless u
Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by rafak: 1:58pm On Jun 21, 2020
The way u dress.
Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by Nobody: 1:59pm On Jun 21, 2020
kokaneprodigy:
The problem is y’all ladies never take responsibility for your actions and inactions and that has always been your pitfall . You blame men for your woes. You want to claim feminist yet want to be pampered by men. They are telling y’all how to avoid men that will use u for just sex, how to create impression that will make men see you differently. Y’all will argue cos You just want to eat your cake and have it.
Remember it was a man that created the topic
Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by Mayng01(m): 2:01pm On Jun 21, 2020
Polygamy , lust for quick money & greed to be blamed in their life.

Rozz:
Some ladies will not listen, not all men that approach you likes you, most are just after your body but it's painful how some ladies do get easily played by these randy men with herbally energized organs looking for people's daughter to devour, very painful.
Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by fairheart(m):
Nnaabros:
What you women don't even know is that the men that marries you does so because of your body - To have his own personal sex partner to satisfy his sexual need.

As if you don't also want the man's body. Tomorrow you'll be complaining that they don't satisfy you, he can't get it up, they only last 2 seconds, the dick is too small. E. T. C.
I came here to read comments and better understand how typical Nigerian guy like you think, and I see your thinking is very shallow that I pity your ignorance.
The line I bold above says a lot about your age, the family you came from, your education and exposure. I am sorry, you did not speak for "men who marry, or those looking forward to a happy married life like me;" you speak for yourself from the pit of your vain ignorance.

Let me tell you why responsible and real and matured men marry: They marry because we are created to have a partner, a lover, a companion, and someone to sojourn the purpose of life with. Having a good-hearted woman in your life makes life beautiful, and I can tell you it is one of the most beautiful things in life a man can experience. It enriches the man's life, and enriches the woman's life in return. More so, marriage allows combination of both partner's resources, so that together, they can achieve things each partner may not be able to achieve on his/her own.

Also, marriage allows the partner to procreate and bring up responsible children (although I admit that marriage doesn't guarantee that the kids will be responsible). I can tell from your comment that you are in your mid 20s, and you need serious education and enlightenment, so that you will not miss it in life.

Life can be lonely for the man who will not wander about from one woman to another for sex. A reputable and emotionally stable man needs one partner, not merely for sex, but to live his life well. And I can say the same for a stable woman.

Now, get yourself together, look at the lives of successful people around you, listen to elders, and go and discover the ultimate purpose of your life and for living! This is a lesson for you to take to heart, so don't bother quoting me. smiley
Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by Nobody: 2:11pm On Jun 21, 2020
Rozz:
see comments so far,codine,yahoo,brothel patroniser,drug addicted and perverted generation set of men everywhere.May God cleanse the world
hypocrite spoted
Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by Nobody: 2:14pm On Jun 21, 2020
Rozz:
Remember it was a man that created the topic
you don’t know that
Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by Liposure: 2:22pm On Jun 21, 2020
Who virgin help
Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by Nobody: 2:32pm On Jun 21, 2020
ladyGKilaBCrueD:
mumu cheesy cheesy cheesy
grin grin grin I bet you haven’t been to one longer than I haven’t
Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by Millenniumlady(f): 2:33pm On Jun 21, 2020
Buliwyf:
Sounds like you are talking from experience. Which one dem use for you? Shey na Opa Eyin abi na Burantashi? cheesy cheesy
And what's your business if nah opa eyin them use on me undecided
Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by ladyGKilaBCrueD(f): 2:33pm On Jun 21, 2020
im not a heathen like you undecided
0KNM:
grin grin grin I bet you haven’t been to one longer than I haven’t
Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by Mryacks: 2:34pm On Jun 21, 2020
Interesting15:
Today, it is not uncommon to see women that are always complaining about how they keep meeting men who are only interested in their bodies. In fact, some women now thinks there are no responsible men out there that still have full control over themselves and don't fornicate or commit adultery (or other immoral acts)

If you are a single lady out there who has been dumped by several guys because of your no-sex-till-marriage stance, and you are now getting tired (or about to compromise), my message is meant to strengthen you not to settle for less, and not to allow any guy make you sin against God your Creator.

What God has instructed is that sexual pleasures should only be shared between a married man and his wife inside the safe circle of their marriage institution. So, if you have made a decision to honour Jesus with your life (and body) by adhering to His commandments, then you should not allow anyone make you feel sorry for your purity stance, and you should not allow anyone push you off the path of sexual purity.

Many ladies do ask, "why do I keep meeting men that want sex before marriage?".. The answer is simple: "You keep meeting men who are ungodly".

I can assure you that there are still lots of God-fearing men out there who themselves are honouring God with their bodies. When I say God-fearing men, I'm talking about men that have made Jesus Christ their Lord and Savior, and are serving God in spirit and in truth. These are the type of men you should associate with. Unlike the "bad boys" out there, a born again Christian won't regard you as a mere tool for bodily pleasure, but will even contribute to your growth in important areas. In fact, a sure way to enjoy your marriage is by marrying a genuine born again Christian, where the foundation of your home is built on Christ. Such a man, who himself is Christ's bride, will know how to please God by treating you as the queen you are meant to be

I see some ladies today living anyhow they want and will always say, 'I want a God-fearing man' (or will always complain that all the men coming to them are only irresponsible sex-chasers). Well, likes will always attract likes. A born again Christian will want to marry a child of God like himself, and won't go for a lady that lives anyhow (indulge in acts contrary to God's Will).

Therefore, to attract a God-fearing born again Christian, you must be a guniune child of God too (God won't give any of His true sons to just any kind of lady that will ruin his sonship). So, you must make Jesus Christ your Lord and Savior and start living a life devoid of sin and iniquity. Focus on serving God in spirit and in truth, and He knows how He will connect you with a responsible God-fearing man that will ensure you have a joyful marriage

Please, don't compromise your purity stance. I know you are getting older and many of your mates are already married. But listen to me, God is about to do something great in your life if you will continue holding to His Word. You are facing those temptation because the devil already sensed your greatness, and he is doing all he could to hinder you from being the great woman God has destined you to be.

Men that are disturbing you for sex are majorly agents of satan that were sent to ruin your life. Please, don't allow them. If you are currently in a sinful relationship where you and the guy are already indulging in immoral activities, quit the relationship immediately, and ask God for forgiveness.

This is a generation where God is raising women (especially young women) that He will grant great authority and power to enact great influence in various spheres and sectors, with the aim of bringing Glory to His Name and establishing the Kingdom of God on earth. Don't allow any randy guy hinder you from becoming the Queen you are destined to be. Worship God in spirit and in truth through Jesus Christ our Lord.
Very uplifting and encouraging message....may God bless and sustain all our queens out there who genuinely desire to have a God fearing spouse to build their home with.
Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by j1mmy: 2:43pm On Jun 21, 2020
HOW ABOUT When You Keep Meeting WOMEN That Only Want MONEY!
Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by ladyGKilaBCrueD(f): 2:45pm On Jun 21, 2020
hello good morning
how you doing with the move here
welcome to the future im the captain of the cool kids
the revolution's never been televised
great booty hella thighs
I aint wanna tell her bye
0KNM:
grin grin grin I bet you haven’t been to one longer than I haven’t
Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by Nobody: 2:56pm On Jun 21, 2020
ladyGKilaBCrueD:
im not a heathen like you undecided
We believe you. Elton John is straight
Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by Nobody: 2:58pm On Jun 21, 2020
ladyGKilaBCrueD:
hello good morning
how you doing with the move here
welcome to the future im the captain of the cool kids
the revolution's never been televised
great booty hella thighs
I aint wanna tell her bye
What kind of immoral song is this? Gosh!
Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by Pelxmiye(m): 3:41pm On Jun 21, 2020
MedicH:
I don't understand how anyone got played here. You needed money for hair or clothes and I have been on the computer for the past 6 hours closing deals or I just got off the night shift and need to unplug. Then we transact and go our separate ways. How did the lady get played pls.
"Unplug" or get plugged sad sad sad sad..wehdon oh
Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by Nobody: 3:47pm On Jun 21, 2020
Goodplace:
Who are you quoting now... Making vague statement... IDIOT.
Lol. Madman I was referring to the post. If your miniature brain can't put two and two together, then it's not my fault.
Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by noble71(m): 3:52pm On Jun 21, 2020
Gabkosh:
How much do you sell your ethereum
You can always reach us on WhatsApp for prices. Check my signature for my number.
Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by earnit2: 4:00pm On Jun 21, 2020
all men want it, its left for you to get one who can control his emotions
Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by Interesting15(op): 4:01pm On Jun 21, 2020
isthatso:
Stop deceiving women that they are destined to be queens. How many queens can you have in one town, local government. If everybody is a queen then there’s nothing special about being a queen. If anything programming women to think they are queens is why many end up sad, bitter and alone. Because they never develop the personality or skills to make them attractive for anything other than sex.

The biggest disservice done to women is telling them they are queens or special. They are not special and they are not queens. That is bullshit motivational pep talk that boots their egos in the short term but harms women in the long run. If you want to be special. Work hard at something g. There is no one who is special who hasn’t spent years perfecting a particular aspect of themselves. No one is special just for being born.
The major issue is attached to lack of identity. God, our Creator, is the King of kings, and as His children, we are Royals. This Truth becomes real indeed when you genuinely submit your life to Jesus Christ. It's a divine progression. When you know who God has destined you to be, you will only engage in noble activities (leaving the world with no choice but to tag you special). It's simple. Embrace Jesus Christ, and everything becomes beautiful (and Royalty).
Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by MedicH: 4:07pm On Jun 21, 2020
Pelxmiye:
"Unplug" or get plugged sad sad sad sad..wehdon oh
Unplug means relax.... Just remove yourself from duty.
Re: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by AntiChristian: 4:37pm On Jun 21, 2020
cooooooks:
How are the :

- divorce rates
- fulfilment rates
- spousal murder rates?

-
No doubt the divorce rate is getting higher and this is as a result of some cultural factors.

We all need to learn and unlearn so many things before venturing into marriage!
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