For so long, I've been having a daily conversation with my friend's Ex. We chat on WhatsApp, exchange voice notes and I do call her once in a while until I discovered that I am growing feelings for her. But she is my friend's Ex and I don't want to be seen as a traitor or a bad guy but I can't stop loving this particular girl. What's your take on this guy's? What should I do?

Repent from you way

Do whatever suits your taste, we won't partake in the consequences of your actions and inactions bro.
By the way, you already know that trying to woo/date your friend's ex is wrong, so what advice are you still expecting us to give you.

OP there's absolutely nothing wrong in falling for her, wen you love someone go for them. Live is too short

But note b4 embarking on such journey let your friend know

As long as its not a crime to fall in love, keep on falling but first make sure that she has finished all pending businesses she had with your friend.

U wan break bro-code abi... Which yeye feelings. U go like make ur friend dey run things with ur ex for ur back That behaviour be like snitching & backbiting.

I no know how una dey define friendship these days. True friend must always get him friend back no matter the yeye temptation way dey come ur way. If u fit date him ex gf, then u fit marry him ex wife.

Easiest and Shortest way to become Arch Enemy No. 1 with your friend.
A test of your weakness and self control too.
If you are a very weak fellow with zero self control ... We dey here dey wait you and wetin become of you and your treachery.

And that is how you will become ex friend soonest.

Just reason your guy, he go understand, but your guy fit later knack the girl tomorrow because their connection fit come back if they continue seeing everyday.

It is possible that you are not actually growing genuine feelings for your friend's ex but subconsciously trying to prove a point to yourself...
That maybe you're better than your friend or you feel capable of treating her better. Regardless of any of the two, make sure that you let him know what's up and ask for his permission for you and her to take things to the next level.
As for me, I can never lust after or date my friend's ex. Even flirting with your friend's ex is wrong. It's a Bro code.

Have you ever heard of the saying.... finding love in the strangest places? If your intentions are pure, there's nothing wrong with it. Just double check with your friend to verify he has nothing doing with the lady anymore, then you're good to go!

it's a nice one, just enquire from your friend her nagging attitude that lead to thier break if you can be able to accommodate it fine, then you can proceed

falling in love for a Nigeria fairly used car? have you even check the engine to know if is still in perfect conditions? don't forget if engine is rotten, car won't last



I don't see myself falling in love with a non virgin lady except a flirt mate that I won't fall in love with but share affectionate with


I see op lusting in love and not falling in love, u won chop yr own and gboju

If she wasn't the cause of your breakup with your ex, then go ahead

This is classical betrayal.

Dating a friend's ex is considered a sacred ethic man. Even with a blessing or a permission from her ex, you as a bro, should dare not approach.

Treat her like a radioactive city & stay far away.

You have been highing that girl since she was with your friend, but Las Las una wan just Bleep. Nothing much.

Leave or loose your friend.


I don't see any relationship with someone my friend was dating or fvcking, bro you just have no respect for John Thomas.

Just fvck her codedly and move on.

do whatever mks u happy...i kno say na her nunu de do u, na wen u enter am, ur eyes go clear say na wrong move because it hardly works out as long as u are still close with dt ur friend

No lie....u don dey wish she was urs while she was dating ur friend..I just hope d babe go get sense Sha and no share d phussy reach urside too

Well, if you are falling in love, it’s not s bad thing but be sure she wants it too o, cause if she doesn’t then you might lose her as a friend and lose your guy also. Either way
You cannot eat your cake and have it

pretydiva:
If she wasn't the cause of your breakup with your ex, then go ahead

If she is or she's not doesn't really matter.
She might be surprisingly compatible with him is just a question of character and personality.

Shile981:
For so long, I've been having a daily conversation with my friend's Ex. We chat on WhatsApp, exchange voice notes and I do call her once in a while until I discovered that I am growing feelings for her. But she is my friend's Ex and I don't want to be seen as a traitor or a bad guy but I can't stop loving this particular girl. What's your take on this guy's? What should I do?

Do you actually have feelings for the lady or do you just want to go and get your own share?

SavageResponse:


Do you actually have feelings for the lady or do you just want to go and get your own share?

I'm not that into girls so I think I'm having feelings for her. I don't know if that would be betrayal if I ask her out!

Dybala11:
Do whatever suits your taste, we won't partake in the consequences of your actions and inactions bro.
By the way, you already know that trying to woo/date your friend's ex is wrong, so what advice are you still expecting us to give you.

There are some feelings that are just difficult to control.

Obakashdee:
Well, if you are falling in love, it’s not s bad thing but be sure she wants it too o, cause if she doesn’t then you might lose her as a friend and lose your guy also. Either way
You cannot eat your cake and have it

Hmm.. this is deep. I'm having sleepless nights because of this�

EXLOVER:
You have been highing that girl since she was with your friend, but Las Las una wan just Bleep. Nothing much.

Leave or loose your friend.


I don't see any relationship with someone my friend was dating or fvcking, bro you just have no respect for John Thomas.

Just fvck her codedly and move on.

True.
It's not about Bleep bro. It's about feelings

Heistman:
No lie....u don dey wish she was urs while she was dating ur friend..I just hope d babe go get sense Sha and no share d phussy reach urside too

I was having a crush on her before my guy told me he want her, and because I don't really chase girls, I left her then for my guy to make his move

Heavensent01:
falling in love for a Nigeria fairly used car? have you even check the engine to know if is still in perfect conditions? don't forget if engine is rotten, car won't last



I don't see myself falling in love with a non virgin lady except a flirt mate that I won't fall in love with but share affectionate with


I see op lusting in love and not falling in love, u won chop yr own and gboju

Fairly used car? Don't forget, not all girls are indecent. And true love has nothing to do with virginity

Shile981:

Fairly used car? Don't forget, not all girls are indecent. And true love has nothing to do with virginity

brother it's wrong for any lady to open legs for any guy that has not taken her home and know her parents and even show commitment


true love has nothing to do with virginity to you but to me virginity of a lady make me value and cherish her more, so that statement is not really correct


I never say all girls are indecent but all non virgins shouldn't be place in the same line with decency

discuss with your friend? what lead to their breakup? was it long since they separated?

Don't you think this shows how less of a man you are? Wanting to eat from the trash can of your close pal? Read this and let it sink so that you will know what you are about doing.
Bro, you and your pal can indulge in a 3sum with a female or an orgy and that's it. Don't ever go chasing your pals ex. Don't listen to whatever advice any female is going to give you on this thread. Don't ever do what will make your whole street label you a backstabber. Haba think am na. Are you prepared to be labeled a traitor of your street? Even children when dey give you small respect no go reason you for your street again. You fit dey chop steady beating if you waka anyhow. Bros no stain your name

Shile981:

There are some feelings that are just difficult to control.

Difficult but not impossible to control bro, self control and discipline is one of the attributes of a man.

is it worth it throwing off the friendship of ur guy cos of pussy?
guys lusting after their friend"s ex or girlfriends or lusting after their flatmate"s girlfriends or brother"s girlfriend i feel such guys are suffering from terrible inferiority complex cos nothing stops you going out to get your own woman.