Liliantalks:
a man physical appearance also matters to me save with financial.

Good for you, and non of my business. And I'm not questioning you for it. Your life, your choice.

But stop getting pained when others opinion differs with yours and even in this case, I'm not sure how my posts have anything to do with you, I read your post and added a point that you yourself mentioned but you are still overly PAINED on NOTHING. Or don't you understand English? Leave the Pains to those I replied and MOVE on, its not your pains.
Or did you create this thread to seek Attention? if yes, I'm sorry, I never knew that. Do what pleases you, gold digging or not, Just move on Gosh. Bye dear
Modified**
kindly forgive me for all my responses, truth is that I was stupid to not have checked your monicker before responding, I checked now and saw you are in competition with RUN GIRLS and many other funny Mentalities coupled with the fact that your account is FAKE. Please forgive me, I have learnt my lessons. Maybe it was even a fully bearded man I was busy replying according to some NLDrs

when will Nigerian ladies stop this emotional blackmails that we men are indebted to them from heaven. as if you are cripple, slowpoke or better still, bedridden. What brought this upon you all? is it society, economic sabotage,religion or culture. cos i am confused here. It wasn't like this in other places inside life. an innocent man/boyfriend should be paying mumu dowry for every taste of ur community borehole. see if ur supposed boyfriends gives u money, it act of benevolence cos hes not indebted to u and u all knows this, so why all this foolish entitlement every now and then. if you thinks ur pvssy is made of gold and priceless than ur mans d**k. Then u should go and fvck urself. depression is badder than bad and common sense is gettin uncommon everyday. ...just another bullshit post from a frustrated slut. spit..

DrFunmisticGlow:
So what's your point? That you shouldend up with an irresponsible man? Or walk into poverty with your two eyes open.

Take care of yourself first, a responsible man who won't make excuses should be a major criteria when looking for a spouse or someone to bear children for. If you ignore this, you are setting yourself up for tears and suffering. Don't make that mistake.


You sound like you are setting up poor innocent children to be your emotional crutch and retirement plan.

The truth is this.

CHILDREN WILL ONE DAY LEAVE YOU AND FACE THEIR LIVES.

failure to realise this will make you a future troublsome and bitter mother-in-law who scatters her children's marriages.

You have to learn to love yourself and plan for your future whether you have kids or not.

The reason why you always feel agitated whenever ugliness is mentioned is very understandable, it's 10/10 for you.

efosky1246:


Just stop being stupid.

There is nothing wrong in seeking out a man that is financially stable when going into a long-term relationship. It's not in anyway tantamount to golddigging or leeching as you seem to believe.

Even when you have your own income. Your man should be a pillar of strength.a fortress that you can rely on. in your lowest moment. There is no better feeling than knowing that your man's got your back in all ramifications.

Women are the most vulnerable in a marriage, and it's only common sense that you make sure to secure the best safety net you can attract. There is nothing wrong with it!!

A man brings structure, stability into a relationship, without seeking for this in a man, you're doing yourself and your unborn children a great disservice.

I don't know if it's your lived experiences that is making you feel like this. But no woman should be keen on being a work mule when in a relationship. You deserve better than you think

You are always on every thread shouting money money money and saying that men without money are useless. Now I put it to you, if truly you and your father are not useless, post assets declaration forms of you and your father and post your bank account here, I will send you $5,000 within 30 minutes if it is established that both of you have assets worth at least $200,000. Do it or shut up.

Chai! Nigerians!! Una too talk abeg

Unworthy arguments

Drfernandez:


You are always on every thread shouting money money money and saying that men without money are useless. Now I put it to you, if truly you and your father are not useless, post assets declaration forms of you and your father and post your bank account here, I will send you $5,000 within 30 minutes if it is established that both of you have assets worth at least $200,000. Do it or shut up.

I should post my account to prove what to you exactly? Slowpoke.

Empty barrels make the loudest noise.

My message is this. Every man, whatever your hustle is. Before getting married, be financially sufficient to provide the kind of life you want for your family. It is not in a woman's place to do that.

If that makes you feel agitated to the extent you have to flex financial muscles. Go hug a transformer.

And I never say men who are in the process of making it are useless. That's your conceived opinion. But before bringing a wife and children into the picture. Put in the work and have what it takes to provide the life you want for them. Anything other than that is a sign of misplaced priorities on your part.

Now go f*ck yourself with your 5k.

ModestGal:

Good for you, and non of my business. And I'm not questioning you for it. Your life, your choice.

But stop getting pained when others opinion differs with yours and even in this case, I'm not sure how my posts have anything to do with you, I read your post and added a point that you yourself mentioned but you are still overly PAINED on NOTHING. Or don't you understand English? Leave the Pains to those I replied and MOVE on, its not your pains.
Or did you create this thread to seek Attention? if yes, I'm sorry, I never knew that. Do what pleases you, gold digging or not, Just move on Gosh. Bye dear
Modified**
kindly forgive me for all my responses, truth is that I was stupid to not have checked your monicker before responding, I checked now and saw you are in competition with RUN GIRLS and many other funny Mentalities coupled with the fact that your account is FAKE. Please forgive me, I have learnt my lessons. Maybe it was even a fully bearded man I was busy replying according to some NLDrs

You had their time. That Lilian was talking from both sides of her mouth.

How can you claim you're not broke, you're independent and self sufficient and still be noticing that men are stingy at same time. She was even saying it is an achievement to take care of your own self asif you are supposed to be dependent on someone that is not your husband or father in the first place.

Where I gave up was when she was again comparing herself to other women as her reasons of noticing stingy people.
What a damaged, entitled mentality

efosky1246:


I should post my account to prove what to you exactly? Slowpoke.

Empty barrels make the loudest noise.

My message is this. Every man, whatever your hustle is. Before getting married, be financially sufficient to provide the kind of life you want for your family. It is not in a woman's place to do that.

If that makes you feel agitated to the extent you have to flex financial muscles. Go hug a transformer.

And I never say men who are in the process of making it are useless. That's your conceived opinion. But before bringing a wife and children into the picture. Put in the work and have what it takes to provide the life you want for them. Anything other than that is a sign of misplaced priorities on your part.

Now go f*ck yourself with your 5k.

I hate people who make too much noise. For the last time, if truly you and your father are not useless, post assets declaration forms of you and your father and post your bank account here, I will send you $5,000 to your bank account within 30 minutes if it is established that both of you have assets worth at least $200,000. Do it or shut up. Money money money every time and everywhere even when you are as poor as a church rat.

Drfernandez:



I hate people who make too much noise. For the last time, if truly you and your father are not useless, post assets declaration forms of you and your father and post your bank account here, I will send you $5,000 to your bank account within 30 minutes if it is established that both of you have assets worth at least $200,000. Do it or shut up. Money money money every time and everywhere even when you are as poor as church rat.

My guy is triggered.

Omo baba olowo. Sorry sir, please invest that 5k, your children will appreciate it?

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Drfernandez:


The reason why you always feel agitated whenever ugliness is mentioned is very understandable, it's 10/10 for you.

who are you?

Have we discussed before?

ModestGal:

You should ask who raised you to be GOLD DIGGING
Unless advised otherwise by doctors, nothing is wrong for a woman who is within 1-7month to be doing petty works. A pregnant woman shouldn't sit at a place, she needs to move and do
little exercises, that would help in easing her labour and aids shorter delivery.

You need a lot to learn really, this your mentality is so so unnecessary. Have you attended anti natal before? We teach women how to safely exercise and they practice along.

So much ignorance with you and yet, you think you know it ALL

Don't ask if I have been to antenatal,I run the antenatal clinic sweetie.

Petty work cannot pay for antenatal.

Petty work cannot pay for delivery fees or CS.

Petty work can't pay for pampers.

Stop being pained.

You are setting yourself up to die of burnout or end up a single mother.

Godoverevery:

lol ....u are not clever at all.
u know she will be heavily pregnant from the first month... SMH
I just pity the man that end up someone like you.

who are you again?why are you triggered?

She said that a heavily pregnant woman should be working like a mule. Ok na!! Someone that cannot bend down to pick pencil.

efosky1246:


It's a man telling you this.

I'd advise you to relax, take a chill pill and think critically about the kind of man, male role model you want for your children. A financially sufficient and responsible one or not.

With this mentality of yours, you are better off being a baby mama. cause you'll only attract weak, criminally minded men.

Her mentality belongs in 1950, ignore her pls

efosky1246:


I should post my account to prove what to you exactly? Slowpoke.

Empty barrels make the loudest noise.

My message is this. Every man, whatever your hustle is. Before getting married, be financially sufficient to provide the kind of life you want for your family. It is not in a woman's place to do that.

If that makes you feel agitated to the extent you have to flex financial muscles. Go hug a transformer.

And I never say men who are in the process of making it are useless. That's your conceived opinion. But before bringing a wife and children into the picture. Put in the work and have what it takes to provide the life you want for them. Anything other than that is a sign of misplaced priorities on your part.

Now go f*ck yourself with your 5k.

Even if his hustle is being a frauster, a yahoo boy.. All hustle na hustle... Men have suffered.

So I should only hustle because I want to be sufficient enough to satisfy a woman..?
It doesn't matter how I make my money, I just need to work to please my wife not myself.. Bro check and balance na.. You are part of the reason that push guys into crimes

DrFunmisticGlow:
who are you again?why are you triggered?

She said that a heavily pregnant woman should be working like a mule. Ok na!! Someone that cannot bend down to pick pencil.

keep looking for a rich man..... don't get your lazy ass to work.

parasite

ModestGal:

Lol, so I'm a fool for telling you to not 100% depend on a man for your existence. I'm a fool for telling you to empower yourself and not wait for a man before you feed yourself?

And also, this wasn't an argument I started, you quoted me first trying to shove your PARASITIC GOLD DIGGING EXISTENCE down my THROAT and my replies was to tell you, I can't and that I prefer to always prepare for EMERGENCIES, I prefer to be self dependent, I prefer mutual relationship where we both happy. When you knew you were spewing nonsense, you shouldn't have started your illogical movement of forcing your beliefs on me.

I didn't want to continue this with you, but I saw that you needed help

Diane Hendricks, Meg Whitman, Judy Faulkner, Folorunsho Alakija, Funke Akidele, and many women you can GOOGLE to see how they are self made millionares. And again as I have said, that mentality of parasitic existence might ruin you because only rely on GOD and YOURSELF.
You have nothing to loose with this, and if your man is rich and gives you, then it would be an added advantage

Check the picture below to see self made beautiful women and get inspiration from them

why are you disturbing urself with all this God forsaken bitches. there are many runs girls, ndi holes n olosho on this faceless forum . some of them disguise themselve as a male and spilled trashed. No body prays to be dependent or a liability to her man or his woman. But this set preaches entitlement and parasitic marriage as if their life depends on it. poverty has eaten deep into their medula oblongata and they have virtually lost all hope of survival.you see the way they r putting all their effort to prove you wrong. Entitlement mentality is not attractive to anyone, self empowerment n sufficiency is the best thing after slice bread. Flesh and Blood did not reveal this to you. My sister married her husband as a jobless man. she helped him to become something in life. this man is earning in dollars now likewise my sister and both of them are living the life and happy. pls stop advicing them cos we need girls like them in our society to cure our spiritual konjis. they are easy takedown. we only see them as sex object used and treat them like trash and wen the shit goes down they call us stingy. and even if they nag and leave us, na their loss be that. Only a simp and an unfortunate man with no option will take them serious. you are not the one to change them. its their option, it their life.

jelraj:


Even if his hustle is being a frauster, a yahoo boy.. All hustle na hustle... Men have suffered.

So I should only hustle because I want to be sufficient enough to satisfy a woman..?
It doesn't matter how I make my money, I just need to work to please my wife not myself.. Bro check and balance na.. You are part of the reason that push guys into crimes

Fraud is one illegitimate means out of thousands of legitimate means to make it. But no, hustle automatically means 419 in your head as you already believe you must need a woman to make it.

Your own go hard Wella.

Raydans:

You had their time. That Lilian was talking from both sides of her mouth.

How can you claim you're not broke, you're independent and self sufficient and still be noticing that men are stingy at same time. She was even saying it is an achievement to take care of your own self asif you are supposed to be dependent on someone that is not your husband or father in the first place.

Where I gave up was when she was again comparing herself to other women as her reasons of noticing stingy people.
What a damaged, entitled mentality

so it’s not an achievement to feed myself when people can’t provide two square meals , talk about shelter and cloths. Lol other women seting their standards for men are most times achieving it , if the fact I said that’s the woman I want to be , hurt ur feelings. Then I Am sorry... call me whatever u please . I stand by my words

Liliantalks:
I don’t know why u men assume , because a woman wants a financial stable man she’s broke or hv nothing doing , women getting such nko.

You don't need to explain yourself to anyone. If you like a rich man, it's your preference, and you are entitled to having your own preferences.

ModestGal:

You should ask who raised you to be GOLD DIGGING
Unless advised otherwise by doctors, nothing is wrong for a woman who is within 1-7month to be doing petty works. A pregnant woman shouldn't sit at a place, she needs to move and do
little exercises, that would help in easing her labour and aids shorter delivery.

You need a lot to learn really, this your mentality is so so unnecessary. Have you attended anti natal before? We teach women how to safely exercise and they practice along.

So much ignorance with you and yet, you think you know it ALL

Like pregnant women can't run blogs or do some intellectual works. Don't mind her.

efosky1246:


Fraud is one illegitimate means out of thousands of legitimate means to make it. But no, hustle automatically means 419 in your head as you already believe you must need a woman to make it.

Your own go hard Wella.

Base on your logic
All men are supposed to do whatever it takes to make their woman happy, even if it means robbing a bank.. I don't blame u, just because you are fortunate doesn't mean others are..
Not all of us will be rich, if you like hustle till your last breathe.. FACT. Does that mean they don't deserve to find happiness or they don't qualify to date women?..

So shut up if you know nothing about life, and stop seeing things from your view only.. You don't know what people go through especially in this country..

DrFunmisticGlow:
who are you again?why are you triggered?

She said that a heavily pregnant woman should be working like a mule. Ok na!! Someone that cannot bend down to pick pencil.

Keep justifying your parasitic ass. Lol. No man wants a parasite period.

James4bright:


Like pregnant women can't run blogs or do some intellectual works. Don't mind her.

you are not serious!!! That’s why igbo men anyday anytime

Liliantalks:
you are not serious!!! That’s why igbo men anyday anytime

Lol. I'm Igbo oh. We are wiser now. Gone are those days when men were ignorant.

Raydans:

You had their time. That Lilian was talking from both sides of her mouth.

How can you claim you're not broke, you're independent and self sufficient and still be noticing that men are stingy at same time. She was even saying it is an achievement to take care of your own self asif you are supposed to be dependent on someone that is not your husband or father in the first place.

Where I gave up was when she was again comparing herself to other women as her reasons of noticing stingy people.
What a damaged, entitled mentality

As in ehn bros, I was stupid o, I think say na better people I dey reply their mention. Na she/he/it open thread, na she dey use another monicker dey mention herself, I never checked the profile, but henceforth, I would make sure I check profile before replying any mention. It is well

James4bright:


Like pregnant women can't run blogs or do some intellectual works. Don't mind her.

Of course, anything that makes her happy and that her doctor is in support of.

jelraj:

Base on your logic
All men are supposed to do whatever it takes to make their woman happy, even if it means robbing a bank.. I don't blame u, just because you are fortunate doesn't mean others are..
Not all of us will be rich, if you like hustle till your last breathe.. FACT. Does that mean they don't deserve to find happiness or they don't qualify to date women?..

So shut up if you know nothing about life, and stop seeing things from your view only.. You don't know what people go through especially in this country..

Rich is relative. I don't use that term.

Are you telling me that as a man. You do not have an idea of the kind of life you want for yourself and your family? Ok, take the woman out of the picture(you obviously can't imagine an outsider chopping your money ), what kind of environment do you want your children to grow up in, what kind of school do you want for them?

I agree with you, not everyone will be financially successful. But If you believe that no matter how hard you try that you won't achieve it.

There is really nothing much that can be done.

Bro, I am not talking from a place of spite here. I don't get a Kobo coming on here.

I wasn't born into wealth. I have experienced what it means to not have, but looking back, I don't think I did nothing extremely extraordinary that you as another man cannot do.

The problem is that most men just live everyday as it comes. They have no plans and some that have do not have the discipline to follow up on those plans.

If you want a change, make it happen.

Look around you. Men build roads, buildings and in extension civilisation and that translates into the family as well,

A man creates his reality, then his woman and by extension his family lives in it.

So the question is what reality do you want?

James4bright:


Lol. I'm Igbo oh. We are wiser now. Gone are those days when men were ignorant.

please the real Igbo men that treat women like queens ,, there was a family i knew in anambra, the wife sold rice b4 she got pregnant, while she was pregnant, the woman will cook and the man will help her sell the rice in the night after his work , and give his wife the money ... ur wife would be pregnant n U allow her to work ? Okay o I hear you

ModestGal:

Of course, anything that makes her happy and that her doctor is in support of.

Likewise nursing mothers can be doing one or two things to keep her sanity. Not just sitting down 24hours, its not even healthy. I don't even think anyone do that, even wives of billionaires still do something during pregnancy, I remember where Regina Daniels says she's been going to office and planning to launch her TV station.

Heavy pregnant women work out. I saw a video of a woman who was about to give birth that day, she tried as much as possible to do some little dance exercise that day. Her delivery was safe and perfect.

Those girls are just unproductive.

James4bright:


Heavy pregnant women work out. I saw a video of a woman who was about to give birth that day, she tried as much as possible to do some little dance exercise that day. Her delivery was safe and perfect.

Those girls are just unproductive.

women body differ