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How Do I Handle A Disturbing Father by Dantix: 11:51am On Jul 03, 2020
Thanks for all your advice, I really appreciate.
Re: How Do I Handle A Disturbing Father by Authoreety: 11:52am On Jul 03, 2020
Front page please...

Attributes of OSUOFIA found in some ones dad
Re: How Do I Handle A Disturbing Father by TransflectTP(m): 11:56am On Jul 03, 2020
Lalasticlala may have what to say.
Re: How Do I Handle A Disturbing Father by Artiiclebeast: 11:58am On Jul 03, 2020
[quote author=Dantix post=91332400]Please I ]

Very sad.

Are you guys based in Benin?
Re: How Do I Handle A Disturbing Father by Nobody: 12:13pm On Jul 03, 2020
Don't you dare leave your mum behind, she's not been able to leave the house completely because it's been her home for 22 years, she gave up everything to have the family you have now, so it'll be very difficult for her to live a life without her family, it's like having no purpose.....plus if you leave the house alone your dad will do worse, because your presence is stopping him from doing some certain things...find a way of getting a place that'll be manageable for you and your mum, she won't agree to leave all of a sudden, but you can start by asking her to visit and stay for sometime, then with time she'll prefer staying with you.
As for your dad, there's no remedy, the older he gets the naggier he'll get, just free the man and make a safe haven for your mum.
Re: How Do I Handle A Disturbing Father by toyotamuscle: 12:22pm On Jul 03, 2020
I love your father.i wish to be like him.a strong man.if him give you people chance na e go be chancesss.me too I cant see a prostitute true school also.your father is a nice good God fearing man.he is a holy man, a man of God.so you should respect him like you respect your pastor.
Re: How Do I Handle A Disturbing Father by toyotamuscle: 12:26pm On Jul 03, 2020
vikkimimi:
Don't you dare leave your mum behind, she's not been able to leave the house completely because it's been her home for 22 years, she gave up everything to have the family you have now, so it'll be very difficult for her to live a life without her family, it's like having no purpose.....plus if you leave the house alone your dad will do worse, because your presence is stopping him from doing some certain things...find a way of getting a place that'll be manageable for you and your mum, she won't agree to leave all of a sudden, but you can start by asking her to visit and stay for sometime, then with time she'll prefer staying with you.
As for your dad, there's no remedy, the older he gets the naggier he'll get, just free the man and make a save haven for your mum.
this person advising you might not even have a father oooo.so dont listin to him or her.if you have a father who is a real man.he will show most of this things you just said about ur father.he pays house rent and schools fees but dont pay school fees for prostitutes and doesnt house prostitutes also, he is a real man.
Re: How Do I Handle A Disturbing Father by Nobody: 12:31pm On Jul 03, 2020
toyotamuscle:
this person advising you might not even have a father oooo.so dont listin to him or her.if you have a father who is a real man.he will show most of this things you just said about ur father.he pays house rent and schools fees but dont pay school fees for prostitutes and doesnt house prostitutes also, he is a real man.


You're obviously a 'stray dog' to have said all the trash you said....your words alone can't make me fatherless neither will it make me blind to spot Badly raised men like you that have been a pain in the asses of women and even children....Go get a life
Re: How Do I Handle A Disturbing Father by toyotamuscle: 12:36pm On Jul 03, 2020
vikkimimi:



You're obviously a 'stray dog' to have said all the trashed you said....your words alone can't make me fatherless neither will it make me blind to Badly raised men like you that have been a pain in the asses of women and even children....Go get a life
if you really have a man as a father.who stand in the way for his family.you will never give such an advice.weak men rise weak kids.the girl you are advising is already a strong girl cos of her father and will never become a prostitute, even if she becomes a prostitute her fathers spirit will hunt her till she gives up the bad life style.go and get a father.its really important. father's play a very different role compared to mothers.
Re: How Do I Handle A Disturbing Father by Maxxim: 12:37pm On Jul 03, 2020
toyotamuscle:
I love your father.i wish to be like him.a strong man.if him give you people chance na e go be chancesss.me too I cant see a prostitute true school also.your father is a nice good God fearing man.he is a holy man, a man of God.so you should respect him like you respect your pastor.
grin grin you too funny guy
Re: How Do I Handle A Disturbing Father by LadySarah: 12:49pm On Jul 03, 2020
Thank God you hate his attitude just don't be like him and make sure he never raises his hands on your mum again. Aruru Ala gba afo ogho omenala.

He himself is the prostitute and is trying to provoke your mum to leave the house so he can bring in his concubines.

Old age now when he is being punished ppl will start saying" at least your own is alive, I wish mine was alive that way".b UT here he is mentally and physically abusing his good wife n kids.

He will one day meet his waterloo.

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Re: How Do I Handle A Disturbing Father by toyotamuscle: 12:51pm On Jul 03, 2020
LadySarah:
Thank God you hate his attitude just don't be like him and make sure he never raises his hands on your mum again. Aruru Ala gba afo ogho omenala.

He himself is the prostitute and is trying to provoke your mum to leave the house so he can bring in his concubines.

Old age now when he is being punished ppl will start saying" at least your own is alive, I wish mine was alive that way".b UT here he is mentally and physically abusing his good wife n kids.

He will one day meet his waterloo.
how can he be a prostitute why he is the one paying for sex.a prostitute is the one who receives money or material stuffs for sex.and not the giver.nothing will happen to that good man.God will protect him even for nothing for real young upcoming men.
Re: How Do I Handle A Disturbing Father by toyotamuscle: 12:54pm On Jul 03, 2020
remember I called your father a man of God.go and write it down, even his type do live long.he will live long.
Re: How Do I Handle A Disturbing Father by thorpido(m): 1:05pm On Jul 03, 2020
Well,I believe your mother dated your father enough to know what kind of man she was marrying.She has also chosen to stay even in the face of all these provocations.
As much as you want peace for your mom,she is the one to decide for herself.
Your business now is to make a way for yourself and move out.You can then bring your siblings with you
Re: How Do I Handle A Disturbing Father by toyotamuscle: 1:05pm On Jul 03, 2020
do you remember when you were a kid, and you were daddies littel girl.what happend.you grow up and you turned your back at everything daddy loves like being a decent girl.now you even bring him to strangers.pray he doesn't see this your post.if he does you gonna pack out tonight against when ever you were forecasting. and do you even think daddy ll let you just go like that.no he ll only disown you wen you become a full blown prostitute.
Re: How Do I Handle A Disturbing Father by toyotamuscle: 1:08pm On Jul 03, 2020
thorpido:
Well,I believe your mother dated your father enough to know what kind of man she was marrying.She has also chosen to stay even in the face of all these provocations.
As much as you want peace for your mom,she is the one to decide for herself.
Your business now is to make a way for yourself and move out.You can then bring your siblings with you
this guy is good man.a real man of God.
Re: How Do I Handle A Disturbing Father by LordKO(m): 1:26pm On Jul 03, 2020
Your father is a narcissist - your biased disposition as your submission connotes notwithstanding. In fact, his obvious narcissistic personality and your biased disposition have already made it a little difficult to know whether or not his allegation against your mother is correct - anyway his quasi-lack of sense of responsibility shows that he isn't the only one with a draining weakness in that union/family.

All the same, the best way to neutralize toxicity of a narcissist is meting out carefree attitude against him/her continually, while still giving your best - although carefreeness is best implemented from a physical distance.

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Re: How Do I Handle A Disturbing Father by bukatyne(f): 2:07pm On Jul 03, 2020
thorpido:
Well,I believe your mother dated your father enough to know what kind of man she was marrying.She has also chosen to stay even in the face of all these provocations.
As much as you want peace for your mom,she is the one to decide for herself.
Your business now is to make a way for yourself and move out.You can then bring your siblings with you
Re: How Do I Handle A Disturbing Father by Fountainofyouth(f): 2:21pm On Jul 03, 2020
Smh!!!

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Re: How Do I Handle A Disturbing Father by Alexaonfleek: 2:29pm On Jul 03, 2020
toyotamuscle:
remember I called your father a man of God.go and write it down, even his type do live long.he will live long.
hian!!
Some of you guys will just open your mouth waaaaaaaaa like garbage
Re: How Do I Handle A Disturbing Father by Mariangeles(f): 2:57pm On Jul 03, 2020
toyotamuscle:
do you remember when you were a kid, and you were daddies littel girl.what happend.you grow up and you turned your back at everything daddy loves like being a decent girl.now you even bring him to strangers.pray he doesn't see this your post.if he does you gonna pack out tonight against when ever you were forecasting. and do you even think daddy ll let you just go like that.no he ll only disown you wen you become a full blown prostitute.

Are you the so-called father? 'cause it seems you are undecided
Re: How Do I Handle A Disturbing Father by toyotamuscle: 3:17pm On Jul 03, 2020
Mariangeles:


Are you the so-called father? 'cause it seems you are undecided

that is a partten of writing, were you imagine your self as the character you write about but you are not.am not her father.
Re: How Do I Handle A Disturbing Father by Amanee(f): 4:12pm On Jul 03, 2020
Your mom has tolerated and endured it for 22 years.

She laid her bed and is currently lying on it. Learn from their marriage and let their mistakes guide you to strive for better in your own marriage. In other words, there's nothing much you can do for your parents except seek a less toxic environment for yourself and love them from afar.
Re: How Do I Handle A Disturbing Father by austine4real(m): 4:15pm On Jul 03, 2020
This matter is beyond me oo



Becareful in ur decision





U can't really forced ur mum out of her home .




Me I suggest u gather enuf money and move her far far far away from ur dad cos if u her children leave her behind don't know what's going to happen
Re: How Do I Handle A Disturbing Father by toyotamuscle: 4:22pm On Jul 03, 2020
a man that can walk to a shop were his own daughter is an apprentice, to check on her.to see if she is really learning . to play his fatherly role.and some people think he isnt a good man.but I swear your father planted an intel on that your sister.he doesn't want to hear stories.how did he no she wasn't in her work place that day.if its not intel then its love.he loves his family but you guys don't really understand him.

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