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I have tried in each time, not to let hatred creep into my heart but I keep experiencing the worst in nigeria women. If I will help a nigeria woman in this life, it will only take forgiveness.

In the past, I use to cherish and care so much for nigeria WOMEN with their children and will sacrifice my all for them, but not anymore

women are scum

Lostchild:
I have tried in each time, not to let hatred creep into my heart but I keep experiencing the worst in women. If I will help a woman in this life, it will only take forgiveness.

In the past, I use to cherish and care for women with children and will sacrifice my all for them, but not anymore.

A) be careful of which women you choose to help
B) be very careful of what type of help you give these needy women
C) if you decide to help ALL women with whatever "they" desire from you, then the problem is closer to home.

I am still yet to get ihow people get into a relationship which was initially sweet then went so so bad that lots of regrets are followed. Una no dey reserve some hearts for story that touch like this?

Btw, you might need to change your settings, those who you might have been meeting are not the correct ones and also, don't think all of them are wrong, you also need to look into yourself

From all indications, you are largely the cause of whatever negative experiences you have had in the hands of women, however genuine your intentions towards them were. From the connotations of your submissions on almost all of your threads in this regard, you were among the class of men who, apart from believing that a woman could never be the one wrong when having a problem with a male adult, also equate:

- Condoning of nonsense/pandering to the whims of caprices of women and children and people in general regardless of gender to libertarianism and kindness.

- Expressiveness and/or emotiveness for emotionality.

- Assertion for attack and toxicity.

- Reticence for stoicism.

- Disingenuousness for diplomacy/wisdom/civility.

Well, now is the time to clean up yourself, assume the full responsibilities of your actions and inactions in the past and start a new phase of life where you will abhor nonsense from anyone, man or woman, and without expecting others to indulge nonsense from you. A new phase of life where you don't need to hold your past negative experiences against women as a people, but not fail to mete out cruelty to anyone, woman or man, who wittingly and delightfully fails to adhere to decorum around you if you wish. It's unfortunate that you aren't inherently discerning and gritty, because if you were to be, no woman could have wrecked you like this. Say no to both cruelty and servility, and yes to scrupulousness and grit.

Embrace relating/treating people based on who they are attributively rather than how they want you to treat them based on any sentimental or conventional norm. You can always walk the walk without being hurt and without delightfully being the reason someone might get hurt.

I am not currently in any form of sexual relationship with a woman, although I didn't shared more light on the write up above.

I was wondering if I will ever give a Godly help to a woman unlike before I give so much arms to women with children.

Monogamy RightToReject

MrBrownJay1:


A) be careful of which women you choose to help
B) be very careful of what type of help you give these needy women
C) if you decide to help ALL women with whatever "they" desire from you, then the problem is closer to home.

Your advice is well noted.

Thanks

Monogamy RightToReject

There are many things i didn't want to share here. There are many things I must and will let go and look forward to the future.

But within my heart, I see them as more of bad than good. Even their good is rooted in selfishness.

I have learn a lot.

RightToReject:
From all indications, you are largely the cause of whatever negative experiences you have had in the hands of women, however genuine your intentions towards them were. From the connotations of your submissions on almost all of your threads in this regard, you were among the class of men who, apart from believing that a woman could never be the one wrong when having a problem with a male adult, also equate:

- Condoning of nonsense/pandering to the whims of caprices of women and children and people in general regardless of gender to libertarianism and kindness.

- Expressiveness and/or emotiveness for emotionality.

- Assertion for attack and toxicity.

- Reticence for stoicism.

- Disingenuousness for diplomacy/wisdom/civility.

Well, now is the time to clean up yourself, assume the full responsibilities of your actions and inactions in the past and start a new phase of life where you will abhor nonsense from anyone, man or woman, and without expecting others to indulge nonsense from you. A new phase of life where you don't need to hold your past negative experiences against women as a people, but not fail to mete out cruelty to anyone, woman or man, who wittingly and delightfully fails to adhere to decorum around you if you wish. It's unfortunate that you aren't inherently discerning and gritty, because if you were to be, no woman could have wrecked you like this. Say no to both cruelty and servility, and yes to scrupulousness and grit.

Embrace relating/treating people based on who they are attributively rather than how they want you to treat them based on any sentimental or conventional norm. You can always walk the walk without being hurt and without delightfully being the reason someone might get hurt.

Boss,

You are deep man... Am following you now...

How did you do it?

There was a time when I complain to a friend that my help keep working against me, and that people keep abusing my help. He told me that, It is good I give help but I am over doing it. He said, I am not God that I will be doing everything people want from me. He told me to watch people very well before I give help to them. I heavily disagree with him that day, but it took me few years to see beyond his words and act on them.

With the continous abuse, I began to see the need for me to adjust and work on the way I handle humans. I began to see that, I need to watch and observe the character of every one around me, before giving them help or access to my life. I began to see that, not everyone deserve my help and I don't need to be kind to everyone. I now understood that, I should treat people according to who they are.

I heavily work on myself and made many adjustment and changes.

● I learn to save money
● It was difficult for me to learn to control my giving
● I stop being mr nice guui
● I stop being over-caring
● I stop giving excessively like (ATM)
● I learn to keep things to myself
● I stop giving to people around me
● I stop being kind to people around.
● I became the first priority in my life except my elderly (mother)

And with this changes, I began to love myself more. I began to see the need for me to enjoy my life without giving.

Despite all the changes I made to better myself, I was still having problem with women around me because they don't like the new me, they so much love the old me and want me to be their close buddy.

I currently cannot give them that friendship they want

RightToReject

Search for "redpill" on this forum, thank me later.

The thread should have been 'Women! Women!! Women'

To fulfill the three times calling stuff.

If you don't want to help women, don't help them.

Case closed.

Lostchild:
I have tried in each time, not to let hatred creep into my heart but I keep experiencing the worst in women. If I will help a woman in this life, it will only take forgiveness.

In the past, I use to cherish and care for women with children and will sacrifice my all for them, but not anymore.

Who did this to you ?

bukatyne:
The thread should have been 'Women! Women!! Women'

To fulfill the three times calling stuff.

If you don't want to help women, don't help them.

Case closed.

I wish I can.

frozen70:

Who did this to you ?

Na women O

Lostchild:


Na women O

Ohhhh, just forget and move on so that you don't miss the good one's

frozen70:



Ohhhh, just forget and move on so that you don't miss the good one's

Well, I just want to drop all my heavy baggage on nairaland, then move on.