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Re: Dr. Olufunmilayo Sues Bola Aseyan, Demands £10,000 For Damages by Nobody: 1:33pm On Jul 03, 2020
XXLMANDIGO:
This Doctor lives in the West yet openly admitted that he actually had intercourse with her when she was drunk. That's a bait he should first try to wriggle himself out from. I am not supporting the lady but a drunk person can almost not give true consent in a sexual encounter.
he said they were both drunk Mr ITK
Re: Dr. Olufunmilayo Sues Bola Aseyan, Demands £10,000 For Damages by Nitah1: 1:33pm On Jul 03, 2020
Alexaonfleek:
oh please!!
Why didn't she leave his house ever since?
I'm sure she was really comfortable staying in her rapist's house and enjoying free food and wifi.
Leave Jaxxy abeg.....maybe the said lady was raped day before he left the house.�����
Re: Dr. Olufunmilayo Sues Bola Aseyan, Demands £10,000 For Damages by jaxxy(m): 1:38pm On Jul 03, 2020
Nitah1:
Leave Jaxxy abeg.....maybe the said lady was raped day before he left the house.�����
I don’t support anyone I’m just following the story On fair grounds for everybody. It is wrong to dismiss an accusation without hearing facts or statements from both sides.

I’m not against the doctor, I want to know the truth of events. He may be vindicated atleast now I heard of text msgs btwn them. That’s my stand.
Re: Dr. Olufunmilayo Sues Bola Aseyan, Demands £10,000 For Damages by TheKingIsHere: 1:38pm On Jul 03, 2020
Alexaonfleek:
oh please!!
Why didn't she leave his house ever since?
I'm sure she was really comfortable staying in her rapist's house and enjoying free food and wifi.
She actually posted pictures of herself some days ago flexing and enjoying in her so called "rapist" apartment.

Things did not go the way she wanted and now she has deleted the tweet to hide evidence....

I don't pity the guy too, he is a stupid simp who was judging innocent men without hearing their own side of the story. Now, karma has caught up to him.

Re: Dr. Olufunmilayo Sues Bola Aseyan, Demands £10,000 For Damages by eyinjuege: 1:39pm On Jul 03, 2020
TheKingIsHere:
I hope the bolded is applicable to ALL rapist?
The gender of a rapist doesn't absolve them of their crime.
I also probably lean towards the death penalty for rapists, whether male or female
Those who rape children should be specially tortured before death.
Children who rape other children should be locked up for 40 years
Rape is not something to be ever taken lightly
It is even recognised as a weapon of real war, and we know it is used as a means to subjugate.
Re: Dr. Olufunmilayo Sues Bola Aseyan, Demands £10,000 For Damages by KushLyon(m): 1:40pm On Jul 03, 2020
XXLMANDIGO:
This Doctor lives in the West yet openly admitted that he actually had intercourse with her when she was drunk. That's a bait he should first try to wriggle himself out from. I am not supporting the lady but a drunk person can almost not give true consent in a sexual encounter.
You missed the part where they were both drunk. Both of them drank the wine and had sex, this is not a case of one person getting drunk while the other person took advantage of the situation
Re: Dr. Olufunmilayo Sues Bola Aseyan, Demands £10,000 For Damages by TheKingIsHere: 1:42pm On Jul 03, 2020
Tallesty1:
You've no idea how stupid you sound, are men and women not equal before the law? If a woman cannot be judged by her decisions in her drunkenness then why should a man be nailed for the same offense?

They were both drunk, they had sex while they were drunk and even when they were sober.

Let me even ask you, who initiated the sex after they got drunk?

You know right that she's a rapist if she was the one that made the first move? After all the doctor was too drunk to consent to sex.
He only quoted the exact words of this Doctor who was acting like a f0ol and simping for women.

Now, karma has caught up with him.

Re: Dr. Olufunmilayo Sues Bola Aseyan, Demands £10,000 For Damages by TheKingIsHere: 1:48pm On Jul 03, 2020
itzdave1:
See next time when you want to talk first sat it in a cup and put the cup to your ear to see how it sounds...


So they both drank wine together, and she got too drunk on red wine to actually give consent, but HE on the other hand isn't allowed to get too drunk to give consent to sex? Even though they both drank the same wine of which she was even the one who brought the wine out?

You're such a sick twisted person and you think like a bucket.
Na the fo0lish Doctor talk am before, so he should be ready to face the music

Re: Dr. Olufunmilayo Sues Bola Aseyan, Demands £10,000 For Damages by zedman1(m): 1:48pm On Jul 03, 2020
XXLMANDIGO:
This Doctor lives in the West yet openly admitted that he actually had intercourse with her when she was drunk. That's a bait he should first try to wriggle himself out from. I am not supporting the lady but a drunk person can almost not give true consent in a sexual encounter.
Sir, both were drunk. Rape is a two way thing, wouldn't one be right to say she raped him while he was drunk too?.... and for the record it didn't happen just once. It's obviously a case of a 'virtual' relationship that went south.
Re: Dr. Olufunmilayo Sues Bola Aseyan, Demands £10,000 For Damages by wisdomiskey(m): 1:51pm On Jul 03, 2020
Martinez39s:
By all common sense and logic, the guy has nothing to worry about. However, some of laws over there are not based of morality, fairness, and logic.

According to crazy law over there, sleeping with a drunk woman is equivalent to rape even if both of you were drunk. On the flip side, a woman, drunk or not, sleeping with a drunk man isn't rape. For some weird reasons, they believe a drunk man should be held accountable for his actions while a drunk woman shouldn't. They also presume, for females only, that consent cannot be given when drunk.

When the simp Dr. Olufunmilayo released his statement that both were drunk and had sex, I knew that he dug a deep hole for himself. Not only is he a simp, he is utterly fòolish. Charging her for damages with a legal document will likely not do śhit. Ask those who signed prenup.
That someone achieved a medical degree and is able to practice doesn't mean they have common sense.

Academic studies only tests your ability to retain information not your actual intelligence. That's why we have so many stupid individuals in 'prominent' careers.

The guy is a dunce. Plain and simple!
Re: Dr. Olufunmilayo Sues Bola Aseyan, Demands £10,000 For Damages by EzzyCarter:
Nitah1:
My wife's friend daughter came to live with my wife while I was away for a while when I came home that faithful day this girl became distracted and started setting traps for me by leaving her megs open in front of me and saying things like am younger than my age and all that.......
This continues to the next day,I don't know what came over me....to this point I cannot explain ....but we started kissing and this girl took my hand straight to her pant,while fingering her I discovered some thick white discharge that took over my finger,when I made to stop she instructed me not to stop and that if I stop she will report me to my wife....


wao,I was shocked..... I told her I cannot do it and that she's sick and is even wrong to do that to my wife.....thank God that discharge help me.



But this girl called her mother to inform her that I rape her and that her whole body is paining her,this got to my wife.....



Thank God my wife knows me well.....she told her friend that if her husband cannot rape and that if at all he's a rapist she would have been the first victim (if you know,you know)....


Na so the babe came back k to apologised o.




from that day,I fear who no fear woman.
Omo! This ur experience deep o. Thank God you didn't fall into her trap sha
Re: Dr. Olufunmilayo Sues Bola Aseyan, Demands £10,000 For Damages by Alexaonfleek: 1:54pm On Jul 03, 2020
TheKingIsHere:
She actually posted pictures of herself some days ago flexing and enjoying in her so called "rapist" apartment.

Things did not go the way she wanted and now she has deleted the tweet to hide evidence....

I don't pity the guy too, he is a stupid simp who was judging innocent men without hearing their own side of the story. Now, karma has caught up to him.
I don't support rape but this Dr fummi's story really annoyed me.
Even before Dr fummi came out to share his side of the story,it was obvious from the lady's side of the story that she was trying to get back at him.
She didn't even give a detailed explanation of what happened to her,she just kept saying the same thing that people have been begging her to drop the case.
Even gave a lousy instance where Dr fummi was necking another girl and she told him to stop and he did.

I just hope Dr fummi gets a good lawyer that'll defend him well enough and he's proven innocent.
And he can increase the money for damages to £100000 too.

It's not about being a simp tho,false rape accusation could happen to anyone.
Re: Dr. Olufunmilayo Sues Bola Aseyan, Demands £10,000 For Damages by wisdomiskey(m): 1:56pm On Jul 03, 2020
AfroKnight:
She will not be able to pay o. cheesy She has not started collecting salary as a doctor. £10k is good. At least, She will be paying it £500 per month for nearly 2 years. grin Win Win.
Lol. Dude has wasted money on these wack lawyers for nothing.

He won't win the lawsuit, mark my words.
Re: Dr. Olufunmilayo Sues Bola Aseyan, Demands £10,000 For Damages by TheKingIsHere: 2:00pm On Jul 03, 2020
Alexaonfleek:
I don't support rape but this Dr fummi's story really annoyed me.
Even before Dr fummi came out to share his side of the story,it was obvious from the lady's side of the story that she was trying to get back at him.
She didn't even give a detailed explanation of what happened to her,she just kept saying the same thing that people have been begging her to drop the case.
Even gave a lousy instance where Dr fummi was necking another girl and she told him to stop and he did.

I just hope Dr fummi gets a good lawyer that'll defend him well enough and he's proven innocent.
And he can increase the money for damages to £100000 too.

It's not about being a simp tho,false rape accusation could happen to anyone.
On the bolded, it is obvious you don't know the doctor very well.

He was a simp that wasnt ready to hear other men who were falsely accused. Thats why he was dragged all over twitter when his own case came out..

Can you imagine that the fo0lish guy said that NO woman can lie about being raped?

Oya na, let him face the music..Next time some people will get sense and learn to listen to BOTH sides of the story..I have no iota of pity for hi,m

Re: Dr. Olufunmilayo Sues Bola Aseyan, Demands £10,000 For Damages by itzdave1: 2:02pm On Jul 03, 2020
AerialMapper:
Sorry but you cannot assume her intentions...Dr Olufunmilayo Ogunsanya worded it perfectly
Neither can you! If they both drank alcohol, and she even proposed to drink in the firs place, then going by your own argument I put it to you that she was the one who got him drunk on purpose, seduced him and then raped him! And as you marked in the post, an invitation to alcohol doesn't mean sex. She invited him for a drink, he got drunk, and she raped him! She is a lady, in a home alone with a man, with her own room just next door... If you're smart you'll realize that there is only little she can take before she realizes she's tipsy. Men on the other hand never agrees that they are drunk and so they usually drink till they get knocked out. So, going by your own senseless dumb argument, she RAPED HIM!
Re: Dr. Olufunmilayo Sues Bola Aseyan, Demands £10,000 For Damages by Alexaonfleek: 2:08pm On Jul 03, 2020
TheKingIsHere:
On the bolded, it is obvious you don't know the doctor very well.

He was a simp that wasnt ready to hear other men who were falsely accused. Thats why he was dragged all over twitter when his own case came out..

Can you imagine that the fo0lish guy said that NO woman can lie about being raped?

Oya na, let him face the music..Next time some people will get sense and learn to listen to BOTH sides of the story..I have no iota of pity for hi,m
wow!!
I haven't seen those tweets before.
Well,it's karma that's catching up with him
He might win the case, but it'll be hard to completely clear his name.


Modified;
I read through that tweet again that you posted.
I don't think he meant that no woman can lie about being raped,he meant the opposite.
That's why he put it in quote.
Cc Thekingishere
Re: Dr. Olufunmilayo Sues Bola Aseyan, Demands £10,000 For Damages by TheKingIsHere: 2:10pm On Jul 03, 2020
Alexaonfleek:
wow!!
I haven't seen those tweets before.
Well,it's karma that's catching up with him
He might win the case, but it'll be hard to completely clear his name.
If the girl gets a good lawyer in the UK, he is finished...

Over there, having sex with a drunk girl is still regarded as rape, and he was f0olish enough to admit on twitter that she was drunk.

We all know that the girl is a big liar and evil, but as it stands now, she has everything to win the case
Re: Dr. Olufunmilayo Sues Bola Aseyan, Demands £10,000 For Damages by frog12: 2:20pm On Jul 03, 2020
this doctor is stupid. he thinks he can pressure the woman. llaughable!

hahahahahhaha
Re: Dr. Olufunmilayo Sues Bola Aseyan, Demands £10,000 For Damages by AfroKnight: 2:22pm On Jul 03, 2020
wisdomiskey:
Lol. Dude has wasted money on these wack lawyers for nothing.

He won't win the lawsuit, mark my words.
E say “mark my words.”

Empty words from a nonentity. cheesy

Re: Dr. Olufunmilayo Sues Bola Aseyan, Demands £10,000 For Damages by davidodiba(m): 2:30pm On Jul 03, 2020
EzzyCarter:
Nice one. We need more of this. These hoes must think twice and know what they're signing up for before falsely accusing a man of rape all in a bid to bring him down.
You ate my food, slept in my house, spent my money and you're gonna repay me by soiling my hard-earned reputation? I'll be damned if the whole world doesn't use you as a case study sad and I won't be filing a $10,000 lawsuit. Expect way more angry
Even wasted his sperm... undecided
Re: Dr. Olufunmilayo Sues Bola Aseyan, Demands £10,000 For Damages by TheKingIsHere: 2:31pm On Jul 03, 2020
Alexaonfleek:
wow!!
I haven't seen those tweets before.
Well,it's karma that's catching up with him
He might win the case, but it'll be hard to completely clear his name.


Modified;
I read through that tweet again that you posted.
I don't think he meant that no woman can lie about being raped,he meant the opposite.
That's why he put it in quote.
Cc Thekingishere
It is not the opposite..

The Dr. is known for supporting women who falsely accuse men without evidence.

In that tweet, they were mocking some women who didnt believe in a false rape allegation

He even admitted that he deserved to be dragged because he had always supported women who falsely accuse men without evidence

Re: Dr. Olufunmilayo Sues Bola Aseyan, Demands £10,000 For Damages by oshaosha2014(m): 2:36pm On Jul 03, 2020
Two drunkards not one.

XXLMANDIGO:
This Doctor lives in the West yet openly admitted that he actually had intercourse with her when she was drunk. That's a bait he should first try to wriggle himself out from. I am not supporting the lady but a drunk person can almost not give true consent in a sexual encounter.
Re: Dr. Olufunmilayo Sues Bola Aseyan, Demands £10,000 For Damages by EzzyCarter: 2:38pm On Jul 03, 2020
davidodiba:
Even wasted his sperm... undecided
grin grin
Re: Dr. Olufunmilayo Sues Bola Aseyan, Demands £10,000 For Damages by Gr8amechi: 2:38pm On Jul 03, 2020
clevybrown:
they were both drunk and hence were unable to reason right. Have u ever stop to think that wat if it was the drunk lady that actually initiated the sex moves on the drunk guy? How will u judge that... Must the ladies always be the victims in situations like this? Do u believe a lady can rape a vulnerable guy? Wat if it was the lady that actually made the sexually moves without the guy's consent where the guy couldn't resist because he wasn't in his right frame of mind owing to the fact that he was drunk.... Wen I hear people trying to shift the drunk sexual act on the guy, it makes me sick in my stomach like they weren't both drunk.... Why should the guy be the one to think right and make the right decisions in a situation were both parties are drunk...
You see all these your emotions doesn't count.
If that girl gets a sound lawyer that guy is gone.

Read what the law said about rape, a woman can't rape a man by the law, she can only sexual abuse you.
The law is written to side with women in terms of rape.

When it comes to being drunk the law sees the man as the culprit because he uses strength to penetrate, if you are actually drunk you be lying down like a dead man not pounding a girl
Re: Dr. Olufunmilayo Sues Bola Aseyan, Demands £10,000 For Damages by monex(m): 2:43pm On Jul 03, 2020
pocohantas:
When you falsely accuse someone of rape, it means you want the person to be treated as a rapist. Jailed, maybe killed. Once it is out there, it can never be taken back in the full sense of it.

There’ll still be “what if he actually did it?”, “maybe he actually did it”, “maybe he is threatening her?”...

If you search his name, the rape allegation would be attached. These things last a lifetime and there isn’t so much you can even do to clear your name in every place it has reached.

Rape is a serious offense and women should do their best not to muddle it with their relationship issues. That way we know how to address genuine victims and not arm rapists and seasoned rape-apologists.

Think twice before accusing someone falsely. Some people do not even live to prove their innocence.
the bolded are very true
Re: Dr. Olufunmilayo Sues Bola Aseyan, Demands £10,000 For Damages by DavidEsq(m): 2:44pm On Jul 03, 2020
OP so a demand letter has now become a lawsuit? Ode goat! Return the school fees ur parents laboriously spendy in a failed attempt to educate u. angry angry angry

Re: Dr. Olufunmilayo Sues Bola Aseyan, Demands £10,000 For Damages by jornwhite: 2:57pm On Jul 03, 2020
Martinez39s:
By all common sense and logic, the guy has nothing to worry about. However, some of laws over there are not based of morality, fairness, and logic.

According to crazy law over there, sleeping with a drunk woman is equivalent to rape even if both of you were drunk. On the flip side, a woman, drunk or not, sleeping with a drunk man isn't rape. For some weird reasons, they believe a drunk man should be held accountable for his actions while a drunk woman shouldn't. They also presume, for females only, that consent cannot be given when drunk.

When the simp Dr. Olufunmilayo released his statement that both were drunk and had sex, I knew that he dug a deep hole for himself. Not only is he a simp, he is utterly fòolish. Charging her for damages with a legal document will likely not do śhit. Ask those who signed prenup.
I am aware of the western women must be favoured system buh regardless .... a case without witnesses or evidence holds no water in any law court ... their is nothing wrong with two adults getting drunk & having sex in view of there law until the woman is able to establish she was forced/manipulated or unconscious while the act was on, considering the time of the event, forensic can't help or save her. evidence & witnesses are sacrosanct to cases.
I am watching a series vis a vis, an inmate curly was raped by a vigilante, buh he kept her in solitary & washed her up thoroughly all print wiped ... guess what she could not report because no prints/evidence or witness. the only reason cosby got sentenced was because of witnesses that came out, if not he would av walk a free man.
Re: Dr. Olufunmilayo Sues Bola Aseyan, Demands £10,000 For Damages by tiredoflife(m): 2:59pm On Jul 03, 2020
Crenzywilliams:
Way too small, but I think he knows how much she can actually cough up.
Nope its £10k in 7 days
She would have to Bleep prince harry to cough that out in such short notice grin grin
Re: Dr. Olufunmilayo Sues Bola Aseyan, Demands £10,000 For Damages by Johnsghana(m): 3:07pm On Jul 03, 2020
pocohantas:
When you falsely accuse someone of rape, it means you want the person to be treated as a rapist. Jailed, maybe killed. Once it is out there, it can never be taken back in the full sense of it.

There’ll still be “what if he actually did it?”, “maybe he actually did it”, “maybe he is threatening her?”...

If you search his name, the rape allegation would be attached. These things last a lifetime and there isn’t so much you can even do to clear your name in every place it has reached.

Rape is a serious offense and women should do their best not to muddle it with their relationship issues. That way we know how to address genuine victims and not arm rapists and seasoned rape-apologists.

Think twice before accusing someone falsely. Some people do not even live to prove their innocence.
You are very wise with your comment.

However, i think society has failed many people as tabloid journalism and social media contributed to the mob mentality of assuming a position without any form of proper evidence.

We need to enforce and imprint in the mind of our children the notion of "innocent until proven guilty" cos even in law it said that "it is better for a thousand criminals to go free than for an innocent man to be jailed".

The mob mentality is fed with things like, what of those that have the money and power to subvert justice, how do you deal with them? or she was to scared or traumatized to saying anything or shout then, etc

My answer is simple, your parents and society failed in raising you well. We need to raise individuals who are not afraid or too emotional to say the truth irrespective of what the situation/outcome or the person is. Even if it means dying, say the truth immediately do not wait till later because even your memory will begin to fail you by not recollecting events properly.

Solution
For me I have a few ideas on how I think we can get out of this false accusation an d mob mentality drama.

Be fearless - Speak up no matter what.
Imagine this, someone is trying to rape you with in a hotel room and you keep screaming till it attracts the attention of others. How will that person be able to argue his way out of that rape case? Do not wait till later, do not be shocked, control your emotions and deal with them later. But, in the heat of any moment, always look to bring as many witnesses as possible.

Do not compromise - Do not lick what you wont eat
Do not go to man's house who has been sexting you, he most likely will try to rape you. There are things you just can avoid by being straightforward honest with yourself and others. I have met a lady who told me to keep my flattery to myself the moment I began to flatter her. Even though she across as rude, the message was clear and knew not to even try to mess with her.

Get evidence - The courts will need more than your word
Never leave a scene without evidence, things that will make it impossible for the accused to wiggle their way out of the situation. Take screenshots, grab their underwear, record calls or conversations, etc. This makes your case airtight and more believable.




NB: For people who drug or kidnap other people, these are obviously unavoidable situations. Always report to the police immediately, get a lawyer to document it. Do not be too shocked to get he right thing done... The longer it gets the weaker the evidence gets.
Re: Dr. Olufunmilayo Sues Bola Aseyan, Demands £10,000 For Damages by Nobody: 3:08pm On Jul 03, 2020
MrNipplesLover:
My own problem is how I go take dey post comment in the "Islam Religion Section" on nairaland without the condition of having to accept that shiit that'll be attached to my signature.

this is 2020, seun, we need to be reasonable. we are no more in the era of religious slavery.

putting caliphate on a public forum like this is unwise, I don't know how you see am, cos I can post in the "Christian Religion Section" freely without accepting that "Jesus is the only way to God and without him, I can't make heaven", there's nothing like this.


I want to dey contribute to the Muslims thread every Friday, seun. angry

imagine seeing interesting topics concerning your religion and you can't post comment and contribute.

WTF, niggah!
You can post. That tag on your signature means nothing.nada!
Re: Dr. Olufunmilayo Sues Bola Aseyan, Demands £10,000 For Damages by Nobody: 3:09pm On Jul 03, 2020
DavidEsq:
OP so a demand letter has now become a lawsuit? Ode goat! Return the school fees ur parents laboriously spendy grin in a failed attempt to educate u. angry angry angry
Re: Dr. Olufunmilayo Sues Bola Aseyan, Demands £10,000 For Damages by PaulH07: 3:11pm On Jul 03, 2020
ednut1:
Lol. Fear women o. Hanty came all the way to uk to try get belle and trap him with marriage lol. When she could have processed plab her self. Why do some women always like to take the easy way out ehn
Was she also a doctor?
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