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Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by GIdiata(m): 4:27pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
JONNYSPUTE: on point boss. 1 Like |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by kingemek(m): 4:41pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
SSpeter:He should forgive her and pray about it. |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by Wetlink: 4:44pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
If I am that your friend ehh, i'll take this as a sign. it's a huge red flag for me. Maybe she's been hiding this part of her... but you serve a living Jehovah! He has exposed her and you are still there asking questions |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by Nobody: 4:46pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
JONNYSPUTE:Like I said, most of you have done worst. Think of it this way; how many women will call-off a wedding when the guy gets himself into such mess? |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by JONNYSPUTE(m): 4:49pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
ClixMaster:....Will you allow your sister to marry a a guy whose criminal tendency was exposed few days to her wedding? |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by Nwaonyishi69: 4:57pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
God saved this man from a confirmed future life of misery. |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by mandate12: 5:07pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
ednut1: Try not to say what u r not sure of. Thank you. |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by Cappoditutti: 5:11pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
I quite agree with you that there's always a warning signs. However, I disagree with you that love is blind, it's actually the people in love that are blind, reason why it's people outside who are not blind that can see through and guide them where necessary. chii8: |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by Saintinoo(m): 5:18pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
Elvis778:What i meant was that you have been with her for 3 good years, come on! You are suppose to know her in and out by now. |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by petitejolie(f): 5:19pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
This is not much of a reason o if he doesn’t have any other problem with her. Threatening to pause d wedding plan is okay Atleast for her to learn a lesson. She won’t try dat next time knowing it almost cost her a wedding. I mean it’s not easy to marry o. The lady sef is not smart enough for a thief. So one thing i know for sure is that your friend will have a lot of work to do on her cause she seems kinda unintelligent. So except there has been red flags before this one, it’s not much of a problem. He just needs to talk sense into her head. |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by Saintinoo(m): 5:21pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
Nuel4:I see a good girl in her, one that truely loves him, for her to make him next of kin. Most women do not make their husband next of kin talk more of a mere boyfriend. |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by Saintinoo(m): 5:26pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
alllivesmatter:I am not saying that what she did was right, but it is not enough reason to call of their marriage. The OP and his friend must have one time or the other done thesame, we all have done something that is not right. Did you see the part where he said she made him her next of kin? How many wives can o that, we are talkng about his fiance here. |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by Saintinoo(m): 5:29pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
DarkJeddi:I hope you are 100% pure also. Just advice the OP not to think of getting married if you call of a marriage plan because of that. We shouldn't always concentrate on wrong doing, check what that person have been doing good too. |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by Saintinoo(m): 5:32pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
DominusPrime:And you think there are demons without flaut? The way you people look at some issues, ask the OP why he stayed with a thief for 3years, something kept him there, i bet you he might end up marrying a lady worst than her if he ends the marruage plan. |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by intruder15(m): 5:33pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
Saintinoo: Can u give an example of illegal charge? I don't think bank deducts one's funds illegally. The only issue is that they don't tell one the whole truth. The whole package. |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by babalonimi: 5:43pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
Extradite that babe to US asap. Bros run fr yr life!!! |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by Missyajoke(f): 5:50pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
Righteousness89: 100% accurate It's her type that will sell the husbands property when they're fighting. She's no trustworthy at all. Her type can do and undo. 2 Likes |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by AristocraticMe: 5:52pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
SSpeter:he has been looking for a way to end the relationship before now, he is just an opportunity to do it........ that's too flimsy to call of your wedding. Finding a good girl is hard.... so if he is calling off the wedding because of this then it shows he already had it in mind before now. Secondly has he ever lied before ? If his answer is YES then why judge her so much and punish for committing her sin he also commits .... guess what he might actually be worse than that... |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by AristocraticMe: 5:54pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
kalufelix:exactly hypocrites everywhere..... He that is without sin should cast the first stone... yeye people.. |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by AristocraticMe: 5:56pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
CsRockefeller:calling off your wedding for that is stupid... if the man has never lied before then he should go on... but if not, I think he has it in mind to call off the wedding he was just looking for the opportunity |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by kalufelix(m): 6:04pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
brightalo1010:Sorry i missed your mention fool.. I had loads of it to attend to ..can you quietly tell me what Mr integrity would do in that scenario you quoted.. |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by naturefellow(m): 6:08pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
God loves this guy by giving him this sign! |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by BlackFlamefromP: 6:08pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
If I were the guy what would I do? If she is somebody who has many lovable qualities, and I am sure she loves and respect me a lot I would prefer to give her a second chance based on some conditions: 1) I would give her 2 days to refund the money and strictly warn her that failure to refund the money would lead to the cancellation of the marriage. 2) I would make her understand that whatever she planned to do with that money would not prosper since it's a cursed money because her unwillingness to refund it meant an innocent teller who made the mistake had to pay for it either with his/her own money or with his/her job. 3) if she return the money within the 2 days I gave her I would go ahead with the marriage but warn her that such must never repeat itself again. 4) if she fail to return the money after the 2 days for any reason I would then be left with no option than to permanently cancel the wedding and stop having any form of relationship with her! |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by jaymichael(m): 6:09pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
kalufelix:Sharp guy, I admire your sharpness. You should be very proud of being a smart guy until it is your money that was paid or transferred in excess into another persons account. |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by Nobody: 6:12pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
Saintinoo:You obviously don't understand what I mean by demons if not you won't be saying what is obvious to everybody already. Read what I said again. |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by kalufelix(m): 6:18pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
brightalo1010:Do you know the amount of lies your wife or girl friend has been choking you with...sometimes you keep somebody in the dark for their own good...she might be waiting for the right time before letting him know... He only knew cos he is the NoK...and Nok could have been anybody |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by MrBrownJay1(m): 6:20pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
ednut1: thieving/dishonest women who know well in advance to clean their tracks... she probably used that man as NOK because she knew she was about to pull some crazy stunt as the above |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by MrBrownJay1(m): 6:21pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
Rexmy: - lack of trust - dishonesty - lies/deceit - theft these are foundation that someone MUST possess... you cant teach people to be that way. whatever make them come together shouldnt be a reason to dismiss something more important than the above point. you cant force a dishonest person to be honest, no cant do! jolarify4: she will gain something...aka SENSE!!!! izibili44: but your money was returned at the end, right?! i understand that you've had a bad experience with the banking system, thus you may be against banks... but guess what? somebody will have to pay for the lost money, and it sure wont be the BANK. so it will either be the cashier who made the mistake or better yet, next year the bank will raise their fees so ALL their customers will have to chip in to repay. |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by DarkJeddi(m): 6:29pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
Saintinoo:You are free to set your own standards for what you require in a partner in a marriage.. There's a limit to what you can tolerate from a partner.. The fact that no one is perfect does not mean you have to accept anything that comes your way in terms of character.. Or do I have to tolerate a cheat,a Liar,a thief,a gossip,a quarrelsome and nagging woman because am not perfect? If am married and my partner exhibits a certain trait then I may have to live with it,as it is for better and for worse.. Said trait may lead to termination of a Courtship as am under no compulsion to proceed to marriage. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by Hideki(m): 6:32pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
gloryon:how do you reverse what has already left? the best you can do is to lien the account for the excess or entire sum. Now this is the case, what if the customer now claims the cash she gave was what the teller credited and she wrongly filled the deposit slip? teller word vs customer's word..who will win? truth is either way the teller loses. If you want to fight it you need to escalate then you will sanctioned if not dismissed cos most tellers are on contract. now customer can sue you for debiting her account without any instrument. Those days in banking we just call and beg...if the sum is huge we go through details and tty to contact anyone close to the customer. We try to kill the matter in the branch and we try not to inform the operations manager sef..las las you go use your money pay. |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by Lifepodcastng: 6:37pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
Righteousness89 |
Re: A Friend Is Cancelling His Wedding... by kalufelix(m): 6:43pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
jaymichael:It was a cash deposit that she made...Shiit happens.. sometimes you win sometimes you lose... Sometimes you are in joy at other times you are in pain just like day and night... Its been thousands of years since manner last fell from heaven...when i meet my fortune or when my fortune meets me i welcome it and celebrate with no apologies...also when my misfortune meets me i endure with a strong heart... In all you do never neglect the power of giving and sacrifice... God works in mysterious ways 1 Like |
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