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Re: What I Found In My Daughter's Room When I Visited Her At School. by TheSourcerer: 4:18pm On Jul 05, 2020
HenryDion:
Serial killers HARM people. They inflict pain and sadness. How can a supposedly smart individual make this lame comparison? angry
what? Dude don't be butthurt , it's my preference



Oh yeah you're right I did say that .



And yeah like serial killers and homos , they have no choice than to comform to their biological makeup
Re: What I Found In My Daughter's Room When I Visited Her At School. by Nobody: 4:21pm On Jul 05, 2020
TheSourcerer:
what? Dude don't be butthurt , it's my preference
You mean your preference is stupidity? It's quite obvious! I'm not hurt, comparing lesbians to serial killers is just dumb dumb.. The highest of it all cheesy
Re: What I Found In My Daughter's Room When I Visited Her At School. by TheSourcerer: 4:22pm On Jul 05, 2020
HenryDion:
You mean your preference is stupidity? It's quite obvious! I'm not hurt, comparing lesbians to serial killers is just dumb dumb.. The highest of it all cheesy
Come on dude , it's just the way it is tbh , you not butthurt lol
Re: What I Found In My Daughter's Room When I Visited Her At School. by TheSourcerer: 4:24pm On Jul 05, 2020
HenryDion:
You mean your preference is stupidity? It's quite obvious! I'm not hurt, comparing lesbians to serial killers is just dumb dumb.. The highest of it all cheesy
nope
Bis
Homos
Psychopaths
Sczhophenics
Empaths
Sociopaths
Phrodites



Are all their biological make up ,
Nothing you do will change em
Re: What I Found In My Daughter's Room When I Visited Her At School. by Nobody: 4:24pm On Jul 05, 2020
TheSourcerer:
Come on dude , it's just the way it is tbh , you not butthurt lol
Tell me more.. How do gays or lesbians harm you? What reason made you rank them in the same class with killers?
Re: What I Found In My Daughter's Room When I Visited Her At School. by TheSourcerer: 4:25pm On Jul 05, 2020
HenryDion:
Tell me more.. How do gays or lesbians harm you? What reason made you rank them in the same class with killers?
seriously!!
Look up a bit
Re: What I Found In My Daughter's Room When I Visited Her At School. by TheSourcerer: 4:26pm On Jul 05, 2020
HenryDion:
Tell me more.. How do gays or lesbians harm you? What reason made you rank them in the same class with killers?
I never said gays harm or whatever
Infact I support whatever an Adult does that does not harming another is really his business
Re: What I Found In My Daughter's Room When I Visited Her At School. by Nobody: 4:30pm On Jul 05, 2020
TheSourcerer:
nope
Bis
Homos
Psychopaths
Sczhophenics
Empaths
Sociopaths



Are all their biological make up ,
Nothing you do will change em
For the first time, I agree. These are individuals who have no control over their biological makeup.

The comparison with serial killers is the focal point here.

How can you rate the two the same?

Serial killers are merely angels of death, while gays and lesbians are individuals fighting for their right to love.

How can you compare them with serial killers?
Re: What I Found In My Daughter's Room When I Visited Her At School. by TheSourcerer: 4:32pm On Jul 05, 2020
HenryDion:
For the first time, I agree. These are individuals who have no control over their biological makeup.

The comparison with serial killers is the focal point here.

How can you rate the two the same?

Serial killers are merely angels of death, while gays and lesbians are individuals fighting for their right to love.

How can you compare them with serial killers?
what do you want me to say dude !
Re: What I Found In My Daughter's Room When I Visited Her At School. by Aimerosa25(f): 4:34pm On Jul 05, 2020
Sit her down and discuss with her ,she has gone far,try to bring her back,and quickly too, because she's almost 18 ,a soon to be adult who can make her own decisions.
Re: What I Found In My Daughter's Room When I Visited Her At School. by Nobody: 4:36pm On Jul 05, 2020
TheSourcerer:
what do you want me to say dude !
It is one thing to be dumb, but it's unforgivable when you come to a public forum to spew horseshit on sensitive issues.

Why don't you focus on copy and paste and leave delicate issues like this to the elders? It will really help you in life!

Have a great Sunday dude!
Re: What I Found In My Daughter's Room When I Visited Her At School. by TheSourcerer: 4:37pm On Jul 05, 2020
HenryDion:
It is one thing to be dumb, but it's unforgivable when you come to a public forum to spew horseshit on sensitive issues.

Why don't you focus on copy and paste and leave delicate issues like this to the elders? It will really help you in life!

Have a great Sunday dude!
now I see , made your point
Re: What I Found In My Daughter's Room When I Visited Her At School. by Nobody: 4:39pm On Jul 05, 2020
TheSourcerer:
now I see , made your point
I'm glad. Have fun nigga!
Re: What I Found In My Daughter's Room When I Visited Her At School. by TheSourcerer: 4:40pm On Jul 05, 2020
HenryDion:
I'm glad. Have fun nigga!
How can ? You just ruined my day
Re: What I Found In My Daughter's Room When I Visited Her At School. by kalufelix(m): 4:41pm On Jul 05, 2020
Story story ...from PH to lagos.. One rotten city to another.. Made in PH.. Majestic in lagos.. Typical of Nigerian parents with their over bearing and over protection attitude.. Maybe you sent her to an all girls school so she doesnt get corrupt... Que sera sera.. Pikin wey go die go die... You don born am finish leave him or her to their destiny.. Mrs surprise visit...
Re: What I Found In My Daughter's Room When I Visited Her At School. by Nobody: 4:43pm On Jul 05, 2020
TheSourcerer:
How can ? You just ruined my day
cheesy cheesy cheesy

I'm sorry.. I didn't mean to be hard on you though. But this is a sensitive issue. Many are getting killed, bullied and disowned for being gay, lesbian or bisexual.

We should be emphatic and understand that they are humans like us, and they deserve love too.

You don't need to be gay to know that gays or lesbians deserve the right to live and love.

Please, do have a great day!
Re: What I Found In My Daughter's Room When I Visited Her At School. by TheSourcerer: 4:44pm On Jul 05, 2020
HenryDion:
cheesy cheesy cheesy

I'm sorry.. I didn't mean to be hard on you though. But this is a sensitive issue. Many are getting killed, bullied and disowned for being gay, lesbian or bisexual.

We should be emphatic and understand that they are humans like us, and they deserve love too.

You don't need to be gay to know that gays or lesbians deserve the right to live and love.
but you know I said nothing about hating gay people right ?
But it's all good buddy!
Re: What I Found In My Daughter's Room When I Visited Her At School. by Nobody: 4:47pm On Jul 05, 2020
TheSourcerer:
but you know I said nothing about hating gay people right ?
But it's all good buddy!
The comparison with serial killers nah. Bros reason am.. If you be gay, you go like make someone compare you to a serial killer? grin
Re: What I Found In My Daughter's Room When I Visited Her At School. by KingTom(m): 4:47pm On Jul 05, 2020
Iamsane:
You don't need an answer. What you need is a thunderous slap.
I swear grin
Re: What I Found In My Daughter's Room When I Visited Her At School. by TheSourcerer: 4:55pm On Jul 05, 2020
HenryDion:
The comparison with serial killers nah. Bros reason am.. If you be gay, you go like make someone compare you to a serial killer? grin
if am gay I won't mind because I'm not a serial killer .
But if I'm gay and been called gay , then yes this is when shits starts up


But in this case ... .Fvck it I'm tired of explaining mate , not my thing , and the whole empathetic thing too not my thing , a lot of things you think is normal are not for some. So nothing like normal definitely right?

Wrong ,my normal preference definitely is
Not yours I prefer dead things , movies about the dead, Rot, Snuffing, black , Retards , serial killers and yes whatever the Bleep you think ain't normal



Nothing is normal man , and so fucking what I compared bis and a serial killers in the context they biologically cannot fathom change so wtf man!
Re: What I Found In My Daughter's Room When I Visited Her At School. by Makavelli25: 4:57pm On Jul 05, 2020
Iamsane:
You don't need an answer. What you need is a thunderous slap.
Ok
Re: What I Found In My Daughter's Room When I Visited Her At School. by chii8(f): 5:01pm On Jul 05, 2020
Ajibade123:
how is this particular child a disgrace to labour??
My dear,if you can not relate, forget it jare.
Re: What I Found In My Daughter's Room When I Visited Her At School. by Nobody: 5:04pm On Jul 05, 2020
TheSourcerer:
if am gay I won't mind because I'm not a serial killer .
But if I'm gay and been called gay , then yes this is when shits starts up


But in this case ... .Fvck it I'm tired of explaining mate , not my thing , and the whole empathetic thing too not my thing , a lot of things you think is normal are not for some. So nothing like normal definitely right?

Wrong ,my normal preference definitely is
Not yours I prefer dead things , movies about the dead, Rot, Snuffing, black , Retards , serial killers and yes whatever the Bleep you think ain't normal



Nothing is normal man , and so fucking what I compared bis and a serial killers in the context they biologically cannot fathom change so wtf man!
Once again, I somewhat agree with you. You have the freedom to do whatever you want, without feeling judged or targeted.

You are FREE! A privilege not many has.

Gays are not your thing, understood!

But don't make statements that goes against their fight for freedom, like comparing them with serial killers.

Fu*k man.. Who does that?

Abeg, don't mention me again.
You no get cordination.
Re: What I Found In My Daughter's Room When I Visited Her At School. by TheSourcerer: 5:20pm On Jul 05, 2020
HenryDion:
Once again, I somewhat agree with you. You have the freedom to do whatever you want, without feeling judged or targeted.

You are FREE! A privilege not many has.

Gays are not your thing, understood!

But don't make statements that goes against their fight for freedom, like comparing them with serial killers.

Fu*k man.. Who does that?

Abeg, don't mention me again.
You no get cordination.
kiss


For your butt hole
Re: What I Found In My Daughter's Room When I Visited Her At School. by Nobody: 5:31pm On Jul 05, 2020
TheSourcerer:
kiss


For your butt hole
cheesy cheesy cheesy

Sorry man, I can't allow you do that to my butthole.

I support gays doesn't mean you should pass boundary grin

Say no to rape
Re: What I Found In My Daughter's Room When I Visited Her At School. by Chris525: 5:34pm On Jul 05, 2020
How dare you? Why does it matter to you if she'll feel any more or less?

Its within her rights to feel however she felt, its her daughter here. Her disappointment is based off her moral/religious inclination & experience coupled with her expectations/dreams for her daughter. You dont have to accept it as a matter of opinion but dont you EVER question it.

Boy dont be hanging on the web asking dumb & provocative questions. This world is small.



Makavelli25:
If it was a guy you met on the bed with her. Would there be any difference in how you feel now?

I need an honest answer please
Re: What I Found In My Daughter's Room When I Visited Her At School. by Chris525: 5:42pm On Jul 05, 2020
I cant but imagine the many times your parents have expressed to others their disappointment at having a child like you.

*spits




kalufelix:
Story story ...from PH to lagos.. One rotten city to another.. Made in PH.. Majestic in lagos.. Typical of Nigerian parents with their over bearing and over protection attitude.. Maybe you sent her to an all girls school so she doesnt get corrupt... Que sera sera.. Pikin wey go die go die... You don born am finish leave him or her to their destiny.. Mrs surprise visit...
Re: What I Found In My Daughter's Room When I Visited Her At School. by Ablemax(m): 5:45pm On Jul 05, 2020
Why enroll her in all girls boarding school?? When instead you should have put her at a nearby mixed day school......



And secondly you and your hubby fvucked up, when you should have given them the beating of their life rather you both stood surprised...



Can just imagine lesbians that thing is demonic and irritating......


You guys should have beat both the demon and the lesbian out of her
Re: What I Found In My Daughter's Room When I Visited Her At School. by Makavelli25: 5:56pm On Jul 05, 2020
Chris525:
How dare you? Why does it matter to you if she'll feel any more or less?

Its within her rights to feel however she felt, its her daughter here. Her disappointment is based off her moral/religious inclination & experience coupled with her expectations/dreams for her daughter. You dont have to accept it as a matter of opinion but dont you EVER question it.

Boy dont be hanging on the web asking dumb & provocative questions. This world is small.
Okay sir
Re: What I Found In My Daughter's Room When I Visited Her At School. by kalufelix(m): 6:59pm On Jul 05, 2020
Chris525:
I cant but imagine the many times your parents have expressed to others their disappointment at having a child like you.

*spits
You really tried but you failed woefully... If you live with me for 10 odd years you may never second-guess me let alone on a cyber space... You my friend are very ignorant and inconsequential... To the topic.. You can't mould a child because you aren't the one that gave it a purpose.. You are just a caretaker... Lastly, now is not a good time to spit recklessly.
Re: What I Found In My Daughter's Room When I Visited Her At School. by Beatswim: 7:01pm On Jul 05, 2020
kingeze88:
I Paid a Surprise Visit to My Daughter in School, But What I saw In Her Room Broke Me


We just moved down from River State to Lagos because my husband was transferred over to Lagos by his Boss to handle the branch in Lagos State. My husband said he would love to go with us because we were living in a rented apartment in River state, and he also wanted us to have a taste of the life in Lagos. However, I also wanted to protect my children from other children that could corrupt them in Lagos.



We sent them to a private school in Lagos and also ensured that we kept watch of the type of friends they kept. I had two children, a boy and a girl. The girl was the oldest, and she was just 14 when we moved to Lagos. She was one of the most intelligent students in her class, and she always won a lot of prices in school, I was so proud of her. My son on the other hand was struggling to have good grades, but I believed he was going to get better with his books because he was still very young.

3 years later my family had already acclimatized to the life in Lagos, and my daughter just gained admission to one of the most prestigious institutions in Lagos. I trusted her so much and was so sure that she was going to come out with distinctions from the University. Coupled with the fact that she was cool headed and religious, I believed I had nothing to fear.

She left for school and we kept in touch through calls and messages. We also chatted online from time to time, and I was aware about everything that was happening there in her school because I was her mother. Then she stopped replying my messages early, and always said she would call me back anytime I called. The only time she calls is when she needed money to buy some things in school. I talked to her about it and she said it was because she was so occupied with school activities.

This went on for some months and I knew she was stressing herself out. So, I and my husband bought a lot of food stuffs and beverages for her. I wanted to inform her about our impending visit, but my husband told me to make our visit a surprise, so I agreed. We left on Sunday after church by 3pm because the journey to her school wasn’t up to 2 hours and that is if there would be hold up. We got there late because of the hold up. We moved straight to the hostel where she stayed and walked down to her room.

When we got to the front of her door, we saw lots of girls’ slippers at the front of the room, but we didn’t think much of it because she had roommates. We pushed the door and what we saw shocked us. Our 17-year-old daughter was in bed with another girl both unclad, I was dumbfounded, I couldn’t believe my eyes.

I fell down and started crying uncontrollably and my husband just stood there in shock, I thought to myself “How did this happen, what got into our daughter, she was very calm and religious, why then did she do this”.

My daughter just looked at me and said she loved her girlfriend so much and didn’t care about what anyone thinks. My husband asked about the other girls in the room and she said they left so that she could have an alone time with her girlfriend, I was broken.

How did something like this happen in a school’s hostel with the knowledge of the other girls in the room, I was so confused.
am sorry about this development.. This is rather worrisome and disheartening.. no one has the right to judge or advise you except the person has a teenager..u have really tried as a mother and a good parent that u are.. This is phase your child is right now, is a very sensitive phase where teenager chose habits from peer influence, and only God i repeat only God can redirect her path but may I advise u madam... Pls kindly remove her from that school to another school where she can go from your house, your husband might be busy but you as the mother have to cut down on your daily works schedule to focus on her.. She need basic sex education and reorientation now.. If i tell u somethings people here might come for my head but its th truth.. I did not give my eldest daughter a smartphone till she was 18..she used a Nokia torchlight phone all thru her sec school... To tell u how hard I was.. she uses my laptop whenever she needs Internet to monitor her browsing history and other sites she visits..lastly show a child a way she should thread, when she grow old.. She will never depart from it.. My prayers are with u.. The lord will give u the right wisdom to train them through this hardest phase in jesus name.. Amen
Re: What I Found In My Daughter's Room When I Visited Her At School. by Elimon(m): 7:01pm On Jul 05, 2020
I don't think there is a true lesbian in Nigeria..all of them are bisexual and still collect dicks..but its unfortunate u had to find out..
Try to talk to her...wen she is old enough to get married..shed realise she need a dick to have babies..that's what ill also advice all parents sending their kids to female boarding houses
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