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This life no balance at all...i wish I can say this without sounding boastful and people will understand me.
I am an introverted person that don't like to show myself. I hate been noticed but somehow I get noticed. No matter how hard I try to hide, it doesn't work out. I just want to be among people and not have any special status attached to me. It got to the extent that even a situation as minute as our football team, I was made the captain. I was like, there are many people here that can play better than me, why not make them. Now, I tend to shy away from organisations because I MUST be singled out. In class, even if I don't know it, they just believe I do. When I try to explain that I don't, it looks like I am lying. If I enter an environment people just tend to give me this upgraded status like they know me before. I just want a free life without the unnecessary favours. I want to do things my way and not because I was helped. People so trust me like I can't fail, like I am not a human being. They just place everything in my hands so comfortably. Please does anyone experience stuffs like this.

SamJed:
This life no balance at all...i wish I can say this without sounding boastful and people will understand me.
I am an introverted person that don't like to show myself. I hate been noticed but somehow I get noticed. No matter how hard I try to hide, it doesn't work out. I just want to be among people and not have any special status attached to me. It got to the extent that even a situation as minute as our football team, I was made the captain. I was like, there are many people here that can play better than me, why not make them. Now, I tend to shy away from organisations because I MUST be singled out. In class, even if I don't know it, they just believe I do. When I try to explain that I don't, it looks like I am lying. If I enter an environment people just tend to give me this upgraded status like they know me before. I just want a free life without the unnecessary favours. I want to do things my way and not because I was helped. People so trust me like I can't fail, like I am not a human being. They just place everything in my hands so comfortably. Please does anyone experience stuffs like this.

You are charismatic.

I feel the same way bro