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Unnerve:
Well I think I can, I once did something of that sort before. The price however is that just like back then, I'll probably hold it over her head subtly / covertly for a very long time after that, if not even for the rest of our union.

Broken trust for me is only rebuilt when I can totally forget, not just from my forgiveness. And I never quite forget important things whether positive or negative.

truth is NOBODY forgets cheating . You may choose to overlook but that is entirely up to the other party.

chlowi:
As in way off. i couldnt see it to the end ...

Such a shame.

chlowi:
truth is NOBODY forgets cheating. You may choose to overlook but that is entirely up to the other party.

Lol, well obviously.
I didn't want to be an authority on it, which is why I made it about myself and previously asked that very angry girl those questions.

I don't expect a marriage or relationship to remain the exact same way after a cheat is forgiven, there's always gonna be something that will change if we are being honest.

postmann:
The simple answer is no. Because men are not wired to accept that. Once there is coital violation on the part of the woman, then the mariage is mentally, psychologically and romantically over. I deliberately left out the spiritual part in order to stay aligned within the scope of this section.

The woman's sexual organ is sacred and should never be violated by another man in marriage. It is taboo.

So a man's dick ain't sacred huh? Make una dey keep on with narratives to suit ur male egos o.

SweetCunt97:
So a man's dick ain't sacred huh? Make una dey keep on with narratives to suit ur male egos o.

my dear you won't understand.

mysticwarrior:
my dear you won't understand.

ok

SweetCunt97:
ok

a married woman's body is not meant to be defiled, it is the pride of her husband and the gate to life for her children, a woman who is caught in the act of adultery looses all respect before her children, I have seen where female child arrange babes for their father while still married to their mother, but will never arrange men for their mother because a married woman's body is supposed to be holy.

mysticwarrior:
a married woman's body is not meant to be defiled, it is the pride of her husband and the gate to life for her children, a woman who is caught in the act of adultery looses all respect before her children, I have seen where female child arrange babes for their father while still married to their mother, but will never arrange men for their mother because a married woman's body is supposed to be holy.

Whatever. Anything to make the man superior to the woman.

Johntemmy:
On top the matter..can you take your wife back after you caught her cheating on you please I need advice and sincere reply thanks everyone.

Have you ever cheated on her? Did she take you back?

[quote author=Unnerve post=91639168]Lol, well obviously.
I didn't want to be an authority on it, which is why I made it about myself and previously asked that very angry girl those questions.

I don't expect a marriage or relationship to remain the exact same way after a cheat is forgiven, there's always gonna be something that will change if we are being honest.



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Well said

postmann:
The simple answer is no. Because men are not wired to accept that. Once there is coital violation on the part of the woman, then the mariage is mentally, psychologically and romantically over. I deliberately left out the spiritual part in order to stay aligned within the scope of this section.

The woman's sexual organ is sacred and should never be violated by another man in marriage. It is taboo.

Johntemmy:
On top the matter..can you take your wife back after you caught her cheating on you please I need advice and sincere reply thanks everyone.

Bozz she u com latter find it say Ur wife the straff Ur brother tru tru ni?

OlawaleBammie:
Bozz she u com latter find it say Ur wife the straff Ur brother tru tru ni?

You can simply read the bottom line bro from the main source...not my story now and besides I never get married if i am ready to tie the knot e go hit front page for sure but now am single and searching lols...abi you fit arrange me one fine babe for your side make I sharperly wiffy her for my dommort @ OlawaleBammie

Johntemmy:
You can simply read the bottom line bro from the main source...not my story now and besides I never get married if i am ready to tie the knot e go hit front page for sure but now am single and searching lols...abi you fit arrange me one fine babe for your side make I sharperly wiffy her for my dommort @ OlawaleBammie

We are in same boat bro I don't even have a gf sef but me am not searching oo,
I want to stand upright first before any entanglement.

OlawaleBammie:
We are in same boat bro I don't even have a gf sef but me am not searching oo,
I want to stand upright first before any entanglement.

All is well bro.

SweetCunt97:
So a man's dick ain't sacred huh? Make una dey keep on with narratives to suit ur male egos o.

lols

Wao..... It seems Men on this section are different from the ones on Romance section. Those ones will just send the Wife packing..


But Op this a tough question oooo, Will such man ever trust his wife again?

Really

mysticwarrior:
a married woman's body is not meant to be defiled, it is the pride of her husband and the gate to life for her children, a woman who is caught in the act of adultery looses all respect before her children, I have seen where female child arrange babes for their father while still married to their mother, but will never arrange men for their mother because a married woman's body is supposed to be holy.

Stop saying all these please, adultery and fornication is wrong for both parties. Dont take this your mentality to marriage pls, except you are so lucky to have a woman that can take those shit from you.

Oladayo12:
Stop saying all these please, adultery and fornication is wrong for both parties. Dont take this your mentality to marriage pls, except you are so lucky to have a woman that can take those shit from you.

hummmmm
can any woman ever take that..
except she's pretending

Oladayo12:
Stop saying all these please, adultery and fornication is wrong for both parties. Dont take this your mentality to marriage pls, except you are so lucky to have a woman that can take those shit from you.

from your comment evidence suggests you are talking from bitter experience, pls kindly share your experience with us.

mysticwarrior:
from your comment evidence suggests you are talking from bitter experience, pls kindly share your experience with us.

Kiss the truth and respect every woman, shikena!

Johntemmy:
On top the matter..can you take your wife back after you caught her cheating on you please I need advice and sincere reply thanks everyone.

Trust can't be repaired once broken. She is a goner already

Before marriage, a man or woman should ensure be filled and enveloped with the spirit of forgiveness..

To answer your question, do you possess this spirit before marrying her? It starts from you, not her.

Okafors law says.....

NEVER

Hell no... I don't expect her to forgive me too when I cheat on her

Never

Righteousness89:
Personally, it may be Difficult but if she Genuinely repents, I have no Choice than to take Here back!

I don't see myself having that anyway! I have got a Heavenly Virtuous Wife...

I am so Privileged to have such a woman..

Bros, you've been corrected on this site several times. Is this how you capitalise words offline?

No

Hmmm, e hard ...

I'm very unsure about that. Chai..Make God no let person see bad thing.