Currently talking on and off to three Nigerian girls all less than 30.

First one:
Tax lawyer in a foreign country. Quite accomplished. Doesn't want children. Open to cohabitation.
Loves me. The oldest of the three

Second one.
Engineer with top 3 oil multinational. Wants children. Loves me. Wants to get married asap.
Highly driven and ambitious. Religious. Not open to cohabitation. Least attractive

Third one.
Secretary at no-name company in Lagos. Wants children. Loves me. Still quite young. The youngest actually.
Not so driven. Seems satisfied with job role and not seeking further prospects.
Religious. Not open to cohabitation. Most attractive.

Me.
Don't care for children. May or may not want. Very late 20's. Open to cohabitation. A little religious.
Open to both cohabitation and marriage.

Who would you choose?

Are you we? are we you?

Las las, you will choose the one with the biggest booty.

You alone can make that decision lest you come to nairaland when your marriage crashes and create threads like 'nairaland destroyed my life' or 'nairaland made me choose wrongly'.

On another note, I'd advice to go for the first one.You both seem to have more in common.

The second.

Disclaimer: I won't in any way be held responsible or accountable in case of any eventualities unpalatable to the op, be it events inconsistent with op's expectation that may ensue afterwards.

That was on a lighter note. But I feel you go with the second, she will help draw you closer to God and push you towards actualizing your goals.

What would I do? I will pinch myself to wake up from my fantasy.

Only you three nice girls where some people are still looking for one.

I wonder your confusion except you are not true to yourself.

Number one ticks all the boxes so I expected you to jump at her and end with the rest.

Or......

At the back your mind, have you realized that your lack of commitment (no marriage nor kids) is a poor quality you don't someone exhibiting towards you?

You want to hold the aces alone abi?

MhisTahrah:
You alone can make that decision lest you come to nairaland when your marriage crashes and create threads like 'nairaland destroyed my life' or 'nairaland made me choose wrongly'.

On another note, I'd advice to go for the first one.You both seem to have more in common.

You are right. But she can be crazy at times. She is fiercely independent. I don't mind actually, but some part of me feels this can cause a problem down the line.

VLTA:
The second.

Disclaimer: I won't in any way be held responsible or accountable in case of any eventualities unpalatable to the op, be it events inconsistent with op's expectation that may ensue afterwards.

That was on a lighter note. But I feel you go with the second, she will help draw you closer to God and push you towards actualizing your goals.

The second is the least attractive. The third is the most attractive.
I believe in God already, A don't see that as a problem.

Choose the 3 of them bro but the first girl credential is o.k...the lawyer should be fine

My own principles is...Be friend to everybody but be selective about who you bring into your inner circle. Let people qualify for the investment of your time and energy.. Do it deliberate. Have a protocol of accepting access into your life cuz if the devil wants to destroy, he send someone and when God wants to lift you, he send people. The difference in people is the different in your life... Get stronger and be more selective.... Choose base on their character not their job qualification, you know them better.

2special:
My own principles is...Be friend to everybody but be selective about who you bring into your inner circle. Let people qualify for the investment of your time and energy.. Do it deliberate. Have a protocol of accepting accessing into your life cuz if the devil wants to destroy, he send someone and when God wants to lift you, he send people. The difference in people is the different in your life... Get stronger and be more selective.... Choose base on their character not their job qualification, you know them better.

Frankly, it's hard choosing. And talking to the three of them daily is starting to take too much of my time. This is why I want to settle on one for the future and forget the rest.

binghamm:

The second is the least attractive. The third is the most attractive.
I believe in God already, A don't see that as a problem.

Well, going by a physical yardstick, She's got other enviable characteristics I guees.
And I believe she's intelligent also.

Physical attractiveness shouldn't be much of an issue. Beside appearance, there are a lot of things that can be attractive in a lady. Her character, dispositions proclivities and tendencies, her inner being and manner of approach, gestures , gentleness of spirit and teachability - submissiveness all has a role to play in "attractiveness"

VLTA:


Well, going by a physical yardstick, she's got the money.
And I believe she's intelligent also.

Physical attractiveness shouldn't be much of an issue. Beside appearance, they are lots of things that can be attractive in a lady. Her character, dispositions proclivities and tendencies, her inner being and manner of approach, gestures , gentleness of spirit and teachability - submissiveness all has a role to play in "attractiveness"

I agree with you bruv. I look beyond physical attractiveness.

binghamm:

Frankly, it's hard choosing. And talking to the three of them daily is starting to take too much of my time. This is why I want to settle on one for the future and forget the rest.

That will be prejudice for me to advice on people l don't know...

We just need to take a second look... An institution or house Lot's of people are running out from everyday (divorce), so you need to pause and have a deep thought...Life is going to be miserable once you get it wrong.

binghamm:

You are right. But she can be crazy at times. She is fiercely independent. I don't mind actually, but some part of me feels this can cause a problem down the line.

I talk am!

Goodluck on your choice OP and update us.

bukatyne:




I talk am!

Goodluck on your choice OP and update us.

I like her regardless. She's a great person.
And I don't mind her demands of not having children. It's something I can live with. If not, I wouldn't still be with her.

Fantasies, when you slide back to reality do let us know.

You don't know what you want for yourself yet, which is why you're in this quagmire.

binghamm:
Me.
Don't care for children. May or may not want. Very late 20's. Open to cohabitation. A little religious.
Open to both cohabitation and marriage.

You may or may not want children, you're open to both cohabitation and marriage.

Please make up your mind on the life you want, then it becomes easier to choose a woman that fits into it.

Surprised this hasn't made FP...
where is lalasticlala...

A figment of the OP's imagination. What is your own CV that you have 3 'good girls' dying to have you.

Okay

Damnnnnn niggarrr
Isoright

Eleyegidigan
This one is strong

I go for say make you choose the first one because of her matureness

Anyway Bros op... just observe the one that cares about your happiness because loving someone is all about caring for the happiness of that person

Follow your heart

My bro gettout, na we you wan dey whine

stop triple-dating una no go hear confusion is your case now. May the gods of your forefathers be with you my brother

You want cohabitation but don't want baby

Make I no comment wetin dey my mind.

I wonder why they even like you sef.. I won't even date a confused man if I were any of these ladies