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Should A Man Take Permission From His Wife Before Sending His Parents Money? by integritylady(f): 7:16pm On Jul 18, 2020
Should a man take permission from his wife before sending his parents money?
Re: Should A Man Take Permission From His Wife Before Sending His Parents Money? by GboyegaD(m): 7:21pm On Jul 18, 2020
No but it all depends on the type of financial structure you maintain.

As a way of illustration:
If you do 100% joint account, then you need explain what you spend money on if it is bulky otherwise, there might not be need.

If you do certain percentage (say 70% for example), and parents allowance is not part of what you agree to spend your family income, then, you can give them out of your 30% and it would be nice if you mention it to your wife. You need not mention the amount. However, if parents allowance is part of it, then either party can do the transfer.

Most importantly, there is no clear cut way to do such. Just find what works for your family.

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Re: Should A Man Take Permission From His Wife Before Sending His Parents Money? by Nobody: 7:22pm On Jul 18, 2020
When a man gets married, it changes from his money to their money so he needs to have some kind of conversation about that with his wife, not really her permission.

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Re: Should A Man Take Permission From His Wife Before Sending His Parents Money? by EngineerBode: 7:23pm On Jul 18, 2020
Every family is different. You can inform your wife and then she okays it

Many of you won't understand. If you and your wife are a team, you will talk about everything. If she says, don't send now because of so and so, you will understand. Sometimes, she can even remind you to send money to your family (But that is rare of Nigerians girls. They will prefer to eat you alone or squeeze you for her own family)

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Re: Should A Man Take Permission From His Wife Before Sending His Parents Money? by yomi007k(m): 7:23pm On Jul 18, 2020
J111333:
When a man gets married, it changes from his money to their money so he needs some kind of conversation about that, not really permission.

Na wa o....

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Re: Should A Man Take Permission From His Wife Before Sending His Parents Money? by Righteousness89(m): 7:24pm On Jul 18, 2020
Yes he could! Not Neccessarily as a Permission !

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Re: Should A Man Take Permission From His Wife Before Sending His Parents Money? by Nobody: 7:25pm On Jul 18, 2020
yomi007k:


Na wa o....

I hope I don't marry such a woman.
Nay, your hope should be to grow up. No insult intended bro.
Re: Should A Man Take Permission From His Wife Before Sending His Parents Money? by Goldp5988(f): 7:26pm On Jul 18, 2020
No, but he should let the wife know, in marriage there should be no secret
Re: Should A Man Take Permission From His Wife Before Sending His Parents Money? by kgpharoah: 7:26pm On Jul 18, 2020
Sometimes you guys asks useless questions. Will it make sense if your son had to get approval from your daughter in-law to send you money?

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Re: Should A Man Take Permission From His Wife Before Sending His Parents Money? by AmCelestine(m): 7:28pm On Jul 18, 2020
NAY
Re: Should A Man Take Permission From His Wife Before Sending His Parents Money? by TimeTraveler369: 7:28pm On Jul 18, 2020
His money is not 'many' enough grin
Re: Should A Man Take Permission From His Wife Before Sending His Parents Money? by yomi007k(m): 7:28pm On Jul 18, 2020
J111333:
Nay, your hope should be to grow up. No insult intended bro.

Whatever man.

To each his own.

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Re: Should A Man Take Permission From His Wife Before Sending His Parents Money? by paulolee(m): 7:34pm On Jul 18, 2020
it depends and I think the wife needs to know because being married is unity but the problem lies when the wife starts complaining or tries stopping him for other reasons.
Re: Should A Man Take Permission From His Wife Before Sending His Parents Money? by Burgerlomo: 7:35pm On Jul 18, 2020
EngineerBode:
Every family is different. You can inform your wife and then she okays it

Many of you won't understand. If you and your wife are a team, you will talk about everything. If she says, don't send now because of so and so, you will understand. Sometimes, she can even remind you to send money to your family (But that is rare of Nigerians girls. They will prefer to eat you alone or squeeze you for her own family)

cool
Re: Should A Man Take Permission From His Wife Before Sending His Parents Money? by dingbang(m): 7:36pm On Jul 18, 2020
Will she tell me when she wants to give her parents money from her pocket? That is the question
Re: Should A Man Take Permission From His Wife Before Sending His Parents Money? by Nobody: 7:36pm On Jul 18, 2020
Did your parents take permission from her before they trained you?


Kini gbogbo ibeere katikati yii nitori olorun? undecided

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Re: Should A Man Take Permission From His Wife Before Sending His Parents Money? by GboyegaD(m): 7:36pm On Jul 18, 2020
J111333:
Nay, your hope should be to grow up. No insult intended bro.

Haven't you realized so many of these guys did not have good mentors growing up?

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Re: Should A Man Take Permission From His Wife Before Sending His Parents Money? by Burgerlomo: 7:37pm On Jul 18, 2020
GboyegaD:
No but it all depends on the type of financial structure you maintain.

As a way of illustration:
If you do 100% joint account, then you need explain what you spend money on if it is bulky otherwise, there might not be need.

If you do certain percentage (say 70% for example), and parents allowance is not part of what you agree to spend your family income, then, you can give them out of your 30% and it would be nice if you mention it to your wife. You need not mention the amount. However, if parents allowance is part of it, then either party can do the transfer.

Most importantly, there is no clear cut way to do such. Just find what works for your family.
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Re: Should A Man Take Permission From His Wife Before Sending His Parents Money? by yomi007k(m): 7:38pm On Jul 18, 2020
Ariza:
Did your parents take permission from her before they trained you?


Kini gbogbo ibeere katikati yii nitori olorun? undecided

Ma da won lohun joor....Awon woman wrapper Fc.

Oshi.

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Re: Should A Man Take Permission From His Wife Before Sending His Parents Money? by karkinase(m): 7:39pm On Jul 18, 2020
integritylady:
Should a man take permission from his wife before sending his parents money?
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Re: Should A Man Take Permission From His Wife Before Sending His Parents Money? by Nobody: 7:40pm On Jul 18, 2020
J111333:
When a man gets married, it changes from his money to their money so he needs to have some kind of conversation about that with his wife, not really her permission.
Unless it is joint account, this may be true but if it is personal account, it is opened in the husband's name and he works for the money, It is the Husband's MONEY. Ahhhh let's be realistic nah.
Re: Should A Man Take Permission From His Wife Before Sending His Parents Money? by Burgerlomo: 7:41pm On Jul 18, 2020
Ariza:
Did your parents take permission from her before they trained you?


Kini gbogbo ibeere katikati yii nitori olorun? undecided

Re: Should A Man Take Permission From His Wife Before Sending His Parents Money? by yomi007k(m): 7:42pm On Jul 18, 2020
Ariza:
Unless it is joint account, this may be true but if it is personal account, it is opened in the husband's name and he works for the money, It is the Husband's MONEY. Ahhhh let's be realistic nah.

I beg leave dem make dem dey think with their yash. grin

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Re: Should A Man Take Permission From His Wife Before Sending His Parents Money? by Burgerlomo: 7:42pm On Jul 18, 2020
yomi007k:


Ma da won lohun joor....Awon woman wrapper Fc.

Oshi.

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Re: Should A Man Take Permission From His Wife Before Sending His Parents Money? by Burgerlomo: 7:44pm On Jul 18, 2020
Take permission for what? Arrant nonsense.

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Re: Should A Man Take Permission From His Wife Before Sending His Parents Money? by LORDLARGE(m): 7:47pm On Jul 18, 2020
The kind stvpid questions I see these days is very annoying mtchewww

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Re: Should A Man Take Permission From His Wife Before Sending His Parents Money? by ElasticStone(m): 7:50pm On Jul 18, 2020
Only simps will take permission.

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Re: Should A Man Take Permission From His Wife Before Sending His Parents Money? by Nobody: 7:57pm On Jul 18, 2020
yomi007k:


I beg leave dem make dem dey think with their yash. grin
No they don't reason with their yansh, I don't agree with that.. I believe the monicker I quoted still believes in whatever the husband has is his wife's and vice versa narrative when reality you can only get as much as what your partner is willing to share. Lol

As for taking permission to send money to PARENTS,lol I won't do that,I don't expect anyone to so far we don't run a joint account.

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Re: Should A Man Take Permission From His Wife Before Sending His Parents Money? by integritylady(f): 8:15pm On Jul 18, 2020
LORDLARGE:
The kind stvpid questions I see these days is very annoying
mtchewww
Are you married?
Re: Should A Man Take Permission From His Wife Before Sending His Parents Money? by mrblessed(m): 8:16pm On Jul 18, 2020
Just replace "permission" with "inform" and your post will appear plausible. Even at that, people differ, so do marriages. When couples have joint account, it is necessary to always "inform" her to avoid suspicions and misunderstandings. But when there is no joint account, and the attitude to the parents of her husband is less desirable, then not telling her is the most sensible thing to do. In fact, not informing her it is a wise way to help maintain peace at home and not let the woman turn the house into a battleground.

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Re: Should A Man Take Permission From His Wife Before Sending His Parents Money? by integritylady(f): 9:07pm On Jul 18, 2020
Marriage needs understanding
Re: Should A Man Take Permission From His Wife Before Sending His Parents Money? by tunize(m): 9:08pm On Jul 18, 2020
Permission ke that word big oooh like asking ur wife weda to give ur parents money or not bros switch that word to smtn else shuuuuu.
Well me i cant take permission to send money to my parents or siblings from my wife. more reason i prefer my personal account to joint.

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