Sex before marriage is wrong but this write up isn't convincing at all. Thank God I'm convinced already.

Ausval:
Its drains your energy ..why the one you do in marriage comes with an energy booster ...op part well

Theta1:
I pray the Lord will open the ear of our youth to heed to this. Pre-marital s3x use to kill destiny and Gods plan for someone's life.

It doesn't kill.any destiny if not they, CR7, Wizzy, Davido, etc, would be history.

The truth is marriage is of the spirit you can be physically married but not spiritually married and the fact that you a virgin doesn't mean you are next to holiness losing virginity (male and female) is same as saying a lie. Sin is Sin no one is bigger no one is smaller.

Everyone has his or her own view though.

semyman:
Size matters, what if it's too wide or it's too small and short.
Another angle is avoiding overused product.

Well, it's a catch 22 situation

That's a major problem there. The first time you sleep with her when ur done with all the requirements, you'll discover her body has been tampered with so much that you can tolerate, in such a case, divorce becomes an option

I guess this only happens in Nigeria.... We place too much rules on s3x enhance the reason while people break the rules....

KimVenom:


It doesn't kill.any destiny if not they, CR7, Wizzy, Davido, etc, would be history.


Everyone has his or her own view though.

I tire o... We keep saying same thing over and over again... Is Nigeria the only Christian Country in the world? We are just hypocrite

oofjm:
what is bad is bad...u don't need ur pastor to tell u that sex before marriage is a sin even if we youth are involved in the act...i can involve in bad act to be successful in the world but what about after death...forget this ur talk.

What I'm telling you is that there is no correlation between success and sex before marriage. As a matter of fact, there is no such thing as "destiny." If you like don't have sex, it you aren't smart, productive and hard-working you will be poor and irrelevant in the grand. Scheme of things.

motionarena:
All my company Staff are currently working from a hotel due to the pandemic.

My friend and colleague is currently sleeping with another female colleague who got recently married on a daily basis.

How do I report this.
I pity her poor husband.

This is the height of betrayal. I would want to do the same thing too but I don't know if you should.. I think you should secretly get the lady's number. Send her an anonymous message that you know what she's doing and that if she doesn't stop you'd tell her husband. The shock should make her have a rethink if she even ever loved or respected her husband before they got married.

motionarena:
All my company Staff are currently working from a hotel due to the pandemic.

My friend and colleague is currently sleeping with another female colleague who got recently married on a daily basis.

How do I report this.
I pity her poor husband.

Just talk to her or both of them individually if they don't listen let them be, atleast you've done your part

Arinzeshop:
Moral lesson - Have protected sex

moral lesson; abstinence

Biglittlelois:
I am a christian, but my thought process on waiting till marriage before you have sex with your partner is kinda somehow, God help us all.

after you have had sex with multiple partners. you will later reckon with what the OP said. there's no need to wander.

VLTA:
[s]Eight reasons why you should wait till after marriage before having sex.1) It drains your energy2)It leaves you vulnerable to demonic possession3) It can lead to marital issues in future4) STIs5) Peace of mind is lost6) Honour is lost seeing its illegal7) Regret and guilt.8 Sin against GodIf u are already in the net already, repent and God will show you mercy.NB: Other sexual vices like masturbation, porn and the likes too are wrong[/s].

Nonsense.

IamDavid:
Sex before marriage is wrong but this write up isn't convincing at all. Thank God I'm convinced already.

Tell us what got you convinced you might convince others

VLTA:
Eight reasons why you should wait till after marriage before having sex.

1) It drains your energy

2)It leaves you vulnerable to demonic possession

3) It can lead to marital issues in future

4) STIs

5) Peace of mind is lost

6) Honour is lost seeing its illegal

7) Regret and guilt.

8 Sin against God

If u are already in the net already, repent and God will show you mercy.

NB: Other sexual vices like masturbation, porn and the likes too are wrong.

1. sex does not drain any energy so your claim is false maybe as result of your bias

2. There is no such things as demons, the only demon is sexual repression which tends to prevalent in so called religious countries and as a result of sexual repression such countries country tend to have social issues as rape, violence and discrimination and subjugation of women.

3. It does not lead to marital failure personal differences, low dopamine and refusal to change or spice up marriages usually does. also other stuff such as financial issues, religious standard etc leads to marital failure.

4. that is what protection are for

5. No scientific proof of your claim rather sex bring joy and peace of mind. if properly done can lead to a better health and immune system. it is when the doctrine of sexually repressed individuals is instilled in your psyche that it can lead to lost of peace of mind. which is your fault for feeling guilty and menial that your so called God deemed to bless animals with.

6. check no 5. i am curious what honor means to you

7. Only if you have been religiously brainwashed. you owe it to yourself and mind to free yourself.

8. Does not count as God does not exist and even if he does with the whole universe at his cater i like to think he has bigger fishes to fry than staring at my genitals outside time and space.

GodPunishBiafra:


So that you'll discover body counts and how wide the engine is later abi?

God FORBID!


I don't eat remnants!

Any girl who has had sex with more than two people before is a WHÒRE! a leftover and unfit for me to wife.

Mind you, ...I broke it and we're still together after 8 years

"And the Lord said to Balam the prophet, Isreal is blessed and shall not be cursed!

And so has the Lord blessed his people located in the Eastern part of the Nigger area!!

Have you ever asked yourself why the Biafra spirit has refused to die after over 50years of suppression by the Hausa-Fulani/Oduduwa


Whoever the Lord has blessed, no man can curse!!!

I will tell you something.
It is only after sex with a lady, a man tends to know more about the lady. Period.
If you wait for sex after wedding, you are at your own risk

Biglittlelois:
I am a christian, but my thought process on waiting till marriage before you have sex with your partner is kinda somehow, God help us all.

"I am a vegetarian but the thought process of not eating meat is kinda somehow"

Irony 101.

If you are Christlike, you should think like Christ.

Everyone is entitled to their own opinion.

Pastor I concur

Sex is good, even before marriage

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GodPunishBiafra:


So that you'll discover body counts and how wide the engine is later abi?

God FORBID!


I don't eat remnants!

Any girl who has had sex with more than two people before is a WHÒRE! a leftover and unfit for me to wife.

Mind you, ...I broke it and we're still together after 8 years

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FrLukas:
Does op know the difference between marriage and wedding?

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My dear,as Christian we know it's not easy but the grace of God is able to carry you through. Don't follow d testing before trusting group. It pays to hold on. I am a virgin and I leave outside the country. Here they dress anyhow but the grace of God is keeping me. If you are determine, he will sustain you. Just a little sex can destroy ur destiny. Remember that he or she that breaks d hedge,the serpent will bite.

Biglittlelois:
I am a christian, but my thought process on waiting till marriage before you have sex with your partner is kinda somehow, God help us all.

Johel:



''8'' is most relevant...it's a Devil's world,demons are everywhere and the wages of sin is death...the rest doesn't matter.

But we all gon' pay for the sin one day so?

nairaman66:
So someone cannot see the package of what he/she ordered to ascertain the authenticity/veracity of products?

No sir, its wrong and a sin

Before I've sin so much, immoral lifestyle was my trademark,

No kind of vagina i can't describe because skirts never pass me by, i became sex machine to many house wife, i slept with over 90% of my friends girlfriend, pornography was my daily News, Movie's and Documentary Channel this makes me familiar with all black IndecentStar in the world,
Many find difficult to convince a lady they knew recently to have sex with but i was a professional in this dirty act, allot of people visit prostitutes but in my own case prostitutes visit me this can describe how far i went.

I tried to stop but i always end up going back and even doing worse, its like i was possessed, Today I'm very happy i have peace of mind and allot of good things happened in my life, God had save my soul from evil spirit of adultery.

paulolee:
that some of ur points are not valid and convincing to preach about sex before or after marriage..
the point is that going by religion, its not proper to have sex before marriage but the main problem is the society we find ourselves, so many things that were once wrong or secret are now normal because we all see no bad in it and engage in it freely and are now used to it..
waiting for sex till when married isnt easy as people preach it to be, the issue is being more careful with the sex thing..

YOU ARE VERY RIGHT. IT'S NOT EASY AS WE SEEM TO PREACH IT. EVEN MARRIAGE TOO IS A TRIAL ON IT OWN

Biglittlelois:
I am a christian, but my thought process on waiting till marriage before you have sex with your partner is kinda somehow, God help us all.

"... the foundation of God standeth sure, having this seal; those who bear the name of the Lord should depart from iniquity."

Eulalia:
I concurr.

Preach it on dear. A lot of people especially the youth have taken it as a norm that when you mention abstainance/celibacy, they see you as an alien. So loud it!

God bless you for this

Swear say u no dey suck d ! c k, swear say u no dey f u u c k doggy style... hypocritical lot like y'all deserve the deepest part of hell if only it exists..

Supported, premarital sex ruins you and puts you out of God's covering.

So a whole me won't see and taste what I'm buying

Funaki:
Sex isn't illegal

Yeah, sex isn't illegal, but premarital or extramarital sex is. Let me quote your Bible for you.