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minicky:
how good is this programming does one earn good income from it?I wanna learn a skill am talking about choosing a career here

PiggyvestMoney:
NegroAcheiver your alternate

PiggyvestMoney:
NegroAcheiver your alternate

EngrMarve:
Bro, these skills are what I tag "the future".
If you are goo at it, you are made for life, the richest people in the world are into programming and online businesses, check Jeff Bezoa, Bill Gates and even Mark of Facebook.

Just that Nigeria has not grown to appreciate technology, if not, a programmer earns at LEAST N8million/yr in Nigeria but in western world I know of a friend who earns N32million/yr for a start.

There's lot of money in object oriented programming.

yusman14:
Is this engr Marve from OAU computer engineering department?

Evidence1000:
My name is David. I'm a 24 year old young man. I'm in my final year in one of the universities in the south west.
I'm addicted to gambling. Like, I can't just help it.

The craze for this thing started sometime last year. It has eaten deep into me that it now dictates my mood. The only time I can be genuinely happy is when I win money from bet9ja virtual. If I should loose, it makes me very sad to the extent that I see myself as a useless person.

I've gone to the extent of using my school fees to play virtual and that of my course mate that trusted me so much. Though, I was able to pay my course mate's fees without her knowing the truth, I'm unable to pay mine till now. I always have this mentality that I will win.

Whenever money enters my hand like this, no matter how little, it is to head straight to Bet9ja shop or online. The urge is usually very strong. Sometimes, it seems like there's a force pushing me to do it.
Before this lock down, I accumulated a debt of over a hundred thousand naira in a Bet9ja shop in my school environment which I'm unable to pay till now.
I know the owner of the shop would be waiting to pick me up with police when I resume. I don't know what to do.

I need help badly. I've prayed to God severally but it's as if nothing is happening. I've even promised God not to play Bet9ja again but I keep on seeing myself still playing it.

Right now as I'm typing this, I just came from a Bet9ja shop where I lost money. Money that is not even my own. Sometimes, I feel like taking my life so that everything will just end but if I remember the pain it would cause my mother, I'll just hold back.

Please for the people that were once addicted to gambling, how did you stop it? Is there any remedy for it because I'm in need of it badly?

I can't sleep at night anymore because I'm always thinking of debts that I've accumulated which has run into over 300,000. All thanks to Bet9ja virtual.

Someone advised me to get a job that would keep me busy so that I won't have time to play virtual but there are no jobs. I don't mind doing any, even if it is a menial job till school resumes.

Please I need your advice. Feel free to bash me because I deserve more than that even.

Please I'd appreciate if you can move this to front page.

Lzjinspired:
I Was Once Like You -Though Not Addicted To This Extent - Mine Was The Need Of Wanting To Place A Bet At Any Given Opportunity But In A Calculated Way. Well, D First Step Is To Accept That You're Suddenly Going To Change Your Financial Situation With Betting, Optimism Doesn't Win Bets, Life Isnt That Easy.
Secondly, Think About Something U Can Do That Can Give U Cash( There Are, Think). It Is A Lack Of Options That Is Continually Pushing U Towards The Only Available Option.
Thirdly, Focus On The Negative Effects, As Thats The Only Thing That Can Deter You From Continuing. Often Times, It Is The Thought Of Gains That Bring Us Over And Over To Things That Harm Us Neglecting The Consequence Only To Meet Disappointment.
Fourthly, You Have To Have Strong Self Control And Pray For Strength To Do So. Bad Habits Dont Go Away On Their U Have To Put In Effort.
You Can Stop By Really Wanting To Stop, Not A Half Baked Desire.
Find Something To Do And Accept Tat Life Is In Stages.
Check My Account For Lessons On Wealth

mahvellux:
*Avoid going to any bet house for any reason..
*get a job a job or learn a skill or follow a passion anything to keep you busy..
*Be content most causes of gambling is greed..
*Forgive them but don't forget what they did to you..One of the reason you return and keep playing is because you try to get back the money taken from you and it thereby make you lose more,and getting you in to more debts
*You are already addicted..to over come this addiction you might need another addiction..choose ur addiction wisely
*And lastly
Put it in prayer daily..
Prayer has a pschological effect on your Idiosycransy..
*Don't put your self in positions to be tempted
*Remember
prayer changes you and you change things
shallom

chatinent:
Addiction of gambling is like pornography; the more one indulges, the harder to break-free. I'll advise you stop watching football for a while. How can you predict if you wouldn't be watching and be interested?