₦airaland Forum

WorWorBoy3:

It's not true at all, she clearly has some emotional issues with black men and paints them all with the same brush as Jakumo does with black American women.

I could go on a rant and post all kinds of hateful and derogatory things about Nigerian women and men but does it make it true just because I posted it?

Jakumo:
Sadly I agree with this statement. Being black in America means being angry most of the time, UNLESS one is fabulously rich, whereby the racism doesn't constitute an impediment to making a living.

Very true that education is NOT valued in most of black America. The lure of fast money selling drugs on the street corner, shortens the average lifespan of the American black male dramatically, as their "thug life" leads them inexorably to jail or the cemetery, courtesy of a fellow black holding a gun.

Don't get me started on the women though, but here is just a little. Black American women, pregnant at 14 and failed to graduate from high school. Abandoned by the unwanted child's biological father, who most often refers to all women as hos, having grown up in a broken home rife with drugs and violence. Pregnant many more times over the years, by different men each go round, all of who abandon ship for a newer model the instant they spotted a fat belly. Turning tricks and trading favors for crack cocaine until committed to incarceration, early death from obesity, drug use, or a blend of all factors.

By comparison Nigerian women privileged to attend school, are driven to succeed academically and thus, in life, while living in a chaotic yet also a more stable and morally grounded society of equals, where racism is but an abstract concept heard about on the news. The absence of racism alone, is such a precious treasure that few Africans recognize as such, until they travel the world, and see how the black man is treated outside of Mother Africa.

Good points but you try to gloss over the failures of black American men who are suppose to be the leaders of their communities. Women are only what men allow them to be. Black American men should invest in their communities, zip up and stop having ten baby mamas and kids they cannot cater for before age 25. They are never present in their children's lives, even when they marry white women etc, they leave them single. They are the common denominator here, the major problem. The black American woman(even though foolish) still stays in her kids lives. She becomes the father and mother same time. That's a lot of burden to carry. She looks left and right, all she sees is hate. She is expected to breakdown. Her anger is justified.

Once a woman feels secure, she would wholeheartedly submit. That's why many of them become submissive when they marry white men etc because of the emotional, financial and physical support she gets from him. Its not that hard. They are women like every other woman.

In all ethnicities all over the world, once the men are done for, its over. Its survival mode from there.

Terryishere:
This description pertains to some Nigerians as well, males and females.

For your information, Native Americans are the perpetual underclass and poorest in the US, stop letting your hatred cause you to post false information.

Idunno about that but black American men are the image of poverty I see everywhere.

Geminita1:
Idunno about that but black American men are the image of poverty I see everywhere.

That's because you are bias. These men that you see how do you know if they are Haitian, African, Jamaican, Hispanic or American? How do you know? By the way, the US is bigger than what your eyes can see, it's obvious that you can't see everywhere because you are blind to the middle, upper middle, rich and wealthy classes of black Americans.

Terryishere:
It's not true at all, she clearly has some emotional issues with black men and paints them all with the same brush as Jakumo does with black American women.

I could go on a rant and post all kinds of hateful and derogatory things about Nigerian women and men but does it make it true just because I posted it?

Of course it's not true. There are good and bad people everywhere, that's why I was shocked when she made that statement.

Terryishere:
Exactly, he lives in the ghetto so he's talking about his experiences. I'm sure he's the male version of the females he hates.

No mind am. Generalizing from his own narrow, parochial ghetto experience, forgetting there is a whole spectrum of black women

Apart from rape and terrorism, all the crimes we read on Nairaland are committed by the weaker sex.

Nah Boko female wing remain.

Fake lens thug attempts to kill boyfriend.