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Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by olawonder(m): 2:01pm On Jul 21, 2020

First of all, stop using unnessestri stupid English! Why so many grammatical jargons simply because you wanna ridicule some poor guy?

Second of all, your assertions seem childish! When you grow old enough to be a man you’ll know what life is all about; not just in matrimony but in all aspects of survival! Even if you ‘make am’ before getting married, dealing with third party needs when they are emotionally attached to you require extra effort. Keeping a family intact is a constant battle that sometimes money wouldn’t even be the issue... u no go understand, u still dey street guy level undecided

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Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by fykes(m): 2:02pm On Jul 21, 2020

harsysky:
Thanks bro. I didn't write it to sound intelligent;I simple state what I have seen time and time ago. people just think they see the future. it happened when I was into betting. While on a winning streak, my mind would think it invented the word--luck. No wonder pride cometh before a fall.

Lol.. U sure are a smart one though... I didn't see the betting thing coming but it if that's what it takes, d experience matters little, d lesson matters most.

Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by pocohantas(f): 2:03pm On Jul 21, 2020

jornwhite:
Don't flatter yourself more, details of you can only disrupt my early morning erection .. ma ko ba mii i can't afford viagra. I am so disappoint, no one could detect their is no sync between the topic & the instance OP gave, the guy was born into poverty lived his life in poverty & married in poverty.. no promotion no demotion .. so how in d world did marriage plunge him into poverty, it would av made sense if the guy was living ok @least b4 marriage ..
LOL ! "@3weeks after" fortunately thats not your story

It can’t be my story, I pick one premium man and stick to him. That I have done.

I don’t need to flatter myself, you do all the flattery as my favourite troll. Still your 38years old evening newspaper. Have a nice day. kiss

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Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by uvie66: 2:03pm On Jul 21, 2020

Poseidon000:
Sup guys. I've something that have always earned the acme of my discountenance. And that's how men crudely jump into marriage in other to conform to societal dictate or for some selfish satisfaction.
This have gotten me pensive and I'll make no ado in getting to the nucleus of the issue.

Yesterday, I was headed toward gwarimpa, and on my way I noticed a disheveled young guy around Efab estate trekking by the express.
As a rule, I always give such guys 'lift,' because i was once with a female colleague in a lonely path that seldom have cars coming our way, suddenly one private car stopped and when I tried entering after my female colleague boarded, the SIMPson bounced me out and zoomed off with an empty back seat.

That incident birthed in me a sense of solidarity and understanding of what men go through just for being men, but yesterday, I was so incensed by a botch job my mechanic did that I drove past. After about 4 hours when I had everything sorted and was heading back, I saw the same guy heading toward my direction again(it's a dual carriage way) and he was sweating profusely, so I beckoned on him to enter. We got talking and I inquired why he's trekking such a long distance. He said: he went to look for a job that wasn't successful and he's going back to Arab road.
But this is just a miniscule of the guy's travail. He grew up in abject poverty.In fact, they gave birth to him and his sister in an uncompleted building. His dad died in that building, his sister got pregnant for some riffraff and they started what we call "abuja marriage", his mom subsequently fell sick and died in the same uncompleted building. Then the owner of the building decided to complete it, and drove him away.

Now, this guy was able to get another uncompleted building to stay, and as I'm typing this, he's with wife and kids. This is a person that don't have food at home and can not afford N150 to and fro.

I gave him 10k but I was so mad with him; I mean, I was disconcertingly appalled that this guy will think of marriage in his privation. Why not be a little bit comfortable before considering marriage, instead to face life with the dignity of a breadline.

Sadly, this is the same mistake lot of guy's have been making thinking they'll fall into some stupendous money as soon as they marry, and this is mostly perpetuated by religious charlatans who say; a man's destiny is predicated on his future wife, that as soon as he gets married, the special blessing tied to marriage will start opening way for him.

That's a mendacious twaddle that will leave you in a precarious situation. Please guys, have 'comfort' afoot before you dabble into marriage.

What's your take on this?

you for eject the idiot from your car

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Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by EPO246: 2:05pm On Jul 21, 2020

harsysky:
I have learnt to learn to talk like a human instead of the creator of the universe. The world isn't a place for the good. Some are poor today because they don't want to put their hands into bad stuff. All these, the people who think they are wise don't understand. When God blesses one or you think your hustle has paid off, keep shut and thank your creator. simple!

My brother oo!

Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by McTobe(m): 2:09pm On Jul 21, 2020

poseidon000 and others that think like him, you went to the extreme with your conclusion. Go and look for a well educated financially successful elderly man that is not a hardcore Christian or Muslim maybe a freethinker or someone on esoteric path and tell him exactly what you posted and your conclusion I am sure he will disagree with you.
1. Life is not as straightforward as you put it. Hustle get successful and then get married. in the first place it’s not the best hustlers that are the most successful
2. There is more to life than just the so called financial stability, there are people that are born into wealth but they are looking for happiness and joy that comes from a family
3. Op there are people that married when they are average and today they have blown beyond imagination
4. You can only see life as far as the path you are on, do you know that there are cycles in people’s life and if you observe families very closely you may notice their cycle. Some people will become highly successful in their late twenties, thirties, others in their fifties and yet others in their sixties. Once that person keep working and not being idle (you don’t even need to be extraordinary) at about that time little things that others have overlooked can blow the person financially.
While I agree with your post no one should wait for when they are successful before getting married. Marry when you think it’s about time for you but just understand that it goes with a serious responsibility of taking care of your family. Just do your best and plan your life your best way and leave the rest...what must be must be. Agbakam mbo bu ego nri onu, ogalanya si na chi.(I too hustle na just for sustenance, wealth comes from sources that are beyond your grasp as a human) Believe it or not.
Op have you not seen very successful people that crashed overnight? Both corporate climbers and hustlers alike. Everything get WHY

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Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by Grandlord: 2:10pm On Jul 21, 2020

Poseidon000:
Nah. I think it's a punishment. I had rather not marry throughout the course of my life, than sire kids in poverty. That's self inflicted poverty. If the man had been comfortable before marriage, then met misfortune in marriage, that would be understandable and tenable.

The truth is that, the men usually end up thinking about their life like this.

I wouldn't even mind if they brought poverty on themselves alone. It's the kid(s) I sympathize with. No child deserves to suffer in poverty. No child!

But the mo'therfvckers would pop kids out to satisfy their selfish yearns.

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Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by tunize(m): 2:13pm On Jul 21, 2020

So true the fact is that luck and circumstances usually plays a role in so many people's life that are not doing well not laziness per say.
Back to you topic sometimes it amazes me how a guy that has not finished feeding himself will jst go and add anoda grown human to himself, and the funiest aspect of it is that u will even get to see the well to do guys not even jumping into marriage unlike the shattered ones running into it as if marriage is "Olympic that issues out Gold medal" justifying it even more with Children brings open doors! children are blessings no doubt, is best the right thing is done at the right time.

Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by Acidosis(m): 2:17pm On Jul 21, 2020

How did marriage plung him into poverty? Let's start from there.

He had a Lexus 2020 model and a duplex in Ajah before he got married? And suddenly after he got married, he relocated to an uncompleted building in a remote area in Nassarawa axis? Is that the story?

You didn't even ask this young man about his marriage but somehow you concluded in your mind that marriage plunged him into poverty.

You didn't ask him whether the food he ate earlier that day was prepared by his wife without any contribution from the young man. Somehow, you're indirectly blaming his wife and kids for his misfortunes. Do you know whether the same wife has been the one contributing and saving his life?

What about the emotional support? Do you know whether his kids and his wife are reasons the young man hasn't commited suicide?

Take away marriage from that young man and one thing has remained constant in his life since birth - poverty. If you're poor, you're poor.

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Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by Grandlord: 2:18pm On Jul 21, 2020

Poseidon000:
Risible!

They sicken me to the gut.

Any 'man' who betrays or maltreats another because of a piece of pussy is not worthy of being called a man. I don't and shall never roll with such.

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Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by SpaceMarshall: 2:21pm On Jul 21, 2020

kestolove95:
Don't blame them, they wia brainwashed by the lies in the Bible dat says "he who find a wife has found a good thing and obtain favour from the Lord" that is the favour his obtaining from d Lord now..

Do you know the meaning of wife ?

And how are you sure the lady he wifed has not been the one sustaining him ?

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Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by cdm4live: 2:22pm On Jul 21, 2020

Poseidon000:
Lol. Baba, when i was coming up as a lad. I had a clique with so much ambition. The brightest and most handsome among us jumped into marriage with nothing palpable to sustain him.

Now, he's a shadow of himself subsisting on the magnanimity of our group and the little he can muster for himself. When I look at him now, I begin to wonder if he's the same bright lad that earned our awe and we looked up to. The dude is looking like my father now. Quite painful, because he profligates also(not wise with money).

Planning is the key. You're on point, bro.

I remember that year when I went with my parents to the village and got a shocker question from one lad. I was with my senior bros, our first son, and he was asked by the young lady if I was the first son. I wan die. See me don turn to papa, me way be third son if not that two went to heaven to present flowers to God, I would have been fifth child.
Suffer and thinking no good at all.

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Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by selfdefence: 2:22pm On Jul 21, 2020

if you never ready, no marry at all o, this is a message to both the men and women.

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Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by Nobody: 2:23pm On Jul 21, 2020

Poseidon000:
Hey guys!

Heed to this advice, cause this is a sage council that is ineluctable to your success if you want to have a smooth sail in life.

I want to believe you're married. Am I right?

Yes I am.

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Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by abdullkabar(m): 2:23pm On Jul 21, 2020

@Op brought up an important topic
It has always been an heartache thinking of our prospective young lads jump into marriage just to blend with the rest

We just have to be wise and act with extreme wisdom(one shouldn't shoot himself in the leg while trying to blend in)

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Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by uvie66: 2:24pm On Jul 21, 2020

Poseidon000:
Sup guys. I've something that have always earned the acme of my discountenance. And that's how men crudely jump into marriage in other to conform to societal dictate or for some selfish satisfaction.
This have gotten me pensive and I'll make no ado in getting to the nucleus of the issue.

Yesterday, I was headed toward gwarimpa, and on my way I noticed a disheveled young guy around Efab estate trekking by the express.
As a rule, I always give such guys 'lift,' because i was once with a female colleague in a lonely path that seldom have cars coming our way, suddenly one private car stopped and when I tried entering after my female colleague boarded, the SIMPson bounced me out and zoomed off with an empty back seat.

That incident birthed in me a sense of solidarity and understanding of what men go through just for being men, but yesterday, I was so incensed by a botch job my mechanic did that I drove past. After about 4 hours when I had everything sorted and was heading back, I saw the same guy heading toward my direction again(it's a dual carriage way) and he was sweating profusely, so I beckoned on him to enter. We got talking and I inquired why he's trekking such a long distance. He said: he went to look for a job that wasn't successful and he's going back to Arab road.
But this is just a miniscule of the guy's travail. He grew up in abject poverty.In fact, they gave birth to him and his sister in an uncompleted building. His dad died in that building, his sister got pregnant for some riffraff and they started what we call "abuja marriage", his mom subsequently fell sick and died in the same uncompleted building. Then the owner of the building decided to complete it, and drove him away.

Now, this guy was able to get another uncompleted building to stay, and as I'm typing this, he's with wife and kids. This is a person that don't have food at home and can not afford N150 to and fro.

I gave him 10k but I was so mad with him; I mean, I was disconcertingly appalled that this guy will think of marriage in his privation. Why not be a little bit comfortable before considering marriage, instead to face life with the dignity of a breadline.

Sadly, this is the same mistake lot of guy's have been making thinking they'll fall into some stupendous money as soon as they marry, and this is mostly perpetuated by religious charlatans who say; a man's destiny is predicated on his future wife, that as soon as he gets married, the special blessing tied to marriage will start opening way for him.

That's a mendacious twaddle that will leave you in a precarious situation. Please guys, have 'comfort' afoot before you dabble into marriage.

What's your take on this?

..... mendacious twaddle that will leave you in a precarious situation...we always know people go school.

Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by MartinsD12(m): 2:24pm On Jul 21, 2020

Poseidon000:
Sup guys. I've something that have always earned the acme of my discountenance. And that's how men crudely jump into marriage in other to conform to societal dictate or for some selfish satisfaction.
This have gotten me pensive and I'll make no ado in getting to the nucleus of the issue.

Yesterday, I was headed toward gwarimpa, and on my way I noticed a disheveled young guy around Efab estate trekking by the express.
As a rule, I always give such guys 'lift,' because i was once with a female colleague in a lonely path that seldom have cars coming our way, suddenly one private car stopped and when I tried entering after my female colleague boarded, the SIMPson bounced me out and zoomed off with an empty back seat.

That incident birthed in me a sense of solidarity and understanding of what men go through just for being men, but yesterday, I was so incensed by a botch job my mechanic did that I drove past. After about 4 hours when I had everything sorted and was heading back, I saw the same guy heading toward my direction again(it's a dual carriage way) and he was sweating profusely, so I beckoned on him to enter. We got talking and I inquired why he's trekking such a long distance. He said: he went to look for a job that wasn't successful and he's going back to Arab road.
But this is just a miniscule of the guy's travail. He grew up in abject poverty.In fact, they gave birth to him and his sister in an uncompleted building. His dad died in that building, his sister got pregnant for some riffraff and they started what we call "abuja marriage", his mom subsequently fell sick and died in the same uncompleted building. Then the owner of the building decided to complete it, and drove him away.

Now, this guy was able to get another uncompleted building to stay, and as I'm typing this, he's with wife and kids. This is a person that don't have food at home and can not afford N150 to and fro.

I gave him 10k but I was so mad with him; I mean, I was disconcertingly appalled that this guy will think of marriage in his privation. Why not be a little bit comfortable before considering marriage, instead to face life with the dignity of a breadline.

Sadly, this is the same mistake lot of guy's have been making thinking they'll fall into some stupendous money as soon as they marry, and this is mostly perpetuated by religious charlatans who say; a man's destiny is predicated on his future wife, that as soon as he gets married, the special blessing tied to marriage will start opening way for him.

That's a mendacious twaddle that will leave you in a precarious situation. Please guys, have 'comfort' afoot before you dabble into marriage.

What's your take on this?

This is very true

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Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by A1kennedy(m): 2:25pm On Jul 21, 2020

pls you can help a brother whose mini electronic firm has collapsed due to this pandemic, with a little token to survive this pandemic hour. Thank you and God bless.account no:0024995086 bank name: Union Bank phone no: 08146995561. Thanks.

This have gotten me pensive and I'll make no ado in getting to the nucleus of the issue.

Yesterday, I was headed toward gwarimpa, and on my way I noticed a disheveled young guy around Efab estate trekking by the express.
As a rule, I always give such guys 'lift,' because i was once with a female colleague in a lonely path that seldom have cars coming our way, suddenly one private car stopped and when I tried entering after my female colleague boarded, the SIMPson bounced me out and zoomed off with an empty back seat.

That incident birthed in me a sense of solidarity and understanding of what men go through just for being men, but yesterday, I was so incensed by a botch job my mechanic did that I drove past. After about 4 hours when I had everything sorted and wa

Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by isax(m): 2:25pm On Jul 21, 2020

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kestolove95:
Don't blame them, they wia brainwashed by the lies in the Bible dat says "he who find a wife has found a good thing and obtain favour from the Lord" that is the favour his obtaining from d Lord now..

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i think you should read everything again before you display Woronworon in public
1. The OP is talking Sensibly...
2. He did not talk Bible/Quoran

Meanwhile if you find it difficult to read and understand a little observation written by the OP let me help you summarise it:
it is the orientation of individuals that should change, and not tie their lives around religion myths. Man own your life.

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Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by libertymax(m): 2:25pm On Jul 21, 2020

decatalyst:
1. Thank you for lending help to that frustrated man and for at least alleviating his misery for a few days with the 10k.

2. Someone can be a victim of circumstance and choose to remain a victim of the circumstance or jakpa from it! Like the common saying 'how does a poor man manage to have erection...even sustained enough to donate a baby'?

3. Clearly, the man is not living a purposeful life, neither does he have any plan to change his fortune. How can you go ahead and marry/cohabit with a lady that will largely depend on you, in that present state? Why should they choose to add or compound their misery by having a baby in that state? Gosh! No iota of reasoning!

4. As for yielding to some hogwash acceptable societal teachings of "there is blessing in marriage" is utter nonsense! Lemme use the word of this dude on Nairaland "a real niggerr" takes charge of his life and decides which way/path he want to follow.

He is simply not a man! The child should demand for "accountability" when he/she is grown!

slawomir na our word dey here soooo. Real nigga

Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by abdullkabar(m): 2:25pm On Jul 21, 2020

Acidosis:
How did marriage plung him into poverty? Let's start from there.

He had a Lexus 2020 model and a duplex in Ajah before he got married? And suddenly after he got married, he relocated to an uncompleted building in a remote area in Nassarawa axis? Is that the story?

You didn't even ask this young man about his marriage but somehow you concluded in your mind that marriage plunged him into poverty.

You didn't ask him whether the food he ate earlier that day was prepared by his wife without any contribution from the young man. Somehow, you're indirectly blaming his wife and kids for his misfortunes. Do you know whether the same wife has been the one contributing and saving his life?

What about the emotional support? Do you know whether his kids and his wife are reasons the young man hasn't commited suicide?

Take away marriage from that young man and one thing will remain constant in his life - poverty. If you're poor, you're poor.

Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by libertymax(m): 2:28pm On Jul 21, 2020

No Lies Life hard for this of the world. but the truth be say make we reason abeg. try dey independent first before you go reason marry. most people go jus dey dia papa house wan jus marry brief with no experience in maintaining family. Omo e hard oo. But sha On God for everything

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Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by isax(m): 2:28pm On Jul 21, 2020

Poseidon000:
Sup guys. I've something that have always earned the acme of my discountenance. And that's how men crudely jump into marriage in other to conform to societal dictate or for some selfish satisfaction.
This have gotten me pensive and I'll make no ado in getting to the nucleus of the issue.

Yesterday, I was headed toward gwarimpa, and on my way I noticed a disheveled young guy around Efab estate trekking by the express.
As a rule, I always give such guys 'lift,' because i was once with a female colleague in a lonely path that seldom have cars coming our way, suddenly one private car stopped and when I tried entering after my female colleague boarded, the SIMPson bounced me out and zoomed off with an empty back seat.

That incident birthed in me a sense of solidarity and understanding of what men go through just for being men, but yesterday, I was so incensed by a botch job my mechanic did that I drove past. After about 4 hours when I had everything sorted and was heading back, I saw the same guy heading toward my direction again(it's a dual carriage way) and he was sweating profusely, so I beckoned on him to enter. We got talking and I inquired why he's trekking such a long distance. He said: he went to look for a job that wasn't successful and he's going back to Arab road.
But this is just a miniscule of the guy's travail. He grew up in abject poverty.In fact, they gave birth to him and his sister in an uncompleted building. His dad died in that building, his sister got pregnant for some riffraff and they started what we call "abuja marriage", his mom subsequently fell sick and died in the same uncompleted building. Then the owner of the building decided to complete it, and drove him away.

Now, this guy was able to get another uncompleted building to stay, and as I'm typing this, he's with wife and kids. This is a person that don't have food at home and can not afford N150 to and fro.

I gave him 10k but I was so mad with him; I mean, I was disconcertingly appalled that this guy will think of marriage in his privation. Why not be a little bit comfortable before considering marriage, instead to face life with the dignity of a breadline.

Sadly, this is the same mistake lot of guy's have been making thinking they'll fall into some stupendous money as soon as they marry, and this is mostly perpetuated by religious charlatans who say; a man's destiny is predicated on his future wife, that as soon as he gets married, the special blessing tied to marriage will start opening way for him.

That's a mendacious twaddle that will leave you in a precarious situation. Please guys, have 'comfort' afoot before you dabble into marriage.

What's your take on this?

OP the thing you talk make sense and make i add say your English dey sweet me sha.
Oya Chop Knuckle.

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Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by A1kennedy(m): 2:30pm On Jul 21, 2020

Grandlord:
I wouldn't even mind if they brought poverty on themselves alone. It's the kid(s) I sympathize with. No child deserves to suffer in poverty. No child!

But the mo'therfvckers would pop kids out to satisfy their selfish yearns.

Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by Tillz: 2:32pm On Jul 21, 2020

Poseidon000:
You're correct, but if we should put it into perspective; such scenario happen 1/10. That's on the infinitesimal.

Would you build your future on a precarious foundation?

Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by Tillz: 2:35pm On Jul 21, 2020

merieam16:
Okay buh d truth is d poor will always b among u. at least u helped out dat wat matters

You can choose 2 remain poor by nt doubling ur hustle buh der some people hustle or no hustle dey er destined 2 b poor.Not everytime u see a poor person nd u say he or she is lazy or hasnt taken steps buh time nd chance happen 2 dem all. They will still av 2 get married nd do wat oda people do cos dey are still humans

ti o ban ri se, ma se pe padi e lo lè

well I don't believe this, if one hustle and not just being lazy hoping for hope and good luck to come meet one, then poverty go stay far away but say you're depending on God without hustle and hardwork ...aaah Pele o

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Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by IBreakRules: 2:35pm On Jul 21, 2020

Poseidon000:
Lol

I trekked mile's that day, because I didn't get a car and it was already late on a path that usually have ritual kidnapping.
I don't have the capacity to bear grudge, but if I have that guy at my mercy, I'll collect my own pound of flesh trifold.

Some guys are mindlessly stupid when they see women.

I wont be surprised if after what this person did to you in the presence of the lady, she still decided to hook up with him.

I once had same experience.
For Christ's sake, he could given both of you a lift and still run his package.

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Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by HIbreed(m): 2:36pm On Jul 21, 2020

Purplekush:
Mind how you give strangers lifts. A real niggarr with a .9mm or a Berretta could change the ownership of that ride without signing papers

you can't change the ownership of that car while am in the steering. I'ma hit 200mph and crash the passenger side. grin

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Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by A1kennedy(m): 2:36pm On Jul 21, 2020

pls you can help a brother whose mini electronic firm has collapsed due to this pandemic, with a little token to survive this pandemic hour. Thank you and God bless.account no:0024995086 bank name: Union Bank phone no: 08146995561. Thank you once again.

3. Op there are people that married when they are average and today they have blown beyond imagination
4. You can only see life as far as the path you are on, do you know that there are cycles in people’s life and if you observe families very closely you may notice their cycle. Some people

Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by Olawrites: 2:37pm On Jul 21, 2020

mmadu4:
i just dey observe your comments you be real mumu .I'm sure your suffering in your slavery called marriage

I hear u. Marriage comes with maturity...You're not mature for it yet, till then, so F**K off!

Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by Asour: 2:41pm On Jul 21, 2020

pocohantas:
I didn’t miss your point. MOST women are married to men who are not in anyway socially or financially high, let alone HIGHER. It isn’t even an insult to them, it is the reality of Nigerian relationships/marriages. The one we see everyday, not NL.

I understand your position BUT that's clearly NOT true.

This may be true within the scope of your relationships but it is certainly NOT true for most of society.

Note that the word 'most' means at least more than half. So Conversely you are saying that in more than half of Nigerian marriages, the Wife is financially/socially more successful.

If this is true then what's up with the Rhetorics about Women marginalization?

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