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Jos Bride Electrocuted Days To Her Marriage To Two-Time Fiancé by dre11(m): 8:49am On Apr 17, 2020
......How Jos mother of two was electrocuted days to her marriage to two-time fiancé


By Ado Abubakar Musa,




When Fatima Abubakar Hassan was divorced by her first husband, her first fiancé, Ibrahim Musa believed fate had thrown him a second chance to spend a lifetime with her after poverty forced him to give her up the first time in 2014.

That time, Fatima had followed Ibrahim’s advice and opened her heart to another lover, who married her and fathered her two children before their divorce a while back.

When Ibrahim returned with a second proposal, this time to be his second wife, Fatima did not hesitate to say yes. Again.

March 27 would have been their wedding day. By March 21, they had already conducted the premarital screening to determine their HIV Status and to shop for her new life, Fatima went with her brother, Mas’ud Abubakar Hassan.

“On March 21, Fatima and I went to a furniture showroom to choose her furniture and buy other necessities for the marriage,” he said. “We returned home but I later left her for town to meet up some engagements.

I later received a call that my attention was urgently needed at home, that all was not well with Fatima.” Worried and left guessing, Mas’ud had rushed home and enquired what could have been so urgent that he was called back.

When they told him that Fatima, with whom he had been shopping a few hours before, was gone for good, Mas’ud was stumped. A sister of Fatima, who had witnessed the incident,said Fatima had been doing the dishes in the compound and when she wanted to stand up, had grabbed a satellite dish pole in the compound for support.

She was instantly electrocuted. Apparently, before the incident, the area had experienced a four-day power outage occasioned by disputes between the power distribution company and some youths in the area.

After the disagreement was resolved, power was restored to the area much to the delight of residents.

What Fatima and her family did not know then however was that a high-tension cable had broken during the outage and fallen on their roof, which somehow connected to the dish and the pole that Fatima would grab. “I met her lying on the ground,” Mas’ud said.

“She looked lifeless but I decided to take her to a nearby hospital where she was confirmed dead. I then took the corpse home where funeral prayers were observed according to Islamic rites.”

“When news of her death reached me, I burst into tears,” Ibrahim, Fatima’s fiancé said. “I was speechless.” Three days after her death, he needed IVR drips to regain his vigour.

And weeks after the incident, he is still distraught by her passing. “Her death has taken me into deep despair,” he said. “I always shed tears anytime I think of her because we both loved each other. If not for death, we wouldn’t have been spending our lives together.”

Ibrahim recalled the times he would spend hours on the phone with Fatima and how she would always want to stay on the phone longer. On March 20, a day before she died, Ibrahim recalled they were on the phone for two hours and she had shared her excitement about attending a naming ceremony of a child who was her namesake.

“Before attending the naming ceremony, she informed me via phone of her desire to attend and equally notified me on her return from the event,” he said. Ibrahim said they always kept each other abreast with their daily activities and that day was no different.

Their love had a history that stretched several years and two engagements. “Upon our meeting in 2014, she accepted to marry me. I tried all I could to secure money for the marriage with late Fatima but was unsuccessful.

I then opened up to her and advised her to marry whoever she found and so she got married,” he said. Fatima had two children, one of which is already five and the youngest still a toddler.

Ibrahim would also go ahead and marry but the moment he learned that Fatima was available, he made his move. “When I learned that Fatima’s first marriage had ended, I just felt that if she would accept me I will be happy to marry her as a second wife,” he said.

“On getting to her parents’ house, she accepted me wholeheartedly knowing fully well that she was going to be a second wife and so we rebuilt the relationship to the level that we agreed to stay together and thereby fixed a date for our wedding.”

He felt that his first wife was not opposed to the marriage after he had convinced her that he had no plans to mistreat her or to end their marriage because of his marriage to Fatima.

“I am very sure that based on many discussions I had with her, deep inside her, she (my first wife) had made up her mind to live peacefully with both Fatima and me,” he said. He said Fatima and his wife had already established a good relationship and they spoke on the phone.

“That is why my first wife is disturbed by the news of Fatima’s death. She cried so much that I couldn’t control her emotions,” Ibrahim said. Fatima was someone who was always keen on his advice and was a caring and respectful person.

Three weeks after her death, it is clear neither Ibrahim, nor Mas’ud, her brother, have got over Fatima’s death and there is no saying how her two young children are coping with the loss. “Her love will continue to linger in my memory. That is certain,” a heartbroken Ibrahim said.

Source: https://www.dailytrust.com.ng/the-bride-who-was-taken-by-electricity.html

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Re: Jos Bride Electrocuted Days To Her Marriage To Two-Time Fiancé by Evergreen4(m): 8:55am On Apr 17, 2020
This is indeed sad. Rest in peace Fatima . May God grant her eternal rest

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Re: Jos Bride Electrocuted Days To Her Marriage To Two-Time Fiancé by EzzyCarter: 8:56am On Apr 17, 2020
Life is such a mystery. One minute someone's here, the next they are gone. sad Live your life today. Life is transient

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Re: Jos Bride Electrocuted Days To Her Marriage To Two-Time Fiancé by Ningen(m): 8:59am On Apr 17, 2020
Damn. Life is too short.

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Re: Jos Bride Electrocuted Days To Her Marriage To Two-Time Fiancé by chariisGRACE(m): 9:03am On Apr 17, 2020
She died when her joy was close by.
RIP

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Re: Jos Bride Electrocuted Days To Her Marriage To Two-Time Fiancé by AfricanApple(f): 9:04am On Apr 17, 2020
That is why they called it life. So painful

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Re: Jos Bride Electrocuted Days To Her Marriage To Two-Time Fiancé by babyfaceafrica: 9:08am On Apr 17, 2020
Hmmm.. Make God help us

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Re: Jos Bride Electrocuted Days To Her Marriage To Two-Time Fiancé by bukatyne(f): 9:41am On Apr 17, 2020
So so so sad.

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Re: Jos Bride Electrocuted Days To Her Marriage To Two-Time Fiancé by Kendumazy(m): 9:46am On Apr 17, 2020
Quite sad

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Re: Jos Bride Electrocuted Days To Her Marriage To Two-Time Fiancé by megareal: 10:48am On Apr 17, 2020
Who do I blame here? I think fate. May God provide help to the young children. And RIP to the beautiful lady.

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Re: Jos Bride Electrocuted Days To Her Marriage To Two-Time Fiancé by Ishilove: 11:07am On Apr 17, 2020
Chai, so young and beautiful cry

Is this fate or village people? This two were never meant to be together.

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Re: Jos Bride Electrocuted Days To Her Marriage To Two-Time Fiancé by YorubaKinging: 12:26pm On Apr 17, 2020
What's two time fiance ?

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Re: Jos Bride Electrocuted Days To Her Marriage To Two-Time Fiancé by GodforTony: 12:26pm On Apr 17, 2020
shocked
Re: Jos Bride Electrocuted Days To Her Marriage To Two-Time Fiancé by irunoko(m): 12:26pm On Apr 17, 2020
Smh

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Re: Jos Bride Electrocuted Days To Her Marriage To Two-Time Fiancé by Jflex07(m): 12:27pm On Apr 17, 2020
Death can come any moment, we only hope to live long in this sinful and wicked world.RIP beautiful lady, may the lord grant your fiance and the kids the fortitude to bear this irreparable loss.

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Re: Jos Bride Electrocuted Days To Her Marriage To Two-Time Fiancé by SharryTaek(f): 12:27pm On Apr 17, 2020
angry
Re: Jos Bride Electrocuted Days To Her Marriage To Two-Time Fiancé by Cosmatikka: 12:27pm On Apr 17, 2020
Ok
Re: Jos Bride Electrocuted Days To Her Marriage To Two-Time Fiancé by Kingpele(m): 12:27pm On Apr 17, 2020
lipsrsealed what a terrible tragedy, chai inside life
Re: Jos Bride Electrocuted Days To Her Marriage To Two-Time Fiancé by GboyegaD(m): 12:27pm On Apr 17, 2020
May her soul rest in perfect peace. Death a debt we all owe.

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Re: Jos Bride Electrocuted Days To Her Marriage To Two-Time Fiancé by ahmemmygrey(m): 12:27pm On Apr 17, 2020
wow


kinda heartbreaking
Re: Jos Bride Electrocuted Days To Her Marriage To Two-Time Fiancé by Blackfire(m): 12:28pm On Apr 17, 2020
Village people...
Re: Jos Bride Electrocuted Days To Her Marriage To Two-Time Fiancé by Johnbosco77(m): 12:28pm On Apr 17, 2020
RIP..

But sometimes it's good to let go. Fate separated the two of you in 2014... Why come back to marry yourselves again...

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Re: Jos Bride Electrocuted Days To Her Marriage To Two-Time Fiancé by oriajeib: 12:28pm On Apr 17, 2020
Hmm God why God why 2020 isn't the year of human race we'll remember this year eternity to come oo.Lots of bad things since the beginning of this year now this poor woman will be leaving another motherless baby hmm so sad.If God can make me rich more motherless babies will be liberated from hunger forever ooo.May her perfect soul rest in peace.Let's the rest of us live on and live Good.

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Re: Jos Bride Electrocuted Days To Her Marriage To Two-Time Fiancé by Infinity988(m): 12:29pm On Apr 17, 2020
Aye le o
Re: Jos Bride Electrocuted Days To Her Marriage To Two-Time Fiancé by doitforyou(f): 12:29pm On Apr 17, 2020
YorubaKinging:
What's two time fiance ?
They were engaged twice.

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Re: Jos Bride Electrocuted Days To Her Marriage To Two-Time Fiancé by nautybride: 12:29pm On Apr 17, 2020
R I P. They were never meant to be.

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Re: Jos Bride Electrocuted Days To Her Marriage To Two-Time Fiancé by Olarewaju89: 12:30pm On Apr 17, 2020
Something most kill a man.
Re: Jos Bride Electrocuted Days To Her Marriage To Two-Time Fiancé by incogni2o: 12:30pm On Apr 17, 2020
I would have said village people.

But do hausas also have village people

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Re: Jos Bride Electrocuted Days To Her Marriage To Two-Time Fiancé by Petersamuel8(m): 12:30pm On Apr 17, 2020
Wtf

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