I'm this kind of guy who began toiling at a very tender age so I kinda started being independent when I was 15. So, I'll say I started becoming successful early. I'm in my twenties and she's in her thirties. The lady in question is working, and very beautiful outwardly and inwardly and doesn't look like she's eight years older. She so fits my spec religiously and otherwise. When I found out she's older (not even a year but eight freaking years), I just don't know what to think. I don't know if I should say it's an issue or not. She seemingly doesn't have a problem with it. I'm also very financially comfortable (I wouldn't want to go into details) and was to opt-in for marriage in the very near future. She's so open-minded and truthful and just like Eve for Adam, it was like Jah made her for me. I don't trivialize dating so it's clear it would have been for marriage if we dated. If you were me, what sincerely will you do?

chatinent:
I'm this kind of guy who began toiling at a very tender age so I kinda started being dependent when I was 15. The lady in question is working, and very beautiful outwardly and inwardly and doesn't look like she's eight years older. When I found out, I just don't know what to think. I don't know if I should say it's an issue or not. I don't trivialize dating so it's clear it would have been for marriage if we dated. If you were me, what sincerely will you do?

it still boils down to your take. As a woman I can't marry a man 8 years younger than myself

Katier00:
it still boils down to your take. As a woman I can't marry a man 8 years younger than myself

Put yourself in your thirties and meeting sb who you felt is the same age bracket with you only to find out later you assumed wrongly when emotions were setting in; when the person was so what you need in all ramifications. Would you let the age deter you?

Make your choice. Are you OK with it and is she fine with it? Remember ladies grow old faster than guys. In the next 10years, hope you won't go out with her and your kids and they will think she is the mother of all of u including yourself? Think it!

I don't know what to say just try ya luck....

If e no work.... Divorce

chatinent:

Put yourself in your thirties and meeting sb who you felt is the same age bracket with you only to find out later you assumed wrongly when emotions were setting in; when the person was so what you need in all ramifications. Would you let the age deter you?

believe it or not, in this situation age will play a big role in your marriage and that is why you are already worried

Katier00:
believe it or not, in this situation age will play a big role in your marriage and that is why you are already worried

You could be very right. Could you simplify please?

Vyzz:
I don't know what to say just try ya luck....


If e no work.... Divorce

I don't believe in luck.

Enskynelson:
Make your choice. Are you OK with it and is she fine with it? Remember ladies grow old faster than guys. In the next 10years, hope you won't go out with her and your kids and they will think she is the mother of all of u including yourself? Think it!

That's another thing too.

chatinent:
I'm this kind of guy who began toiling at a very tender age so I kinda started being independent when I was 15. So, I'll say I started becoming successful early. I'm in my twenties and she's in her thirties. The lady in question is working, and very beautiful outwardly and inwardly and doesn't look like she's eight years older. She so fits my spec religiously and otherwise. When I found out she's older (not even a year but eight freaking years), I just don't know what to think. I don't know if I should say it's an issue or not. She seemingly doesn't have a problem with it. I'm also very financially comfortable (I wouldn't want to go into details) and was to opt-in for marriage in the very near future. She's so open-minded and truthful and just like Eve for Adam, it was like Jah made her for me. I don't trivialize dating so it's clear it would have been for marriage if we dated. If you were me, what sincerely will you do?

if u were struggling with finance, would she have been with u, you are financially stable u can get any gurl you want, settling for 8 years older Bro think again and again.

Don't marry her. Get someone you are older than and proceed with your proposal with her. Wishing you best of luck!

Ask peter of Psquare he will kno better buh seriously age is just a number. U gat nofin 2 worry abt cos she will treat u like her lastborn

Miniso:
if u were struggling with finance, would she have been with u, you are financially stable u can get any gurl you want, settling for 8 years older Bro think again and again.

Thanks for the input.

It's your choice.
But the age gap is too much man.

Just know that you are literally throwing 8 years of productivity and penising out of the window.

If she makes you happy, brings out the best in you and you genuinely love her company, same Faith, same values, compatible in reasoning and affection, money balance...MARRY HER.

wrong marry some one you are older than women tends to old faster