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A house wife in Ibadan seek divorce of her 12-year-old marriage after husband threatened to murder her.

A marriage of 12 years have been dissolved by the Mapo Customary Court sitting in Ibadan, Oyo State after the wife complained of being maltreated.

Full news at https://naijanewsworld.com.ng/2020/07/wife-seek-divorce-of-12-year-old-marriage/

She should go throw a party to celebrate the fact that she did not meet her end before she ended it!

Women shouldn't tolerate violence in marriage. This is a huge problem of our time. I believe this woman did the right thing because her life was on the edge. No person in the world has the right to deprive you of the right to life and to spoil it. Please don't be afraid to defend yourself and talk about problems in your families. Understand that a truly loving husband will never hit you or hurt you. If you realize that you are uncomfortable or afraid to be with your partner, run. If you are married, file for divorce (by the way, you can get your own divorce papers using the cheap and quick divorce services) and email the finished documents to your partner.
However, keep in mind that the abuser (that is, the person who offends you) will apologize and say that he was wrong and will never do it again, but this is a lie. As soon as they understand that you will not leave, their rage towards you increases. Don't be a victim, take your life into your own hands! Perhaps for a while you will really be alone, but after that you will definitely meet a person who will love and respect you.

Kobojunkie:
She should go throw a party to celebrate the fact that she did not meet her end before she ended it!

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Hmmmmmm 10 -15 years the crisis phase of marriage, couples who pull through come out stronger.

Better. From thinking it you confess it. From confessing it you praticalise it.
One day he will carry it out.
Let him rather kill himself when he doesn't see who to kill.
Anu!

Palema007:
Hmmmmmm 10 -15 years the crisis phase of marriage, couples who pull through come out stronger.

You know that is not a real thing, right?
There are couples who go 30 - 50 years without a single crisis in their marriage. There are no templates as far as relationships are concerned.

If you find a good partner and you are one too, great. If you end up with a bad one and you do the best you can, it is ok to bail when it is no longer conducive or safe.

Kobojunkie:
You know that is not a real thing, right?
There are couples who go 30 - 50 years without a single crisis in their marriage. There are no templates as far as relationships are concerned.

If you find a good partner and you are one too, great. If you end up with a bad one and you do the best you can, it is ok to bail when it is no longer conducive or safe.

Ma or Sir please practice what you preach on your signature. Thanks.

Palema007:
Hmmmmmm 10 -15 years the crisis phase of marriage, couples who pull through come out stronger.

Not at the expense of violence, kindly read the full story. The man threatened to kill her, he beats her steadily, Called her all sort of names.

Can you advice your siblings to endure that kind of marriage?

Dharmex01:
Not at the expense of violence, kindly read the full story. The man threatened to kill her, he beats her steadily, Called her all sort of names.

Can you advice your siblings to endure that kind of marriage?

What gives you the notion that my post was about the woman or her failed marriage?

Palema007:
Ma or Sir please practice what you preach on your signature. Thanks.

What has my signature to do with this or anything?
If you have a sensible rebuttal, post it!