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Mimiliciously:
I can give him because I truly have nothing to hide but what if he starts posting his pictures. That would really upset me.

Mimiliciously:
He refuses to give me his and when I ask, he says it's because he's the one marrying me and not other way around. That he has the rights to my social media but I don't have the right to his.
This is really stressing me out. When people are having real issues in their unions, mine is social media. In the past this same issue have snowballed into something ugly. We were even on the verge of breakup. He says I disrespect him because I don't post his pictures. At some point, I had to block him and lied that I've deleted the account so I can have peace. But he later figured out I blocked him and continued stressing me about it.

PrimadonnaO:
I know what it feels like being with an insecure man. Been there before. Always needing reassurance... always blowing things out of proportion...always sniffing to find what's not fishy! The most exasperating thing there could ever be!


As it is, you've just got to manage him like that. But perhaps you should first have a heart to heart conversation with him on how his actions are unsettling.

JidennaJason:
This lady again...

If you go through MariahAngel's comment in this thread, she said the same thing, why then did you read mine different or should I say in a "Feministic" way....

Anyway, good evening madam.

Sixfeetbelle:
I saw your post, it rubbed me off in the wrong way and I countered it. What's my own with another's comment?

JidennaJason:
I don't drop comments in a bid to please anyone here, whether it rubbed off in a wrong way or a right way, that's really not my business madam.... It can't be taken back.

Anyway, good evening madam.

Jullima:
The thing about “do it for peace to reign” scenarios is, it never ends. It’s not going to stop at your SM passwords. Tomorrow, it’s going to be something else. We know there are many judgy and unstable people on the internet, so many people now understand if people choose not to post their family on SM. I think you should stand firm on your decision and not waiver.

JidennaJason:
Without been told, you can see clearly that the Op and her husband "Rushed" into marriage just like the way Yakubu Dogara "Rushed" into the demonic APC...

-Lack of Trust.

-No bond between them.

-Lack of heart to heart communication.

That's all I see in this marriage....


If you're not hiding anything from him, then hand over the password... It's really that simple.

bukatyne:
So what brought it to the fore now?

@control thing: You mean your husband just woke up three years ago and asked for the passwords of your SM? No preceeding event?

Are there other ways he is trying to 'control' you?

ImaIma1:
As long as he hands over his too. If both of them have nothing to hide, they should exchange passwords.

mariahAngel:
...and you haven't thought to give it to him since then?
Do you have anything to hide?
Why does he not trust you?
Give him your password and ask for his if that'll bring peace between you two.

Munzy14:
I tire o...The way people fight over little issues.

mariahAngel:
One would think issa simple sturvs right?

Sixfeetbelle:
It's really not your business. So why did you quote me to refer me to another's post? Sounds a lot like you made it your business

"Calm down and rest a little" Not fighting with you dear...

You didn't even reply my greetings.

Munzy14:
Aptly written bro...Crook woman jam insecure man union..

JidennaJason:
"Calm down and rest a little" Not fighting with you dear...

You didn't even reply my greetings.

JidennaJason:
Just like Owelle Rochas and his wife.

Sixfeetbelle:
Good evening, Sir.
How did your day go?

Well, your beginning statement in the first post removed the need to me to be cordial. You can't blame me for drawing my fangs

JidennaJason:
It went well... Hope yours was okay?


It's all good though

Sixfeetbelle:
Good evening, Sir.
How did your day go?

Well, your beginning statement in the first post removed the need to me to be cordial. You can't blame me for drawing my fangs

mariahAngel:
@ fangs

Are you by any chance a cobra?

Sixfeetbelle:
I've calmed down. All things are good now.

My day was good. Thanks for asking.

chriskosherbal:
Madam it seems you are the one giving yourself headache in your marriage from the above I can deduce that your hubby is the type that loves attention, all men are different as for me I don't care weather u post my pics or not just make sure there is all kinds of food at home anytime I want to eat lol.

Why not post his pics everywhere since he likes it, and pls don't give me that BS of am a private person, it is only applicable to a 3rd party not your hubby, if you are really a private person as you claim you won't even fancy SM, you are giving the man the reason not to trust you.

Except you are not telling us certain things, I really don't see issues here at all cos you will bite you finger if the Union go south & reason for it is SM, I don't think he would have demanded continuously for the password if you had constantly posted his pics as well as the pics of both of you .....madam say the truth are you really proud of him.

See sometimes we men want to trust our women first before loose guarding ourselves for you guyz, try it and you will see him freeing himself, work stuff as well social media account for you cos to him you have earned his trust. Madam I beg listen to me there can't be too captain in a ship, pls let him be the cap ok, I believe he loves you he just facing insecurity. He is tripping for you he doesn't want to loose you but also doesn't know how to go about.

Good luck.

Munzy14:
Nice questions...That man is observing her without her being aware..A man cannot wake up and suddenly want her password.


The hubby is insecure , but OP is on a game..which one is private mstchwww..Even genuine people doing ordinary dating have access to each others SM accounts, not to talk of a life time union.

Kvvngkhalifa202:
Na him day sub you if yes common give am d password ! You got no right to complain until you start subbing yourself

How much be data sef? Dude with 3h, you fit buy 1.5gig!
Aswear, women don suffer for men hand o! God no go shame us laslas
Your wife or babe go don hear nwin for your hand.
Na your type go dey count meat for pot of soup!
Shior!

Mimiliciously:
I can give him because I truly have nothing to hide but what if he starts posting his pictures. That would really upset me.